The Real Secret to Sex Appeal for Women Who Need to Makeover Their Style.
So you want to have sex appeal like maybe Beyoncé?
Well the secret to that kind of sex appeal is going to come at the cost of doing a lot
of crunches, a lot of lunges, and choosing a peat protein shake over an In-N-Out burger.
And many of us are not willing to make that trade.
We love In-N-Out burgers.
However, is there a secret to sex appeal that will work with your current body shape and
your current age bracket?
Of course there is.
You just have to learn to get out of your comfort zone a little bit.
And that really is what a makeover is all about.
Redrawing the boundary lines of your comfort zone.
And this time, we're going to redraw that boundary line so that it includes that sex
appeal on the corner of sexy and sassy.
So the first boundary line that needs to be drawn is the fabrics that you use in your
wardrobe.
So we need to redraw that boundary line.
You're going to need to add fabrics like mesh, shear materials, and lace.
Now don't worry, this doesn't mean that your work wardrobe should look like a Victoria's
Secret store.
Okay?
But they do include some similar fabrics, such as the lace, and the sheer, and the mesh.
I will admit that.
However, imagine this.
You will have your work outfit as a black pantsuit.
And instead of a kind of traditional, kind of boring top, you use some of the options
that I've told you.
So instead you wear like a lace turtleneck with it.
The reason that all of these fabrics have sex appeal is that there is just a hint of
skin with them.
Okay?
It's not a full on everything's hanging out.
It's a hint of skin, which each one of these options I presented to you.
Now see this one here, it's still very conservative.
I mean it's a turtleneck for crying out loud, right?
So look at it.
Under it you have a simple black, a simple tank top, or a camisole underneath.
And you see there's just a hint of skin around the neckline and on the arms as well.
And for those of you that are so uncomfortable with that, there's many people that don't
like to show off their arms.
Remember, you're wearing this under a jacket, so that's going to be covered up.
But again, you have this lace fabric that's very feminine and this hint of skin.
Okay?
And that's the secret to using these fabrics to add extra sex appeal to your wardrobe.
You can also use mesh.
So look at that.
Instantly this outfit looks a lot trendy simply because of the fabric that we used.
Again, just like with the turtleneck option, it has the camisole underneath, and there
is just the hint of skin again, around the neckline of it.
Again, look it just dressed up the outfit so much more.
Made it a lot trendier.
A lot more interesting.
And then last but not least, the sheer option.
Again, under this you would wear a tank top or a camisole.
And it's still very conservative.
Look, it has a bow tie at the neckline.
It has a very high neckline.
It's still very conservative, but it has this little hint of skin or a hint of it has
a little bit of see through going on.
But it's not really seeing through to anything because remember you have a tank top or camisole
underneath.
And again, those of you that going, 'I wouldn't want to wear this to show my arms.'
You're wearing a jack over it.
Nobody will see your arms anyway.
Okay?
So you don't have to discount options like this because you go, 'Oh, I can't wear
something sleeveless.'
Actually, you probably can.
So again, to add sex appeal to your wardrobe, you're going to want to look at those three
fabrics that I just gave you in the video.
There you go.
Your comfort zone has already been expanded in the fabrics that you consider.
And are sprinkling throughout your wardrobe.
The next way to expand your comfort zone and add sex appeal is in the tops that you choose.
And so for this section, you really have to open your mind to all of the options that
are available to you.
Many of you, if you go shopping online or in person at a physical brick and mortar store,
there are whole sections of the store that you don't even consider.
Don't even go browse through because you go, 'I can't wear that.'
There's plenty of tops you see and then go, 'That's not going to work for me.'
So instead of going that's not going to work for me, you need to ask how can I make
this work for me.
And I'm going to give you those options.
So you can go into other areas of the store like the exercise section.
Look at the cute Yoga tank tops and t-shirts that they have.
Venture into the teen department and see what sort of trends that they have there.
Teen departments now have many, many larger sizes.
So if there are some of you thinking that, 'I can't.
They don't carry my size there.'
You'd be surprised if you haven't been there for a while of the range of sizes that
are available there.
Okay?
So the reason this is a way to add sex appeal is because by opening your mind to the possibilities,
you now can have sassy sort of tops.
So look at this one here that sassy "naturally sassy".
So again, this may not be appropriate at the law firm.
You walking around with a tank top saying "naturally sassy", however you may be
able to get away with it at other work places.
Or imagine this tank top without the lettering on it.
And it's just a simple, loose, gray Yoga style tank top.
Still very stylish.
And again, those of you going, 'That shows way too much skin.
I can't wear that at work.
I would be totally uncomfortable.
I can't wear that.'
Guess what?
There's this thing called layering.
