Hello.
I'm a man in my 30s from Gongju.
I went on a fishing trip with my wife one day.
"Honey! Fishing is all about patience.
Patience! Okay?"
"I hate fishing.
What's so fun about it? Let's just go.
"Oh, honey! What is this?
I caught one! I caught a fish!"
That's when my nightmare began.
Ring.
"Honey, where did you go so early in the morning?"
"I'm fishing.
Yes! I caught one. Bye."
Ring.
"Honey, I'm home. Where are you?"
"I'm fishing. Bye."
I did this to myself.
"Honey, it's your day off? Wake up. Let's go!"
"Go where?"
"There's a fishing competition in Busan."
- A fishing competition. / - In Busan.
I am dragged all over the nation
by my wife on my days off.
"Honey, I'm so tired. Let's not fish anymore."
"What? No more?
Then let's not talk to each other anymore."
She didn't talk to me for a whole month.
Where have we gone wrong?
Please give me back my wife.
(How strange)
Okyere, are you into anything?
You know those viral videos on social media?
I watch them endlessly.
- All night long. / - I can't stop.
You end up watching and watching more.
I'm so into social media videos these days.
I want to be in love, but it's not easy.
Really?
You broke up recently? Or do you have one?
Well...
I'm looking for the one.
You are?
I'm on the search.
Wait. Let me introduce you to someone.
- Really? / - Sure.
(Spring has finally come for Sam?)
Hyeyeon.
Are you free tomorrow?
(Who is this blind date for?)
You want to come out to Hangang tomorrow?
Sure. I don't have to be nervous.
If you go out in the hopes of meeting Hyeyeon,
Yeongja will be there instead.
Don't get your hopes up.
(Good-bye, my spring days)
Please come on out!
(Who's concerned about his wife's hobby?)
(Bae Jeonghyeon)
(Welcome)
Tell us how much your wife is into fishing.
My wife used to be an ordinary wife.
She used to do cross-stitching and house chores.
Cross-stitching?
That was her hobby.
I felt so bad that she was always home.
I like to go pole-and-line fishing
so I once took her with me.
Pole-and-line fishing is about
staying in one place, staring at one spot.
She hated that.
So I looked for something more active to do and
I found lure fishing.
Lure.
Lure fishing is when
you use fake bait and go around
- in a boat, right? / - Yes.
After I taught her lure fishing, she learned
the joy of fishing. That's how the disaster began.
So you caused your own problem.
I used to go fishing once or twice a month.
- That's not much. / - That's perfect.
My wife goes fishing 300 out of 365 days.
- 300 days? / - Yes.
This is my wife's daily schedule.
She wakes up at 4 or 5 in the morning.
She goes fishing by herself
on an electric scooter or a motorcycle.
She goes fishing on a scooter?
Unbelievable.
Then when it's really hot in the middle of the day
she comes home.
She takes a break?
Then she goes out again until 9 or 10 p.m.
She comes home when it's pitch black.
That's not all.
So we eat dinner around 9 or 10 p.m.
She organizes her fishing tools as she eats.
Cleans them up?
And her eyes are on the fishing channel.
Her hands clean poles as her mouth chews.
(She's a fishing addict)
She drags you around with her to go fishing?
That's what we heard.
My wife has a driver's license,
but she has never really driven a car.
So I think she needed a chauffeur.
Gwangju in Jeolla-do,
Chungju, Busan, Wanju, Gimhae...
In one day?
She travels a lot.
She enjoys kayak fishing, boat fishing, etc.
She goes out and catches flounder in the spring.
Bass in the summer.
Octopus in the fall.
Wow. Really?
- Halibut. / - Impressive.
She goes carp fishing in the winter.
She's a fisherwoman.
Since you enjoy fishing as well,
isn't it great to go fishing with her?
Well...
(Absurd)
It's nice to go fishing,
but I work double shifts.
I work double shifts,
so I work 12 hours at a time.
Whether I get off work at 7 a.m. or 7 p.m.,
I have to go with her.
She uses up your free time?
If I get off work at 7 a.m.
