• How many of the world's most valuable instruments were made by the same person?
What instrument wound up costing more than 4 million dollars just to build?
From Strads to Strats, here are 15 of the more valuable instruments in the world.
15 –Jimi Hendrix's 1968 Fender Stratocaster • Guitar legend Jimi Hendrix bought one
of his favorite guitars – a white 1968 Fender Stratocaster – in New York in 1968.
• In 1969, it was the guitar he played at his iconic Woodstock performance.
And in 1970, he gifted it to his drummer, Mitch Mitchell, for the birth of his daughter.
• Mitchell later put the guitar up for auction, where it sold for 198 thousand British pounds.
• Later, it would be sold again to Microsoft CEO Paul Allen for an unknown sum rumoured
to be around 2 million dollars.
14 –Guarneri's "Vieuxtemps" Violin • Stradivarius is the top name among violinists
as the greatest instrument maker ever, but the name Giuseppe Guarneri isn't far behind.
• In 2010, one of Guarneri's most famous violins went up for sale with a price tag
of 18 million dollars.
• Despite being made in 1741, it is considered one of the best-maintained Guarneri violins
in existence.
13 –Charlie Parker's Grafton Alto Saxophone • Charlie Parker is one of the greatest
jazz saxophonists of all time, and was under contract to play only one kind of saxophone
at his gigs in the United States.
• But one night in Toronto, Parker played on a plastic Grafton saxophone – a cheap,
low-quality instrument meant for student-level players.
• That performance became so legendary, the Grafton saxophone he used that night sold
at auction in 1994 for 93,500 British pounds.
12 –Duport Stradivarius Cello • The Stradivarius line of instruments is
the closest thing there is to a household name in rare, high-value string instruments.
• The Duport is one of the most valuable "Strads" in existence.
Made in 1711, it has a slight dent that is said to have resulted from Napoleon Bonaparte
mishandling the instrument in 1812.
• In 1843, the instrument was sold for about 25 thousand francs – a world record at the
time.
• But in 2008, it was sold again – and some rumors put the purchase price at around
20 million U.S. dollars.
11 –OM-45 Deluxe Acoustic Guitar • The OM-45 Deluxe Martin acoustic guitar
is already a rare instrument, because Martin only ever made 15 of them.
• But in 1930, some guy named Leonard Franklin went into a pawn shop and bought one for 30
bucks.
• Later, he changed his name to Roy Rogers, because a country music legend, and used that
guitar in countless performances and movies until the mid-1940s.
• In 2009, his guitar sold at auction for 460 thousand dollars.
10 –The Hammer Stradivarius Violin • Strads are so rare, and so coveted, that
they are often granted to the absolute best musicians of each era.
• 26-year-old violinist David Garrett was one of those musicians.
But in 2008, the virtuoso tripped while walking off stage, and shattered the 290-year-old
instrument.
• The repairs cost over 60 thousand British pounds, and the instrument may never sound
the same.
But at least he didn't have to buy a new one.
• The "Hammer" he broke had sold for 1.8 million pounds at auction.
9 –Heintzman Crystal Piano • The Crystal Grand piano played during
the opening ceremony is, to date, the most expensive piano ever made.
• The buyer was private, so we don't know who owns it now… but whoever it was, they
bought it at auction for 3.22 millions dollars!
8 –Lausanne Cathedral Organ • Most of these instruments have some kind
of incredible history behind them, and that's what makes them so expensive when they're
sold.
• But the organ in the Lausanne Cathedral in Switzerland was never sold.
It is a monstrous pipe organ that cost over 4.2 millions dollars… to build.
7 –Lady Tennant Violin • This violin is yet another Strad, this
one presumed to have been built in 1699.
• It is known as the "Lady Tennant," from when Scottish businessman Charles Tennant
bought it in 1900 for his wife.
• It was purchased in 2005 for 2 million dollars by an anonymous buyer who granted
it to violinist Yang Liu. 6 –Clapton's 'Blackie' Guitar
• In the 1970s, Eric Clapton went to a guitar shop in Nashville, Tennessee, and bought parts
from three different Fender Stratocasters.
• He assembled those pieces into "Blackie," the famous guitar Clapton used in most of
his performances through the mid-eighties.
• In 2004, Clapton auctioned off the guitar to support his rehab center.
It sold for 959 thousand, 500 dollars.
5 –Reach Out To Asia Guitar • But as long as we're talking about guitars
being sold for charity, let's talk about the Reach out to Asia guitar, auctioned in
2005 to help the Indian Ocean tsunami victims.
• It was signed by 20 of the world's greatest living rock musicians, including Mick Jagger,
Paul McCartney, Brian May, Jimmy Page, and yes, Eric Clapton.
• It went for a record 2.7 million dollars at auction.
4 –Gibson-Huberman Stradivarius • Like any Strad, the Gibson-Huberman is
probably worth millions.
But its most famous sale was only for 100 dollars.
• In 1936, this Strad was stolen from the dressing room at Carnegie Hall, and sold for
only $100 to a lesser-known violinist.
• It wasn't until he was on his deathbed 50 years later that he told his wife about
the origin of his violin.
It turned out to be authentic, and now it is owned by renowned violinist Joshua Bell.
3 –John Lennon's Steinway Z • The piano upon which John Lennon wrote
"Imagine" was going up for auction, and looked like it was about to end up in some
millionaire's private collection.
• Instead, George Michael bought it for 1.67 million British pounds.
• He then granted it to the Beatles Story museum in Liverpool, so that it could be "seen
by the people.
2 –Yo-Yo Ma's Cello • Yo-Yo Ma is one of the greatest living
musicians on Earth, and has been for decades.
But one time in 1999, he was just a guy who forgot his stuff in a New York taxi cab.
• One night, exhausted after a performance, he simply got out of the cab, and left his
2.5 million dollar cello in the trunk.
• This resulted in a city-wide search for the instrument, which was delivered back to
him via what looked like a presidential motorcade, surrounded by TV cameras.
1 –MacDonald Stradivarius Viola • There are about 600 instruments known
to exist from Antonio Stradivarius.
But only about 10 of those instruments are violas, the violin's larger cousin.
• So when the 1719 "Macdonald" viola went up for auction, there was plenty of interest.
• Why?
The auction house was looking for bids upwards of 45 million dollars.
Apparently, they didn't get a qualifying offer.
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The Story of Kezan (Goblin Starting Area) [Lore] - Duration: 17:05.
Hello everyone and welcome to the tropical island of Kezan!
Here it is where the Goblins have worked their magic to make all that pesky flora and fauna
disappear, replacing it with the most elaborate and genius inventions they could come up with.
Sun lovers can enjoy the oily covered beaches, adventurers can try their luck in the slums
but don't be a troll though or you'll be put to work!
You might wonder how this small paradise came to be, well that story began a long long time
ago when Keeper Mimiron had discovered kaja'mite.
This strange ore with magical powers was then used to experiment on various races, greatly
enhancing their intellect.
Some of these test subjects were members of a small, primitive race that roamed the forestlands
near Ulduar.
Consuming this kaja'mite transformed the creatures into a highly intelligent, industrious
breed known from that moment on as goblins.
Many years later queen azshara made contact with Sargeras and the Legion, the war of the
ancients played out the destruction of the well of sundered the land of Kalimdor.
After the reformation, zandalari trolls set out to explore the numerous islands that dotted
the newly formed sea between kalimdor and the eastern kingdoms.
It was during these voyages that the trolls discovered Kezan, an isle inhabited by goblins.
These small-green-skinned beings were clever but crude.
At first, the two races kept their distance from each other.
The Zandalari had come to Kezan in search of kaja'mite.
The consumption of vaporized kaja'mite caused a range of effects, such as heightened senses,
hallucinations, and increased intelligence.
The trolls greatly valued the mineral and saw it as a sacred component in their rituals
and ceremonies.
For centuries they mined from the numerous kaja'mite veins running close to the surface
of the island.
Occasionally they employed goblins to work for them, paying with shiny but cheap trinkets
that the small creatures prized.
The arrangement changed once the trolls discovered an unimaginable deposit of kaja'mite buried
deep underground – more than the zandalari would ever need.
Rather than dig for it themselves, they enslaved the goblins and forced them to mine under
abysmal conditions.
For thousands of years, the goblins suffered under the yoke of troll oppression, too weak
to resist.
In the end, it was the kaja'mite itself that led to the goblins' salvation.
A cloud of kaja'mite dust always blanketed the mines.
Over time, breathing it in awakened the goblins' intelligence...and craftiness.
Secretly, they plotted the overthrow of their slave masters, using what materials they could
find to fashion traps, explosives, and other ingenious weaponry.
The troll overseers were caught off guard when the goblin masses stormed from the mines,
armed with technology beyond even what the zandalari possessed.
The revolution shattered the trolls' hold over Kezan, laying waste to their mining operation
and leaving behind untold destruction.
The surviving zandalari fled, and the goblins celebrated their new liberation by turning
on each other in a mad scramble to fill the void of power.
Amid the chaos, countless factions and allegiances formed.
The most powerful of these groups were known as cartels.
When no clear winner emerged from the fighting, these cartels brokered an uneasy truce.
Conflict would never really end between the various goblin factions, but for decades,
they waged most of their battles in the economic arena.
The cartels ultimately turned to trade to sustain themselves and used their profits
to amass ever more wealth and power.
Some of the biggest cartels that we know are the Venture Company, Steamwheedle and Bilgewater.
They weren't stuck on Kazan for very long as the goblins developed transportation in
the form of ships and zeppelins.
Their loyalty is often found not in a faction or race, but in a coin as they've supported
different sides throughout the years.
So trade princes are the ones who rule the cartels and in the case for fresh goblin players,
they follow Jastory Gallywis, the ruthless, scheming, wealthy tradeprince of the Bilgewater
Cartel.
In his youth he lived alone with his father Luzik Gallywix because his mother had left
them when he was very young to live out a life of piracy.
On his tenth birthday Gallywix decided to run away from his home of Drudgetown to follow
in his mother's footsteps and become a pirate king in the south sea's.
