INFJ Personality: The Bad, and the Ineffable Things About INFJs
Each personality types have their own good and not yet so good side, depend on the way
you see it, it could be seen as power or weakness.
Actually, this four-letter tag called INFJ also weighs a lot really.
For some of you who are truly an INFJ, you may understand about what I'm going to show
you on this video.
However, if you still want to know what it means to be an INFJs, let's jump into the
not so wonderful parts about INFJs.
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1 - Perfectionism
The same optimism and also concern for high achievement in quality that drive them to
do and to be their best (which is the good thing about INFJs) could likewise make INFJs
reluctant to share their knowledge and achievement with the world till they have actually achieved
perfection.
However the thing is, INFJs are hardly ever satisfied with just what they've accomplished
so far.
2 - Sensitivity
A Lot Of INFJs are also highly sensitive person (HSP), which make things even more complicated,
this characteristics makes INFJs prone to overstimulation from the environment, they
can easily getting injured by negative feedback from others, because they tend to take it
into their heart.
3 - Ungroundedness
INFJs have the tendency to be loosely when it comes to physical reality, struggling with
clumsiness (for instance, " Just how did I get this bruise."), spaciness, and an abhorrence
for practical details and tasks.
4 - Self-Criticism
Likewise, the self-contemplation that cultivates the renowned INFJ self-awareness (which is
also a good thing about INFJs) can often go in the wrong direction, this negative focus
can lead them to criticize themselves severely for their imperfections, denying themselves
the compassionate understanding that they show to others.
5 - Slow Processing
In most cases, INFJs ideas and understandings often develop slowly behind-the-scenes, which
makes people won't notice about it.
They also need some time to process things before responding.
In short, they're not the most effective in circumstances that ask for spontaneity, particularly
when it involves verbal interactions.
6 - Hard-won Trust
Most INFJs open up very slowly, they probably just reveal themselves one layer at a time,
this is due to the fact that they want to make sure the person they know is safe and
reliable, they don't want to make themselves vulnerable, especially if they're highly sensitive.
7 - Intensity
The intensity of INFJs love and caring are not just the faint of heart, and they're regularly
being advised by someone else to lighten up and not to take things seriously, which is
basically as opposed to their nature.
8 - Solitude
Though it is true that INFJs care deeply toward people they liked and also need a close connections,
they also consistently need to withdraw into total privacy.
This personal character could be inconvenient and difficult for others to understand, especially
if they didn't know enough about INFJs or introverts in general.
9 - One-sided Relationships
In relationship, INFJs usually discover that the amount of love and care they give is not
reciprocated, at least that's what they thought.
In some cases, they can be so focused on the other person and subordinating their needs
to theirs, or even failing to understand that they have needs whatsoever.
10 - Alienation
Well, this one is probably the most common thing about INFJs.
Most INFJs experience life with an understanding of just how different they are from the general
population, the feeling of being misunderstood, underestimated, and also invisible to those
around them.
All in all, that's the bad, and the ineffable things about INFJs.
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