"Looking for My Children's Father." Hello.
I'm a housewife in my 30s
and I'm raising 6-year-old boy triplets.
Boy triplets?
Triplets.
I feel suffocated already.
All of a sudden.
Think about the 6 year olds.
"Hun. Time to get dressed."
"Okay."
"Jun, come here."
"No, I don't want to!"
"Yun, finish your meal."
"I don't want to eat it."
Every day is a war.
But the biggest problem is something else.
"Honey. Please stop sleeping.
Can't you help me out please?"
"I stayed up all night last night
watching a movie. I'm going to sleep some more."
My immature husband is the problem.
She has 4 sons.
Not only is he indifferent to them, but...
"Honey. While I'm preparing dinner,
couldn't you watch them?"
"All right, fine."
But in less than 5 minutes...
"Hey, you bastard! F-word."
(To his kids?)
"I'm so angry.
You prick! Listen to me!"
Wah!
My husband cusses at
our young children.
But that's not the only problem.
This is just the tip of the iceberg.
I will tell you on stage about what's worse.
I can't express everything in writing.
This is her concern.
(She must hold a big grudge)
What do you think about this, Mira?
That must be tough.
Having 3 kids means feeding them 9 times a day.
I don't know what they're up to now.
I had to brush their teeth 9 times.
I had to do everything for them.
I didn't even have time to sit down.
Remember the husband for the last concern.
Three is hard, but raising one isn't, right?
- Of course. / - That's nothing.
- Raising one child is okay. / - One is okay.
Childrearing isn't always hard.
When I go on tours on weekends,
I see many families.
When kids come to watch my magic show,
boys and girls react differently.
When I do a magic trick to boys,
they go like this.
"It's right there."
Girls go like this.
Wow.
They are so cute.
It's worth performing for them.
I thought to myself that I want to
have girls when I get married.
MONSTA X. I'm sure you're too young now.
I want to have many children,
but after today's shoot,
I might have to reconsider it.
Let's bring her out now. Please come out.
(Who's concerned about her indifferent husband?)
(Yu Hyeyeong)
(Welcome)
You had 3 babies in one day.
That must've been hard.
We couldn't get pregnant for 4 years,
so we tried in-vitro and fortunately...
At first, we thought we had twins.
But there was another dot in the ultrasound.
My husband asked what it was and
the doctor said that it was probably an air bubble.
But we decided to check it out
and we heard another heartbeat.
The doctors told me that it could get risky,
so they suggested I abort one.
But I heard their heartbeats
and giving up on them just seemed so wrong.
So I went to a bigger hospital
and got surgery to prevent
- going into early labor. / - Too early?
So I was hospitalized
and I had gestational diabetes.
Because you had 3 babies.
So you went through an ordeal to have them
and your husband doesn't help out at all?
I'm sure he takes care of at least one of them.
When they were newborns,
I had to feed them every 2 hours.
My husband just shut the door and slept.
I wanted him to help while I cooked,
but he would go outside and smoke.
He smokes, too?
But he doesn't work on weekends, right?
On weekends, he doesn't have to work,
so he catches up on the films he wants to see.
He watches movies by himself until 5 a.m.
in the living room or in his room.
He's like a bachelor.
He's living by himself.
It's like you have a single man as a roommate.
I was surprised to hear that
your husband cusses at them.
What he says the most is bastard's son.
That means he's the bastard.
(Now that we think about it...)
(That's right)
That feels so good.
How do the kids react?
They say, "We hate Dad. He's mean."
The eldest is scared of his dad.
That's the worst.
The second one always glares at him.
What about the youngest?
He only asks for me.
He must rely on his mother only.
They're very different.
Let's meet the father now.
Where are you?
Hello.
Do you understand your wife's concern?
I do, but I don't have a choice.
What do you mean you don't have a choice?
(Scratch)
He's trying to come up with excuses.
I want to help,
but my wife is very picky about being clean.
Even if I help out,
she does it herself again.
If I ask him to fold the babies' clothes,
he does it haphazardly.
There we go. Like this?
So do you watch movies
by yourself all weekend?
I've always liked watching movies.
Like Marvel's "Iron Man."
Oh, hero movies.
That's why I watch many films in one sitting.
Your wife likes watching movies, too.
You should watch them with her.
I don't think she ever liked watching movies.
She just watched them with me.
Do you know what hobbies she has?
Her hobby is...
She's really good at house chores.