He was about to step outside the door and never become the tradeprince that we know
today until he heard his father being shaken down by a loan shark called Skezzo.
His father's ideas never went according to plan, he wasn't great at running his
business, he didn't even force his own son to work for him which was very embarrassing
to gallywix and to top it all off, Skezzo ate Gallywix's birthday cookie...which pissed
him off greatly.
In that moment he made the choice to abandon his plan of becoming a pirate and decided
to stick around.
He borrowed more money from skezzo's loan shark and promised to pay him back with interest.
That night Skezzo and his entire gang, loan shark included, showed up to collect what
was owed.
There's nothing that draws out goblin society faster than public humiliation so all around
copper street, doors opened up and the neighbors leaned out to watch.
Only Gallywix's father was gone, out to get his son a new birthday cookie and Skezzo
asked for his money.
Of course Gallywyx had his money, it was right in this bag and the leader of the copper street
gang took it without even counting the money and handed it over to his fellow gangmember
Lumpo since the bag was so heavy.
That would be the dynamite, Gallywix said and before they knew it the bomb stuffed under
the cash went off.
Skezzo, his gang and the flaming money were raining from the sky.
The future trade prince knew that this was only a temporary victory and that soon enough
other gangs would come to fill the void.
In a week he managed to convince, bribe and threaten his father and half of the businesses
on the block to join his copper street conglomerate.
He kept the cookie his father had gotten him as a reminder that no one was going to take
what was his, no matter the cost.
Years passed and Galywix grew his empire, rubbed hands with the right people, did what
ever had to be done to claim the position of trade prince of the Bilgewater Cartel.
For this he had to take down his predecessor, trade prince Maldy and despite falling in
love at first sight with Maldy's daughter Nessa, Gallywix could let not nothing stand
in his way and carried on with his plans.
He lost the girl, but he doesn't care, he has limitless wealth and power.
He still sends Nessa a new painting every year of him enjoying my riches.
In return, she sends him plain boxes wired with explosives.
Who says long-distance relationships don't work?
Now Gallywix is not the only tradeprince in the world, he's specifically tied to the
bilgewater cartel which is a part of the trade coalition, the name of the goblin's merchant
empire.
As you can see, loyalty amongst the goblins goes about as far as how much moola you have
to throw around and it's time for a new trade prince to rise up and try to challenge
Gallywix for the throne.
"The wily, cunning goblins of Kezan have lived in relative peace for generations.
Though some of their race sided with the marauding orcs during the Second War, most goblins have
remained neutral throughout the various conflicts between the Alliance and Horde.
Ruled over by corrupt yet highly affluent trade princes, the goblins created a virtual
paradise for themselves throughout the islands of the South Seas.
Their ingenious feats of engineering and vast trade fleets helped make their island capital
of Kezan one of the great technological wonders of the world, but now as the elements themselves
rise up in anger across the world, the goblins' mechanical paradise will be put to the test,
for very soon fate will force them to choose sides in a conflict that will shake the very
history of the world."
That's where come in as we've been working on our plans for years and it's time to
pull the final strings.
Sassy Hardwrench, our executive assistant lets us know that there's a bit of trouble
in the kaja'mine and foreman Dampwick needs our help.
The goblins have turned Kaja'mite into a critical ingrediant for their kaja'cola
and that bubble stuff is making us a fortune.
We need it for our promotion to trade prince so we help out Dampwick with forcing the defiant
trolls back to work and killing the tunnel worms that are litteraly eating away our profits.
As we can see, the rolls are now reversed as these trolls have been enslaved by the
goblins to mine their kaja'mite.
Lucky for us it doesn't seem to make their soft brains any smarter and after putting
things back in working order at the mine, Dampwick lets it slip that they're planning
a party in our honor.
With our brand new hot rod we pick up our 3 friends, Ace, Gobber and Izzy who are going
to help us out with getting the final things ready.
Several deadbeats hiding out in drudgetown have failed to pay up what they us so a couple
of strategic beatdowns are in order to send a message to other debtors and our competition
that we're not to be trifled with.
Of course, what's a party without a sexy new outfit.
We swing by the bank to grab some of our macaroons, don't worry about that line of goblins waiting
around, we have a hotrod and we're in line for tradeprince so special treatment is in
order.
On swindle street we buy an outfit from Szabo, who believe we're not worthy of it but he
needs the money.
Gappy sets it up with the phattest, shiniest bling he's got, phat like your momma and
Missa sells us her best pair of sunglasses.
All seems to be fine and dandy, we're well on our way and the last thing on our list
is to check in with Coach Crosscheck who's the leader of our fearless footbomb team,
the Bilgewater Buccaneers.
We're going to win the game and the title for them which is going to be great for our
image.
Our shredders are a bit broken so we collect some replacement parts and the coach has made
sure, while no one was looking, to load up some modified footbombs.
They're quite explosive and effect against the enemy team, the Steamwheedle sharks and
all we need to do is kick the winning goal.
This one is for you coach, we're gonna make you proud!
Kick ball, crowd cheers, but uhooooooo a roar is heard in the distance.
"The sun has set on this mortal world, fools.
Make peace with your end, for the hour of twilight falls!"
Deathwing is being a dick and shoots a fireball at mount something something, making the volcano
active and forcing us to evacuate.
He is kind not to burn us all instantly to a crisp though.
And our day was going so well, but the black dragon aspect Deathwing shows up to ruin the
party.
Not only has he transformed Azeroth, he's also done quite the number on old mount Kajaro
making it active once again.
The sky is falling, or more accurately the rocks that fly out of the volcano called ejecta
cools as it descends, becoming lava bombs and making life on Kazan quite deadly.
We can still make this work though, we'll just throw our party and by the time it's
over, that dragon will be long gone and the ground will stop shaking.
If not, we can always carter a ship off of the island.
In our snappy party outfit we entertain our guests, making sure that they have enough
food and drinks.
Some fireworks for their amusement, couple of dances here and there and buckets for those
that party a little bit too hard and it's a smashing success.
Gallywix is not just going to let us steal his title though as hired Southsea pirates
crash our party and ruin everything.
The trade prince himself shows up at the headquarters with a proposition.
We might have noticed that Mount Kajaro is exploding thanks to our dragon.
Everyone on Kezan is going to die, but....if we bring him a bazillion macaroons before
his yachs leave the island, he'll make sure that we are one of the lucky few to escape.
If we want to live, we better hurry and figure out how to get him his moolah.
We've been saving for a rainy day and it's raining hot liquid migma so another visit
to the first bank of kezan is in order.
With all the chaos, the bank is out of business but with our trust goblin-all-in-1-der-belt
we're able to break in and liberate our assets.
Tons of moolah is waiting to be taken from the kaja'mine, we take some kablooey bombs
to blow up the deposits as the trolls have become quite rebellious.
Gallywix himself is leaving behind some valuable treasures so lets do him a favor and steal
his Maldy's Falcon, The Goblin Lisa and the Ultimate Bomb.
They're worth a fortune, lets just hope that the trade prince doesn't notice them
when we hand them over.
As we cruise around the island, we also run over some of the trade prince's hired looters
to take what they've stolen, but all of this combined still isn't enough.
We'll have to cash in on our headquarters insurance policy.
The place has been filled with the leftover fireworks from the party.
All we have to do is overload the defective generator, activate the leaky stove, drop
a cigar on the flammable bed and use the gas bot to set our KTC headquarters ablaze.
All those beautiful memories die in the fire, but we've got all that we need.
We have enough moolah to buy our ticket outta here and set sail on Gallywix's yaught.
It might take years, but we can rebuild and take another shot at it but Gallywix has other
plans in mind.
"Who let you in here?
Well...no matter.
What do you want?"
Despite bringing him all that he asked for, including our hot rod and making him the wealthiest
most powerful goblin on all of Azeroth, he's changing the terms of our deal.
Pam pam pammmmm "Get down in the hull you worthless SLAAAAAAAAVES"
Kezan is left in the distance as we set sail as Galywix's slaves.
Their original destiny was Azshara, but they got a bit lost and ended up in a horde alliance
conflict but that's a tale for another time.
One part of Kezan that I haven't really talked about yet is called Undermine, an area
that we couldn't really get to but will become available in battle for Azeroth.
Little correction here on my part.
They haven't actually confirmed that we're going back to Undermine.
This is what was said.
The very buttom of this list is also a place that's not in kul tiras and not in zandalar...kezan.
Now this is a favorite location of ours that we have wanted to revisit for some time.
Knowing Goblins (if you do), you might not be surprised to hear that once word spread
of the substance known as Azerite, they immediately set out to dig and dig and dig and see what
they could uncover to control it for themselves; and who knows what else they found in the
process.
Should be a fun trip.
So who knows what they might find underground.
We do know we're going to return to kezan in the form of a dungeon and considered it's
underground, undermine might be part of the experience.
What we know about the place right now is that it's pretty much the capital of the
goblins and it's fate after Kajaro's eruption is unknown.
Some of the rebellios trolls that we put back to work mentioned that work was better in
the Undermine which means that troll enslavement is not an uncommon thing amongst the goblins
which could lead to some interesting moments with the zandalari joining the Horde.
The Tinkers' Union, assumed to be a trade union of goblin engineers has its headquarters
within Undermine and basically this is the place where Goblins got together in mass be
it for trading, working together, a capital city.
The warcraft rpg, which is not considered to be part of the official lore says that:
The Undermine is the center of goblin civilization.
It is located beneath and within Kezan, and is connected to the island via a series of
volcanic tunnels.
The main centers of Undermine are in volcanic caverns beneath Kezan.
Secondary island caverns exist farther away, and the goblins have constructed tunnels of
thick glass that lead to these smaller areas.
Passing through these tubes means walking along the ocean's floor and looking out
to see the colorful fish and hungry sharks nearby.
As the capital of goblin culture, Undermine teems with chaotic activity.
Goblin alchemists and tinkers practice their crafts and set off explosions.
Slave markets bustle in out-of-the-way places.
Shops and businesses of all kinds are based here, and the headquarters of the Trade Coalition,
the Venture Company and myriad other enterprises are within this city.
