fear of failure of our fear of change gets me immobilized how can I change it
fear of change does what Oh fear of failure
it makes me immobilized how do I change it immobilized for one who is you who is
seeing this life as a stepping stone for a larger possibility but him that is no
failure for one who is looking at the simple events of this life itself as the
goal of life for him that is failure and success if you're just seeing this life
is a stepping stone for a larger possibility if you have a good deal you
use that for your well-being if you have a bad deal you use that for your
well-being the economy was on the boom and every food could be successful it
didn't take much when the economy is on the boom
everybody gets carried isn't it now there has been a meltdown now it takes
something else to be successful so when the economy was on the boom you could
have got a certain dispassion towards the money that's flowing in now the
economy is down the taps are all closed up it's time to come meditate walk in
the mountains a lot of time a lot of time on your
hands saluted when there was money it to cover your time and life now the taps
are closed lots of time this is the time so it doesn't matter what the hell
happens it doesn't matter what the hell happens with your life
if you are seeing this life only as a stepping-stone for a larger possibility
then whatever the situation it is beautiful and very useful very very
useful once there was a farmer like you
who was tired of various natural factors ruling his the quality of his crop so
one day he called Shiva it was a wild card entry so he found excess and she
was heard what he said I'm tired of all the natural nonsense happening obviously
you're not a farmer I know from history that you were a hunter you are not a
farmer you don't know what it means to found why don't you leave the nature in
my hands I am a farmer I know when it should rain I know when there should be
sunlight I know when there should be wind I know what everything you don't
know because you're just a hunter and you're a crazy ascetic you definitely
not a good farmer the wrong times it's raining at wrong times things are
happening you live it to me see I was one of those
moms his head okay nature is in Lyons
then the farmer planned his crop planted a maize crop rain talked the lane and
see okay it's soaked up to six inches stop then plug it planted throat for two
days rain sunlight today I'm working in the field cloud so everything just
happened the way he wanted a beautiful maize crop came he was overjoyed see
it's good nature should be in farmers hands and then when the time to harvest
came he wanted to see because none of the birds were coming he was surprised
because that also he said no birds no birds then he went in open and solved
nice big everything but you open and saw no grain inside then he thought what the
hell is this what did I do wrong
then he couldn't figure out because rain water sunshine everything he managed
properly then again he went back to Sheila but he was in this condition he
waited for many years for him to open his eyes by the time he's in all these
many years the fields and the finally everything went to but he wanted to know
then so what went wrong he's farmer first then when she opened
his eyes he asked I did everything right but there is no grain did you sabotage
my crop Sheila said I've been watching you are doing a wooden charge so I
didn't want to interfere the rain was great the sunshine was
great everything was fine but you stopped all the winds I used to always
send fierce winds which would threaten a crop but because the plants felt pushed
and threatened they put their roots deeper into the earth so grain happened
now you have great maize crop no mace so various situations in your life either
you can use it to make yourself stronger and better or you can sit and cry this
is the choice you have and everything it doesn't matter what happens the most
horrific event happened in your life that also can be used for your growth on
your well-being if only if you have clearly seen the small events of your
life when I say small events I mean your business your marriage your children all
those big things
all these things are just a stepping stone this is not new to you because in
this culture they put this into you for centuries for millenniums they told you
your life is about Mukti your marriage your business your social life these are
all just means to get there either you go with it or you go without it
but whether you are a sannyasi or you're in the samsara your only goal is Mukti
yes the goal was not just for the sannyas for everybody it is Mukti
if you can walk alone you walk alone you want party going with you you walk with
the party that's your choice you want to get there quick you walk along you want
to go there having picnic on the way slowly you go with people choice is
yours but the important thing is whatever the hell you're doing there's
only one goal so if you have set this up then all the events of life everything
is beneficial the boom is beneficial the meltdown is even more beneficial
actually it is also ecologically very good you know the meltdown
so the fear of failure failure is bad enough fear is adding spice to it isn't
success happens to you not because you desire it because you own it
everybody desires it it comes only if you're capable of it
no no I am very capable but that's the but I'm very capable I was doing very
well five years ago but now yes but now situations have change and you don't
know how to deal with it that's all it means if you have such a larger goal for
yourself then just eating reading earning a living if you have such a
larger goal for yourself all these things are fine today you have a what
I'm sorry to torture you with reminder 12-course meal tomorrow you have just
dry bread both can be enjoyed isn't it
both can be just fine actually it's good for health not to have a 12-course meal
it's good for the tongue it's good for the society to have a 12-course meal not
good for the body lot of people by choice they have any simple meal by
choice they're having a simple meal if nature assists you what is the problem
suppose you can't afford anything else you can always vice I wasn't even a
bungee laughing it's very nutritious you can also buy a bottle of pickle you can
live on it for the rest of your life very nutritious very good for health
you live longer you can even throw a Sanjeev any party
why not I'm sure you can make that much money isn't it
no but I can't pay my rent I can't pay my electricity bill you can come and
work here if you don't have a building we'll put you in the thatched roof at
least the cowshed is there you know we all slept in the cowshed
to start with so the things are gotten a little better you don't know how it'll
be tomorrow who don't care when we slept in the cowshed we were like this only
today also we're like this on
when we were in the cowshed we were not like this you know like this only now
also work like this only rather well ahem we'll go whatever the hell happens
this is a little bit because success and failure is making the volumes of money
flowing into your life success and failure is not dependent upon the
recognition that you're finding in the world you're successful with life if you
know how to walk with the joy to help
meltdown is not held I know that it was sudden amount of global running involved
but it's not as hot as hell not yet it's not bad at all it's very good I'm sure
you can do with less food smaller house it's another car or walking is great to
know walking is very good for help to do some man who just became 100 years old
in Coimbatore City and not met the man I said in the newspaper just a month ago
he became he he's hundred hundredth birthday they asked him what is the
source of your health and well-being because he's still strong and good he
said I am a walk King and he put a hyphen in walking and said I'm a walking
every day I walk hundred I'm still walking so your failure could be
extremely good for your well-being don't be against your own well-being say
tomorrow gonji and walking
it's your recipe for health there is no such thing as failure failure is an idea
because success is also a stupid idea your idea what is success and what is
failure isn't it ease of trying to change the world
change of idea isn't it easier if you just change your idea of success and
failure everything is great isn't it if you were a beggar on the street today if
you could walk into the restaurant eat a masala dosa and pea tendril peas below
this would be the high the peak of your success didn't answer so you got
entrapped in social situations and it is not even your idea why am i crediting
you with this it is somebody's idea of what is success isn't it don't become a
slope to somebody's idea at least have your own idea you have no idea of your
own don't deceive yourself every idea every thought every emotion every value
that you have he's picked up from somewhere and it rules you from within
it rules you from within you are religion your society your
culture has trained you to believe that this is it so first the first and
foremost success is that you are not a slave to anybody's idea
this is success whatever the situation of life
you're alive means you're successful isn't it
let me see it if you're successful
this is success you're alive you do know the value of life you're crying about
the share market you do not know the value of life because the damn graph is
going up and down you want to die
you
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