This is "Last Warning."
Hello. I'm a woman in my 30s from Gwangju.
Even if I had 10 bodies, it wouldn't be enough.
"Honey, it's 8. Get up and eat."
"First son. You need to go to school."
"Second son, let's go to kindergarten."
"Third son! Wake up."
They are 8, 6 and 4.
I'm a mom of 3 boys.
She's patriotic.
I also own a sushi restaurant with my husband.
Wow. While raising 3 sons?
I take all of them to work.
This is her 6-year-old son.
6 years old?
"Mom! I'm hungry."
"They're so noisy.
Can't you keep them quiet?"
"I'm sorry, sir."
"Shh! We have customers here.
I told you to be quiet."
I work until 2 a.m.
"Honey! Can I please rest a little?"
"What have you done to help?
What have you done to help, huh?"
What have I done to help?
I'm pregnant with our fourth child.
I'm due next month.
(Oh my)
Why is my husband making me slave away like this?
Please help me.
How does that make you feel, Yeonkyoung?
I'm impressed that she's still married to him.
I have 2 brothers myself.
It's not easy to raise 3 boys,
now that I think about it as an adult.
And she works, too.
Yes, on top of working, too.
It must be so tough for her.
Let's bring her out. Please come on out.
(Who's the pregnant mother with 3 sons?)
(Light steps)
(Ko Miyeong)
We were going to help you, but...
You're due next month, right?
You're so strong.
Your stomach isn't so big. Mine's as big as yours.
Right?
When are you due?
On May 20.
You're due very soon.
You are due in less than a month.
If you have 3 sons,
are you trying to have a daughter?
No.
If you're due next month...
Don't you know the sex?
It's a boy.
(Oh my)
Oh my. Congratulations.
Congratulations. Why are you reacting that way?
She has 5 boys including her husband.
It must be hard being here in your last trimester.
What brings you here at this time?
This is really my last warning.
If he doesn't listen to this warning?
Then I'm going to leave him with my 3 sons.
Do you really mean that?
Please tell us about what situation you're in.
I want to rest, but he won't listen.
I'm really worried that I'll have to
continue to work with 4 sons at the restaurant.
Why must you work with 3 sons there?
What does your husband do?
He owns a salmon sushi truck.
He sells salmon sushi?
Yes.
So you work while watching 3 kids?
I serve food while holding my baby.
I make sushi and filet the fish.
I do everything.
You don't have any other employees?
- Only for 3-4 hours. / - Part-timers?
I work until we close every night
Oh my.
If you ask your husband to help,
he really says you don't help out at all?
He yells in front of the kids.
Then my eldest covers his ears and
locks himself up in his room.
That's terrible.
What kind of person is he?
- He's uptight. / - He's not like others?
He's not like any other people.
I just can't get through to him.
I see a man who seems to be the husband.
He doesn't seem like that at all.
Please raise your hand.
Hello.
He doesn't seem so uptight to me.
His hairstyle and fashion.
You're her husband, right?
Yes, I am.
We want to know if what she says is true.
Is it true?
She's not lying.
Do you understand why your wife came here
today as her last resort?
I do understand. Yes.
Are you scared of us? What's wrong with you?
Relax your fists, everyone.
(Smile)
You don't think things are too tough for her?
To be honest...
I don't know what everyone here thinks, but...
Just come right out and say it.
What's on your mind?
She's my girl, so...
So she's the strongest woman on earth.
What?
You may yell at me,
but she never shows that it's too tough for her.
Just because she's strong...
I'm sure you just didn't notice it.
How can she not express how tired she is?
Why did you ask her to work with you?
I don't trust other people.
Even so...
You could hire some people and
get them to earn your trust.
I think he's just trying to save money.
You don't want to pay for more employees, right?
That's somewhat true,
but the biggest reason is that I don't trust people.
But it's terrible to make her work so much.
So let's get this straight.
You only trust your wife,
so you're making her do all the work.
Is that what it is?
I just don't trust other people.
But your wife doesn't have faith in you.
But even if you don't trust other employees...
You could at least help her out
with taking care of the children.
I work very, very hard, too.
Very, very hard?
Yes.
Don't you think she works very, very hard, too?
She has other employees to help her,
but I have to do everything by myself.
But your wife looks after 3 kids, too.
The kids...