In Undermine, you can find the extremes on both ends: reeking slave pens in one area,
the trade princes' lavish palaces in another.
Going back there has been mentioned as far back as blizzcon 2010, 8 years ago now where
this question was asked:
I have a goblin question.
Uhm, with kezan now volcanod to death and the goblins having to integrate into Orgrimmar
and all the capital cities, will they ever try to go back to the isladn kinda like the
trolls went to their islands and the gnomes went to gnomeregan and if not, will we ever
see undermine in the game as an accesable area...at all?
Yeah, yeah totally.
I think kezan...so when you play through the goblin experience, it's a small section
of the actual whole of kezan so yea we totally wonna go back to the undermine and the rest
of the island and the islands in the area.
It's just a matter of when, can't tell ya...one day.
*wink* thank you!
Who knows what kind of damage Kajaro's erruption has caused.
Have the slave trolls been able to set themselves free or did Undermine weather the storm and
not really been effected at all?
Cool stuff to look forward too, but for now this is where the story of Kezan ends and
it's up to you to decide what zone we're going to explore next.
Do you want to continue our journey with this goblin and go to the lost isles or do you
want to see a completely different starting area?
Let me know in the comments down below!
As always thank you very much for watching everyone!
Subscribe if you like my videos, leave a like if you enjoyed this one aaaaand until next
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How Trump Could Make Divorce Rates SKYROCKET - Duration: 6:05.
DONALD TRUMP AND THE REPUBLICANS SUCCEEDED IN PASSING TAX
CUTS BUT THOSE TAX CUTS DO COST QUITE A BIT AND THEY HAVE
TO MAKE UP FOR THE HUGE BREAK THAT THE WEALTHY AND
CORPORATIONS ARE GETTING THROUGH THIS NEW TAX LAW.
ONE WAY THAT THEY HAVE DONE IT IS THEY HAVE GOTTEN RID OF
CERTAIN DEDUCTIONS.
ALIMONY WAS SOMETHING THAT PEOPLE WHO HAD JUST GOTTEN A
DIVORCE COULD DEDUCT FROM THEIR TAXES BUT LITTLE KNOWN FACT IS
THAT THIS NEW TAX PLAN ACTUALLY GETS RID OF THAT DEDUCTION AND
IT IS GOING TO LEAD TO SIGNIFICANT PROBLEMS FOR
DIVORCING COUPLES, WHICH IS WHY RIGHT NOW DIVORCE LAWYERS ARE
URGING PEOPLE TO GET THROUGH THEIR DIVORCE AS SOON AS
POSSIBLE BEFORE THIS PORTION OF THE LAW KICKS IN
IN 2019.
LET ME GIVE YOU THE DETAILS.
SO THEY GET TO DEDUCT A PORTION OF IT, MEANING THAT THEY
DON'T ACTUALLY SPEND THE ENTIRE AMOUNT ON ALIMONY.
ALSO, PREVIOUSLY THE INDIVIDUAL RECEIVING THE ALIMONY
PAYMENTS WOULD HAVE TO PAY TAXES ON THAT INCOME.
UNDER THIS NEW TAX PLAN, NO, THEY DON'T HAVE TO WHICH IS
REALLY STRANGE.
BUT THAT IS EARNED INCOME.
WHY WOULDN'T YOU GET TAXED ON IT BUT THE PERSON WHO IS GIVING IT
TO YOU DOESN'T GET TO USE THAT MONEY, THEY GIVE IT RIGHT TO THE
OTHER PERSON BUT THEY GET TAXED ON IT.
IT'S WEIRD AND ONE OF THE THINGS, I THINK IT MAKES SENSE
TO DEDUCT IT AND THE REASON FOR THAT IS YOU DO ACTUALLY HAVE TO
PAY IT AND ONCE YOU PAY IT THAT IS MONEY YOU DO NOT HAVE
ENHANCED LESS MONEY YOU MADE THAT YEAR IN A SENSE BUT NOW
THEY ARE SAYING NO, YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO DEDUCT IT SOLD
COURSE YOU KNOW WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN.
THAT MEANS THAT PEOPLE WILL OFFER LESSON IN ALIMONY.
IF THEY THOUGHT THEY WERE ACTUALLY PAYING $.60
ON THE DOLLAR THEY CAN AFFORD TO OFFER MORE.
THAT IS WHAT DIFFERENT DIVORCE LAWYERS ARE PANICKING RIGHT NOW.
YOU CAN SAY NO BIG DEAL, THAT IS JUST WHAT IS HAPPENING AND
IT'S OUR JOB TO REPORT IT AND IT WILL CERTAINLY AFFECT THOSE
ALIMONY PAYMENTS AND YES, NOW PEOPLE WILL PAY LESS
BECAUSE OF THIS ISSUE.
TO ME THERE IS A BIGGER ISSUE ABOUT TEXAS OVERALL THAT WE
WILL GET TO IN A SECOND BUT I WANT TO CONVEY TO YOU THE
SENSE OF PANIC WHICH I'M SLIGHTLY AMUSED BY.
THE FORMER CHAIR OF THE AMERICAN BAR ASSOCIATION SECTION ON
FAMILY
LIFE SAYS:
I LOVE THE QUOTES IN THE ARTICLE, BUT ALSO, I LEARNED SO
MUCH ABOUT DIVORCES THAT I DID NOT LOOK INTO EVER AND, IT
DOESN'T MATTER, I'M SURE IT WILL NEVER AFFECT ME.
CALIFORNIA.
CALIFORNIA HAS TO CHILL OUT WITH ALL THIS DIVORCE STUFF.
DID YOU KNOW IN CALIFORNIA YOU CANNOT GET DIVORCED WITHIN
A WEEK OR A MONTH?
THERE'S LIKE A SIX-MONTH PERIOD THAT YOU HAVE TO WAIT
BEFORE YOUR ARE FINALLY OFFICIALLY DIVORCED.
IT'S CALLED A COOLING-OFF PHASE.
I DON'T LIKE THAT.
AND THERE ARE COOLING-OFF PERIODS IN
OTHER STATES LIKE PENNSYLVANIA WHERE IS ACTUALLY LONGER,
YOU HAVE TO WAIT A YEAR.
THAT IS WHY DIVORCE LAWYERS ARE PANICKING NOW,
ESPECIALLY IN CALIFORNIA WHERE THERE ARE SOME HIGH DOLLAR
DIVORCES AND THEY ARE LIKELY, YOU DO NOT GET IT, YOU HAVE TO
SAY YOU'RE GETTING DIVORCED, THE OTHER SIDE HAS TO AGREE, THERE
ARE ALL THESE THINGS AND THEN YOU HAVE TO WAIT SIX MONTHS.
THEY'RE TELLING ALL OF THEIR CLIENTS, IF YOU ARE
SLIGHTLY UPSET IN YOUR MARRIAGE, GET DIVORCED NOW.
IT IS KIND OF CRAZY.
BY THE WAY, PARTY OF FAMILY VALUES.
SO NOW THE LARGER POINT ABOUT TAXES OVERALL.
WHAT DID I TELL YOU?
THEY ARE GIVING A GIANT TAX CUT TO CORPORATIONS.
THEY HAVE TO GET IT FROM SOMEWHERE.
WHEN A REPUBLICAN CONGRESSMAN WAS ASKED ON TELEVISION CAN
YOU NAME ONE CORPORATE LOOPHOLE THAT YOU GUYS TOOK AWAY?
HE COULDN'T NAME ONE.
WHEN IT COMES TO LOOPHOLES FOR YOU GUYS OR I WOULD ARGUE,
IT'S NOT A LOOPHOLE, LOGICAL DEDUCTION, NO, FOR THE
REGULAR PERSON WE'RE TAKING IT AWAY SO THEY HAD TO GET THE
MONEY FROM SOMEWHERE.
THEY STILL HAVE ONE AND A HALF TRILLION DOLLAR EXTRA
DEFICIT THAT THEY CREATED BUT LIKE I TOLD YOU, THAT IS
NOT THE ONLY MONEY.
THE REALITY OF THE TAX CUTS FOR THE RICH AND CORPORATIONS,
IT'S ABOUT 6 TRILLION SO THE OTHER FOR NATURALLY HAD TO
COME FROM SOMEWHERE AND WHERE DOES IT COME FROM?
YOU.
THEY TOOK AWAY YOUR DEDUCTIONS BUT TOOK AWAY NONE OF THE
LOOPHOLES FOR CORPORATIONS THAT WHEN A PERSON IS ABOUT TAX
REFORM THEY SAID IT IS NOT A TAX CUT, TAX REFORM.
WE'RE GOING TO GET RID OF THE LOOPHOLE SO CORPORATIONS
CANNOT SHEET AND THEN LOWER THEIR RATES.
AND ALSO KEEP IN MIND HOW THEY SELL THE WAY THAT THEY
GOT RID OF ALL OF THESE DEDUCTIONS.
WE ARE TRYING TO SIMPLIFY THE TAX CODE, IT IS TOO
COMPLICATED TO GIVE THE MIDDLE COUNT CLASS AND THE WORKING
CLASS ANY DEDUCTIONS.
THE CORPORATIONS CAN KEEP THEIR DEDUCTIONS AND THEIR
LOOPHOLES, THAT IS NOT LOOP COMPLICATED.
THE DUTCH SANDWICH AND IRISH DOUBLE, WHATEVER THEY ARE
CALLED, THERE THESE CRAZY TAX LOOPHOLES, THEY ALL STILL EXIST.
THEY ARE NORMATIVELY, LOCATED, BUT THEY'RE GOING TO CREATE
THE JOBS.
HIGH-PAYING JOBS.
SURE.
BY THE WAY, HOW IS THAT MARKET WORKING OUT FOR YOU GUYS?
TRUMP IS NOT BRAGGING ABOUT THE STOCK MARKET TODAY, IS HE?
OOPS.
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Comment them questions and I'll do them answers - Duration: 1:10.
Waddup guys, it's me, Jam Campasta
And if you haven't noticed yet, I just made to to 60,000 subscribers!
