What's good for Wall Street is good for the Jews, not America.
Used to be Jews would rage against an arms deal with Saudi Arabia.
But now that Israel and the Saudis have a "common enemy"--Iran--the Jews applaud Trump
signing his $110 billion dollar deal with Riyadh.
Jewish Wall Street's scheme is "knitting together" Saudi Arabia with Israel.
[Clip: "The reason for this is the White House says it wants to knit together the three great
religions of the world; Islam in Saudi Arabia, Judaism in Israel, and Christianity in the
Vatican.
But behind all that was really going on is an attempt in Saudi Arabia and Israel to knit
together a new kind of coalition to take on the two common foes that people in the region
see, Iran and the Islamic State."]
NOT the "Islamic State."
Jewmerica and Saudi Arabia have done nothing to stop ISIS, just the opposite.
It's about the Axis of Evil--Israel, America, and Saudi Arabia--fighting Iran via shared
intelligence and now more US weapons.
The Washington Post boasts that Jared Kushner, (Mossad's mole in the White House), helped
to close the arms deal...and with Goldman's Gary Cohn, Trump's economic adviser, playing
a big part...
...I mean, the banksters have been all over Saudi Arabia long before they sent Trump.
They've been courting Aramco to go "public" on the New York Stock Exchange, meaning big
bucks for Jewish pockets.
And now with the arms sale--where Lockheed Martin, McDonald Douglas, and Raytheon will
gratify investors, Jewish Wall Street which underwrites their stocks will have a Bar Mitzvah
catered with the lives of Yemenis and Syrians.
"It's going to create jobs," says the commander in chief.
[Clip: "And we want to thank you and Saudi Arabia, but aah, hundreds of billions of dollars
of investments into the United States and jobs, jobs, jobs."]
I wonder if the deal includes Saudi Arabia building mosques in Minnesota, and with those
mosques sending their Wahhabi preachers.
That's worth a sword dance with the Saudis.
And the relatively few "jobs" it will create--bombers for the Sauds--will be bathed in the blood
of Yemenite children dying at the rate of one every ten minutes due to the Saudi-driven
civil war and subsequent humanitarian catastrophe.
And the biggest scam of them all is Trump saying the deal will 'help' the Saudis 'fight
terrorism.'
Everyone knows that Saudi Arabia is the biggest sponsor of terrorism, supporting al-Qaeda
in Yemen, backing ISIS in Syria, and spreading Wahhabi 'radical Islam' throughout Europe
and Asia.
Don't you know that Germany's been moaning that mosques in Munich are being 'radicalized'
through Saudi missionary propaganda?
Yet Tillerson's rant against Iran rings truer against the Saudis.
[Clip: "What we hope, what I would hope, is that Rouhani now has a new term, and that
he use that term to begin a process of dismantling Iran's network of terrorism."]
Pin the tail on the donkey, Saudi Arabia, NOT Iran.
But what's good for the Jews--a huge arms sale to the Saudis--means that stopping radical
Islam--exported by Saudi Arabia, is 'off the table.'
But around the collar goes a radical Islamic medal on Mister Trump.
The same medal he accused Obama of "bowing" to the Saudis when getting it.
Trump's been hamstrung in the same foreign policy sling: The enemy of the Jews, and thus
America, is Iran: The agenda: Prevent the Houthis in Yemen from aligning with shia Iran,
and stop Assad, yoked with Iran, from blocking a Greater Israel.
And what few jobs the arms deal brings to America will be outweighed by more wars for
the Jews.
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Learn colors for children with Batman make POLICE funny - Finger Family songs for children - Duration: 2:11.
Daddy finger, daddy finger, where are you?
Here I am, here I am. How do you do?
Mommy finger, Mommy finger, where are you?
Here I am, here I am. How do you do?
Brother finger, Brother finger, where are you?
Here I am, here I am. How do you do?
Sister finger, Sister finger, where are you?
Here I am, here I am. How do you do?
Baby finger, Baby finger, where are you?
Here I am, here I am. How do you do?
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QUICKS #003 - Duration: 1:01.
*SIGHS OBNOXIOUSLY*
Ok- someone's in a mood!
I'm gonna make you pay attention by saying im fine
ya sure?
keep paying attention to me
i know what you've been doing all along, but now i will pretend like i just noticed it look like you're really upset I just want to help you
ok, maybe ill tell you the truth
told ya so
imma take my glasses off to show im serious now say go I'm here for you
well, trump still hasn't gotten impeached.seriously-how is he still here?
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HYGGE - Duration: 7:42.
Hey guys! So welcome to another view of
my apartment! I'm sitting on my couch,
which is a more accurate reflection of
where I actually spend most of my time.
Today's video, as you might be able to guess
is about hygge. I kept seeing books
about hygge at work and thought it was
just another one of those fads,
which maybe it is, but I kind of just
wrote it off initially and wasn't
interested. And then I saw Helene
Jeppesen's video about hygge and
realized how much hygge is already my
life. So I decided to read one of those
books about hygge and learn more about
what it really is. So I've gathered a lot
of the basics of Hygge around me and
this is just stuff that I already have.