I have to go with her.
I drive about 500-600km on average.
How do you drive like that without sleeping?
Your wife is into fishing and you work.
Who takes care of your kids?
We have a son in 6th grade and
a daughter in 3rd grade.
They don't really need us on weekdays.
Once they go to school in the morning,
they come home at night after eating dinner.
Right. They eat at their institutions.
But on weekends, we go on an overnight trip
so the kids are...
- They are home alone? / - Yes.
Really?
(Please stop my wife...)
Let's meet his wife. Hello.
Hello.
Do you understand his concern?
I don't think it's a concern.
Sure. That's what you're supposed to say.
Why not?
I feel so great
when I'm out fishing.
My mind goes blank and I feel so refreshed.
Then drink Sprite. That's refreshing.
(Drink Sprite when you want to be refreshed)
It's so refreshing to drink Sprite in the shade.
Sure. You can feel that at home, too.
Or you can drink coke.
But this is different?
Yes.
There's that feeling I get when I catch a fish.
How does it feel?
My heart starts to race.
Right when you catch something?
No, right before I catch something.
That moment you wait for something to bite?
Yes, and I can sense that I'll catch one.
But you were bored with fishing at first, right?
That's when he did pole-and-line fishing.
He would just play with his cell phone.
I had nothing to do.
So it was boring at first.
When did you fall in love with it?
I caught a fish just a week after I started.
I couldn't forget that feeling.
- Afterwards? / - Yes.
I was the only one to catch something that day.
"Oh, this is how it feels."
You felt that thrill of accomplishment.
I felt like I've finally found what I'm good at.
What are you best at? Lure fishing?
Bass fishing.
I mostly go out to catch bass.
How do you do that? Just sit and wait?
No. I must move to the right point to find them.
I must find a point and catch bass.
That's the satisfaction I get.
True fishermen normally care about the size.
I caught a 60cm-long bass once.
- 60cm? / - 60cm?
That's very hard to catch.
Oh, wow.
How long is that bass?
Is that a carp?
That's a bass.
I'm more shocked by...
What?
You look so different in the picture.
She looks so stylish.
What do you think of her fishing outfit?
I'm impressed. It's an outfit of a new concept.
She looks like an idol singer...
- Swag! / - Posing for her album cover.
It looks like the cover of a fishing magazine.
(The perfect picture for the cover page)
(This time she has two big fish in her hands)
Her pose is saying, "Yeah, I caught them!"
She looks like a singer releasing a new album.
Fish album swag.
So you get to eat what she catches, right?
You must get to eat a lot of fish.
- Right. / - I'm so jealous!
I love sushi so much!
She usually catches 10kg of small octopuses.
But she usually goes out 3-4 times.
So she catches 30-40kg of small octopuses.
We eat small octopuses for 4 months straight.
You must get sick of eating octopuses.
You must feel like you've become one yourself.
Whenever I talk to someone
my breath smells like an octopus.
I don't want to even look at the ocean.
Because you ate them for so long?
- This looks good. / - Boiled octopuses.
In spicy vinegar sauce. That looks so good.
That is perfect when you're drinking soju.
Stir-fried octopus in spicy sauce.
In ramen.
- What's that? / - Octopus eggs.
I'm already starting to get sick of octopuses.
So you ate like this for several months?
For 4-5 months.
She put octopuses in everything.
In almost every dish.
Do your kids enjoy eating octopuses?
At first they did.
They got sick of eating it, too.
Yes, they got sick of eating octopuses.
Do you get that thrill when you catch them, too?
Yes.
Really?
I end up catching squid along with octopuses.
Small octopuses go bam, squish.
Squids go bam.
- Bam? / - Yes.
- What about flounders? / - They flutter.
What about bass?
They go bam, bam.
How amazing.
Isn't it tiring
to go fishing every day?
Not at all. Since I'm busy fishing,
I can't go to the gym. So I work out at home.
To go fishing?
Maybe she works out at home with two fish.
You went too far.
I agree with you.
You feel pressured to be funny?
No, I don't.