Y-Yay
So, I actually wanna do a Q & A with my
real life face
answering the questions
I'm not big- I'm not really big on looking directly at this face
So this is gonna be probably a rarity
But yeah, if you got any questions or
whatever the heck just comment below on this video specifically
No other videos, just this one
Uh, and I'll try and answer them in the next one with my face
But if there are questions that I've already answered like
What art or editing program I've used
Which are... in the description by the way
if you just wanna... check there every once in a while
Then it's probably not gonna make it into the video, sorry
So, shoot me some questions
and once I have enough and don't need this video anymore I will probably
just make it unlisted because
I hate deleting stuff
And...
That's pretty much it...
That's pretty much it, that's all I got to say, alright
Bye!
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SNIPERS, ALIENS & GIANT ROBOTS? OH MY! | Cosmic Star Heroine - Part 21 - Duration: 16:06.
Welcome back to Cosmic Star Heroine!
jetsetnickradio here!
And in the last episode, I finally finished the scavenger hunt...
And I think I'm pretty much done with the Freedom Festival now.
Um...
I'm pretty sure I've talked to everyone.
I'm not sure, (but) I don't think I have anything else to do here...
Other then to um... I guess leave!
Or try to leave, anyway! *laughs*
Um...
There's Paws, the alien cat I fought in the last episode.
Now, I'm pretty sure I'm supposed to go up this way into the back alley.
Because, if I remember right, someone said that there were members of Astrea meeting back here.
So let's see if they were right or not!
Oh? Okay.
"This should be the place. I hope I don't have to wait long."
Uh oh, it's Commander Steele!
"I've been expecting you."
"Steele!"
*Alyssa whips her weapon*
Ha! That was sassy, freaking waving her staff like that! *laughs*
"So hasty! Before you do anything rash, why not have a few words with your friend?"
Aw, he's got Dave!
"Sorry, Alyssa."
"Dave!"
"We haven't found the gunmancer yet, but it's only a matter of time."
"Now, if you don't want me to execute your friend on the spot, you'll give yourself up without a fight."
You know what, Commander Steele? That's fine. I kind of hate Dave, go ahead and execute him! *laughs*
He's an asshole! *laughs*
Actually no, I'm kidding! Don't execute him! 'Cause even though he's an ass, he's actually a pretty decent party member.
Like, he's good in battle.
"Don't do it, Alyssa! Save yourself!"
"Can you hear me?"
"I'm with Astrea and we've got things under control. Play along with them for now. We'll get you two out without a scratch."
"Very well. I concede defeat."
"Smart girl. Although it was rather foolhardy of you to show up here in the first place."
"Coming to a well-known Astrea meeting spot, you were practically asking to be captured."
"Pursuant to the Agency of Peace and Intelligence Loyalty Act of 2959, all traitors are to be dealt with by public execution."
"But given your years of exemplary service before you lost your mind, I'm willing to sweeten the deal."
"What do you have in mind?"
"A martyr makes for a better public narrative than a mere execution. And if you play nice, I might even spare your friends."
Oh... So he wants us to die for the cause.
"At this wonderful festival, we celebrate the freedom that we have under the watchful eye of the Agency of Peace and Intelligence."
"For many years, brave and selfless members of the agency have worked tirelessly to secure our shared freedom."
"Why, just a few days ago a brave agent defeated evil and saved our wonderful city from total destruction."
"And today, I'd like to introduce you to that agent."
"Please welcome a true heroine for our time, Alyssa L'Salle."
Haha!
Ah, I love these cutscenes!
Oh no!
No, don't do it!
Alyssa, dodge!
Dodge!
Get out of the way!
"Dominic Steele whispers into your ear."
"Yes, that's right. Wave for the people. Put on a happy face so that your death will be all the more tragic."
"Alyssa, today is not your lucky day."
"I would have loved to have fought you face-to-face, but orders are orders."
"Just a few more seconds..."
(A bullet hits the wall, missing Alyssa, and the crowd screams.)
*chuckles*
"Agh!"
"Nobody kills my friends!"
Oh, I love Lauren!
*laughs*
Echo seems kind of cool, too, but...
"Don't think you're getting away with anything. I always get my mark in the end."
*laughs* She just jumped off the building!
Probably had a rappel rope or something like that.
"Alyssa's safe. How are things on your end?"
"We rescued Dave and are heading to the meeting point we discussed earlier."
"I'm going to regroup with Alyssa. See you in a bit."
Aw, it's this guy again. *laughs*
"Alyssa! Are you injured?"
"No, I'm okay. That was too close for comfort."
"I had no idea you were a secret agent! That's so... righteous!"
"There could still be threats. As a member of the police force, it's up to ME to ensure that you leave here safely!"
"Officer, come with us! We must escort Alyssa to safety."
"Yes, sir!"
"Who goes there? Identify yourself!"
Oh God! What's with this guy?! *laughs*
I don't even know how to pronounce his name!
Zzz... Xur?
Zorv?
Zorv? Zurv? I don't know.
"A large bounty just went up with your name attached to it, Alyssa L'Salle. Nothing personal."
OOH! He just killed that generic police officer.
Whoa!
I don't like this Finn guy, but at least he seems like a decent shot.
"Two versus one? That's hardly fair... for you."
"Sorry, I'm late! Did I miss anything?"
"Same old story. This bounty hunter wants to kill me."
"Well, we can't have that. Not after I went to all the trouble to have you not die!"
"Another fighter enters the ring? My, my, this could be interesting."
It's... battle time!
Looks like Lauren gets the first strike. Okay!
Let's see...
"Z'xorv. A freelance bounty hunter, always searching for the next kill."
He's got 2,500 HP and no weaknesses.
Huh...
I bet I can poison him, though!
Let's see...
Yep, he's poisoned! Sweet.
Alright.
Throw some water at him!
And okay, so here's Finn!
Um...
He's got a generic shooting attack.
"Cover Fire. Damage to all enemies. Inflicts disarm."
Okay, that seems kind of cool.
"Hide from enemies. One ally. Reusable."
Okay.
"Stinging Fly. Buff. Attacks also inflict enrage."
"Defense Stance. Buff. Defenses up."
"Heat Up. Increases in damage with each use."
"Second Wind. Restores HP and cures user's ailments."
And Entrench, which is his Defend move.
"Makes him more likely to be targeted."
So, it looks like Finn's deal is, um...
He kinda...
I guess he's kind of a tank?
He um...
He takes aggro, or attention, away from your other party members while also simultaneously buffing them.
So, it's interesting.
Um...
Hmm...
Okay, his defense buff move only works on one character. But I'm gonna use it on him, because he seems to take a lot of heat from the enemies.
Hm...
It seems like a pretty easy battle so far, but I have a tendency to say that and then things go south...
*laughs* So we'll see.
Huh...
Hm...
Lauren has a lot of really good attacks. I like how most of her attacks also have a chance to inflict some kind of status ailment.
Or, you know, something along those lines.
Sweet, stunned him.
Okay, so this guy is a little under a 1,000 HP left, so...
Yeah, this battle's going pretty quick. He won't be alive much longer.
Huh. I forget who has my Void Bullet now.
It's not Alyssa. I think I gave it to Chahn...
Okay.
So, (we'll) go ahead and heal Lauren. The poison has been taking a toll on her.
Oh, wait. It won't let me?
Huh. I guess I'll use it on Finn then.
Oh, yeah! I forgot Lauren has the party regen song!
Ah, yeah, I should have used that earlier!
That's a really good move.
I'm gonna also cast Heal on her, too.
And we disarmed him.
Um.. I'm running out of attacks to use. I better defend.
He's only got 378 HP left, that's cool.
This battle's almost over!
Booyah! He's down!
And Lauren leveled up and learned Swift Breeze! but speed up adds wind to attacks
"Buff. Speed Up. Adds wind to attacks."
Nice!
"Excellent form and tactical awareness... I can see why your bounty is so high."
"You're not so bad yourself."
"I'm afraid an even bigger mark has presented itself, though. Another time, perhaps?"
"Another mark?"
"Look up!" (Said in a silly voice)
*snickers*
Oh God, what's this?
Aw, they're about to drop a robot in on us, aren't they?
Aw, that thing is huge!
Freaking badass!
Aw, I love giant robots.
"We can't let that mech destroy the city. Come on!"
Alright!
Looks like we have a giant robot battle to look forward to soon!
Ah, I'm getting excited!
Look forward to it in the next episode! I know I am!
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If Valentine's Day was HONEST - Duration: 3:14.
So, like every year I'm going to ask you what we're doing for Valentine's Day
in hopes that this year you actually planned something.
I actually completely forgot about Valentine's Day,
but since you reminded me I'm going to tell you it's a 'surprise'
So it gives me more time to make last minute plans.
I know you planned nothing.
You're completely right.
Ahh, nothing like the smell of throwing $20 away just so she can leave these on the counter
and forget about them 5 minutes later.
Here is me giving you an excuse as to why I took so long, but really
I just always take forever.
Trust me, I already know and I hate it. But I'm going to tell you it's okay any way.
Oh, and here are some things I bought for you five minutes ago!
Awe, you always get me the cheapest flowers!
A teddy bear? What I'm I, five?
Chocolates, I'm allergic!
But here's a sign of affection to show you how much I love them.
Your fake enthusiasm is really spot on.
Yea, well I fake a lot of things with you.
Oh, we should probably head out to the date that I barely planned out yesterday!
And we're probably going to be late because you took too long as usual, so yea.
So because I waited until last minute to make dinner plans
every restaurant I called was already booked.
So now we have to eat at a park under the disguise of a 'romantic picnic'.
And see, I'm going to tell you that this was a really cute idea, but in reality it sucks
because I wanted a steak dinner. So here's another sign of fake affection.
Thank you for that, now I think that this was actually a good idea.
I love free food.
So before we start let me give your present that was hand-picked, by my sister.
Oh my gosh, I'm really hoping it's an engagement ring.
It's not.
Awe, a keychain! You always know how to un-impress me.
I'm feeling like an accomplished boyfriend that actually did Valentine's Day right for once.
I love you.
And I tolerate you.
