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hi guys welcome back to my channel so today we are doing a hot wings
challenge slash best friends tag so I have a guest here with me
I am Sydney we have some hot wings or notice we have carbs on Korean BBQ and
the atomic so we're gonna answer some of the questions that you guys asked us as
we go spicier and spicier wings anyways if you guys are interested first make
sure you hit the subscribe button and the little notification bell if you
haven't already let's go ahead and get to the video start off sit and I have
been friends for I guess it's only been a year but we were fast friend I became
friends with pretty much I think it was kind of like a back and forth that we're
sliding in each other's teams who worked out at the same gym and then we started
working out together but it feels like a longer amount of time that we've been
friends in the year though I'm going to school right now and be a nurse and I'm
model also with an agency here in Seattle I've been doing that for a long
time and I love it I'm also really into gaming so I am
starting to stream on Twitch within the next couple of weeks hopefully I just
finished building my PC yes so following around there yeah down and down in the
description as well yeah cool so you guys can come check me out
so West which it is a online streaming platform mostly geared towards gamers
because people will like to watch other people play games I'll be playing games
on stream I'm probably gonna be a variety streamer so I'll be playing all
sorts of things but I'll be playing like League overwatch probably some destiny
so it's just like us eating yeah it's just a video what is your best run
really bad at one thing that I'm bad at making decisions yeah it's
not even funny but we don't even want to jump about it that's animal ate a lot
they're not a big noticeable thing darling sometimes a long time oh wow
thanks yeah I've never really done much to piss
me off so I can't think of anything at all and I'm the sick shit any friend she
just fucking sucks this appears here to get your twitch
notice favourite stupidest inside joke go to pet name and biggest pet peeve
from a shout out or not oh yeah that means significant other oh oh my god do
you think she's like what's your favorite pet peeve or like pet name from
a shout out I think I've got some crumbs me not so job muck but that's just like
a catchphrase by grinding James's death every time you sit down I said dick okay
every time I say we say muck I know but that's not funny
Jared I say what the muck yeah mm-hmm just muck
yeah that's an inside joke muck is just like everything everything's mocking my
life all over this table mm-hmm making fun of my days working promos in here
there's mucking crime up in your hair go to pet name
she's cost people money a lot she calls me anyway yeah I cost him some time
oh yeah I used to be yeah that's how she is I know she used to just do it
the squids a popular one for Sydney okay yeah that was my fence so when I had a
fence done my fence today was squid just Irwin no ha I'm gonna say it should have
kept that OG named biggest pet peeve from a shout out so let's just say
biggest pet peeve in general like in general or for me and you do for me okay
yeah biggest pet peeve from you it's so sorry when you eat you breathe really
hard oh my god no no one told me I breathed
hard until Brian said every it's hard and then everyone knows there was a
galley breather because you do wanted to say anything but I agree I
know dude especially when you eat though I remember I was over at your place and
you had made ramen forest regardless even if you weren't sick you would have
been braided down hard and I was like I could literally plug my ears I was like
I cannot listen that's so funny I know diya when I was more active on my
stories and I would be like show me like products or something with no Mesa can
you breathe so hard all the time I just have sinus problem I don't think I have
one from you you're so laid back and like low-key that sometimes you don't
feel like doing stuff yeah like sometimes we'll have danger like
let's look cute and go take pictures and there's a show up it's sweat we don't
make the bond was like I don't feel like it but I still show up to take her
picture so yeah yeah she acts like it's a burden for me to take her pictures
when it literally like takes no time I might try not to breathe me or something
it's not gonna be all the footage I know you see what about Pepe's from Lodi it
still goes back to eating like if a guy eats like a slob it really really
bothered I don't think I've ever been with a guy where I would notice that is
eating was a clue yeah what are major first impressions that make you think
you know when it comes to relationships a major like turn offs okay um I guess
one should be eating in order to be talking right a major turn offs for me
like first impression why definitely something who comes off too full of
themselves or I think it's really easy to recognize
whether or not it's gonna be like a high-maintenance person that you're with
like Christine said I'm pretty laid back somebody who can't have fun that's a
