It is titled, "Bachelor Husband."
Hello.
I'm the mom of 3 kids who are 3, 7 and 9 years old.
"Mom! I need school supplies."
"Mom! Where are my socks?"
Wah!
It's a battlefield at home every day.
But my husband...
"Watch the baby while I do the dishes."
"Later."
"No, now."
"Fine.
I died.
I have to play another round."
He doesn't just play games at home.
After work, he goes into his room
and assembles Gundam robots.
He flies drones in the living room.
Drones in the living room?
He does whatever he wants to do.
One day, I was vacuuming our place.
"Where did Gundam's arm go?
Did you clean the room again?
Do you know how much that costs?"
I guess he notices the robot arm being gone,
but not his wife cleaning the house by herself.
I got so angry and threw things, but...
"What more must I do?
I feel suffocated, too."
Slam!
He even ran away from home.
I've given up everything for our children,
but my husband does whatever he wants to do
as if he's a bachelor.
Can you please talk some sense into him?
What do you think about this concern, Nami?
My ex-boyfriend that I dated before I debuted
loved playing video games.
I would go look for him at internet cafes.
- Really? / - Yes.
But when you're married,
you have to raise the kids together.
I would be very stressed.
What do you think?
I haven't thought about marriage yet,
so I don't know about that.
But we like to play video games, too.
When he said that he must play another round
I thought that was understandable.
- Because you play games, too? / - Yes.
Let's bring her out now.
Please come on out.
(Who's concerned about her husband?)
(Lee Yugyeong)
(Bonggi escorts her)
Baek Bonggi escorted you.
Not Oh Nami.
(Beware of the similarity)
I didn't want her to be mistaken.
Tell us what hobbies your husband has.
- Mobile games. / - Mobile games.
- Computer games. / - On his computer, too.
He likes to assemble Gundam robots.
Now he has started to fly drones.
When we dated...
I never really liked playing computer games.
But we would date in internet cafes.
- I.C. date. / - Yes.
I thought it would stop once we got married,
but even with 3 kids, he still does it.
I think he married his hobbies instead of me.
Does he do his hobbies every day?
Once he gets home from work at 7:30 p.m.,
he goes into his room to play computer games.
He gets changed and goes into his room?
He plays games until I tell him to eat dinner.
One time, I was breastfeeding our youngest.
You are breastfeeding?
Our youngest is 21 months old.
Wow, you've breastfed for a long time.
I was up until late to look after all three kids
and I heard him laugh from his room.
He had his headphones on and
was playing a computer game while chatting.
Hearing his laughter just drains my energy.
You didn't say anything?
"Do I work hard so that you can play games?"
I got so mad and wanted to break something.
So I threw his mouse.
A mouse is important in playing games.
He got mad about that and
left home for a few hours.
(I don't want a husband like that)
How about when he's building Gundam robots?
He goes into his room to build them.
He won't come out for hours at a time.
One time, I cleaned the room and lost a part.
He badgered our kids, including the youngest.
The 3-year-old?
What did he say to the 21-month-old baby?
"What did you do with the part?
Have you seen anything that looks like this?"
"Did you eat it? Open wide."
How many Gundam robots do you have at home?
We have about 20.
If I hadn't stopped him, we might've had 100.
What about drones?
I didn't know before,
but I found out that we have 4 drones at home.
You have 4 drones at home?
So he's into flying drones these days?
Yes. He flies them in the living room.
Three kids in the house and drones. Wow.
We went to the beach recently.
He disappeared while I was watching the kids.
He was off flying his drone.
(He went off by himself to fly drones)
What does he say when you yell at him?
He says he's having a hard time, too.
I said, "Do you think you're still single?
I'm tired, but I'm doing my best for the kids."
I don't know why he won't change.
Did you just cuss?
So you cried alone a lot?
Our youngest hurt her lips and nose
while playing and got a bloody nose.
My husband wasn't at home at the time.
I got so angry that
I yelled at my son for not watching her properly.
Right. The anger gets directed to children.
So my son was crying because I yelled at him.
I was crying because I felt bad.
You all cried. You all cried together.
So your husband doesn't help you out at home?
He says he'll help.
He plays with them for about 10 minutes.
The youngest always asks for me.
When I leave to take a shower,
he can't take care of the crying baby.
So he opens the bathroom door.
Then I have to hurry.
Your husband and baby wait for you?
Yes, they stand by the bathroom door.
He didn't help out since the eldest was born?
- Yes. / - Since the eldest?
But you still had your second child.
Then you still had the third child.
You knew he doesn't help, but kept having kids.
Let's meet your husband now.
He looks like he has a lot to say.
He looks nice. He's very handsome, too.
Let's meet him. Hello.
Hello.
Let's get it all out today.
Do you understand your wife's concern?
I enjoy watching Hello Counselor.
