Losing light pretty rapidly, gonna try and film this without my script and just talk.
So, I wanna talk a little bit about the idea of the "other woman", it's that really common
heteronormative trope wherein a man marries a woman and then that man cheats on that woman
and then the original woman is really really mad at the person he cheated with rather than
at the person who cheated on her.
And I think this trope is bonkers.
It doesn't make any sense to me at all, it never has.
I just can't understand why you would be more mad at a stranger than you would at someone
who has broken your trust.
'Cause that's the thing that you should be mad about, right?
You know, you're in a monogamous relationship you've committed not to do the thing that
they did, and then they're gone behind your back and done it.
But, some... the trope at least suggests that the "other woman" is the one doing something
so awful.
And I just, I can't, I can't process that.
I mean, is the other woman even doing something wrong at all?
Because that person has not, y'know, I say "other woman" but it could be a man or a non-binary
person, but let's just go with the way that the trope usually is, and it's usually the
"other woman".
Is that person doing something inherently wrong?
Because, they've not committed to anything.
They've not made any promise to anyone.
Maybe if they know that person is in a monogamous relationship there is something wrong with
it though...
I just don't know.
I just can't...
I think for me, I don't know, full disclosure: I've never done it.
I've never slept with somebody who was in a committed relationship with somebody else,
but also, I don't know that I wouldn't?
I just, I think maybe it's that I've never really put much stock in the sanctity of marriage,
or even the sanctity of relationships in general.
And I think that if you did have a really strong passionate belief in marriage, then
you would feel that there's some kind of, unwritten code that's being broken?
And that that's the thing that you should be angry about.
But I don't know because your partner is not your property, when somebody else sleeps with
them they're not stealing something that's yours.
And that's what it comes down to, doesn't it?
It's jealousy.
But wouldn't that be more about the person who is being cheated on than the person who
is being cheated with?
I don't know.
I wish I had a solid strong opinion on this but I don't.
I do feel like the idea of the "other woman" being evil is way over hyped, and way overdone,
and completely ridiculous.
Because I think definitely the person who is doing the wrong thing is person who is
cheating.
Obviously.
Cause cheating is bad and awful and hurtful and all of those things, but my real question
is: is there anything wrong at all with, you know, sleeping with someone when you know
they're in a relationship, a monogamous relationship, with somebody else?
I'm interested to know what everybody watching thinks.
Because I'm just going to go around in circles forever.
I don't really feel married to e- "married to", I don't really feel married to either
side of the argument.
I'm just interested to know, because I had a con- I had this exact conversation once,
ages back, with a friend of mine who felt very strongly, who believed very strongly
in marriage and felt very strongly that sleeping with someone who's married is and evil-bad
thing to do.
But I just don't think that.
I don't know, if you have a strong opinion let me now in the comments, and also please
let me know, if you can analyse yourself in that way, let me know why you think that.
Like, for example, if you're married and you're really offended at the idea of somebody else
sleeping with your partner, that would be pretty relevant.
Yeah, or, you could maybe just tweet me?
Or comments or whatever.
I reply to everything, usually, everything nice.
And yeah that's all.
The lighting is pretty weird, isn't it?
The sun is going down.
I hope you like my new digs, I think it's actually going to be a pretty good place to
film.
There are lots of options here.
And I think I should be back to weekly videos soon, although I don't want to make promises
right now, because everything is pretty up in the air.
Yeah.
How do I end these things?
Oh yeah!
BOI!
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