(I'll try to relax)
Let's return to reality here.
You have a daughter and son in grade school.
Don't they still need their mother?
That's true, but before I go out
I make sure they have food to eat.
I call them often.
They don't need me on weekdays.
They come home in the evening.
But on weekends, I feel bad for them,
so I ask their aunt or my mother-in-law to come.
So that I can go fishing.
Your in-laws come to babysit them?
Yes.
But shouldn't at least one of you
stay home with the kids?
You could ask your husband to stay home with them.
Then I can't go far to go fishing.
I can't drive.
You need to make many great memories with them.
Have you tried taking them with you to go fishing
so that you can spend more time with them?
I did take them with me once.
They absolutely hated it.
They complained, "Why did you bring us here?"
Oh no.
They both hated it.
Don't you enjoy your time when you go fishing?
It would be great if I could fish with her.
(Deep sigh)
I want to fish, too, but right when I'm about to,
she yells at me.
"Come! Take pictures of me!"
- Pictures? / - "Take pictures of me!"
So I have to go to her in a kayak.
So I take pictures for her.
I take about 50-60 pictures in 30-40 minutes.
Then she has to check the pictures.
They are for posting on her social media account.
She is addicted to social media as well.
Those pictures are for posting on her social media?
In order to post pictures on social media...
She says that if she wears the same outfit,
people will think she only owns that outfit.
So she buys the same 6-7 outfits at a time.
Fishing outfits?
She once ordered 16 leggings at once.
She even bought matching outfits for me,
but I don't want to wear matching outfits.
She buys matching outfits and tells me to
wear them for her social media.
Does she have many followers?
She has over 5,000 followers.
She has many followers.
Do you press the "Like" button on her pictures?
I do sometimes. Sometimes, my wife will
go into my account and press the buttons.
She's completely addicted.
(My followers mustn't watch this...)
Oh no.
Aren't you embarrassed, ma'am?
No.
Surprisingly, it's not embarrassing.
When I took a break from my career for a year,
I once wrote the comment, "I miss Shin Dongyeob."
Surprisingly, it's not embarrassing.
Isn't the bottom of the boat opaque?
Is there an outfit that fish prefer?
Let's ask.
I think they would like something colorful.
Do you catch more in a more colorful outfit?
Fish do look at your outfits.
I change my outfits depending on the weather
and the color of the water that day.
(The kayak woman is wearing pink pants!)
Excuse me, but is your wife working right now?
No.
Couldn't she sell small octopuses?
You buy fishing tools and clothes.
That must cost a lot of money.
That must be quite a big financial burden.
She spends about $2,000 a month on fishing items.
- For fishing? / - Per month?
She spends that much by herself?
Just for the fishing tools.
If you drive to those places, you pay for gas.
Expenses for food.
Food and gas...
We travel about 500-600km a month
so we spend $500-600 a month.
That's $2,500 a month.
She has 50 poles for lure fishing.
50?
20 poles for carp fishing.
She has 3 kayaks.
Those are kayaks?
- Those are nice kayaks. / - 3 kayaks.
- That's unbelievable. / - Unbelievable.
Wow.
Oh my goodness.
It looks like a fishing store.
- It does. / - You're right.
- There are so many. / - Those are baits.
Is that for decoration?
I see baits next to the wedding picture.
(Embarrassed)
(Look at that wedding photo...)
Unbelievable.
She begged me to buy her a kayak
so I paid $3,000 and got one for her.
I guess she didn't like the color.
One day, two more appeared in the garage.
- They are the same kayaks. / - Different colors?
It was an impulse buy.
I'm impressed by him.
He just lets her do what she wants.
She spends $2,500-3,000 on herself each month.
Do you make enough to afford that?
No.
My wife spends 60-70% of my salary.
After we pay the bills and kids' private classes,
we have $700-1,000 left.
We need that to pay for food.
But she bought those kayaks so
I eat at work even on my off days.
The kids can barely eat at home.
Ma'am! Did you know about this?
She's glaring at him. Oh no.
I knew about it.
I thought it'd get better after that month.