I saw many addicts come out on this program.
I don't think I'm as bad as any of them.
You're not that bad, so you don't understand?
We did have a man who was into Gundam before,
but you're into Gundam, games and drones.
It's like Kim Gunmo got married and had 3 kids.
(Ugly Duckling Father)
- You're right. / - Right.
Kim Gunmo does all those things by himself.
Since I'm married, I can't do many hobbies,
so I found something I could do by myself.
As for drones,
our eldest is taking drone classes after school.
I bought drones to enjoy them with our son.
My wife said, "Find something you can do at home.
Don't go out." So I started to build Gundams.
- She told you to do it? / - Yes.
He did what you told him to do.
(Who is telling the truth?)
He did what you told him to do.
But I didn't know he would get into it that much.
(He didn't have to listen to me this well)
You didn't know he'd get that into it.
We asked for pictures to see
how many Gundams and drones he has.
(Many Gundams in the room)
They're quite big.
Some are built and some are waiting to be built.
Sure. He didn't throw away any of the boxes.
Four drones.
- The black one... / - That must be expensive.
The black drone can't be flown at home.
It has a GPS feature.
(Oh gee)
He must seem quite annoying to you, right?
Yes. I've sacrificed so much in my life,
but he seems to enjoy his hobbies still.
That's annoying.
I tell her to start hobbies, too.
I can see it. "Let's fly drones together."
"Build the left arm. I'll build the right arm."
What kind of hobbies did you suggest she starts?
I suggested that we play badminton together.
Then who would watch the kids?
You must find someone to watch the kids first.
Kids only want their mom.
That's because you don't play with them.
I said that we'll play once the kids grow up.
So she'll raise them by herself in the meantime?
Your wife wants to enjoy her hobbies, too.
You must take turns watching the kids.
But it sounds like you seem to ignore your wife
when she asks for help. What do you think?
It's not that I ignore her.
It just takes some time before I do something.
It takes time?
My wife hates that, too.
I think for 5-10 minutes before I act.
What do you think about?
What do you do in those 5-10 minutes?
What do you do?
I think to myself, "I must get up."
You think about getting up for 5 minutes?
(He only thinks rather than acts)
I have to get up. I should.
Should I?
Have you ever thought about playing games
or building Gundams with your children?
If I do that,
they try to do it by themselves without me.
(Speechless)
You open the bathroom door and rush her
when she tries to take a shower?
I don't rush her.
I just stand by the door with our youngest for an hour.
That is rushing me.
How can your wife enjoy her shower?
You said that you take time to act.
Then why are you quick to stand by the door?
I take time to stand there and wait for her.
Why do you wait for her by the door?
Is it because the baby wants her mom?
I tried everything, like giving her a plane ride.
But she looks for her mom within about 10 minutes.
So I just wait where she can see her mom.
Having hobbies isn't bad.
You need to relieve your own stress, too.
I knew I'd have to give some things up after marriage,
but I didn't know I'd have to give up so much.
(What?)
(Did he give up?)
Please tell us what you had to give up.
I plan events for a living.
I have to be creative.
Then I physically work when there are events.
I have to find ways to relieve stress.
It'd be nice if he only had hobbies at home.
(There's more?)
There's more?
He has fun outside of the home, too.
What does he do?
He plays basketball and drinks 3-4 times a week.
- Oh my. / - Basketball?
He used to play twice a week.
He's too tired to watch the kids afterwards.
He does act like a bachelor.
When I gave birth to our youngest child,
he was at the basketball court.
What?
(Oh my!)
Maybe he didn't know.
Sir.
Did you go because you didn't want another child?
(How could you?)
- That's terrible. / - That's bad.
She was close to her due date,
but she told me that I could go.
But that doesn't mean...
She said that I can go,
so I asked her if she meant it.
"Can I really go?"
Then soon after, I got a call.
I rushed to the hospital then.
One time, I got so angry that he was out so late,
so I locked the front door.
We live in a house with a fence.
I was in the living room breastfeeding
and I heard a noise outside.
He was climbing over the fence?
Yes, he was jumping over the fence.
She said that I drink 3-4 times a week.
But I don't get to drink with my friends often.
It's only once in a while.
You drink with them 3-4 times a week.
Be honest with us.
(You got me)
You drink and play basketball.
You do whatever you want.
You're leaving all the work to your wife?
No. Once I get home after work
it's about 7:30 in the evening.
I clean the house, bathe our kids,
lay out their bedding and take out the trash.
It sounds like he does that every day.
I do all those whenever I'm home.
How many times a week?
About 3-4 times a week.
- Is that right? / - No.
She says that you come home late 3-4 times a week
and you say you bathe kids 3-4 times a week.
I guess there are 9-10 days in a week for you.
Maybe he cleans and drinks on some days.
They must have their own calendar.
Alberto was on our program recently.