How long do you work at the restaurant?
I work from 4 p.m. to 2 a.m.
How many hours do you work, sir?
I work from 6 to 10.
- 6 p.m.? / - Yes.
Sometimes I work until midnight.
- You go out at 6 p.m.? / - Yes.
Then do you help out at the restaurant beforehand?
- You work before you go? / - Yes.
Does he help out?
He says he helps you out.
No, I help him out more.
- For his food truck? / - Yes.
That's not what she says, sir.
One time, our youngest was vomiting.
I asked him to stay at the restaurant.
But he left anyway.
Our son was so sick that I had to go to the ER.
I took all 3 kids and took a cab.
I called him to come and help me.
Our son was so sick and I was so upset.
You got the call, right?
My children have never been sick.
They're boys.
I didn't think it was anything serious.
I'm curious. How many siblings do you have?
- I have one younger brother. / - I see.
I don't mean to sound rude, but do you not have
any memories of spending time with your dad?
I have a lot.
Then why are you like this?
Was your family in a financial bind in the past?
No.
- No? / - No.
He received all the love,
but he won't give that to his son.
After she gives birth
are you planning to work with her?
- I want to. / - Together?
(Never-ending pain)
I want to work with her.
(If there are four kids? The five of them?)
With all 4 kids?
I want to if it's possible.
Just as you are working now?
You out in the truck and her at the restaurant?
I guess we'll have to find another way then.
You didn't find one before and you'll do it now?
I guess this could be the opportunity to do so.
What's your wish, ma'am?
I want to focus on our children.
But next month... Not even that.
She'll give birth to your fourth child.
Must she work as well at the store?
I've been thinking for a while now.
I should close one of the two places.
Did you tell your wife that?
No, I thought about it by myself.
It was just your own thoughts.
He keeps saying that,
but that repeated with my second and third.
He did the same thing after your previous births?
She thinks that you will keep everything the same
even after her fourth birth.
She's such a hard worker.
Everything has its way of working out.
That's what I thought.
You trust your wife and
you think she does a great job.
Why did you tell her that she hasn't done much?
That keeps bugging us.
Why did you say that?
I can be mean sometimes.
I don't have a great personality.
I'm sure she was stressed, too.
So...
Sure.
I just got angry in the moment.
Did you apologize to her afterwards?
No, I've never apologized to her.
(Laughter out of absurdity)
I don't know what to say about that.
Her sister is actually here with us.
If it were my sister, what would I have done?
(Lost her mind?)
Hello.
I would've sued him.
I'm Ko Mijin and I'm 33 years old.
We heard your sister's side of the story.
You've known about this, right?
I'm so angry.
What do you think about
what your sister is going through?
To be honest...
I want to tell her to leave him.
I'm so frustrated and it's maddening.
You never talked to him about this before?
He can't hold back his anger.
He has a temper.
I didn't want to hurt their relationship,
so I was never able to say what was on my mind.
I often go over to babysit my nephews.
She goes into her room alone and cries.
You hate him, right?
I hate him. I want to punch him.
Of course. As her sister.
Is that your husband beside you?
Is that your husband?
No.
Hello.
Weren't you an audience member?
I'm a regular at their restaurant.
Thank you, sir.
How good is this restaurant?
Does their salmon sushi taste good?
Yes. It's the best in Gwangju.
How did you end up coming here today?
To be honest, I sent in the concern.
Oh, the customer sent it in. Unbelievable.
She didn't want to come here at first.
I felt bad that she's working so hard when
she's 9 months pregnant, so I insisted.
From your perspective as a customer,
tell us what concerns you.
It must've been bad if the customer wrote to us.
When I'm at the restaurant,
the kids play there until 2-3 a.m.
But they also fight, make noise and cry.
So many customers have left.
When the baby poops, no one will change the diaper,
so I sometimes changed the diapers.
A customer changes the diapers?
- You changed the dirty diapers? / - Yes.
(Who exactly is this customer?)
Do you know them personally?
Or did you get to know them as a customer?
I heard about this great place and ate there.
The food was really good.
He's truly just a customer.
Why didn't you try talking
to the husband first?
I did. I told him to give up one of the two.
He never listens though.
He doesn't?
I think he wants to earn a lot of money.
Can't you look after the restaurant for them?
In your opinion...
The husband admitted to having a temper.