real bummer because I like to be goofy and have fun
and if it's like somebody that is high-strung it doesn't want to like let
loose or it's not secure in themselves that's a really big turn-off yeah
insecurity yeah I think it's a fine line when they're overconfident and you have
two insecure yeah if there's a good I like one
god knows what he has and he's he's fine with not trying to broadcast it to
everyone yes it sounds selfish but I don't like it when it seems like they
have a lot of personal issues not in a mean way but yeah just because I feel
like neither of us come with a lot of baggage but it's like it's one thing if
they do have it and you don't find out until later but if if you can tell right
away or they're talking about it right away you like just met this person yeah
they're yeah and they're talking about all the shit that they've been through
doing something like that and then you're just like oh but it's fine if you
get to know them better and they gonna find out about their story and oh yeah
that's fine yeah cuz everyone how sorry yeah but up front that's like a big red
flag okay and then what you look for demands the opposite
I definitely like nice smiles teeth are super important to me and then
personality wise mm-hmm excuse me yeah personality wise I think it's somebody
who's confident comfortable mm-hmm again like able to be goofy I really like what
people are able to interact with people they've never met before you know like
if you go to like a concert or a party yourself go ahead yeah yeah so I'm super
outgoing like they're able to just talk to anybody like that is so attractive to
me because I know that I can bring that person like around my family and I don't
have to sit and babysit them like you're gonna be able to communicate and like
joke and have fun and be comfortable without me yeah and I think that's
really attractive yeah that's a good thing I have to say smile too that's
just like that first thing I've noticed it's not like a must but it's the first
thing that I notice that affects yeah but if I get to know someone good and
then I know smile later it might not be that big of a factor but yeah and then
personality is I feel like I have to have someone that can make me laugh I've
been with people that aren't that funny and like they're looking fast but it's
it doesn't make it fun like oh they don't have a fun relationship have you
ever been hung up on boy if so how did you finally move on I've caught feelings
before in college or with your stage where I went out all the time meeting a
lot of guys that weren't ready for a relationship the way the I am if I'm
spending time with someone I might slowly start developing feelings but
never hung up or I coming back to them it's funny brand I
kind of talked about it in our Q&A but when him and I met he was the biggest
boy there was know a lot of people that get hung up on boys
yeah people that keep going back and it's a frustrating to see really
frustrating for my friends first correct perspective when you see like your
friend going through right on a pain with the same person who's putting them
through it continually what advice would you be able to pick up I would just say
you have to understand your Worth and there's always gonna be someone who's
gonna treat you better I'm not crazy always I mean you don't have to find
that person right away maybe then it's taking time to recover from our
relationship yourself finding yourself worth if you don't know it you know
being able to tell yourself that you do deserve better than that and it can take
some time in high school I was with a guy that would like hang out with a girl
and have her over at his place and watch TV shows and go to the fair for him and
I were dating three years and it was not a place where it was so comfortable that
I didn't want to leave that was like my first real boyfriend after that I kind
of realize I'm so much better than that after seeing other guys that treated me
better yeah sometimes it takes you leaving to
realize how bad it was it's frustrating to to see a friend go through something
like that especially from the outside perspective you're like dude why are you
still with them yeah and you get so invested when you're close with that
person and I are taking a toll on you
relationship related but how do you stop comparing yourself to other girls -
people in general in high school wasn't as confident and I would prepare myself
- girls all the time she look quite more I was a hater I would have to say mean
things about other girls make me feel better about myself there's not a lot of
good that comes out of feeling like you need to compete with people all the time
I feel like also having a lot of jobs had so many jobs in the last like five
six years that I met so many new people that it's gotten me to a level of
confidence being comfortable with who I am and talking to other people and
meeting so many people that I feel like that kind of helps with your confidence
I think definitely meeting in people helps just so understanding that
everyone is so different and their beauty is different than your beauty and
it always is going to be I think I was really insecure