We asked, "How much do you help your wife?"
He said, "I don't think of it as helping her.
It is both of our jobs."
After our son was born, raising him is
both of our jobs. I'm not helping her.
He's right.
That's when I fell for him.
(Every household needs Alberto)
He does try his best.
When I call while he's out drinking,
he comes home to bathe the kids.
But that's just an excuse.
He does it to drink without feeling guilty.
"I've done my job."
So he can say, "Don't call me. I'm drinking."
Whenever someone calls him to go out drinking,
he never says no. When he hangs up,
he says, "I'll ask my wife and call you back."
His friends...
Other people will think
that I'm a terrible wife.
What else does he do that makes you look bad?
He likes to give me presents on special days.
He got me a bracelet for our 10th anniversary.
He asked, "Why don't you post it on social media?"
(Brag about it on social media)
- He asked you to post it? / - Yes.
He likes to show it off to people.
You must post it saying, "A gift from my husband."
With that title.
I said that I didn't want to bother doing it.
He asked, "What did your friends say?"
He cares about...
- He cares about what others think. / - Yes.
I think she misunderstood me.
As for the bracelet,
I got it for her after our second child was born.
She gave birth at home in the bathroom.
- Really? / - Yes.
So I was kidding when I asked her to post it.
Sure. I can understand that he wants to
look like a good father and husband to others.
When I went out with my kids,
people recognized me.
So for no reason, I held up my son.
(Pretending to look happy)
(We're a happy family)
I wanted to show people that we're happy.
My son was thinking, "What's wrong with Dad?"
I did the same thing at a mall.
I'm curious. Have you ever watched the kids
all by yourself?
I do tell her to go out and leave the kids at home.
But she doesn't go.
It's because she doesn't trust you.
Let's say that I go out,
asking my husband to watch the kids.
But his parents live right above us.
You live in the same building.
One time, when I got home
my mother-in-law was holding our daughter.
(How embarrassing)
I felt so bad and embarrassed.
If his parents can't help, he calls me
and says, "Say Mommy. Ask for Mommy."
What?
I recently went out with a few other moms.
I left at around 10 p.m.
Then at about 10:40 p.m...
- Just 40 minutes later? / - Yes.
He showed up at the bar with our kids.
He brought all of them with him.
- To a bar in the neighborhood? / - Yes.
What did he do?
He sat at a table right behind us.
He sat right behind you with the kids?
That's so much pressure.
The two older kids have fun on their own.
It's not too much work.
But even my mom can't handle the youngest.
No one can get her to stop crying.
I want my wife to come home before she cries.
How can she know when the baby will cry?
You just want your wife to come home.
Her mother-in-law came here today.
- Hello. / - Hello.
What do you think about this concern?
Oh gee.
Please tell us everything. It's all right.
I feel bad and pity her.
But I can't help her out because...
I'm a dance instructor.
- You are? / - Yes.
Oh, I did notice her pants.
They have glitters.
I noticed that her pants are extraordinary.
They're so pretty.
- You're a dance instructor. / - Yes.
Your son is saying that he has given up
a lot of his hobbies to help his wife out.
In your opinion, who's telling the truth?
My daughter-in-law is telling the truth.
When I look out the window at night
and don't see his car in the parking lot,
I call him.
"Come home now."
"All right, Mom. I'll be home soon."
He comes home 3-4 hours later.
Sometimes, he comes home very late.
What were you thinking during those hours?
"Why am I not going home? What am I doing?
I'm so disappointed in myself." Feeling guilty?
How could you show up 3-4 hours later?
So it's 10-15 minutes for your wife
and 3-4 hours for your mother.
What do you think about his hobbies?
You heard about the hobbies he has.
Building robots.
He's so into it that he can't hear anything.
He even caused an accident once.
(How?)
- Why? / - How?
(This isn't funny anymore)
He'll stay up all night to build a robot.
He plays games. He dozed off behind the wheel
and caused an accident twice.
- Twice? / - That's terrible.
I told him, "Don't do that. Go to sleep."
But he won't listen to me.
It's not because of my hobbies.
I couldn't sleep because of work.
I also suffer from insomnia.
- I haven't slept well for days. / - No.
But you can sleep when you're driving?
I clearly saw it.
- See what? / - I clearly saw it.
I clearly saw it.
- See what? / - I clearly saw it.
Please tell us everything, ma'am.
Please continue.
That night
he was in his room all night
doing something. He was making something.
When I stopped him, he pretended to stop
and started to play games.
That day...
He caused the accident the next day.
I'm really curious, sir.
Why do you lie when you get caught right away?
My mother is mistaken.
No, I'm not. I saw it.
(He is left speechless because of his mother)
Has your son always been slow
in doing things since he was a child?
- Yes. / - Making excuses...
In elementary school, if I didn't go with him,
he would've never made it to school.