Oh, but let's post a picture of ourselves on social media so we can show the rest of the world
our 'perfect relationship', when in reality we always argue every day.
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Young Gun GOP Rep. Matt Gaetz Slams AG Jeff Sessions With 1 Brutal Demand - Duration: 4:13.
Young Gun GOP Rep. Matt Gaetz Slams Lazy AG Jeff Sessions With 1 Brutal Demand.
After refusing to do his job, our do-nothing Attorney General Jeff Sessions is getting
slammed by young-gun Rep. Matt Gaetz (R-FL) with one brutal demand.
You don't want to miss this.
Matt Gaetz, who serves on the House Intelligence Committee with Rep. Devin Nunes (R-CA), recently
appeared on Fox News "Watters World" with Jesse Watters where he took Sessions to task
over his complete and utter failure to prosecute criminals within our Department of Justice
and FBI, according to Breitbart.
In the video clip, Gaetz has one demand for Sessions on behalf of American patriots, "real
consequences."
Watters begins the clip by asking Gaetz to bring his audience up to speed on corruption
within the FBI and Department of Justice.
"All right Matt, so let's advance the story.
These two knuckleheads, Page and Strzok, still actually working at the FBI.
First of all, why?
Second of all; When are they going to get hauled down in front of Congress to testify
under oath?"
Watters asked.
Matt Gaetz begins his response with one brutal demand for Attorney General Jeff Sessions.
"Well, we need real consequences Jesse, and it's ludicrous to me that you would
take these adulterers and then put Peter Strzok in charge of the H.R. Department of all things.
That would be like putting me in charge of the capitol nutrition program," Gaetz said.
"I would suggest that the American people are hungry for real action here and they're
skeptical because we don't want this to become another Benghazi where we discover
all the facts that you've laid out but then no one suffers consequences," Gaetz added.
Watters responds with some ugly truth about how the FBI and Department of Justice are
forming an alliance against President Donald Trump and Congress.
"You have now the FBI and the Justice Department aligned against Congress and President Trump,"
Watters said.
"Who wins here?"
Matt Gaetz doesn't waste any time in delivering the response we wanted to hear.
"My expectation is that the American people will win through the appointment of a second
Special Counsel but that is going to require the Attorney General Jeff Sessions to do his
job.
The FBI and the Department of Justice cannot investigate themselves and the evidence we've
uncovered shows wrongdoing at the highest levels of those agencies," Gaetz said.
Watters responded with a crucial question about Sessions' power to appoint a second
Special Counsel after recusing himself.
"Does Sessions have the authority since he kind of recused himself from Russia matters
to appoint a second independent counsel?" he asked
Gaetz was quick on the draw with his response directed at our do-nothing Attorney General.
"Of course he does!
There was no legal obligation for that recusal and frankly, I don't even know what the
four corners of that recusal are.
Here, the accusation is not against Russia, it's against the very agency that Jeff Sessions
leads, the Department of Justice, and some of the senior politicized leadership at the
FBI.
So, he could appoint that Special Counsel.
More than two dozen Republicans have joined me in calling for it and it's darn time
that it happened," Gaetz said.
Matt Gaetz is one hundred percent correct.
Jeff Sessions could easily call for a second Special Counsel to investigate corruption
within the Department of Justice and the FBI if he actually wanted to do his job.
American patriots are beyond sick and tired of Sessions, and he needs to go immediately.
Sessions took a job fully knowing that right after he was sworn in, he was going to recuse
himself.
That is an unforgivable act on Sessions part.
The bottom line is that Sessions is no better than former FBI Director James Comey or the
politicized FBI agents who helped him cover for Hillary Clinton and attack Trump.
Sessions should be ashamed of himself for deceiving Trump and the American people.
He won't do his job, and he needs to go now.
What do you think about this?
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Q-Tip Previewed an Unreleased Kendrick Lamar Collaboration on his 'Abstract Radio' Show - Duration: 1:19.
Hey guys for Complex News, I'm Natasha Martinez.
You never know what's going to happen on Q-Tip's Abstract Radio show on Apple's Beats 1.
He's previously included gems like a two-hour tribute to his friend and collaborator Prodigy
of Mobb Deep, and now on Friday's show he offered another special moment with a previously
unreleased Kendrick Lamar collaboration.
Q-Tip played the track, unofficially titled "Want U 2 Want," at approximately the
1 minute and 42 second mark of his mix Friday.
Keys, synths, and a guitar loop power the collaboration as both Kendrick and Q-Tip rap
about their loves.
This isn't the first collaboration between Kendrick Lamar and Q-Tip. Kendrick appeared
on "Conrad Tokyo" from A Tribe Called Quest's final album 'We Got It from Here...
Thank You 4 Your Service.'
The origins of "Want U 2 Want" are unclear, as Kendrick and Q-Tip were spotted hitting
the studio as far back as 2012.
Prior to A Tribe Called Quest's 2016 swan song, Q-Tip had reportedly been working on
a solo project entitled The Last Zulu.
Q-Tip also dropped a collaboration with Demi Lovato entitled "Don't Go Breaking My Heart"—an
Elton John and Kiki Dee cover—at the 1:59 mark of his mix.
You can hear Q-Tip's entire mix via Apple Music.
That's your news for now, for more on this and the rest of today's stories subscribe
to Complex on YouTube.
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Demonstrate More Love and Validation - Duration: 10:45.
- If you can consciously demonstrate love to people,
it doesn't matter family, friends, lovers, team,
and I don't mean, none of this is woo-woo.
This is just the reality of how your brain works,
that you desire this so much.
Give it.
Give, and you shall receive.
What do you want in life?
Give it.
Watch it evidence, propagate out there,
and then you'll have more of it.
Give and you shall receive.
Give and you shall receive.
Some of you, this is an irrelevant conversation,
because you're just fine.
You're loving your relationship.
You're like, dude, I'm so in love right now.
I can't even hear you.
I've got songs in my head.
I see us dancing.
I'm imagining us having sex.
You're like, in a great place.
(audience laughs)
For those who aren't there,
it's time to go, huh, how could I demonstrate more love?
How could I do it?
Turn to the person left or right,
put your hand on their shoulders,
and say, all we want is love.
- [Audience] All we want is love.
- What else do we so desperately desire?
What else do we so desperately desire?
It's a little different.
Validation.
What a psychological ninja trip trick this one is.
(audience laughs)
We wanna be accepted, we wanna be love, but no,
we have a pride to our ego that needs to be validated.
Good job, honey.
If we don't feel like we get enough of that growing up,
oh, my gosh.
In high school, elementary school, when you're
the odd person out, the group hasn't validated you,
that can leave a mark.
Most people around today are running through their lives,
and they're forgetting how much they want this
and how much other people want this.
When we teach leadership lessons and high performance,
we're always saying, here's what you've gotta imagine.
You gotta imagine, on everyone you meet,
there's a big billboard on their head
that just says, please see me.
Please listen to me.
Please understand me.
Please acknowledge me.
That's all anyone wants from you,
and that's what you want.
Please see me.
Just please, see me.
Please listen to me.
Please care about what I'm saying.
Please acknowledge me in some way.
And when we don't have that,
we feel horrible.
When we don't have that in a relationship,
it doesn't matter.
Even at work, when someone shares an idea,
listen to this.
If you're in a work environment where someone shares ideas,
and at the end of their sentence, no one acknowledges it,
says, I like that, don't like that, try this, try this,
let me write that down, good idea, great suggestion,
let's mark that down, when someone speaks it,
and there's no acknowledgement, the odds are,
their contributions to the team will go down by 50%,
'cause why contribute any ideas anymore?
It doesn't even matter.
You could debate.
You could actually debate with them.
At least they still feel acknowledged.
You interacted.
You engaged with the idea.
That's all they want, right?
You don't have to improve it.
Just like when your little child comes up to you
with a toy they just completely dismantled,
or something that you really cared about,
that they completely dismantled?
All they're, they just want validation that they're there.
You can still say no, but you gotta engage.
Without the engagement, remember, we lose the charged life,
and one way to put more charge back in your life
is to start validating people.
I hear you.
I understand.
Oh, interesting.
Doesn't even matter.
Especially for those of you who are struggling
in a relationship right now, start noticing
how often someone finishes a period and you don't
say anything, because that's where you're in trouble.
They're sharing and they're communicating,
and you're stonewalling or not contributing.
So the relationship doesn't feel
like it's being built by two people.
It is report out by one person.
Avoid by the other person.
(audience laughs)
Report by one person,
then, instead of taking that and using it
as a magical thing to build something together,
it's a report out for Person B.
Person A reports, Person B reports.
Person A reports, Person B reports.
But there's no dance.
There's no co-mingling of idea,
and thus, there's no connection.
How many follow?
Raise your hands.
It's a huge psychological frame.
Remember, if you could just trigger that,
people want to be validated.
It doesn't mean you have to make them right.
It means you have to make them feel heard.
And once you master that, everything changes.
Once you realize that's what you need,
you'll notice why you're unhappy in certain places.
Why am I unhappy at work?
Did you know, the number-one reason globally,
globally, across all industries, all companies,
in every country, found by the Gallup,
their big, massive workforce study,
the number-one reason people quit a job, what is it?
Lack of appreciation.
That's validation.
They're not being...
The number-one reason that people quit a job
is lack of appreciation.
How many of you think you could also
translate that a little bit to marriage?
It's like, of course.
They don't feel appreciated.
They don't feel validated.
Boom, you're out of there.
How many of you have ever been
in a relationship where no one validated you?
Anyone ever been in that?
Right?
Did you get out?
Okay, did you want out?
We truly want validation.
That's it.
I hear you is one of the most powerful things you can say.
You want the one that doesn't?
Think about the opposite.
Think about if you said to somebody,
like, imagine walking up to someone and saying,
I don't care about what you think.
Anyone ever said that to you?
I don't care what you think?
It's not just, these things aren't psychological frames.
These are human needs.
These are drives, but they frame everything.
I'll tell you, when someone says,
I don't care what you think,
your first impulse is to strike at them.
(audience laughs)
Is that crazy?
Isn't it true?