school - I didn't necessarily take it out on other people but I pretended like
I wasn't because that was just my way of dealing with it I think it was hard for
me too growing up black in a predominantly white community and
constantly be JIP like being jealous of the fact that I didn't have straight
hair pale skin or like you know these Eurocentric features it was especially
hard for me to realize that like I'm never gonna be that girl and I'm never
gonna look like that girl but I'm still beautiful even though I don't look like
that girl even recently I've had to take like breaks from seeing things on social
media yeah it can really take a toll on you like when you're scrolling to the
Instagram page and you just see like all of these perfect looking people like in
swimsuits on the beach and you're like wow she looks so gorgeous and I feel
like at one point in time I used to go wow she looks so gorgeous like why don't
I look at like that and you have now I'm like wow she look gorgeous like I'm
gonna hit it with a like in a comment yeah you look great girl cuz like she's
yeah I appreciate that you look great that's fine separate of that I can still
look great yeah exactly yeah and I think especially now that we're more involved
in social media we know how much goes into taking a good photo that the photos
that you see on Instagram aren't real hopefully maybe on and it's so much work
to get a good photos into the kini photo looking out the flex and turn your body
a certain way and all the editing that goes into it the stuff that you see on
Instagram isn't real life yeah and so once you're able to separate that from
yourself then it's easier for you to appreciate and enjoy that kind of stuff
without comparing especially in like modeling photos yeah I cannot even begin
to explain how much editing the photographer or the the separate etre
does for those photos Dave like resized everything I have muscle tone they'll
like take it out in the photos or they'll fix your skin and they're so
good in it that it looks like you're perfect
mm-hmm you have to water bucks back up Puma I hate being the jealous type how
do I stop being such bummer friend's hot ash bunny girlfriend Brandon doesn't
have good girlfriends that are cute like he doesn't really hang out with
girls that often we had a group of girls that he knew from high school that I
wasn't like fond of it doesn't matter if he has like cute friends or like
good-looking girls that he things out with all the time that's fine I don't
feel like threatened by that but if she doesn't respect me and him that's what I
have problems yeah I agree and he's not the type of person to hang
out with like a girl one-on-one anyway unless it was like at school when he was
one of you dubbed would have liked his study sessions or whatever but I never
felt threatened by anything like that I really agree with what you said it's
kind of situational like if the girl is disrespecting you yeah then I think you
have every right to be you know to say something but if it's just like general
girls you feel jealous or threatened by then I feel like it's like an underlying
insecurity that it's something that you have to work on yourself I think if it's
a personal problem when you as a girl feel threatened by any other girl that
he hangs out with that's something that you need a fix yes I go back to you yeah
yeah because if he has good friends and he hangs out with then it could be like
a 15-year relationship if you're constantly telling him I want meeting up
with that girl and and then you know I'm the controller
girlfriend yeah but if it's like this girl is going out of her way to you
uncomfortable or yeah she does like passive-aggressive things like the one
thing that we've always talked about is when I remember at a Mariners game when
this girl came up to Brandon and like hugged him and was all talking to him
and you were right behind him and she knew that you were dating and it didn't
say anything so that was actually one of the girls from his high school too
she came up and hugged and it was all lovey-dovey hi I haven't seen him so
long and I'm like across away and I kind of see this so I was coming over just to
say hi and she sees me coming and then turns around and leaves doesn't hang
with me doesn't say hi or anything and then that's when I have a problem with
yeah if something went that happens I feel like it's fully justified to tell
your man like I'm not comfortable with this person yeah she doesn't respect me
and it's just the same thing if you were hanging out guys I did respect her
boyfriend then it's not like it's not right yeah what to tell your friend when
her boyfriend has cheated more two more times and got someone knocked up oh whoa
tell your friend that she would he got someone
duh I feel like there's no other way just gonna be born that's it sorry Fred
we need to sit down and talk maybe we don't text them or call them me in
person yeah and you can't be there for them it's not your responsibility to
sugarcoat I'm solar like wait on it it's your responsibility as soon as you know
cuz it affects relationships what she wants to do with it it's up to her
mm-hmm right away I got a baby your baby