So I got a side job, too.
- What job? / - You got a side job?
I peel chestnuts.
Peel chestnuts?
Yes. Gongju is known for their chestnuts.
I get about $1 for peeling 1 kg of chestnuts.
I earn $400-500 a month.
I chip in that much each month.
I think you need to peel more chestnuts.
She must work all night.
This is what I told her.
"We need to save up some money now
for our retirement."
This is what she always says.
"We must enjoy life while we're still young."
Some say there's no point in saving money.
We only live once.
I think it's important to enjoy it.
I don't think there's a problem.
It's not really hurting us.
But it is. You're spending too much.
He's eating all his meals at work.
And you have two kids to take care of.
It wouldn't matter if you were alone.
If you don't save up now,
how will you be able to afford anything
once your husband retires from his job?
We'll get our pension.
What kind of life do you dream of in old age?
I want to live by the water.
I'm preparing something right now.
I'm trying to get a license.
- Boat license? / - Yes.
A motorboat.
That's why I need to live by the water.
Have you ever considered
getting on a large, long-distance fishing boat?
She'd be able to fish all she wants.
Don't you feel a bit guilty?
Even though you have a side job...
I do feel bad,
but it's something that I enjoy doing the most.
I thought he'd be understanding.
Don't you think you're being a bit selfish?
Can your husband do what he enjoys doing?
No.
You can, but not your husband?
(That's terrible)
They brought someone with them.
How do you know them?
I'm his younger sister.
The husband's younger sister.
You must really hate your sister-in-law, right?
The kids' aunt.
How do you feel?
I think this is more of a concern for me.
I should be sitting up there instead.
Since they go fishing on his days off,
their kids are home alone on weekends.
They always call me up to watch the kids.
I work, too, and I have plans.
Since they always ask me to babysit,
I have to cancel my plans to go to the kids.
They are so inconsiderate of me.
I live in Cheonan.
- Not in Gongju? / - No.
I work in a beauty salon,
so I am always tired.
It's hard to travel back and forth.
I once got sick.
I took my medicine and was about to rest.
They came to pick me up in Cheonan.
She asked me to watch the kids.
She told me to go rest at their place.
She sounded so bright and cheerful.
"You'll come, right?
I'm leaving the kids." She just tells me.
I tell her that I won't go, but I get worried.
Sure. You love your niece and nephew.
When is the toughest for you?
I'm divorced now,
but I have a child.
- You have your own child, too? / - Yes.
I don't get to see my own kid often.
I only get to see my child on certain days.
They even take that little time away from me.
She asks me to watch their kids, too.
Why can't you be more adamant with her?
I did tell her.
How? How were you adamant?
"Stop calling me." I told her that.
That's the problem with Chungcheong-do people.
Just turn off your phone.
Seoul people would say, "Stop calling me!"
But Chungcheong-do people speak like this.
"Stop calling me."
Others think they don't really mean it.
I'm sure you knew about her concerns.
I do feel bad.
- And? / - I do feel bad.
Since fishing is something that I love,
I thought she'd be understanding.
(Oh gee...)
You aren't thinking this through.
You are having an affair.
You are completely in love with this.
This isn't a hobby for you anymore.
Your heart is into social media and fishing.
You're having an affair.
But your husband has been very understanding.
That's how you should look at this.
It's like someone being addicted to gambling.
They used to blackmail by cutting off one's hand.
You're being selfish beyond imagination.
Your wife is so stubborn about going fishing.
Aren't you worried?
The thing I'm most worried about is
she goes to an isolated area to go fishing.
You still love her since you worry about her.
She could get hurt or get bitten by a snake.
One time, she had a high fever.
I gave her medicine and went to work.
But I got so worried.
I came home early to check on her.
(How was his wife doing?)
My wife was gone along with her poles.
- She went fishing again? / - Yes.
I waited at home until she called.
I figured she'd come home when she was done.
I got a call from the ER.
The ER?
Then why did she take her fishing poles?
She went fishing by the river and
fainted from a high fever.
Someone found her and called 911.
That's terrible.
