'E je ka so Yoruba' = Let us speak Yoruba
Let us speak Yoruba!
Hello my people, how are you doing? I hope you're well
I want this video to be very brief, I want to enlighten you with some truthful words
It's not everyday banter, we need to be sharing some knowledge with each other
I will be sharing truthful knowledge with you because I like you
If I didn't like you I'd keep the truth away from you
So, today I'd like to quickly touch on a topic
I have observed that there are some people that lose all the common sense they have left once they see someone that they are attracted to
I am here to remind you of how to make use of your head
There are some people that are incapable of being by themselves
If they don't have a romantic partner, they start shaking and lose the ability to function
They have never experienced spending time alone
If they lose a partner in the morning, they have a replacement by the evening
That isn't a good thing at all
I'm not saying you shouldn't have fun
Life is to be enjoyed ...
But you need to be content within yourself and be comfortable within your own individual space
You'll get to know yourself and know who you are
If you don't know yourself, how will others know the real you?
Some people lack individuality so much that their behaviour is influenced by whoever they are currently around
If they are around Olumide, they will act like Olumide
When they get around Tolu, they start to behave like Tolu
You need to know your own identity
When you know yourself, no one can tell you about you, because YOU KNOW YOU!
It is very important for us to know ourselves for who we truly are
The way I know myself now, there is no one that knows be better than I know myself
And not a single soul can tell me who I am, I know exactly who I am
It is important for you to know everything that you are
Even if you have a twin sibling, you didn't enter the world at the exact same time, you came out one at a time
There is no one on earth that God has tied you to
So, in this life you need to learn how to value your own company
There are some of you that chase love so much till the point that your skin starts to fade and lose its glow :(
At your young age, you already look elderly
Simply because you continue to put yourself through unnecessary stress
You don't ever calm down
You're constantly chasing men or women
You're constantly on the hunt for romantic partners
Life isn't supposed to be as complicated as we have turned it in to
There are some of you that are frequent clients of relationship dilemma advisors
You have relationship dilemmas on a daily basis
You're always like
GET OUT of there!!!
You're only playing yourself
Because if you were making use of your head properly, you would know that
If someone doesn't do right by you
If someone treats you like you're something in a trashcan
You're supposed to GET OUT of there
Those that solve relationship dilemmas now know you as someone that's ALWAYS having unsolved issues
You're always saying "could you please answer this question, I don't know how to do this & that"
When the answer is simply common sense
IF it is evident that you're not rated in a situation, you get yourself out of it, why is that a problem for you?
If you choose not to leave the situation simply because you do not want to, you cannot then say things like
There are some of you that since you got in your first romantic relationship, you have not had any form of personal space
Yesterday you had Bukky
Today Busayo is in the crib
Tomorrow you'll be with Bimpe
You constantly keep a collection of people
When do you sit and use your head to think
"How will my life improve?"
You never sit by yourself and enjoy your own self-company
You're constantly on a hunt for romantic partners
When your body hurts from all the chasing now ...
You'll say things like:
WHY WON'T YOU BE TIRED?!
When you have zero time for yourself
When was the last time you thought of yourself?
You've never spent time to evaluate your life and draw up action plans that are aimed to help you improve yourself
Your main focus is on chasing people to have relationships (and friendships) with
I am in no way saying that you should not form relationships, get married or have intimacy
That is not what I am saying here
Of course you are to form relationships
That's the norm in society, people look at you weird if you don't form any type of relationship
When people start asking you "when will you marry?"
Please DO NOT say I advised you not to form relationships looooool, I have not said that
I am simply saying that you shouldn't allow forming bonds with others to overtake your life
Do you understand?
You are giving yourself hassle and stress due to your lack of self-love
When you genuinely love yourself from within, you'll have internal happiness
When you have internal happiness, you now hold have the capacity to extend that love to another person
BUT there are some of you who are allowing your self-love to come second to the love that you are giving to others
You've pushed yourself into a gutter
Then placed someone in front of you in your own life
You're giving ALL your attention to that person
Whilst you've pushed your own self back
That's really bad.