Does he really have a temper?
- It's really bad. / - Really?
He sometimes yells and
flips the tables over.
That's how bad it is.
You're a father of 3 kids.
Couldn't you watch the kids, too?
- I do hang out with them. / - When?
When?
Have you seen him play with his kids?
He just says hi and pats them on their heads
and kisses them on their cheeks.
For how many hours do you hang out there at a time?
Your husband says that he works hard, too.
I'm sure it's tough for him, too.
But on some days, his work ends early.
Then he goes bowling or golfing.
He has a hobby, too?
- Did we hear that right? / - Virtual golf?
He goes 2-3 times a week.
That's quite often.
One time, our acquaintance posted it on social media.
Did he travel far to go golfing?
He never told me that he was going. He lied.
How can he go while his wife is working?
Sir!
Yes?
Is this true?
Yes, it's true.
(Say that it's a lie)
Because of the kids going to school,
I do play fewer hours now.
What does that mean?
By how many hours?
I only play until midnight or 1 a.m.
- Then you two go home together? / - Yes.
Is that true?
You don't come by midnight.
You end it around 1 or 2 a.m.
I am stressed out, too.
If I don't relieve that stress
I could take it out on the kids
or my wife when I know she works very hard.
I need something of my own to relieve stress.
I can't spend too many hours on it.
So I just do it secretly little by little.
That helps, right? To relieve your stress?
Yes.
Hold on.
While your husband is enjoying his hobby,
what are you doing?
We use many onions at the restaurant.
I have to peel and chop 2kg of onions everyday.
- 2kg? / - Crouching on the floor.
My stomach cramped up often.
It was very tough.
You never thought of going to help her out?
I don't go by myself.
Customers come to me.
They come to ask me to go play golf.
I can't turn them down.
How do you think your wife relieves her stress?
That's the problem. I don't know.
I think the regular customer would know.
He has the right answer.
Have you seen her rest to relieve stress?
No. She's always working.
She has no time to do so.
You said that you have to bowl and play golf
with your regular customers to thank them.
Who are they?
One of them is sitting here.
- He's the one who plays golf with you? / - Yes.
(Chills)
(Is this a hidden camera show?)
What are you trying to do here?
(Confused)
Wait a minute. Let's bowl now.
Let me bowl. Look over here.
What's going on here?
How can you do that while she's working?
- I didn't tempt him. / - You should've stopped him.
Like he said earlier
he relieves his stress on his family.
I think it might be nice if you could
watch the kids on your off days and
give time for your wife to go out and have fun.
When Mom goes out, our kids...
You seem to keep making excuses.
You keep saying the same thing.
Don't get up.
I don't want her to go out on her own.
Do you have Othello syndrome, too?
We're serious.
No, but I get worried.
- You get worried? / - Yes.
- Just in case? / - Because it's a scary world?
What if...
You're the scariest one.
Their sons are here, too.
Where are they?
How cute.
That must be the second son.
The one in the front is the second oldest?
Hi.
Eldest, grab the mic.
(Full of smiles)
Look at him smile.
Hi.
- He has such a cute smile. / - Hi.
What's your name?
Jeong Ungdo.
Ungdo.
Why do you think you're here today?
To be on TV.
How cute.
Does your dad spend lots of time with you?
Yes.
Were you told to say that?
Yes.
(While everyone is busy looking at the kids)
Look at your second son.
(She quietly wipes her tears away)
What does he do with you?
We play on the computer or read dinosaur books.
We draw.
He's a good son.
We run around, too.
You go to the restaurant with your mom
and brothers every day?
Yes.
Every single day?
Yes.
Is it fun when you're there?
Yes.
He's a good son.
He keeps saying yes. Was he told to do that?
I know.
What's so fun about being at the restaurant?
Running around.
Inside the restaurant?
Yes.
Do you like being at home or the restaurant?
I like being at home.
See? That's the truth.
Have you begged your parents to go home then?
"Let's go home." Like that?
Yes.
What did they say?
"Let's go."
- Do you understand what I'm saying? / - Yes.
He's a good son.
He's so thoughtful.
Hand the mic over to his brother.
We'll talk to the younger one now.
Hi.
Hello.
Oh, yes. Good boy.
Do you go to the restaurant every day, too?
Yes.
Do you like it there or your home?
The restaurant.