daddy's up baby daddy your saw all over there keep talkin I've been talking well
I can just fall apart which uh what to do when your partner doesn't see eye to
eye on things I can check my teeth first I think it depends on what you're not
seeing eye to eye on yeah give it something small yeah then you're just
different and that's fine if it's like a relationship defining characteristic of
that person I've met guys that don't want to have kids I wanted your nose you
yeah yeah and maybe and maybe it's something down the road you guys are
able to talk about it I met guys that weren't Christians and I'm Christian
yeah that's not like a big thing for me because yeah it's something that come
later on or changer or you guys can overlook it but if it's like really
important things like what you want to do with your life mm-hmm I was with a
guy that wasn't motivated or didn't have goals gonna be a big deal breaker for me
sorry I see I also think it has to go to being open-minded because you may not
see eye to eye but Matthew said things can change so if that person is
open-minded then it's okay like that's fine you guys can work on it but if that
person is so accept in whatever they believe that you're there's not much you
can do I think - if you guys are arguing a lot and the way the arguments in and
out always is the same way it's not good for your relationship and you have to
work through that and that's not something that you can't clash heads are
on every single time resenting each other yeah for that thing
that you think differently always happen when your partner isn't treating you the
same as the beginning of the relationship that's a bad one Brandon
still opens doors for me even if we're like coming out from dinner or when
hanging out the Google friends will walk to the other side of the car and open my
door and let me and so he's really good about that
that hasn't changed since the number four state he still does that opening
the car door but what what goes behind that like he still takes his time to
realize that that means something to you and oh she's gonna you know understand
that I care for her by doing this and I want to show that I care for her mm-hmm
and I think that's why it mattered because when you first get into a
relationship you want to do everything left for that person you know I want to
do everything that's gonna make them happy right then I think people start to
slack off later into a relationship that's like oh this person's already
happy I don't have to worry about doing those small things that are gonna make
them smile right and that's not the case because yeah but it's like - when you
first start dating and you're going on dates all the time and say later on you
don't go on as many dates I feel like that's not a big deal anymore
yeah you still do your date you get home differently yeah if you're at home
watching TV making food together so that's not as
big of a deal looks like that attitude yeah attitude behind food if they start
disrespecting you or like making fun of you in front of your friends and that's
something that they didn't do before mouth was on fire I know I don't know
what I just said I'm like trying really hard not to be distracting while you're
talking but like I'm hurting yeah I know I really am mmm what if he's
not romantic anymore you just like play that off if you do just nastily Burke I
gonna have to do is communication Mike you have to tell him the romance so you
had at the beginning of the read relationship is what really drew you
into that person and you're not getting about any more and really important
aspect to keep maintaining yeah well if we don't feel like he's being a
relationship I mean relationship he's not being
relationship I wants to leave thank you next
if you feel like he's not romantic and it's the spikes and he's not being
romantic anymore mm-hmm then what I don't know I just want to get that out
it's not I remember anything else I feel like it's a comfort thing tell
them zone if he's stopped being romantic three years into a relationship imagine
five and then ten years couples go through rats like that but after your
honeymoon phase whatever you guys get too comfortable and then you don't do
anything fun anymore and I'm complacent mmm there's ways to revive it you have
to both work together their life trying to be better about that because that's
the worst yeah when you guys fall into something like that so I just don't talk
to it and work through it but I think I guess one of the really important things
to have any tissue oh this is a deep one yeah all right let's get deep guys how
do you know what it's time to move on and how to get over someone it comes to
a tipping point where like if at the end of the day you're not happy and you're
constantly having fights or you're having the same conversations over and
over again and it's never really going anywhere then it might be time for you
to sit down and think about if it's ever going to get better if it's worth it
that's a hard one relationships are all about adopting
because you're two totally different people and you're learning how to like
walk through life together booth and if you guys can continue to change and
