What's happening people this is the sexual life podcast and we are talking
about something that is super important the date is September 6th I'm Steve
Mayeda I'm the founder of the sexual life you guys hopefully know that by now but
we're gonna be talking about sex in a very direct way in the sense that you as
a man need to know how to perform in bed you need to know how to fuck you need to
know how to deliver in bed you need to know how to deal with the resistances
that come with good sex and you need to know that if you're getting things like
you have sex with somebody and you get friend-zoned right away that there are
some things you need to look at and even the resistances within that because that
is all resistance right it's not the reality of what's gonna make somebody
happy yourself happy her happy and the situation good so let's look and work at
how to dissect all that and learn some good tips on sex because that's really
what we are the best at so as we said this being recorded live September 6
2017 on at ESL online call and these are the things that we talk about at ESL in
live now we also talked about a bunch of other stuff and what you're gonna hear
in this podcast is a lot of philosophical man just angles and ways
to work on yourself and how sex really looks into the insecurities the
confidence all the stuff that we can't really find in a lot of men's
development now in our daily awesome podcast we talk about that stuff all day
long but here we're actually gonna talk about how our self-esteem our confidence
our true selves our expression what gives us our value in our complete life
is going to come out of this carnal thing we call sex and that is what the
sexual life is all about give it a listen if you want to get involved
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live on any of the levels let alone and especially sexually so let's talk about
this look here's the deal we just started this call a guy started off the
call and he said man you know once again this girl's leaving
me and this is a typical thing that keeps happening in my life we have sex
we have sex for two to three months and then they get bored and leave and I said
you know what that's funny because I get calls from people well I've got a lot of
calls in the last week of guys who have said man you know what I just had sex
with this girl and right away afterwards she's saying we just want to be friends
or let's just be friends or we're better off as friends or I'm not ready for a
relationship or these myriad of excuses that they get now these are two
different situations so right here we have or person one we have a guy that is
able to have sex with them and even though the relationship wasn't right it
wasn't meant to be perhaps he wasn't a moding in the right ways perhaps he
wasn't connecting in the right ways he is having women leave him after a month
or two or three months of you know sexual interaction it's very common
that's something which will happen a lot if you're somebody that knows some
skills in the bedroom which we're going to talk about and then down here we have
a guy guy number two that has sex and it was actually a bunch of guys right now
that has sex with a girl one time two times and then afterwards the girl just
says you know what I'm not ready for a relationship for whatever reasons she is
not wanting to have a relationship with you and there's a ton of reasons I just
got out of a bad relationship I'm not ready for a commitment you know I'm I'm
just kind of connecting and this is actually sadly the story of so many
women if you're a guy that's dating out there you're and you're your guy that's
dating out there and you're a guy that is good in bed you are going to hear
about how many times she put herself on the line sexually and was disappointed
it's crazy and this could mean that she orgasms
this could mean that she has a good time but doesn't have the connection doesn't
have the value of social and sexual feelings and interactions when she's
with you you need to know what that value is so first and foremost guys it's
all about sex it's not about the social hierarchy that we have I'm kind of on
this kick because I just listen to a bunch of crap on that and pissed me off
man you it's so not about what the reality of sexes it's all about sex it's
all just about sexual communication and that our sexual communication has this
very specific way of how it has to interact is that you affect me and I
affect you sexually your sex changes me your sex is a woman changes me as a man
your sex as a man changes her as a woman that has to happen and so many people
are having sex around this other idea it's crazy because we all have the urge
of sex and that's not going anywhere no matter how much you red pill it big
Tower or whatever weird social constructs you get into define how
you're going to have sex you become a hardcore pickup artist it's all about
your sexual urge your sexual urge is not going to change it is going to be there
it is going to be behind so much of what you do no matter how much you ignore it
so if you have painful experiences or whatever you got to learn to communicate
with it but that all being said your sexual urge is then only fulfilled once
again by I affect you you affect me sexually my sexual expression is a man
affects you is a woman all right now if you don't have that if you don't have
that simple thing in the act of sex this isn't a conversation before or after but
during the act of sex if you do not have that you got nothing you are the guy
that gets the call saying you know what you're a great guy and it was awesome
and you know sex was good I mean I came or I didn't come or you can't or
whatever the fuck it is but it's just not feeling it it has to be determined
in bed in the moment that you affect her and she affects you so it's a whole
bunch of resources that we have on it man with the golden dick probably a good