(Boo)
(That's work, not a hobby)
Doing house chores is her hobby?
She likes to organize things.
She likes to organize things?
There isn't a single strand of hair on the floor.
I want to get dolled up, go out and
chat with my friends, too.
Watching movies is nice,
but you should play with your children.
I did try to do so several times.
If I hold up one child,
the other two are standing in line.
Of course.
That goes on from morning to evening.
- They keep lining up? / - Yes.
I can't keep up with them.
So I stopped doing that.
Dad amusement park is closed.
(Dad amusement park is closed for business)
Children have an infinite amount of energy,
so playing with them is really hard.
Right.
So your wife must take care of all three, right?
Yes.
She doesn't always play with them.
They play among themselves, too.
But they can't always do that.
When they reach elementary school,
they can play on their own.
This is the only time
they can spend time with their dad.
When they grow up, they'll want their friends.
I will play with them when they're in 6th grade.
They won't want to play with you then.
They'll prefer to hang out with their friends.
(You are so indifferent now)
(Will they want to hang out with you then?)
I don't understand how you can cuss at your kids.
I don't want to cuss at them either.
When I scold them, they don't understand me.
They play and ignore me,
so I end up yelling and cussing at them.
Does your husband have a temper?
Yes. When he bathes them once in a while,
he yells at them to wash within 5 minutes.
He doesn't wash them?
It's like the army.
When they were 5, he wanted to discipline them.
Someone on television said
we should hold a child like this.
He took the children into a dark room
and did that for 20-30 minutes.
The kids were terrified.
- He doesn't beat them though, right? / - He does.
They were beaten since they were 3.
- On their butt? / - Where?
Their soles.
They didn't listen to me at all,
so we set up some rules.
They got beaten differently based on what they did.
- When they were 3? / - Yes.
Since they were 3?
They're not grownups.
So they stop playing when I bring that cane.
There's no communication.
This is the easiest way out for grownups.
This is only good for the grownups.
(Right then)
(Their voices are heard from a distance)
It's Dad.
I think the kids are coming.
(I want to meet the triplets)
It's Dad.
- How cute. / - How adorable.
How cute.
- How adorable. / - Yun, Jun and Hun.
Yun, Jun.
(Where are they headed?)
Mommy.
(Mommy)
(Mommy)
(Mommy)
They're so pretty.
(I've missed you)
They are so cute.
(So cute)
How cute.
Where's Daddy?
Dad.
(He waves chicly)
Raise your hand if you want to go to him.
(Too cool)
(Feeling betrayed)
Who's the eldest and who's next?
1, 2, 3.
(No. 1 is escaping the stage)
(You have left the play zone)
This is so hectic.
Move forward.
(She has found the way)
Come back here.
(They're at the playful age)
How old are you?
Seoyun.
Oh, 30 years old.
(That's strange)
Seoyun.
Your name?
- Five. / - Five.
How old are you?
Mah.
How old are you?
(Too distracting)
(And now...)
(She's losing her mind)
I'm already losing my mind.
(I know how you feel)
Do you like Daddy?
No.
Do you like Daddy?
No.
(Shocking to hear how they feel)
What does he say when he's angry?
He tells us to be quiet.
- "Be quiet!" Like that. / - "Be quiet!"
"Be quiet!"
(He's perplexed by the negative response)
He gets mad at you?
Yes.
So soft.
(Soft)
Why are you touching my breasts?
(She gives up interviewing them)
(Boo hoo)
(Oh my goodness)
Yes, this is understandable.
They pretended to be young, but...
(They're cute)
They're a handful even in such a short time, right?
Excuse me.
Having one child isn't this bad.
(They're special because they're triplets)
They will be assets when they grow up.
(Good luck until they grow up)
(And now...)
Daddy... Daddy...
(Are they giving up now?)
Let's see who gets here first.
Go.
First place.
Second place.
Third place.
(Everything's settled)
(Childrearing king Dongyeob)
Raising them must be really hard.
You do this every day?
Look over there. Our scriptwriters...
(I'm not going home)
Just two of them is also a handful.
- You do this every day? / - He's resisting.
He's so smart. He's resisting.
He's resisting.
(I won't give up just yet)
(I can't go like this)
(But...)
(The best ending scene)
(since "Terminator")
Oh my goodness.
Look at him hanging on with his small hand.
(She feels bad for them)
(He's in a daze)
(Why did he lose his mind?)