adapt so move it one another's lives yep you can make it work but if you get to a
point where like you feel like you cannot accommodate that person or
compromise with that person anymore then there's just no point because you you've
reached a wall that you're never gonna get through right and I thought that's
when I would be like yeah it's time for me to move on yeah there's nothing that
can come with this relationship after this yeah so there's still being
immature or there's problems that he's talked about that haven't gotten better
then yeah I like what you said can I have water yeah if we're both
competitive there's one to drink water and milk loses is a motherfucker fat buy
delish I've given MIDI on this how to get armor picked up so check that off
you have it but pretty much what grandma did are videos like this time she's
gonna put in this girl no I feel like the biggest thing is staying
busy not talking to that person what about old friends
Hanna's girlfriend has have broken up so many times and they keep getting back
together and then breaking up and getting back together you know we all
have friends that are like that that's never good for anyone because it's not
good for you it's not good for her it's not good for your relationship and then
your friends all see this happening and then they have their yeah which their
opinion doesn't matter but it might affect your friendships yeah it's gonna
make it harder for you to stay in that relationship and be friends with people
that you're friends right so I think it's important completely closed
yourself off and distance yourself and then learn to take up your time maybe
find something that betters yourself one of my good friends got out of a really
long relationship and lost hella weight and now looks super good that's the type
of stuff and you need to go through after a breakup and like better stuff we
can get better instead of like falling into this pit in from the back for
yourself and you also have to take pride I think and like being by yourself yeah
I think it's so important yeah I'm by myself and I'm fucking awesome yeah I
can do this and I think it's really awesome that I'm doing this for myself
but also there there are times where this you can it's okay to feel like
you're alone where you get sad yeah like it could even be like a couple months
after the fact then you just have this feeling like wow I'm I'm single I'm by
myself and this sucks and it's okay to have that even I went through phases
like that all the time but so important find something that you're passionate
about pursue that and then keep yourself busy I feel like that talking makes it
worse cuz I have my mouth open yeah okay bro
you have to eat your whole wing I'm gonna power through these two ones I
thought I couldn't actually okay here's a good one what's your favorite thing
about each other I like that said her never talking about
the southern egg but after way that both of us are we mesh really well together
we can sit and not do anything together and not have plans but not just tomorrow
she'll come over it will just be perfectly fine it'll be fun and I feel
like you're just such a good person like your positive energy no matter what you
cannot let shitty stand that Judy's thing happens to you but like the way
that Sydney is she wouldn't radiate that to other people you would even go up two
legs for ten like everything's off okay just a ladder it doesn't affect anyone
else she's just a selfless person so friendly and fun to be around
all my friends are in love with her oh thanks see Mike going off what Christine
said I also love that we can like do nothing and like she can be working on
her video and I can be working on like homework and we're totally cool like
chilling out with each other um I think Christine has a maturity
level and a friendship that I've never had before
I'm gonna mature - Wow I don't think we ever make each other like uncomfortable
or sad or like do anything to hurt each other's feelings
well like I know that if we ever did we would say it to each other whenever we
had any conversation with anybody else I really like that I know that I can say
that to her and she's not gonna take it to heart - where you're gonna be like
salty or not replot if we ever have a little tat then we'll just both know
that attack it's an attack if we ever have like a little bit of a battle
battle in our friendship then we address it right away
yeah um Christine is also goofy as hell and it's so fun you just giggle for
hours because we bounce off of each other and like she's the kind of friend
that we can like sit and joke about each other and neither of us are gonna get
upset yeah I also like found Christine after coming out of like a really rough
friendship I was in a really vulnerable place where like I didn't trust friends
at all we became really fast friends so it just feels really good to have
someone that helped me regain my trust and friendship and like I know and now
she's moving so there you go you broke my trust man crying sweating it caught I
feel like heat radiating Renee - dating her for us so that was a I hope you guys
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