place to start or our sexual escalation playlist probably watch that check out
the YouTube channel it's there for you man please by all means study that if
you study it you're not sexually active is just gonna sound like you know some
foreign language to you but if you are having sex it will make complete
step-by-step sense for you so here's the thing how do we accomplish this because
if we do accomplish this if we do this is the coolest part if we accomplish
this then we have one two three months of that
girl sticking around to see if a relationship can work and that's really
important now a relationship isn't all about sex but man if it's not about sex
at some point it will die all right or you guys are really working for a
different angle in your relationship that I don't understand or want to have
anything do to do with the teaching process of that because sex is so great
and it's gonna change you in so many great ways so how do we get here
I affect you you affect me look this happens all the time and it's so
beautiful and sexual escalation is something that again watch the sexual
escalation videos that we have in the playlist because sexual escalation is so
to the point to the map it fits and works almost every time it's so easy to
deal with it it's so easy to deal with the resistance when you get resistance
is a good thing because it's all predicted what the outcomes are gonna be
watch those videos please but just real briefly what's happening here is the the
earliest stages is going to be with the situation we set up the situation we're
alone at our place man just get there that is the best thing to do of course
you can have sex in the backseat of a car in a bathroom on an airplane
whatever but the easiest place at your place or her place alone
so the door closes you're there one of the things we do is how do we start the
kiss once we start the path of sexual escalation we want it to be all about
you affect me and I affect you and if that isn't happening
we stop awesome why does resistance happen because it's not that
reciprocation happening it's all about me it's all about you it's not all about
us that's why we get resistance right I affect you you affect me needs to be the
fluid language that is going through here so how do we get this first kiss we
could say something like man I just keep looking at your lips and want to kiss
you we could even say like you know it was
just so weird when I was talking to you earlier I could think about was how we'd
have our first kiss and I know that might be inappropriate for saying it or
we could just say I want to kiss you or we could just go for it one of the
things that we used to do was in man I would still do this when I was like
super skilled and super advanced when I just couldn't get the right angle to get
the kiss but there was a good situation there for it to happen like
alone in a room I would then just see if they were
ticklish and when we got close I would go for the kiss so what happens when you
go for the kiss so before if you talk about it like if you say something like
I just want to kiss you you're most likely going to get resistance you're
basically going to get two responses right we'll say three just to be nice
but the first response is going to be silence silence and looking at you doe
eyed you go for the kiss you go for that kiss you're gonna get resistance at
another point we'll talk about that but you go for that kiss the second response
is is you're going to get logic or some thing of like why we can't or why we
shouldn't or how I'm in this situation and bla bla bla bla bla this is all
resistance what resistance is saying is what it's all about you it's not all
about what I feel affecting you and what you're doing affecting me all right so
it needs to get there so how do we get there
when we get that second response the third response might be something along
the lines of like well you can kiss me or some sort of green light that they
verbally give you in that case you go for it and even then that that even
sense is more that there's gonna be more resistance right that that comes along
the lines the resistance not a bad thing we just got to know how to deal with it
but remember what we said whenever we get a point of resistance we stop and
then we reintegrate this I am effecting you and you're effecting me and if
that's not happening then we stop we stop right so we stop so if they start
explaining logically that second situation of going like well you know
you know I don't know if I'm ready for this and you know you're really cool but
whatever type of shit they say and not to brush that off but what that is
that's fear that's them not being able to process the situation
and be able to talk about it them trying to play the or communicate the different
things inside their body and mind much like yourself there's probably a lot of
confusion of going like I could do this I could not do this maybe or I could
leave right now and there's all these different voices going on but that's
what's happening to them that's what resistance is doing it's
saying like you know what this guy's cool but I don't like him but I do like
him but you know I'm back in my place and maybe if something could happen and
if you could do it right but that it on the the chatter goes on right so we need
to calm at but you're chattering - this isn't just
about women we just do it in different ways so here's the thing we got to stop
it's pretty easy we just say hey look I don't want to do anything the last thing
I want is a fear or reaction or some sort of pressure I want you to be you so
if you don't want to kiss me that's cool I just think you have beautiful lips and
when I look at them I just want to kiss you but I'll shut up now cuz it's making
things screw up the fact that you walk away the fact that you allow them to be
a woman to have their choice to have a moment where they're not pressured or