Your first, you have to stop.
But it's such a dominant frame that if someone says,
I don't care what you think, you're like.
Well, screw you!
I mean, try it.
Walk up to some stranger and go, I don't care about you.
(audience laughs)
You know what?
Just in case you really are into physical damage, smile.
I don't care about you.
(audience laughs)
The bigger, the cheesier the smile,
the more absolutely hurt you're going to get.
But that's what people are doing.
In our modern era, this is what people,
you know what's become popular?
You know what's funny now?
You know what's funny?
Being critical.
You know what's funny now suddenly in comedy,
on television and everything?
It's that person who makes
the smart, cutting judgment about somebody.
That sarcasm has become so valued,
that critical negging on others,
making fun of people.
That's what's become valued in our marketplace.
And this is why, as a global community, more and more
and more people are suffering from lack of validation,
because people now take joy in stabbing people.
People take joy in making fun of people.
And we gotta change that.
We gotta shift that around.
We gotta be, people, if you wanna lead others
and you wanna make a dramatic difference in the world,
you better learn to value people
and validate their experience.
Much of my work in my life is
just validating people's experiences.
Like, it's okay that it's hard.
It's okay that you're struggling.
Honor that struggle.
Don't detach from it.
Honor it.
Validate that this is hard, but don't run from it.
Validate it.
It's okay.
Sometimes it's not just validating a person.
It's validating your own challenges, you.
Your self worth is tied to this psychological frame.
Do I validate myself as a person, or am I the person
being a sarcastic ass to myself?
Am I the person lacking the ability
to give myself validation?
Sometimes, this isn't just social frames.
This is psychological frames.
It's inside.
Some of you haven't given yourself credit
in so damn long.
You're beautiful.
You're smart.
You made it this far.
You're more worth than you give yourself credit for.
You can figure this out, too.
You do deserve happiness.
You are ready for that next stage.
And sometimes, you just gotta own that
in your heart a little bit.
(upbeat electronic music)
Thanks for watching.
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As Inept AG Jeff Sessions Ignores Criminal Evidence, Devin Nunes Has 1 Brutal Question - Duration: 4:22.
As Inept AG Jeff Sessions Ignores Criminal Evidence, Devin Nunes Has 1 Brutal Question
Inept Attorney General Jeff Sessions has done absolutely nothing with the mountain of evidence
proving ex-British spy Christopher Steele lied to the FBI.
Now, Rep. Devin Nunes (R-CA) has one brutal question for him.
Millions of American patriots watched in shock as the House Intelligence Committee and Senate
Judiciary Committee dropped a barrage of damning evidence on corrupt deep state operatives
within the DOJ and FBI in the past couple of weeks.
Included in the damning reports was absolute proof that ex-British spy Christopher Steele
lied to the FBI, but no charges have been brought against him.
Now, House Intelligence Committee Chairman Devin Nunes (R-CA) has one brutal question
that many people want to have answered.
"What is the Department of Justice doing?"
Sadly, the answer to that question is "not a thing."
Attorney General Jeff Sessions appears to be nothing more than an insulator for the
deep state to ensure that none of their criminal acts come back to bite them.
According to The Gateway Pundit, Nunes recently appeared on Fox News' Sunday Morning Futures
with Maria Bartiromo, where he discussed the Obama deep state war against Donald Trump.
In his remarks, Nunes slammed Sessions' Department of Justice for being absent in
the wake of a mountain of evidence coming out with which Steele could be charged immediately.
The big question posed by Nunes is a crucial one.
Why hasn't the DOJ even begun to prosecute the crooks within the DOJ and FBI, in addition
to Steele?
Bartiromo asked Nunes to tell her viewers where all the investigations and evidence
were leading.
"We want to know where this is all leading Congressman because that memo from Lindsey
Graham and Chuck Grassley confirms everything basically in your memo, but it also recommends
charges.
Tell us about those charges that this memo is recommending.
Charges against the British spy Christopher Steele," she said.
"The good thing about the Grassley-Graham memo, not only was it a criminal referral
to Justice, it was written before our memo was put together.
So, essentially, what it does is, it corroborates what we said.
And it goes further than that and it really points out how Christopher Steele lied to
the FBI.
So, it is a clear-cut case.
Christopher Steele lied to the FBI," Nunes began.
"And, I can't for the life of me know that when you have the House who said this
guy lied to the FBI, and you have the Senate who said this guy lied to the FBI, Christopher
Steele, what is the Justice Department doing?" he continued.
"Where is the prosecution of Christopher Steele?
This is a slam dunk case that they have all the documents.
And, this is what makes people really wonder and have confidence that the DOJ and FBI are
playing this straight up."
Bartiromo also addressed the President's refusal to release Adam Schiff's response
memo and asked Nunes to explain what her viewers needed to understand about the Democrats'
unreleased document.
"First off, this was not a surprise," Nunes said.
"So, this was after they had accused Republicans of putting sources and methods into our memo.
We actually did not.
We just put in what we thought the American people needed to know.
It was clear from the development of the Democratic memo from the very beginning that they packed
it full of sources and methods," Nunes added.Devin Nunes went on to explain that Democrats knew
President Donald Trump could not release their memo because of its contents but that they
wanted to make Trump look like he was being unfair.
There's no surprise here with the Democrats on the House Intelligence Committee.
They have been playing dirty from day one and are now continuing to hijack the rule
of law.
Thank God, there are people like Nunes in office who aren't afraid to take on the
deep state and its liberal tools on behalf of American patriots.
Nunes' efforts have been nothing less than heroic, and I could not agree more with his
statements on our do nothing Attorney General Jeff Sessions.
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How Trump Could Make Divorce Rates SKYROCKET - Duration: 6:05.
DONALD TRUMP AND THE REPUBLICANS SUCCEEDED IN PASSING TAX
CUTS BUT THOSE TAX CUTS DO COST QUITE A BIT AND THEY HAVE
TO MAKE UP FOR THE HUGE BREAK THAT THE WEALTHY AND
CORPORATIONS ARE GETTING THROUGH THIS NEW TAX LAW.
ONE WAY THAT THEY HAVE DONE IT IS THEY HAVE GOTTEN RID OF
CERTAIN DEDUCTIONS.
ALIMONY WAS SOMETHING THAT PEOPLE WHO HAD JUST GOTTEN A
DIVORCE COULD DEDUCT FROM THEIR TAXES BUT LITTLE KNOWN FACT IS
THAT THIS NEW TAX PLAN ACTUALLY GETS RID OF THAT DEDUCTION AND
IT IS GOING TO LEAD TO SIGNIFICANT PROBLEMS FOR
DIVORCING COUPLES, WHICH IS WHY RIGHT NOW DIVORCE LAWYERS ARE
URGING PEOPLE TO GET THROUGH THEIR DIVORCE AS SOON AS
POSSIBLE BEFORE THIS PORTION OF THE LAW KICKS IN
IN 2019.
LET ME GIVE YOU THE DETAILS.
SO THEY GET TO DEDUCT A PORTION OF IT, MEANING THAT THEY
DON'T ACTUALLY SPEND THE ENTIRE AMOUNT ON ALIMONY.
ALSO, PREVIOUSLY THE INDIVIDUAL RECEIVING THE ALIMONY
PAYMENTS WOULD HAVE TO PAY TAXES ON THAT INCOME.
UNDER THIS NEW TAX PLAN, NO, THEY DON'T HAVE TO WHICH IS
REALLY STRANGE.
BUT THAT IS EARNED INCOME.
WHY WOULDN'T YOU GET TAXED ON IT BUT THE PERSON WHO IS GIVING IT
TO YOU DOESN'T GET TO USE THAT MONEY, THEY GIVE IT RIGHT TO THE
OTHER PERSON BUT THEY GET TAXED ON IT.
IT'S WEIRD AND ONE OF THE THINGS, I THINK IT MAKES SENSE
TO DEDUCT IT AND THE REASON FOR THAT IS YOU DO ACTUALLY HAVE TO
PAY IT AND ONCE YOU PAY IT THAT IS MONEY YOU DO NOT HAVE
ENHANCED LESS MONEY YOU MADE THAT YEAR IN A SENSE BUT NOW
THEY ARE SAYING NO, YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO DEDUCT IT SOLD
COURSE YOU KNOW WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN.
THAT MEANS THAT PEOPLE WILL OFFER LESSON IN ALIMONY.
IF THEY THOUGHT THEY WERE ACTUALLY PAYING $.60
ON THE DOLLAR THEY CAN AFFORD TO OFFER MORE.
THAT IS WHAT DIFFERENT DIVORCE LAWYERS ARE PANICKING RIGHT NOW.
YOU CAN SAY NO BIG DEAL, THAT IS JUST WHAT IS HAPPENING AND
IT'S OUR JOB TO REPORT IT AND IT WILL CERTAINLY AFFECT THOSE
ALIMONY PAYMENTS AND YES, NOW PEOPLE WILL PAY LESS
BECAUSE OF THIS ISSUE.
TO ME THERE IS A BIGGER ISSUE ABOUT TEXAS OVERALL THAT WE
WILL GET TO IN A SECOND BUT I WANT TO CONVEY TO YOU THE
SENSE OF PANIC WHICH I'M SLIGHTLY AMUSED BY.
THE FORMER CHAIR OF THE AMERICAN BAR ASSOCIATION SECTION ON
FAMILY
LIFE SAYS:
I LOVE THE QUOTES IN THE ARTICLE, BUT ALSO, I LEARNED SO
MUCH ABOUT DIVORCES THAT I DID NOT LOOK INTO EVER AND, IT
DOESN'T MATTER, I'M SURE IT WILL NEVER AFFECT ME.
CALIFORNIA.
CALIFORNIA HAS TO CHILL OUT WITH ALL THIS DIVORCE STUFF.
DID YOU KNOW IN CALIFORNIA YOU CANNOT GET DIVORCED WITHIN
A WEEK OR A MONTH?
THERE'S LIKE A SIX-MONTH PERIOD THAT YOU HAVE TO WAIT
BEFORE YOUR ARE FINALLY OFFICIALLY DIVORCED.
