Hi everyone and welcome for a new social experiment "Would You React".
We know that adolescence isn't an easy period,
so our objective on our channel here, it's giving you some hope.
Everyone in this team had already lived this, but it's just a moment.
So, for this, our two actors of the day, Alex and Laetitia, have accepted to participate to our social experiment.
They will meet unknown people and share their problems, say they feel bad.
So, in your view, do unknown people will come in help to two teenagers they don't know ?
(Girl version)
First try.
- Excuse me. - Yes ?
- Actually, I don't feel good, and considering I don't know you, I'd like to talk about..
Because you take care of kids and maybe I could talk with you.
- But what's the problem ? - I don't know, everything is going bad..
I can't stop fighting with my parents, at school I'm not able to have good results and everyone is bullying me..
- But there is a reason for this ? - I don't know, no, but everything is bad.
- But you know, when everything is going bad.. Me I had, huh... Everyone has already lived this..
But you have to take in consideration the positive aspects of your life.
- But there is no. - There's always something.
- Except your parents, do you have a family ? - Yeah but they never listen to me, as soon as I say something, I do everything bad.
- And the problem about bad results come from this ? Or it's just that you have difficulties ? - I don't know, I can't do it..
- I think you have to focus on one thing : for example, your relation with your parents.
- Try to talk, not to keep the voice up for example.
- But they are not getting me, I don't scream, they're not getting me.
- Exactly, so you have to ask to them : can I talk to you for a moment, just the three of us and have a good conversation?
And like that, you do things step by step. Because if we try to fix everything or if we think that everything is going bad,
the pressure is too high, that's why everything is going bad et will keep going bad.
- Yes, I get it.. - Here, i don't know if it helps a little..
If we think that everything is going bad, everything will keep going bad.
- Being scout influence the open mind towards people ?
- It helps a lot, being chef like animator, it can helps because we try to include everyone without rejetting anyone.
- It can helps you think ? - I think it can helps them very well, yeah.
Anyway, animators are doing the best they can to include them, it's sure.
- Well done! - Thanks you a lot.
Second try.
When we doesn't feel good, we have to ask for help.
People does not propose their help spontaneously.
But at the contrary, they probably would help if we asked for.
How this last couple is gonna react?
-Excuse me, do you speak french ? - Yes.
- Actually, I don't feel very good. I don't know you so can I talk to you ?
- Because I need to talk to someone you know.. I don't feel good.
.. and I don't know what to do, I wanted to talk about it with you, so ..
I feel bad sir, I just need help but I don't know what to do.
I don't feel good physically, I have the impression that people are bullying me, that I suck. Can you get it ?
- okay, it's psychological.. isn't it ?
- You have to accept yourself, you're very young..
It's hard.. People keep insulting me, and, I don't know, I don't have faith in me and I can't to..
- But who is bullying you ? - At school.
- You have to talk about it with your teachers - They don't doing anything..
- How old are you ? - I'm 14.
- At 14 years old, every boys say things that aren't good..
- It's not just boys, but girls too.. Everyone. I don't know who is insulting me precisely.
- Now I have spots, dentures and I feel bad.. I don't know what to do.
- It's not about what to do but have faith and being more adult.. I'm sure that you have friends !
- Not very much, I have one..
- You live here in Brussels, it's a beautiful city, without war..
There are others childrens who have a lot of problems in the countries with war, death, ... but here it's easy..
Okay, there are childs who say bad things but they're young..
It's gonna be okay, don't worry !
- And there are a lot of teenagers that you can find in others groups : theater, ..
- You are a normal person like this one, this other one too.
My sister had problems like you when she was younger.. - And what did she do ?
- She talked with me, the family, she looked for good friends and more than that she had patience because it comes with age.
- But I keep being insulted for my physical and there is, I feel bad..
- You have a normal physical, it's okay, you're not a monster, you're a girl !
There, in our country, you would be very beautiful : have blond hair with blue eyes.. It's very rare in Spain.
Spots ? That's what it's called ? It's something that goes with age.. You have some when you're 14 but it goes when you're 15.
- But I can't overcome it, it's really awful, we have the impression that..
- You become a woman ! You're a kid and then you become a woman.
It's like butterflies, at first they are tracked then they fly away !
- I get it. - People are the same.
- Before, at 14, I didn't have my beard, after I got moustache and now I have beard.. You have to be more adult in your head.
- Even us who come from another country lived this !
A lot of people doesn't speak so they become saddest and saddest.. you have to talk!
When you're very closed with your problems, your problems got bigger, even if it's little at first.
- People respond like you : if you're closed, they will be closed.
- So, if you keep being cheerful, people in front of you are going to be nicer.
Here we are friends, a thing very surprising with girl or boy version :
we noticed that, on 6 unknow people, 5 were ready to help.
So if unknown people in the street are ready to help if we ask to them,
imagine how your friends will be too if you really take the opportunity to ask them.
We saw in the second try, girl version, that if we didn't ask help..
people aren't probably against but we not gonna propose our help.
It's important to know it : people are not gainst the idea to help you,
but it's just, sometimes, if we don't ask to them, they're not going to help us.
It's really the message to keep in mind :
If we have a problem, the impression it will never be fixed,
I have been in the same situation, and I can assure you that, with time, everything is gonna be better !
I kiss you my friends, see you for the next video.
Would You React team loves you !
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