under some sort of duress or maybe duress is the wrong word but pressure to
make a decision or be forced to make an action then they can much more easily
move into that choice of probably what they really want which is to complete
the kiss remember that you give a woman space and by giving a woman's space but
maintaining the situation let's repeat that people you give a woman her space
so that she can choose and decide and I feel that she's pressured or forced in
any way and you maintain the situation that kind of allows sex to happen which
is really you being alone in a room with her she will then choose her expression
she will then more easily choose that expression what you want so let's just
put this into perspective let's say there's like 40 different decisions in
her head but we're just gonna pick 3 or 4 to make it a little bit easier cuz
it'll be a long podcast she's going like okay
remember situation - she puts a bunch of logic out there and why she's not gonna
kiss you and it's like oh man but I could but I don't have to but maybe and
dot it on so and so and you're really cool but I like this but I just got out
of a relationship but it was abusive whatever shit she's saying right it's
all this it could be true but it's all these different voices going out there
now when you go like hey we don't have to do anything I just think you're
beautiful I like you I think you like me but if we're not doing that if we're
forcing it then I want us to stop let's like go watch a movie and you totally
safe to do whatever guess what happens the voice in there of the 40 different
voices of going like I just got of a relationship and you know this guy's
cool but but you're cool and I like you and trying to explain that there's no
need to explain that anymore so it just goes
well wait a minute I feel this why can't I feel it let's kiss that's what happens
this will work like clockwork okay this will work so good unless you guys aren't
qualified for each other and don't like each other which you probably wouldn't
be back at her place or your place if that were the situation it's pretty easy
to get the kiss so that remember that third situation of
the girl that affirmative ly said like yes well then kiss me well guess what
she gave you too much of a green light and you're probably gonna get in any of
those three situations where she's just silent where she gives you some logic or
where she gives you the green light you're most likely gonna get some
resistance when you're making out and you feel a little bit more than her how
this happens it's just so easy to put on a map and again if you're not sexual
you're like ready and all this stuff down going like okay how can I learn
this but if you are somebody that sexual you know this you make out with her she
goes oh and you go oh and then she goes wait wait stop okay I don't do this
everybody you probably think blah blah and goes on the list of all female
resistance right which is really the same across the board right it's it's
something that happens just culturally in in the dynamic of women and men in
how we work in the world today I don't think this is one of the well whatever
well we'll talk about all that evolutionary you know what's hardwired
into us mumbo-jumbo on another podcast but the thing is is that in that moment
she's gonna say things like I don't do this everybody I have to call a friend
you probably think this about me you barely even know me all this sort of
stuff again the 40 different voices going on in her head just like the 40
different voices that are going in our head of saying let's fuck no wait I want
to fuck okay I don't want to be a rapist but I don't but I don't want to let this
go I'm gonna take whatever I can get I'm gonna go okay
and so all those things we want to speak with one voice which is hopefully our
expression and that expression is to make sweet passionate love or fuck the
shit out of her or whatever it is right and hers is I would have be taken by
this man and be able to be myself sexually as a woman and give him that
you know I'll put my sex on him and change him that that is it that is the
one thing remember the one thing that is fueling us in sexuality so that being
said what do we do when
I'm affecting you and you affecting me isn't happening we stop and we say we
don't want this pretty simple right but when the your brain is going nuts and
her brain is going nuts in the opposite direction it's easy to do that right so
our brain is going nuts we got to stop it so she goes like this we give her her
space so then she can come back and go okay let's keep going so how do we keep
going boom it's like this we just say okay we could stop it like I said we
don't need to do anything like but look I'll just say it my pants will be on
look my pants aren't coming off of us you want them off and let's not even get
into that discussion she might be like oh yeah I know but I think you know what
I read and d'etre and so we just not look just kiss me how you want to kiss
me just do just be you so once again there her expression now is coming at me
her expression of sexuality which is one of the biggest fears of her being
ignored he is coming at me so once again we have
tons of videos on this whole process but it's just to articulate very pinpointing
ways where we're getting to that dynamic if I affect you you affect me here's
where it gets good all right let's say we jump to sex watch the other videos to
get there but it's pretty quick it's basically like this would it would be
for me as I'd say like kiss me on you want to kiss me kiss my neck because I
like that B oh my god she's cries fuck look at my dick look at that it's
fucking look at this fucking cock even if it's not hard it doesn't matter that
is yours do you want that do you want that fucking dick tell me you want the
fucking cum in my balls all of that is not saying you whore you like dick you