Why are you in a daze after doing nothing?
Why do you look so tired?
It must be really hard for their mom.
So you're saying that there's more, right?
My husband spends a lot of money on
drones, RC cars and other toys.
He plays with them by himself.
He doesn't let the kids touch them.
I think every man has at least one hobby.
I don't play games on my phone
and I don't like to gamble.
Oh, is that so?
I don't think my hobby is bad.
(Revealing his drones)
How much did this cost? It looks expensive.
The drone set is about $1,200.
The goggles cost $720.
(Surprised to hear the prices)
(Here come the RC cars)
That looks cool.
That cost about $1,200.
(She's shocked again)
Did you know how much they cost?
I thought it cost $150.
She thought it cost $150.
What about the RC car?
I thought it was $200.
But it cost $1,200.
I guess he forgot the first digit when he told me.
There aren't any other hobbies, right?
We are so shocked already.
He's into 3D printing now.
He had been saying that he wanted a 3D printer.
His grandmother left him a gold necklace.
It weighed about 14 grams.
He sold it and said,
"Grandma left it to me to buy me a 3D printer."
I'm sure she's smiling from heaven.
So he went out and bought one.
I wanted to print out kids' toys for them.
It's made by melting some kind of cloth.
It's dangerous because it's brittle and sharp.
Kids can't play with them, right?
He made a skeleton ring and a skeleton head.
A skeleton head.
They were all for him, not the kids.
It was just an excuse.
Does this have something to do with your job?
No, it does not.
When I was young, I made
a ventilation system with vacuum cleaner parts
to emit smoke when we grill meat.
Did you want to become an inventor?
Something like that.
I bought a cotton candy machine recently.
- A cotton candy machine? / - Why?
To make cotton candy for the kids.
(She's scoffing...)
(Here they come)
(3D toys)
(Cotton candy machine)
You made these with a 3D printer?
- Yes. / - You're talented.
These do look amazing.
This one moves.
What about this?
Kids like spiders.
(He's smiling as he explains)
(Kids like these?)
He says that kids like all these things.
He's mentioned that every time.
What if the kids poke themselves with this?
You keep talking about the kids,
- but they're all really for you. / - Right.
Please make us cotton candy.
Oh, a red one.
You made this with two wash bowls?
(Making cotton candy)
(They're waiting with great expectations)
(When will we get one?)
- There's nothing here. / - It needs to heat up.
(5 minutes later)
- When will it be ready? / - Well...
It takes time to get heated up.
(10 minutes later)
How long does it take?
It takes about 20 minutes.
It takes 20 minutes to make one?
It takes about 20 minutes.
It takes 20 minutes to make one?
The triplets wait while a cotton candy is made.
(A bit later...)
I see it now. I see it.
It looks like a spider web.
(Wow, it does work)
It'd be fun to play with the kids with this.
It gets all over the house, so I can't use it.
- It's flying away. / - It's flying away.
It's true.
The whole house would be covered.
(Swing)
The whole studio is going wild.
I was expecting a big one. How much sugar?
Put some more sugar in.
(Disappointed)
This isn't enough for anyone.
(In one bite)
(When did I eat it?)
Magic.
Magic.
(Yeongja's cotton candy magic)
(Guess where the cotton candy went)
This is good. It's for the kids.
He made it for them one time.
He made cotton candy for them just one time.
The person sitting next to the husband
looks very gloomy.
How do you feel when you hear this?
It's heartbreaking.
It's heartbreaking because
my daughter used to be beautiful.
I raised her right.
But her shoulders are curved in now.
- Already? / - Her shoulders are curved in.
Her voice wasn't like this before.
She had a clear voice, but now it's rough.
She's screaming a lot as she raises the triplets.
Did you know about your son-in-law's hobbies?
Yes, I did.
His parents gave that money to him.
Oh.
The in-laws gave the money
every so often to help out with
raising the triplets.
The money was to help raising the triplets?
I guess they gave the money to him at first.
He kept it a secret from me.
After he got caught, they give it to me directly.
He got caught.
He should've spent the money on the kids,
- but he used it for his hobbies. / - Right.
(Please get your act together)
I helped out with the kids for about 18 months.
They cry and wake up at the same time
so she has to feed all of them at once.
She can't do everything at once
so it's tough by herself.
So I practically raised the eldest one.
The eldest would run off and
grab his uncle's hand.
He calls his uncle "Dad."
His uncle must've been good to him.