You can wear a jacket or a cardigan over it.
Okay?
So you would still be able to wear these things that are very sassy, but you're just going
to layer with them.
So same thing with sexy.
This is a sexy camisole.
You can see it has this beautiful lace detail around the neckline, and it has the spaghetti
straps.
And gain, many of you may have saw this top and go, 'I can't wear spaghetti straps.'
Again, ask how can I make this work for me?
So through layering we know, okay well, you can wear it with the regular bra where your
bra strap shows.
And then wear a jacket or a cardigan over it.
Nobody even sees that you're wearing a regular bra with it.
Okay?
And if you would have discounted this top, you would have completely missed out on having
this top with that beautiful neckline that looks stunning on you simply because you discounted
it because of the spaghetti straps.
Again, open your mind and go how can I make this work for me?
Okay?
For many of us, that's going to be through layering.
And the last one is trendy.
And I can hear you.
I hear the boos.
For those of you watching the video now but don't like Justin Bieber.
I actually like Justin Bieber.
Okay?
And so this is a very fun top.
It's trendy.
And many of you can wear it because it's interesting.
So even if you don't like Justin Bieber, you would wear it and it will be ironic and
funny.
And people would laugh when they see this shirt.
But the thing is you would be wearing something interesting and different than most people.
Okay?
And it adds that little element of mystery, which is a key ingredient or like an "it"
factor in creating sex appeal.
So you can choose these trendy sort of tops.
Like I said, it may be in the teen section of the store.
You could venture in there, and you could make these things work for you and funny and
show off your personality.
That's sex appeal.
Okay?
And these are how you can add sex appeal without doing a million crunches.
Okay?
So let's go through an example.
This is a gorgeous, blue, suede tank top.
Again, many of you would have seen this in a store and automatically didn't even consider
buying it.
Okay?
However, layering you can do it.
So you can wear it under a blazer.
Great piece for layering.
You can wear a cardigan over it.
Looks great with that.
So again, if you did not open your mind to these possibilities, you would have missed
out on this great layering piece.
So it's gorgeous one, because of the beautiful blue color.
But secondly because of the fabric that's used.
It says this beautiful suede fabric looks great under a jacket, looks great under a
cardigan.
And again, you found a way to take this and make it work for you.
So again, this section of the tops that you choose to add sex appeal is all about just
opening your mind to the different possibilities that are out there for you.
So your comfort zone, it keeps getting bigger and bigger.
So we expanded it first with the fabrics that you used.
Next, we looked at the tops that you used.
And lastly, we are going to expand your comfort zone by creating an hourglass silhouette.
Okay?
So even if you don't have an hourglass silhouette, we're going to fake it until you make it,
right?
And even if you never make it.
We're going to fake it.
Hourglass silhouette is just sexy.
We all know that.
I don't have to convince you all watching this video here.
What I do have to kind of convince you of is that you can fake it even if you don't
have it.
And the way that you're going to help to fake that is with the use of belts.
So there's many ways that you can do this.
One, is that you can belt dresses.
So dresses that you have that you currently wear to work or to church or whatever.
How can you add a belt to it to again, makes it look like it has a little bit more of a
waist?
It creates more of an hourglass silhouette.
I know I have bought dress that look awful.
You would think it looks awful if you just saw it on a regular hanger.
But I didn't buy for that purpose.
I bought it because I thought, 'I'm going to add a belt to that, and it's going to
be fierce.'
And I get complements on it all the time.
When I get home and I might take off the belt, and I'm just walking around in the dress
I'm like, 'This dress really does not look good.'
But it's because it was bought to be belted like that.
And so items that you currently have in your wardrobe or when you go shopping for dress,
open up your mind and go, 'Hey, can I add a belt to it?'
It's going to create that hourglass silhouette.
Add a little bit of sex appeal.
Again, The Real Secret to Sex Appeal for Women Who Need to Makeover Their Style for those
of us that don't want to do lunges until we collapse.
Next, is you can belt cardigans.
You can see here she's wearing a dress.
We already talked about belting a dress.
But it has a cardigan over it.
And you wear the belt over it again, to create more of an hourglass shape or to create some
curves even if you don't have them or you don't have them in the right places.
Okay?
And you see just wearing the cardigan over—or the belt over the cardigan.
And lastly, through the use of wide belts.
So there are belts that are pretty wide that you can wear over a skirt like shown here
in the picture.
So you have this skirt and you tuck in the top into the wide belt.
So for those of you, you don't have to wear a big, gold wide belt like you're Wonder
Woman.
You don't have to do that.
You can just get a brown belt or a black one or something like that.
A wide belt.
And wear it in that similar fashion.
But again, it's going to do the same thing.