like sperm all over you or whatever the fuck it is what that is saying and if
you rewind it and backtrack it is do you like this dick do you want to make it
your dick do you want to come in my balls do you want that means you your
action is making something in me these are very different so it's not like yeah
bitch you like cum or you like cock girls might be responsive to that but
all of them won't all girls well be responsive to do you want to make this
dick yours look at this fucking cock do you want to make it yours tell me this
fucking dick is what you want tell me that you want that come in my balls to
be yours or you better and man I'll get girls who will
tell me weeks later that first time we hooked up when you said that it was like
I couldn't hold myself back the money line is do or man I can't remember now
but see I've like that up but the money line is is do you want your cum
do you want your come out of my balls when you say that dude it's like fucking
insanity that there that moment there that pivot point of them stopping the
kiss me like chilling out and saying like we don't have to do this but kiss
me how you want to kiss me to kissing my neck for about three seconds of saying
look at this dick do you want this dick tell me you like this do you want the
fucking cum in my balls do you want that to be yours do you want to get your cum
oh we're fucking we're fucking at that point it's like it's like it can't
happen quick enough and what I we say is you get naked first before them because
there's something about dick and if you actually want to talk about evolution
man is crazy so uh-huh but anyway dick in the human phyla is actually what they
believe I mean this is a theory but pretty good theory because there's a lot
of non-functional purposes for the dick being the way it is but its
ornamentation and it is something that absolutely I know from experience
triggers women when they see it when they see your dick and especially when
they see your dick hard or they're given the opportunity to make your dick hard
it's amazing it is a game-changer it is huge it is unbelievable so one of
the best things that you can do they always say when in doubt pull it out now
a bunch of geeky pick up dudes can totally fuck that up in so many
different ways but in the beauty of actual sex in the language of sex giving
a woman an opportunity to see your dick is doing a lot more for her than for you
but from there you'll be fuckin okay when you're fuckin how do you make
fuckin so much about them is it that you're fuckin really hard we have lots
of videos about this again if you're gonna watch porn for fucking hard rock
oh and nacho watch those two motherfuckers as a bunch of dudes this
is my buddy Eric ever harder you can watch him but you know I'm too
friends'll I don't like fucking about you never fuck people but Rocco and
nacho are too goddamn talented people but maybe you're not them and you don't
need to be them you definitely don't need to be them so there's two other
people if you want to take a more psychological paced game then I would
watch the net video girls champion who have taught seminars with man amazing
guy at the California pimp if you watch his old stuff it's better than the new
stuff I was actually offered the job to be the guy that was for the new stuff
but didn't take it he actually talked me out of it and he played a bunch of
different scenarios out of like you know it's pretty crazy being a porn stock
here's some of the shit that happens when you're a porn star
I was like that's cool so basically but if you watch him actually doing it the
producer it it's awesome and so so much about this and this is where a lot of
push poll came from and sexuality or at least the way I teach it comes actually
from him like I said we did teach together for a little bit but more
importantly one of the things about sex when he's doing it is saying like oh my
god that's so beautiful it's so beautiful like how you do that oh god
this is you know it is so much about the beauty of it now another person to watch
would be pierre woodman now pierre woodman is good to watch for a couple
reasons because and this is all just the how to fuck part we're gonna get to them
i affect you you affect me pierre woodman is good because he fucks in a
way that is almost strategic like he goes through the same process every time
but he fucks hard he fucks hard in ways where women haven't been fucked in that
way before so he was the guy that was doing porn in the 90s and he basically
did porn saying to like girls at Budapest or wherever in Eastern Europe
or even in Western Europe you say you know this is for the states on videotape
people will never see it and then the internet happened but a lot of these
girls he introduces into porn and that's the same thing with the California pimp
but it's a little bit different now but back in the day that's what he was doing
so the thing is is when piers doing it he goes through this process of eating
pussy then oral sex then she gives oral sex then sax then anal sex and sex and
the sequence of vaginal sex is all in the same sort of process so you get a
good window there but here's the thing man pierre woodman would be fucking
these girls really hard they'd be in pain
they'd be like you know that would not feel good but it's on that that
threshold that edge of things where it's like oh my god this is like rape and
misogyny and terrible stuff but here's where pierre woodsman Woodman is a
genius and makes it good so in the moment of having sex he's talking about
how beautiful they are how much it's affecting him yet man this is where you
see this guy is truly a great and skilled seducer and actor when doing his
porn because when he's fucking them in certain ways the more they get into it
or the more that he affects them as a woman you really see that now that's an
act he does a damn good job because he does a better job than women in porn
