In my seminars the last few years I have
covered what I have found to be those
few simple basic principles that can
make major changes in life and lifestyle
one of those subjects that gets the most
comment is diseases of attitude and out
of that subject worry and how to kick
the worry habit have caused the most
questions so in this brief visit with
you let me give you my best look at
worried how to recognize it and define
it and what to do about it
and hopefully these ideas will give you
a good chance for confidence over worry
first of all worry might well be killer
number one and if it is not the number
one physical killer although doctors
tell us worriors die sooner than non
worriors and we have all heard the
expression worry yourself to death at
least it is the number one killer of
dreams and achievement of energy and
vitality and lifestyle I know the damage
and effect of this killer worry
first and I will spare you the details
but over a period of some three years I
let worry get out of hand as I've
mentioned before I became a super
worrier I was good at it
the combination of small and big worries
about my circumstances what people
thought of me my finances my abilities
the future my progress all led to a
complete physical collapse a stay in the
hospital emotional mental and physical
exhaustion and a deep despair I couldn't
shake a sad picture for a young man who
should have been well on his way to
carving out his share of opportunity I
am happy to tell you that good fortune
came my way and as many of you may be
aware I met a man Mr. Earl Shoaff with his
ideas and inspiration and the help of a
very close friend
I worked my way past the minefields of
worry and disaster and out into the
clear air of mental sunshine and if I
did it anybody can do it I'm not saying
it's easy it took me almost a full year
to kick the worry habit it's a practice
and much effort but it was well worth it
remember don't ask for the tasks to be
easy just ask for it to be worth it
don't wish it was easier wish you were
better don't ask for less challenge ask
for more skills don't ask for less
problems ask for more wisdom it's the
challenge that makes the experience and
life and its color and meaning and
adventure for you is this collection of
experiences to wish them away is to wish
your life away so let's get to worry and
what it is and what it does how to
define it and what to do about it and
let's do it with eager high hope that it
won't be long until you will be free of
the worry habit and on your way to the
life and lifestyle that you want
first of all let's define worry there
are many ways we could describe it worry
is fear painting pictures in your mind
and if you watch that mental movie too
long you get a false picture of how
things really are
worry is a mental broadcasting station
and more often than not it is false or
at least distorted propaganda worry has
that sneaky way of stopping short of
giving you all the facts worry is often
the trickery of mentally filtered facts
on the negative side and the bold
declaration that these are all the facts
worry has the mental audacity to suggest
that the elevator only runs one way down
many times worry is a five alarm bell
for a wastebasket fire and worry is a
depletion of constructive emotion it's
wasted mental energy
it's like letting the starter run the
battery down when the car won't start
and worry is most often a lack of all
the facts a lack of full understanding a
lack of total information and an
unpreparedness of ability knowledge
talent courage faith and all the other
virtues that should give us a better
definition of worry and remember left
unchecked it can become like a mad dog
loose in the house and the sorrow and
pain and regret is too large a price to
pay not to do something about it and to
do it now you see if you contemplated
the total sum of human suffering long
enough it would drive you mad you must
understand how life is human suffering
man's inhumanity to man war disease
poverty but it must be in what I call
its rightful ratio of your mental and emotional time
so much for what worry is
the next question is what can I do about
it what is the first step
my best advice on this is to first
recognize worry for what it is
admit what it does and then decide you
now want to be free it first starts with
decision on your part and may I add well
you should decide why let worry continue
to take money out of your pocket and
bank account why let worry any longer
keep you from becoming all you can be
why let it rob you of better friendships
better business better profits better
results better communication better
family relations
why impose your worry on others any
longer it's a burden you can get rid of
and a monkey you can get off your back
why not be rid of those thinking nagging
feelings that all is not going to be
well that you can't do it that it won't
work out for the best worry is undue
concern that takes up too much of your
mental and
emotional time now we must all be
concerned hey life is no joke except to
the Joker's, life and how to live it is a
serious matter
it is risky full of peril and there are
constant threats to the good we want and
to the pursuit of happiness however it
is undue concern or a concern that takes
up too much mental time that begins the harm
it's like a family planning a
wonderful trip while they certainly
should be concerned about the condition
of the car the tires and making sure
they pick the proper route it would be
foolish to allow themselves to be
completely turned negative with the
thought that they might crash and kill
the entire family if that were the case
even if they went the entire trip would
be turned into one nightmare of fear
with the specter of chaos looming around
every curve rather than enjoying the
wonderful trip they had planned for
themselves and their family a lot of
people do that with their entire life so
start to make these declarations and if
you mean it they will start you on your
way to confidence and adventure free of
the worry habit say first I've had it
with worry I am tired of being beaten
down and hassled with all those negative
mental pictures I refuse to be tricked
by false facts I'm really not that weak
never again do I want those sick
feelings inside those mental false
alarms I am tired of the drain on my resources
I'm tired of the embarrassment of the
lack of confidence I don't want people
especially my family to see me in this
state anymore I've got more to offer I
refuse to let my life be short-circuited
any longer by letting my mind run wild
with a distorted view of the facts
whether I bring it up or if I comes from
someone else
prove it to yourself think back over all
the things that you worried about all
the fantastic catastrophic events that
your well-meaning advisers had told you
were going to happen be pleased that
none of them ever happened to you or
else you would not be alive today 90% of
the things you worried about never
happen anyway all of us have had these
well-meaning advisers who want to appear
larger in the eyes of those they wish to
advise and who immediately rare back and
described every single bad option they
can think of that might possibly happen
by the time they have finished the one
who has come for some confidence and
some help wonders why he even bothers to
live anymore and the fact is those
things are never really going to happen anyway
bring to question now what your
mind tells you are what others tell you
and pledge not to go for false alarms
I've had it is a good beginning
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