- Why? / - Yes.
Really? We'll end the interview here then.
(Tee hee)
We had a great time.
They are so bright and cute.
You did a great job raising them.
What are you most concerned about?
After we opened the restaurant
our eldest son is starting to be violent.
He throws things when he gets mad.
He even cusses at times.
He cusses?
What does he say?
(With this innocent face?)
The F word.
- An 8-year-old? / - The F word?
(A child?)
My husband cusses when he's behind the wheel.
I think he learned it from his dad.
Ungdo. The eldest.
- Yes, you. / - Yes?
Does your dad get angry often?
Yes.
Does he yell often?
Yes.
- Does he cuss a lot, too? / - YEs.
How does your dad get mad?
He says...
(Shocking!)
Did you learn those words from friends or your dad?
You learned them from dad.
Other dads don't teach kids those words.
But your father does.
Is it okay to cuss or not?
It's not okay.
Then why do you cuss? Will you keep cussing?
I won't.
He's been influenced by his dad a lot, right?
You realize that, right, sir?
He's showing signs of being violent.
He watched his dad yell and scream.
Yes!
(He's an automated answering machine)
What do you think about that?
The boy understands everything we're saying.
I shouldn't say those things.
I feel bad about that.
Some things are important in creating a family.
Why are you focused on earning money so much?
I see so many rich people around me.
I want to live a better life than those people.
I want to beat them all.
That's what I think.
What do you mean by beating them?
I want to live a better life than
those rich people around me. One by one.
Some people have worse concerns than we do.
They all have their wives to support them.
My wife is working hard with me,
so I am on the same path as they are.
You're keep talking about "supportive wives."
The common factor of those families is that
those men are grateful to their wives.
You must show gratitude
so that your wife can endure the hardship.
You believe that after this hardship
you'll be happy one day and
you're forcing your wife to sacrifice for that.
We are still young.
(It's hard to get through to him, isn't it?)
I have a son.
Now that he's older, he keeps asking me.
"You didn't change my diapers when I was a baby?"
I don't know what to say to him.
This time is crucial for the kids.
You can never turn back time.
Their personalities are forming at this age.
You can't exchange that with anything.
Tell your husband clearly and exactly
what you want from him. Look into his eyes.
My eldest son asks me after school...
(She can't contain her emotions anymore)
You couldn't bear it anymore.
Tell us.
He asks, "Do you have to go work again?"
He asks me that every day.
Money is important,
but our kids are even more important.
I wish you would let me and the kids rest at home.
(What is going through the husband's head?)
Did you have a wedding ceremony?
No, not yet.
(This is wrong)
What is it that you really want to do?
I was a makeup artist for brides.
But you never got to be a bride yourself.
I was going to go back after my third birth.
Once all four kids grow up
I would like to pursue my dream again.
(Upsetting)
Sir!
Yes?
What do you think about this? Be clear.
Don't try to be vague.
Once our fourth child is born,
I will change everything.
How?
However my wife wants.
Let's start with Niel. Is it a concern?
I think this is definitely a concern.
I was shocked that the wife said that watching
4 kids at home is considered resting.
That was very upsetting to hear.
So I think this is a concern.
It's definitely a concern.
It's a serious concern.
You were shocked, right?
He only thinks in the way he wants to
and rationalizes everything.
Don't wave your hands. It's frightening.
He keeps forcing his thoughts on everyone
so I got a bit worked up.
I hope the regular customer can help out a lot.
It's definitely a concern.
I'd like to say this to you, too.
Don't blame your husband for everything.
You are your own person.
When it's wrong, you must say no.
- You got that? / - Yes.
You must protect yourself.
You must stay strong to protect your kids.
Hold up the buttons, everyone.
Please note that you can only press it once.
Please vote.
(What does the audience think?)
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Please stop.
What would you like to tell your wife?
I'd glad that we are here today.
I've always known,
but it's true that I wasn't able to protect her.
If we hadn't come here today
I wouldn't have been able to do it again.
I promise in front of the whole nation.
Promise your kids that you won't cuss.
I feel bad for my kids, too.
Love them as much as you can.
Promise that you won't be angry at them.
I won't get angry at you.
Thank you.
Please show us the result.
(Announcing the result)
The last digit is an 8.
178?
168?
158 votes.
(They got 158 votes)
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