that are paid a lot of money to act about having pleasure and sex when
they're probably not having pleasure this guy is fucking awesome so those
will help you through the physical processes with it so all the rough stuff
you know you can dip your feet into water and be a ten-percent guy of
Rocco's stiff annatto and get the job done but to be a hundred percent that
guy man that's only one him but also guys like the California pimp net video
girls that's him or pierre woodman you can really really learn a lot and
actually be very close to what those guys are doing because the women are
affecting them that's that's an amazing part so but here's the stuff that you
need what you need when your dick is in them is you need your dick to affect
them right you need that when you're fucking them when you're when your dick
is in them it needs to be something along the lines of like god man can you
feel that cock can you feel how big that cock is getting for you can you feel how
hard it is can you feel these are some of the things that I say which actually
don't happen in real physiology can you feel the sperm building up in my head
can you get your sperm out of my dick can you get my come out whatever it is
but you it is you is a woman doing that once again if that's not happening I
stop I stop that may be a tall order for you but guys look here's what you got to
listen you want to have some rock and roll sex you want to have some golden
dick shit you got to learn how to stop I didn't know how to stop I was too driven
so when I started fucking with like the the poor dudes and stuff and seeing them
do this well like I'd be banging a chick here
and they'd be banging a chick here and they'd be like you're not fucking Steve
get the fuck out of here he's gonna go and I'd be like no no no I'll take a
blow job I'll take I'll take her to jerk me off or fuck me in the wrong ways and
that uh and he'd be like Natalie get out of here you're done he would stop it and
because it wasn't sex reciprocating in the right sort of ways we stopped and
that she would fuck my brains out so once I read I saw the light right those
are some interesting circumstances I started doing it and then I started
teaching it and all the guys who I've taught it to which is hundreds kick ass
in bed they kick ass in bed so good that they could be a horrible boyfriend and
that girl will stick around for a long time now I'm not saying that should be a
goal but what I'm saying is is that sex has always got to be a part of your
relationship it's always got to be a part if you have that there man then you
can start working on the other communication tools if you have all the
communication tools without sex you fuck it all up you know that's that's what
that's where all the men's rights and all the feminist shit fucks it up
because it tries to make sex about everything which isn't sex it tries to
make sex a dialogue or a logical expression or something that we've out
thought nature or whatever it's not we got to be nature to have the dialogue
within nature all right so here's the thing is when we're fucking we have to
make it about us goddamn do you like this dick like fuck man this pussy oh
god it just be the guy's like oh god it feels good it feels good it feels good
you know we're not 16 anymore or 20 or whatever or whatever you're at but we
got to be like God look at that fucking pussy goddamn it is that pussy gonna cum
is that pussy wet for me is that fucking my fucking cum dripping down your
asshole or whatever it is you're saying you feel my balls hitting your asshole
you I can fucking smell that shit I could spell this the fucking coming my
balls getting out like you want that tell me you want it tell me you want it
for you or you'd say you know what man we should
take a break I don't feel like you're comfortable with me and that's how you'd
stop you don't want to be a dick you can be a dick but you don't want to be a
dick so you can say like hey we should take a break like if you if this isn't
cool like I just need you to open up so whenever we stop a sexual moment there's
a point of confusion or pain or sadness that can come in and we're not doing it
for that confusion or pain or sadness what we're doing it for is to lead it in
the right way so we're doing it to lead the sexual experience
in the right way remember we were just talking about push-pull with social
dynamics where you really see it as butt sacks we push we got a pullback in the
right direction so one of the pull backs in the right direction is going to be
like like okay you know what man we're we're getting a little carried
away I don't feel we're syncing up together give a direction immediately
after you say that as soon as you take your dick out or as soon as you stop the
act you need to give it direction and that direction would be like God just
play with my balls just I'm gonna see you like played with my balls I want to
see you like sucking my dick I want to see you like my dick going in your pussy
let me look at your face as I stick my dick in you it's like your purest look
oh it's beautiful like let me see that beauty how is my dick affecting you how
is your pussy affecting me and man happens to me all the time
but I was fucking the other night now we fuck a lot we've been fucking for a long
time which is pretty good five years of fucking and still having it going but we
were fucking and weird man i I just it was like a lot of times I'll
be lazy and my tickle do stuff to me and I get bored it's different when you have
like old all pussy working with you like again we've been fucking for five years
but the other night I was like now fuck this man I'm gonna do things the way I
want you're gonna take it you're gonna take it I want to fucking feel this I
need to reclaim this I need this to be mine
and so I'm fucking her I'm fingering around I'm getting her to orgasm in