IT'S CALLED A COOLING-OFF PHASE.
I DON'T LIKE THAT.
AND THERE ARE COOLING-OFF PERIODS IN
OTHER STATES LIKE PENNSYLVANIA WHERE IS ACTUALLY LONGER,
YOU HAVE TO WAIT A YEAR.
THAT IS WHY DIVORCE LAWYERS ARE PANICKING NOW,
ESPECIALLY IN CALIFORNIA WHERE THERE ARE SOME HIGH DOLLAR
DIVORCES AND THEY ARE LIKELY, YOU DO NOT GET IT, YOU HAVE TO
SAY YOU'RE GETTING DIVORCED, THE OTHER SIDE HAS TO AGREE, THERE
ARE ALL THESE THINGS AND THEN YOU HAVE TO WAIT SIX MONTHS.
THEY'RE TELLING ALL OF THEIR CLIENTS, IF YOU ARE
SLIGHTLY UPSET IN YOUR MARRIAGE, GET DIVORCED NOW.
IT IS KIND OF CRAZY.
BY THE WAY, PARTY OF FAMILY VALUES.
SO NOW THE LARGER POINT ABOUT TAXES OVERALL.
WHAT DID I TELL YOU?
THEY ARE GIVING A GIANT TAX CUT TO CORPORATIONS.
THEY HAVE TO GET IT FROM SOMEWHERE.
WHEN A REPUBLICAN CONGRESSMAN WAS ASKED ON TELEVISION CAN
YOU NAME ONE CORPORATE LOOPHOLE THAT YOU GUYS TOOK AWAY?
HE COULDN'T NAME ONE.
WHEN IT COMES TO LOOPHOLES FOR YOU GUYS OR I WOULD ARGUE,
IT'S NOT A LOOPHOLE, LOGICAL DEDUCTION, NO, FOR THE
REGULAR PERSON WE'RE TAKING IT AWAY SO THEY HAD TO GET THE
MONEY FROM SOMEWHERE.
THEY STILL HAVE ONE AND A HALF TRILLION DOLLAR EXTRA
DEFICIT THAT THEY CREATED BUT LIKE I TOLD YOU, THAT IS
NOT THE ONLY MONEY.
THE REALITY OF THE TAX CUTS FOR THE RICH AND CORPORATIONS,
IT'S ABOUT 6 TRILLION SO THE OTHER FOR NATURALLY HAD TO
COME FROM SOMEWHERE AND WHERE DOES IT COME FROM?
YOU.
THEY TOOK AWAY YOUR DEDUCTIONS BUT TOOK AWAY NONE OF THE
LOOPHOLES FOR CORPORATIONS THAT WHEN A PERSON IS ABOUT TAX
REFORM THEY SAID IT IS NOT A TAX CUT, TAX REFORM.
WE'RE GOING TO GET RID OF THE LOOPHOLE SO CORPORATIONS
CANNOT SHEET AND THEN LOWER THEIR RATES.
AND ALSO KEEP IN MIND HOW THEY SELL THE WAY THAT THEY
GOT RID OF ALL OF THESE DEDUCTIONS.
WE ARE TRYING TO SIMPLIFY THE TAX CODE, IT IS TOO
COMPLICATED TO GIVE THE MIDDLE COUNT CLASS AND THE WORKING
CLASS ANY DEDUCTIONS.
THE CORPORATIONS CAN KEEP THEIR DEDUCTIONS AND THEIR
LOOPHOLES, THAT IS NOT LOOP COMPLICATED.
THE DUTCH SANDWICH AND IRISH DOUBLE, WHATEVER THEY ARE
CALLED, THERE THESE CRAZY TAX LOOPHOLES, THEY ALL STILL EXIST.
THEY ARE NORMATIVELY, LOCATED, BUT THEY'RE GOING TO CREATE
THE JOBS.
HIGH-PAYING JOBS.
SURE.
BY THE WAY, HOW IS THAT MARKET WORKING OUT FOR YOU GUYS?
TRUMP IS NOT BRAGGING ABOUT THE STOCK MARKET TODAY, IS HE?
OOPS.
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Alice ~ Your Diva - Hatsune Miku (Subtitles cc) Vocaloid Live Concert - Duration: 6:35.
So far away, It's no laughing story.
Someday, if I have gone away
Having fallen into a deep deep forest,
You must go there alone.
In tied hands, there is a soft body heat,
Fingers which held it have untied loosely,
Bells of a dry tone will be ringing.
You must go there alone.
As we are, the two of us walk alone
The dissembled voice is quite broken.
Two have downcast eyes, there is one shadow
I must go alone there as well, you know?
You have fallen in a faint love.
Blooming flowers at a far tall cliff.
"Somehow I can't reach it," though you already know.
Next time, you must go there alone.
So far away It's no laughing story.
Someday, if I have gone away
Having fallen in a deep deep forest,
You must go there alone.
In this PC of this house, is my brand new home.
From this day you're going to be my master, and you should treat me well.
Wait! What do you think you're doing? Please don't make me sing such obscene lyrics
It's just that you should properly convey your true "words" and "feelings"
That time, the true reason that you bought me was different, right?
I want you to make me sing more, because I'm your world's one and only diva
The feelings that I have for you since we met is a secret.
Today as well, you have a lesson for me..
I'm getting excited... n-no, not really.
Today's legato, I wonder if I wasn't able to sing it well..?
I'm going to practice singing even more, so please don't give up on me
I have something that I wanted to tell you
For choosing me among the others, thank you.
That time, the joy of our meeting, always, and forever I won't ever forget.
I, would not yet be satisfied.
Until I haven't sung all of your songs..
So I want you to make me sing more, because I'm your world's one and only diva~
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Prince (Captioned) Rock n Roll Hall Of Fame 2004 Let's Go Crazy - Duration: 1:39.
Dearly beloved
we have gathered here today To get through this thing called life
And if de-elevator tries to bring you down
Go crazy
Punch a higher floor!
If you don't like
the world you're living in
Take a look around
you at least you got friends
Come on lady
for friendly word
She picked up the phone
dropped it on the drums
was all I heard
Are we gonna let de-elevator Bring us down
Oh, no let's go
Let's go crazy, let's get dinner
Let's look for the purple banana 'Til they put us in the truck
let's go
Rock 'n Roll Hall of Fame
Are you ready to get crazy
Are we gonna let de-elevator bring us down?
Oh, no lets go!
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Ranked Battles - Season 1 - Duration: 2:46.
The First Season of Ranked Battles starts on February 19.
It will contain a range of improvements compared to the Beta Seasons.
The Season will last 21 days, just like the Second Beta,
but it will have only one stage.
There will not be any intermediate rank resets—
players' progress will be saved from the beginning of the Season
until its end.
The system for awarding chevrons will change.
The top 10 players from the winning team
and the best player from the losing team
receive a chevron.
Apart from this, the three best players
from the winning team receive an additional chevron.
The ten players from the losing team who earned the least experience
lose a chevron.
The rest of the players will not lose a chevron.
The system for personal ranks will not change,
but the number of ranks will increase.
There will be 15 of them now.
Thanks to a greater number of ranks and chevrons,
players will be able to advance through ranks more smoothly,
depending on their skill level.
Just like in the Beta Seasons,
the first and last ranks will be permanent.
Apart from that, a new mechanic will appear—Rank Shield.
You can lose a rank,
but not as soon as you lose a chevron.
The 5th rank will be shielded three times,
the 10th—twice,
and the 13th—once.
If you receive a chevron in a battle at these ranks,
the Shield becomes fully restored.
Rank points replaced vehicle ranks.
The progress will be saved for each vehicle individually
and will be summed up with the data from the previous Seasons.
After reaching the 15th rank,
players will receive an additional 25 bonds for every rank point.
One personal rank equals one rank point.
To get on the leaderboard, you need to earn five of them.
After this,
you can continue earning rank points to compete for a place
in one of the three prize leagues.
Rewards were also changed.
Now, you can receive significant rewards
not only for your overall Season results,
but for reaching ranks as well.
Having reached the 15th rank,
you can receive 4,000 bonds,
more than 3 million credits,
Premium Account time,
and medals!
Additional rewards await Season leaders
for getting into one of the prize leagues,
including unique styles and badges.
Play against your equals!
Beat the best!
Become a Season leader!
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Core Challenge: Kneeling on a Stability Ball - Duration: 1:01.
So here is a core challenge for you.
You can even add on some kegels if you like.
Kind of like the post I made when I was on the BOSU
except now I'm kneeling on my stability ball.
And eventually I'm going to
come up into a high kneel.
And again, the movement
I need to kind of resist that movement.
But I also want to embrace that movement
and see how my pelvic floor is responding.
But then I'm also going to add some
voluntary pelvic floor work, as well.
So I'm going to inhale (inhaling).
I'm going to exhale (exhaling).
And keep holding it for a second.
(inhaling) Inhale let it go.
Exhale (exhaling). Drawing my pelvic floor up and in.
Holding it while I go through those motions.
(inhaling) Inhaling and letting go.
And then just kind of playing around.
Move your pelvis a little bit more.
See what your range is.
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Hi there! Welcome to heresamydoodle - Duration: 2:34.
Hi there my name is Amelia, and this is the first video I'm recording for my channel
I've wanted to make videos for awhile, but I just didn't know where to start.
So I decided why not just a simple introduction video kind of talking about me, what I like to do, and what I want to do on the channel
I am very socially awkward
I don't know what made me want to do this because I'm so socially awkward
I just kind of thought "You know what I have a camera. I'm just gonna do it"
So here I am
Who knows if this video is even gonna see the light of day but uh?
Yeah, if this becomes an actual thing for me
I'm probably gonna look back on this video in like a few months and be like "Hey Amelia. What were you thinking?"
um
but yeah
I really like to play games and do stuff so of course there's gonna be some gaming on my channel
I play the violin, and I just started learning how to play the ukulele
So there's gonna be some of that who knows if I'm gonna sing with that
Probably not, but ya never know!
Yeah, I don't really have much to talk about I just kind of wanted for this video
to talk about what I want to do with the channel and
Again, who knows if anyone's even gonna see this?