My brother-in-law has a great reputation,
but I want him to care more about his family.
I also want him to quit smoking and drinking.
He smokes and drinks too much.
He drinks a bottle or two of soju on weekdays.
- Every day? / - Yes.
On weekends, he drinks 3-4 bottles.
- 3-4 bottles? / - That's a lot.
Does he go in and out to smoke?
He smokes in the house at times.
I'm sure he doesn't do that now.
He does when the kids are asleep.
You have so many problems.
(That's impressive)
Let's try to see this from his point of view.
Is your work stressful?
After I was promoted, I had a lot of work.
I had to manage my team.
But she got pregnant after I was promoted.
I was busy going between the hospital and home,
so I had to skip work on many days.
So I took a paternity leave for 3 months.
For those 3 months
I really did a lot for her. I cooked for her, too.
That was when I was pregnant.
I had to stay lying down in the hospital.
I couldn't even use the restroom.
So he's working very hard to earn money.
But I work, too.
After the kids go to kindergarten,
I go to work.
- What do you do? / - You work, too?
I work at a beauty salon.
- So you're standing up all day? / - Yes.
(We're getting angry)
There are so many issues here.
What would you like to do if you have free time?
Even if I am given 3-4 hours of freedom,
there isn't anything I want to do.
Would you like to sleep?
I gave up on that when they were born.
How many hours did you sleep last night?
About 3-4 hours.
I sleep in the room with the kids.
They all want to sleep next to me.
So I had to sleep horizontally.
They all wanted to sleep next to me, but there are 3,
so I slept horizontally
to make sure they could all touch me.
Don't you think you should change your ways?
I don't think I can change anymore from here
unless the kids grow up more.
They need to be able to understand me.
So your wife must do it alone until then?
I should do it with her.
Look, man... (Frustrated)
(Shake)
The husband from the first concern was like,
"How can he be like this?"
He was shaking his head. (Was it obvious?)
(Embarrassed)
Couldn't you show us what a real father
should be like when he has 3 kids?
Please show us.
(Show us how it's done)
Couldn't you show us how it's done?
This is how I would raise them.
According to your logic,
dads can raise kids the easiest.
You don't watch the kids when they're babies,
then once the kids go to grade school or higher
you can talk to them hoping that they understand.
Then every kid would be easy to raise.
You can raise them after they start to understand?
That's impossible.
You need to be there for the whole process.
The kids could think, "Now you call yourself my dad?"
"Why do I have to come home early?
What have you done for me?" That will happen.
You must remember this. It's not just for the show.
Dongyeob is speaking from experience.
His son said to him,
"You should come home early first."
Please say a word to your husband.
Honey. Please drink in moderation.
You can enjoy your hobbies
once the kids grow up a little more.
On weekends,
please wake up by 10 a.m.
It's tiring to watch the triplets,
but you find joy in it, too, right?
"Mommy. You're the best." They hug and kiss me.
When the triplets hugged her...
I got emotional, too.
I'm a beloved mom to them even when I'm in my pajamas.
Yes.
That's the main reason.
(Moms exist for their kids)
(As they think of their children)
(Moms get energized again)
Would you want them even in your next life?
Just the kids?
She doesn't want the same husband.
If you get reincarnated,
you could marry someone else. Don't worry.
Would you want to be their mom again?
- Of course. / - These kids?
Even when you can't sleep well?
Yes. I don't need my sleep.
(She can do anything for her kids)
Please say a word to your wife, sir.
(Hesitant)
I will try to be the dad that wakes up early
on weekends as you wished.
I will try to drink alcohol
only on weekends, not on weekdays.
You may not be able to
play with your kids much.
But please don't scream or yell at them.
You may be able to make amends later
for running away from playing with them.
But you can never make amends for
being a dad who screams and yells at them.
Let's start with MONSTA X. Is it a concern?
I think it's definitely a concern.
Press the button.
I think it's a concern, too.
It's a concern.
I think it's a concern, too.
You said that you like hero movies, right?
You don't need to watch those movies.
You have a hero right here.
It's true.
She works, looks after the triplets,
and supports her husband.
You can't find a hero like this anywhere.
I wish I could shoot this hand that way.
Press the button if you think it's a concern.
(What does the audience think?)
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Please stop.
How many votes did they get?
They definitely got more than 100 votes.
The current winner has 153 votes.
They need more than that.
(They got 162 votes)
It's titled, "Single-path Life."
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