(His true self is revealed now)
He would read all the signs along the way.
What about making excuses?
Yes, he always did that, too.
Denying things, too?
Yes.
He does everything.
It's a habit of his.
- It's a habit of his. / - It's a habit of his.
You didn't know when you dated him?
Making excuses and such.
I thought it was all out of love.
Oh no.
In your opinion,
what is the biggest problem that your son has?
What's the biggest problem?
Oh my... His problem...
(There are too many)
Why didn't you try scolding him then?
He has a big head now. He won't listen.
I have a big head, but I listen.
(Same big heads, but different functions)
Does he play with the children
on his days off?
He either plays games or rests.
Since Dad is playing games,
the kids want to play games, too.
Sure. "If Dad is playing, so will I."
So they play games together.
Our eldest son once asked me, "Dad only drinks
and plays games. Why did you marry him?"
- Your son asked you that? / - Yes.
(Shocked)
I would've been shocked.
"Your dad went out to drink again."
"Your dad is playing games again."
My wife always says that to the kids,
so I think they're getting brainwashed by her.
They were not brainwashed.
She said it because she didn't want you to do it.
Did you really ask that to your mom?
- Yes. / - Why?
She married a man who drinks a lot.
(Oh no...)
What don't you like about him drinking?
He doesn't come home early.
Because he comes home late.
Does he play with you when he doesn't drink?
No. He used to, but...
What does he do when he's home?
He plays computer games or watches TV.
That image is engraved in the son's head.
What do you want to do with your dad?
I want to play battling games with him.
Battling games.
The loser must stop playing games.
You need to beat him.
He said that he bought drones for you.
Do you fly drones with him?
- No. / - Why not?
He bought them to fly them with you.
I quit flying drones.
- He quit. / - You quit?
I bought one to fly it with my son.
I quit flying drones. (A lie)
I bathe our two older children.
I don't shower often. (A lie)
I didn't cause the accident because of my hobbies.
No, I saw it. (A lie)
(You can't lie to us anymore)
Has your mom ever gotten mad
because your dad builds Gundams?
"Why are you playing games
without putting the kids to bed?"
(He's copying his mom?)
How cute.
You should become a comedian.
He can do impressions.
What do you want from your dad?
Is there something you want him to do?
I want him to stop flying drones at home.
- What else? / - What else?
I only don't want him to come home late
when he goes out to drink.
It's okay for him to play games and watch TV?
Yes.
So you can do it, too, right?
(You caught me)
We've been talking for a while now.
Are you willing to change your behavior?
My wife and I have been talking about this.
Once they grow up,
I will go out with them and play with them.
They're at that age. He's 9.
Are you going to wait until he's in high school?
I've been doing that since my son was 6.
Soon, they won't play with you.
They'll be busy with their friends.
(Is that right?)
I'm sure there are things that you want to do.
I want a hobby and to get a license.
I wish I could have just 3 hours
of free time per week.
I want to go where kids can't go.
A smoky BBQ place.
(Moms can relate to it)
A place that's too dangerous for kids.
It has to be smoky so that you can eat a lot.
I want to be able to go and chat all night.
Eat meat and talk about your husband.
(I've had so little free time)
(That I have such a minor wish...)
What is it that you don't want him to do?
When I ask him for help,
I want him to do it right away.
I want him to spend less time on his hobbies.
Rather than waiting until your kids grow up,
help her out until they do.
Rather than saying, "Okay, I'll do it"
just say, "I'll go in 2 hours."
Be honest.
Make a promise.
Can you do what your wife asks you?
Yes.
How?
Shin Dongyeob's suggestion? Or your wife's?
I promise to do what Dongyeob said.
Why did you have to say that?
Make a promise.
Agree not to go out on spontaneous meetings.
Uh...
Promise her.
I will not go out with my friends
unless it was set in advance.
(Please)
(Keep your promise)
What about playing games at home?
I will play after our kids go to bed.
Go out on weekends and ride bikes with them.
Expose them to many experiences.
Let's start with Iseul.
I hope you do your best now
so that you don't regret it in the future.
If he doesn't keep his promise, go to the bar he's at.
Now the entire country knows,
so please post it and expose him.
I think this is the process of being happy.
I hope you can have your own free time.
I think it's a concern.
You should work harder.
What would you like to say to him?
Thank you for listening to my concerns.
The things that I asked for...
Please play games less and go out less.
Let's raise our kids as a happy family.
I love you.
Now that she said that she loves her husband,
let's watch her mother-in-law's dance.
(On the spot)
(Please show us)
(I'll say that I love you instead)
She's so cute.
Press the button if you think it's a concern.
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Please stop.
Let's see the result.
How many votes did they get?
The last digit is a 3.
Did they get over 100 votes?
(Please show a low number)
143 votes.
(They got 143 votes)
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