I am not encouraging isolation
When God created humans, there were two
That's because we are supposed to be in pairs
BUT God didn't ask us to love our neighbours MORE than ourselves
The Lord wants us to join forces and become one
If someone is treating you horribly, you are to up & leave
The Lord wants us to have husbands and wives
But The Lord has not told us to go and put ourselves under sufferance because we are seeking romantic partners
The Lord did not tell us to go and put ourselves in hurtful situations because we are looking for love
So if someone isn't doing right by you, please pick up your bags and make your way out
It doesn't matter if you've been being mistreated for over a decade by this person, still leave now
Pick up your bags and make an exit to somewhere else
If returning home to your family is no longer a possibility because you've left them far behind
Find somewhere else to go
Do not allow anyone to take advantage of you or keep you trapped in a corner
Make use of your head to weigh the pros and the cons of the situation you are in
If the cons outweigh the pros, GET OUT OF THERE!!!
I won't be telling you this again.
There is no one on Earth that HAS to be a part of your life
If someone misbehaves towards you and is constantly being an overall rubbish individual
You can see it as your eyes are showing you
Your ears are ringing it to you
You can smell the disrespect
Even your tastebuds are letting you know ...
Your heart is telling you that you're dealing with a rubbish individual
But instead of you to get up and say "I'm tired of all this, I am leaving", you refuse to get up, instead you just continue to sit in the situation
You're not getting up to pack your bags and tell them "I've had enough, I'm no longer involved"
All this stress is taking its toll on your health
Your face looks like stiff bread now
Yet you continue to say:
What type of stupid 'loyalty' is that?
That's the type of 'loyalty' that can take your life away from you
Instead of you to look after YOURSELF
Take a look at yourself and remind yourself that your life is worth much more
You should be reminding yourself that your life is worth much more than how this person is playing you
You should be letting yourself know that how this person is playing you is NOT God's plan for you
You should be thinking of ways to bring yourself out of that situation
Ways to find the plans that God have for you to better yourself
INSTEAD, you refuse to leave
You sit there saying:
No one is going to improve their behaviour towards you! Just remove yourself from the problem
Go and work on and improve yourself
I want the best for you in life
When you put yourself first, others will treat you accordingly
If you make it clear that you are not a priority, you will be shoved at the back by others
No one will pull you out of whichever zone you place yourself
Do not depend on others extending their own love to you as your main source of love
Because if they give it to you, they can take it away from you. They can turn it off like a switch
And when they take it away from you, that'll be the end of you
I do not want it to be all over for you, I like everyone that watches my videos and I want the best for you all
Anyone that would like some advice is welcome to contact me, I give great advice
But the solution will remain in YOUR hands
I cannot physically drag you out of unhealthy situations
Once you look after yourself and make sure you are okay in the self-love department
All additional people that are introduced into your life will be loved in a healthy way by you, as you will be capable of extending the love you already have for yourself, not one that you're unfamiliar with
There are some whose self-love is not evident, all traces of it has disappeared
So you continually seek love from men and/or women
You see when you really love yourself, it won't matter if nobody else does because your self-love would be sufficient
When people begin to notice that you lack self-love, they WILL treat you like trash
That's because they know you won't leave, they know you're not going anywhere
The message I want to pass on today is that you should go and love yourself (genuinely, not the facade stuff)
I want you to love yourself first.
There are so many different ways that you can activate your self-discovery to self-love journey
Sit down by yourself and speak to yourself
Tell yourself "this is where I want my life to go"
"These are the steps that I will take for my life to get to where I want it to"
And top it up with a prayer!
There are some people that are naturally meant to be cute and chubby, now they're frail and unhealthy due to stress from being in an unstable relationship
Because a man/woman is stressing you out, you're refusing to eat
Some of you naturally have some healthy weight on you
Now you're unhealthily thin because you are not eating well, all because of how someone else is treating you
Instead of you to dust off the excess baggage people and move on with your life
I hope you have been able to take something away from this video
If you have also gained nothing from it, let me know which ideas you may have for my channel
I am the only person behind Tutu Adams
I set up my lights, I set up my background
I do up my face, I sit and record, I edit
I can't complain as no one set me this task
If you have any suggestions for the E Je Ka So Yoruba segment, please do let me know
We can help each other, you provide me with ideas and I will turn them into entertainment for us
That's all I have to say today
I don't have too much to say
A word is enough for the wise
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Goodbye, I will see you later <3
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