I took medicine for my fever in the morning.
I felt better later on.
The weather was so nice that day.
I couldn't just stay home. I thought I would
feel better, so I went out.
I blacked out as soon as I grabbed my pole.
You just let go of your mind.
Sure. Those drugs are quite potent.
(Please look after your health)
How do you want your wife to change?
You came to our program today.
Just fish half as much.
I work 4 days a week.
I want her to let me rest at least once a week.
I want to build memories with the kids, too.
Sure. They're still so young.
You just heard your husband's wishes.
A small family trip.
Well...
Do you feel bad?
I do, but...
She feels bad, but...
Can't you reduce the fishing days by half?
I can't.
You can't? You can't fish every other day?
I must fish in order to live.
What will you do if she doesn't change her ways?
If this goes on,
I would explode one day.
Sure.
Let me ask you this.
Do you love your husband?
I love him very much.
What is love?
Spending two-thirds of his salary and
doing only what you love? That's love?
No, but I do love him very much.
But...
You love him now. Will you stop
loving him if he doesn't give you money?
(Hesitant)
(This is the end of their love?)
Even then, I would still love him.
How would you feel if he warns you
that he's about to explode?
I am willing to give in a little, but...
There! She has taken the bait!
(She has taken the bait / Yield)
She caught it.
So how much is that little?
But...
My heart is racing.
He says that he loves me, too.
This is very exciting.
Shh! Be quiet!
We must ask her while she's caught.
How are you willing to give in?
Just a little more! Just a little more!
Just a little more.
Just on Sundays... Kids...
You won't go on Sundays?
No, not yet.
Spend time as a family on weekends.
How's that?
(Go fishing only on weekdays)
Is this a big catch or not?
But on his days off on weekends...
He needs to rest.
We must go far to go fishing.
We're asking you to give that up for your family.
How about staying home on weekends?
Fishing on weekdays is okay.
Spend 2 days with your kids.
Spend time with your family on weekends.
Bite!
(What's her answer?)
Okay. Weekends with my family!
It's a big catch!
(It's a big catch!)
We caught something big.
(He's finally smiling)
- Sir! / - He's shocked.
He's shocked, but his sister...
Dance with us, sister.
(She's cheering inside)
If any of our viewers see them fishing
on weekends...
We must tell the fishing association.
I know it'll be hard, but quit social media.
It's hard at first,
but another type of joy will come to you.
You must get away from a life of showing off.
If you post anything on weekends
we will be there to write comments.
"We hate you. You don't keep your promise."
"What are you doing here?"
We'll press the "Dislike" button.
The "Dislike" button.
There is no "Dislike" button.
- There isn't? / - No.
There is no "Dislike" button.
I'll write, "I hate that. I hate you," on social media.
Sir, change your password, too.
(We will be sure to check on her social media)
I think you end up spending more money
because of social media.
You're buying more clothes and tools for...
Why don't you try to reduce your expenses?
Why don't you set an amount?
How much will you spend a month?
I need some expenses to travel
so I think $1,000 per month would be good.
You get $500 from your side job.
So he only needs to give you $500. Right?
(He's like King Solomon)
What would you like to tell your wife?
I do love you,
but this is my last warning.
He's so manly.
Guests. It's time to vote.
Is it a concern?
You don't have to cover up your hand.
It's a concern.
Of course.
(Yubin's opinion: It's a concern!)
I...
I was able to look back on myself.
Let's say I have 100 pairs of jeans at home.
They are all different to me.
But no one else knows that, but me.
I realized that I've never had anyone
to tell me not to spend so much.
I think this is a serious concern.
If you can relate to him, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Please stop.
Please say a word to your husband.
I love you very, very much.
I will try to put myself in your shoes
and try to fish less.
You love him more than you love bass, right?
You love him more than you love octopuses?
You beat the fish.
Please show us how many votes they got.
"Her New Hobby."
Out of 200 people. The last digit is a 4.
They got over 100 votes.
100?
164!
(They got 164 votes)
(That many?)
It's titled "Concern That Doesn't Need To Be Repeated."
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