Create that hourglass silhouette.
Make it sexier even if you don't have that hourglass silhouette.
So there's that trick there to help create that.
So again, let's take this simple work outfit, basic black dress, black high heels.
The dress has a little bit of shape to it.
But instantly look, if you add a belt to it, the belt makes the dress have this great hourglass
silhouette, and look the dress looks trendier, it looks more stylish, it looks more fashionable
just by adding this belt to the outfit.
So again, that's how you up the sex appeal factor because it adds this "it" factor
that makes it a little bit mysterious.
Like who is this well dressed woman?
So this is a great way to add sex appeal.
So we're going to go through a few examples to make sure you really got all the information
that was here in the video.
So let's add some sex appeal to a typical work outfit.
So here we have a basic work outfit.
A button up white blouse, a gray pencil skirt, and black high heels.
So let's use fabrics to up the sex appeal of this work outfit.
And so the fabric that we chose to the that is a lace.
So you can see here, this lace top—again, very conservative.
You can wear this to the law firm.
Okay?
All it has is lace around the sleeve and the neckline.
And you can see it's still perfectly conservative but it is a little bit more feminine.
It does add a little bit of added sex appeal because what is it?
That hint of skin is showing there so instantly when we took this outfit, made it have more
sex appeal.
So here we go, let's add some sex appeal to a typical work outfit one more time.
So here we are.
Here's that work outfit.
Now we're going to go tops.
Let's add that sex appeal.
Look at that here, we're adding a sassy top.
"In memory of when I cared."
So many of you would have gone to the store.
You would have seen this online and just have chuckled to yourself, 'Ha, that's funny.'
And then just moved on, and not realized that hey, you can actually do something with it.
So you can wear this with the pencil skirt.
You just tuck it in.
Very cute outfit, but again, you might not be able to get away with that at every work
place.
And if you're not too cool about showing off your arms, you might not want to wear
this to work.
However, what did I tell you before?
You layer it, right?
So here's what you do.
You add that cardigan to it.
Now you can wear it to work.
And it's super sassy, super fun, full of sex appeal.
That outfit has that "it" factor that I was talking about before.
It just shows off your personality.
You'll probably get some good laughs too by wearing that.
And again, you will find those tops maybe not in the area that you typically shop in
because you think you can't wear them.
You can.
All you have to do is layer them.
So again, let's add some sex appeal to a typical work outfit.
One final example.
Okay?
You guys are really going to have it after this.
So here's that outfit again.
Now let's go, okay.
Let's make an hourglass silhouette using belts.
So we're going to swap that.
We have that cardigan we used before.
That beautiful burgundy cardigan.
And then you're going to belt around it.
Remember we showed that early in the video with a leopard print belt.
Well one, hello, it's leopard.
Sexy.
Right?
With the leopard print belt.
But then belt it around the cardigan.
More of that hourglass silhouette.
Okay?
And you would still wear the white blouse underneath it, and instantly sex appeal.
Simple additions to your wardrobe, which is simple ways of styling it to add that extra
bit of sex appeal.
So there you have it.
I gave you your three secrets to create some sex appeal.
So it was that hourglass silhouette with belts.
It was in the top choices.
Remember you may have to venture into other areas of the store.
Expand what you would normally consider.
And then in your fabric choices, remember I talked about using mesh, using lace, using
sheer materials that have a hint of skin to help create that added sex appeal.
And there is one additional way to get that extra sex appeal.
Hire Beyoncé's personal trainer.
That's the last and final way that you can create some added sex appeal.
So hopefully you've learned, 'I got to expand my comfort zone.'
And I gave you the ways to do that.
Okay?
If you're interested in expanding your comfort zone even more, you're going to want to
check out the video series on YouTube called, "Poptarts".
Okay?
That series is all about learning how to tart up your wardrobe.
So for that one, you're going to learn to tart it up a little bit by looking at style
icons from pop music.
So we do look at Beyoncé, Katy Perry, Rihanna, Miley Cyrus, and Britney Spears to find ways
to tart it up a little bit and bring the sexy back to our wardrobe.
And this applies to whether you're a mom of three or a grandmother of three.
You will be able to use some of the tips shown in that video series because I feel like there
is always room for a little tart.
So to learn how to tart it up, just go look at that video series and that playlist.
And learn and learn from the best.
Beyoncé, right?
On how to create additional sex appeal.
If you're interested in even more of a makeover happening, and you want to learn how to go
from plain Jane to captivating and chic, just visit NoMorePlainJane.com.
That is NoMorePlainJane.com, and you can get started with your free makeover.
Thank you for watching the video and now go out and add some sex appeal to your wardrobe.
Thanks for watching.
Bye.
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