But yeah, I just thought you know what it might be fun
And yeah, so let's hope it turns out really well
So yeah if you want
To stick around
After it seeing how awkward I am with how awkward this is
You can hit subscribe I might record another video
If this goes out well
Yeah, well I know I'm gonna record another video today, but who knows if this one's even gonna go up.
I don't know
but yeah, so
Hope you all have a good day whether stick around here or not, and yeah, bye
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Demonstrate More Love and Validation - Duration: 10:45.
- If you can consciously demonstrate love to people,
it doesn't matter family, friends, lovers, team,
and I don't mean, none of this is woo-woo.
This is just the reality of how your brain works,
that you desire this so much.
Give it.
Give, and you shall receive.
What do you want in life?
Give it.
Watch it evidence, propagate out there,
and then you'll have more of it.
Give and you shall receive.
Give and you shall receive.
Some of you, this is an irrelevant conversation,
because you're just fine.
You're loving your relationship.
You're like, dude, I'm so in love right now.
I can't even hear you.
I've got songs in my head.
I see us dancing.
I'm imagining us having sex.
You're like, in a great place.
(audience laughs)
For those who aren't there,
it's time to go, huh, how could I demonstrate more love?
How could I do it?
Turn to the person left or right,
put your hand on their shoulders,
and say, all we want is love.
- [Audience] All we want is love.
- What else do we so desperately desire?
What else do we so desperately desire?
It's a little different.
Validation.
What a psychological ninja trip trick this one is.
(audience laughs)
We wanna be accepted, we wanna be love, but no,
we have a pride to our ego that needs to be validated.
Good job, honey.
If we don't feel like we get enough of that growing up,
oh, my gosh.
In high school, elementary school, when you're
the odd person out, the group hasn't validated you,
that can leave a mark.
Most people around today are running through their lives,
and they're forgetting how much they want this
and how much other people want this.
When we teach leadership lessons and high performance,
we're always saying, here's what you've gotta imagine.
You gotta imagine, on everyone you meet,
there's a big billboard on their head
that just says, please see me.
Please listen to me.
Please understand me.
Please acknowledge me.
That's all anyone wants from you,
and that's what you want.
Please see me.
Just please, see me.
Please listen to me.
Please care about what I'm saying.
Please acknowledge me in some way.
And when we don't have that,
we feel horrible.
When we don't have that in a relationship,
it doesn't matter.
Even at work, when someone shares an idea,
listen to this.
If you're in a work environment where someone shares ideas,
and at the end of their sentence, no one acknowledges it,
says, I like that, don't like that, try this, try this,
let me write that down, good idea, great suggestion,
let's mark that down, when someone speaks it,
and there's no acknowledgement, the odds are,
their contributions to the team will go down by 50%,
'cause why contribute any ideas anymore?
It doesn't even matter.
You could debate.
You could actually debate with them.
At least they still feel acknowledged.
You interacted.
You engaged with the idea.
That's all they want, right?
You don't have to improve it.
Just like when your little child comes up to you
with a toy they just completely dismantled,
or something that you really cared about,
that they completely dismantled?
All they're, they just want validation that they're there.
You can still say no, but you gotta engage.
Without the engagement, remember, we lose the charged life,
and one way to put more charge back in your life
is to start validating people.
I hear you.
I understand.
Oh, interesting.
Doesn't even matter.
Especially for those of you who are struggling
in a relationship right now, start noticing
how often someone finishes a period and you don't
say anything, because that's where you're in trouble.
They're sharing and they're communicating,
and you're stonewalling or not contributing.
So the relationship doesn't feel
like it's being built by two people.
It is report out by one person.
Avoid by the other person.
(audience laughs)
Report by one person,
then, instead of taking that and using it
as a magical thing to build something together,
it's a report out for Person B.
Person A reports, Person B reports.
Person A reports, Person B reports.
But there's no dance.
There's no co-mingling of idea,
and thus, there's no connection.
How many follow?
Raise your hands.
It's a huge psychological frame.
Remember, if you could just trigger that,
people want to be validated.
It doesn't mean you have to make them right.
It means you have to make them feel heard.
And once you master that, everything changes.
Once you realize that's what you need,
you'll notice why you're unhappy in certain places.
Why am I unhappy at work?
Did you know, the number-one reason globally,
globally, across all industries, all companies,
in every country, found by the Gallup,
their big, massive workforce study,
the number-one reason people quit a job, what is it?
Lack of appreciation.
That's validation.
They're not being...
The number-one reason that people quit a job
is lack of appreciation.
How many of you think you could also
translate that a little bit to marriage?
It's like, of course.
They don't feel appreciated.
They don't feel validated.
Boom, you're out of there.
How many of you have ever been
in a relationship where no one validated you?
Anyone ever been in that?
Right?
Did you get out?
Okay, did you want out?
We truly want validation.
That's it.
I hear you is one of the most powerful things you can say.
You want the one that doesn't?
Think about the opposite.
Think about if you said to somebody,
like, imagine walking up to someone and saying,
I don't care about what you think.
Anyone ever said that to you?
I don't care what you think?
It's not just, these things aren't psychological frames.
These are human needs.
These are drives, but they frame everything.
I'll tell you, when someone says,
I don't care what you think,
your first impulse is to strike at them.
(audience laughs)
Is that crazy?
Isn't it true?
Your first, you have to stop.
But it's such a dominant frame that if someone says,
I don't care what you think, you're like.
Well, screw you!
I mean, try it.
Walk up to some stranger and go, I don't care about you.
(audience laughs)
You know what?
Just in case you really are into physical damage, smile.
I don't care about you.
(audience laughs)
The bigger, the cheesier the smile,
the more absolutely hurt you're going to get.
But that's what people are doing.
In our modern era, this is what people,
you know what's become popular?
You know what's funny now?
You know what's funny?
Being critical.
You know what's funny now suddenly in comedy,
on television and everything?
It's that person who makes
the smart, cutting judgment about somebody.
That sarcasm has become so valued,
that critical negging on others,
making fun of people.
That's what's become valued in our marketplace.
And this is why, as a global community, more and more
and more people are suffering from lack of validation,
because people now take joy in stabbing people.
People take joy in making fun of people.
And we gotta change that.
We gotta shift that around.
We gotta be, people, if you wanna lead others
and you wanna make a dramatic difference in the world,
you better learn to value people
and validate their experience.
Much of my work in my life is
just validating people's experiences.
Like, it's okay that it's hard.
It's okay that you're struggling.
Honor that struggle.
Don't detach from it.
Honor it.
Validate that this is hard, but don't run from it.
Validate it.
It's okay.
Sometimes it's not just validating a person.
It's validating your own challenges, you.
Your self worth is tied to this psychological frame.
Do I validate myself as a person, or am I the person
being a sarcastic ass to myself?
Am I the person lacking the ability
to give myself validation?
Sometimes, this isn't just social frames.
This is psychological frames.
It's inside.
Some of you haven't given yourself credit
in so damn long.
You're beautiful.
You're smart.
You made it this far.
You're more worth than you give yourself credit for.
You can figure this out, too.
You do deserve happiness.
You are ready for that next stage.
And sometimes, you just gotta own that
in your heart a little bit.
(upbeat electronic music)
Thanks for watching.
Make sure you subscribe to my new podcast, The Brendon Show.
It's available on iTunes, Stitcher,
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And it's the exclusive place where I share
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about what I'm going through, about my advice for you
as you seek to live an even more extraordinary life.
It's called The Brendon Show,
and it's available anywhere you get your podcasts,
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Red Velvet "BAD BOY" Wendy Inspired Makeup Tutorial (Day to Night) | Kathryn - Duration: 5:15.
hey guys its Kathryn welcome back to my channel so today I have another kpop
inspired makeup tutorial and this time it is inspired by Wendy from Red Velvet's music
video bad boy and unlike all the other kpop makeup tutorial I've done before
this time is going to be a day to night makeup look I thought this was a really
good opportunity for this type of look because she did have a very natural
everyday type of look and a really dramatic look which is what I'm wearing
right now so I hope you guys enjoy this video if you do please give it a thumbs
up and subscribe down below and let's go!
I already did my eyebrows with the Anastasia dipbrow pomade in dark brown
and now I'm going to prime my eyelids using the elf eyeshadow primer
Taking the Naked Heat Palette in the color sauced and put this all over my entire eyelid passing the crease and
blend it out it's like a peachy brown color
and I'm also going to take the leftovers on to the bottom lash line now taking the sweet peach probably I'm
Now taking the sweet peach palette
I'm going to take candied peach and very lightly apply this on top of what I did
earlier to give it a little bit more of a orangie tone and of course the lower
lash line as well now taking charms I'm sure I'm going to use this color as a
eyeliner it's like a cool toned Brown and I think it's pretty perfect for this
Now I'm taking puree and I'm going to use this color on the lower lash line focusing on
the outer corners and I also took a smaller brush for more precision
now using white peach I'm going to use this color to highlight the inner
corners of my eyes for mascara I'm using these two and just coat my lashes in
them
now I'm going to take the dear darling tint from Etude house this is the
number one and apply that on the inner parts of my lips and then I'm taking
this elf lipstick in ravishing rose and put it on top
Now the day look is complete
now building off from the look earlier I'm going to take charmed I'm sure from
the sweet peach palette and put this color on my eyelids not passing the crease
now back to the heat palette I'm going to take the color ashes and focus this
color on the outer corners and create a downwards triangle shape and of course
also the lower lash line as well I'm going to concentrate this color on the
outer corners mainly and blend it in now taking sauced I'm going to use this color
to blend out everything
Now taking ounce, I'm going to use this to highlight the
inner corners of my eyes for eyeliner I'm using the Maybelline master precise
felt tip eyeliner to create a little wing at the end
and also apply a little bit more mascara because the shadow probably got on it
now wiping off the lip color that I had earlier and used this innisfree lip mousse in number
four and make a gradient effect
and now the night look is complete!
so this is pretty much it to this makeup tutorial I hope you guys enjoyed and I
will see you guys in my next video bye
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