different ways I'm doing the different things that that I know how to do I'm
like what other man knows how to do this shit man what other man's gonna make you
fucking squirt all over the place what other man's gonna fucking make you
come out of your fucking ass like tell me that and so all the sort of stuff I
affect you you affect me and in hey there's a lot that can go into this but
what happened in building up to that and building up to all those things is that
we fuck we start to fuck harder and she said I want you to come down I never
fucking let you come like this is this about or I'm not gonna come right now
I'm not gonna let you have that this is about how like I want to get to a
certain place without I need you to get up more more and more
so I'm fucking up fucking and fucking finally at some point like she gets so
into it and all of this is not to force somebody
into a certain sex act or a certain mode of sexuality but again it's to stop it
when we're not getting that sexuality and to allow her
to be herself sexually this is really it man this how it works people we got to
speak the language of sexual banging banging and banging banging banging
banging so not so that she's forced to get into a certain angle with me but
allowed the opportunity to get there so I build her up with her orgasms build
her up with her pussy build her up with her body build her up so that she's into
it man watch pierre woodman shit it's good it's fucking awesome build her up
build her up build her up start railing or railing or harder really fucking ha
God man I'm am I gonna let my fucking seed go am I gonna let this go do you
want it do you want it is it for you or what oh my god you oh my pussy Jesus
Christ fuckin say louder tell me look at me look at me I want to come with you
look at me I will only let myself come if you are looking at me in the way that
you really feel how you are cool it's done don't blow all over whatever all
that sort of shit in it's different man that the level of orgasm that comes from
that is bonding is huge guess what guess what I just bought myself one I bought
myself my true expression with my wife and what we feel but I bought myself a
few good goddamn weeks of some peace and quiet and some unity and all this sort
of stuff it just does so much to change who you are
now that being said that doesn't mean that I don't need to work on
communication that doesn't mean that I don't need to work on You Know Who I am
doesn't mean I can just fuck off or whatever but I will say this is that if
you're brand new in a relationship the sad thing is there's so few women get
that pleasure of sex within them so few women have a guy let's say hey if we're
not connecting we're gonna stop until we can get back in that road and then a guy
pull them back in the right direction of saying look baby I just want you to tell
I just want you to be you that's all you have to say is once you stop you can say
like man stop this is uncomfortable we could stop I just want you to be you
playing with my balls don't get into a fucking conversation don't have logic
speak for sex it doesn't work that way don't have sex be something that it is
not it was never meant to be discussed in this super big crazy way in the act
of sex at least it was never meant to be defined as much as it was it was meant
to be had it was meant to be pleasurable in the
moment sex stops becoming about pleasure and starts becoming about what's right
and wrong and you and this and that and you're fuckin you know whatever ideas
are because you're not so goddamn sexual it fucks up it becomes a fucking limp
dick and a dry pussy so here's the thing bring it back to sex and the more you
get that the more you'll stop worrying about all these definitions of what a
man is and what a woman is and all the sort of stuff goddamn man fuckin so good
but with that you start being able to have some women who will stick around
feel satisfied around you and give you the benefit of the doubt it was a first
level of communication in all of our evolution it was our first level in a
romantic or sexual situation in all of what we did was sex it was to have sex
it was to have pleasure anybody who says it's about control or power any of those
things man those are all subsidiaries of pleasure in any case if you like this
sort of thing TSL podcast watch watch the sexual escalation playlist it talks
all about the stuff you want to be good in bed it's pretty fucking easy man
it's very very easy it's not hard you don't have to be Rocco you don't even
have to be pierre woodman or the california pepper or any of these guys
you can be a guy that just knows how to psychologically work that flow of what
I'm doing to you affects me what you're doing to me affects me or whatever you
get it the reciprocity those things happening and if we don't have it
happening we stop and we pull back in a way that we can make it happen
you'll be you'd be locking some ladies down man it'll be good it'll be awesome
and you'll realize it ain't about powered ain't about control it's an
expression of masculinity and femininity that complete each other that make each
other God man you'll worry about shit that's that's
how you're born to be it's kind of that simple there's no other big selling
point to do it other than it feels goddamn good so subscribe to the channel
click the free stuff link it's good for you it's good for you to be parts of
groups and parts of communities that are talking about this that are I love any
different ways and here's the cool thing in all of this sex truly
is one of the greatest teachers it's the greatest art and it's one of the highest
expressions because it was one of the first expressions so if you want that
that's what we do and that's what we focus on and of course if you don't want
to talk about the sex stuff this is a daily awesome but later I'll talk to you
guys have a good one
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