Candles, not all of which are lit because
I don't want a fire, because I also have
my plants which are doing okay and
haven't died yet. And I also have some
delicious chocolate chip banana bars
which I'm not sure count as brownies or
not, but they are delicious.
I have my mug full of warm tea, I have
pillows, I have a blanket nearby in case
I get cold, but I don't think it will
because it's going to be eighty degrees
Fahrenheit today. I have my fairy lights
behind me and I have my very cute purple
wintery sweater that is kind of a Nordic
pattern. I'm also using the natural
daylight of my window to light up my
apartment. Behind me you may be able to
see my crocheted granny square blanket
that I made last year, and of course my
couch, which is very comfortable and I
hang out on all day long when I'm home.
And I also have a book right next to me
which I plan to read more of later today,
and that is one of the Outlander books.
These are the elements of hygge that I
most relate to and just find myself
naturally having in my life. As I was
reading the first book I read about hygge,
there were some other elements included
that I didn't necessarily relate to, and
that included stuff like hunting, being
outdoorsy, drinking alcohol, being social,
and owning certain Danish products like
furniture and expensive lighting. In some
of the reviews that I read about the
first book, people described it as being
materialistic and condescending, and only
for people who could afford to be "hygge."
So after that I decided to read more
books about hygge and get a more
well-rounded view of what it really is,
and what it can be. In total I read three
books about hygge, so now I feel like I
pretty well know what it means even
though it's still hard to describe and
there's no real translation for what it
is in English. But really hygge is about
the simple things around you that you
already have that bring you joy and
comfort, and it's about feeling safe, and
satisfied, and warm, and loved, after a
productive day or stressful day or a
stormy day. It's essentially the things
around you that you already have that
you love, that bring you comfort. And it's
different for everybody. It can work for
introverts, which I am, or for extroverts.
It's just about whatever it is that
gives you that feeling. And a lot of the
materialism I would guess comes from
more of a feeling of nostalgia and the
things that Nordic people grew up around
and are familiar with, so it would be
totally different in a different country.
Hygge is really deeply rooted in Nordic
and Danish tradition, and weather, and
lifestyle, but it can be adapted to
wherever you are. I recently learned that
my mom
is 16% Scandinavian, which we kind of
already knew but now we have an official
number. So I like to think that some of
those traditions passed down through my
family, because when I was reading about
hygge, a lot of it reminded me not
only of myself, but of my family and my
parents, and their hobbies and daily
habits. So a lot of the things that hygge
includes are already a part of my life,
but there are some other ones that I am
trying to incorporate more, because they
just sound really nice. And that includes
cooking more often and trying out new
recipes. I made these chocolate chip
banana bars myself and they are very
delicious. It was the first time I made
this recipe and I actually altered it a
little bit because originally it was
supposed to be a slow cooker recipe but
I don't have a big enough slow cooker,
and made them in my oven instead. I also
want to go out and take more walks even
though I can't really go on long hikes
or anything because I have a hip issue. I
do like taking walks and just enjoying
the sunshine and being outside, and I am
trying to be better at taking care of my
plants. This is the second aloe vera I've
had because the last one died, and I also
killed a violet plant and a bamboo plant,
which are all supposed to be very easy plants to
take care of. And you can't see but I
also have string lights and
different lamps around my apartment that
I really like and are very cute. I also
want to learn how to poach an egg,
because I think that was one of the
things that was included in "skills you
must have if you want to have a truly
hygge lifestyle." So if you are unfamiliar
with what hygge was, maybe this has
piqued your interest and answers some
questions about what it really is, and if
you already knew about hygge I hope this
enlightened a little bit of myself
and the things that I like, and how hygge
is already an integral part of my life,
even before I knew it existed. Now I
don't normally have all my candles and
all my plants and string lights on my
couch, but this is a little more
condensed for the sake of the video, but
they are all things that genuinely give
me joy, and I think that is a lovely
thing to have in times such as this. So I
hope you enjoyed this video and I hope
that it turns out ok because it's my first
time filming in this setup and my camera
has been overheating the whole time, so
it's probably been shifting around a
little. But oh well, it's what I've got!
If there's any other aspect about hygge
that you want to talk about, feel free to
reach out in the comments, and if you're
feeling sick of hygge already because
sometimes I do by the end of talking
about hygge and saying hygge a hundred
times in 10 minutes,
then that's ok too, and thank you for
watching anyway. I hope you have a very hyggeligt weekend or evening or whenever
you're watching this, and I will see you
next time, bye! *blows out candle*
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IKEA「給孩子更多空間」居家改造廣告影片 - Duration: 9:34.
How messy a home can be?
Show us around your home
This is our room
We all cram on top of the bunk bed
This is where daddy, mommy and my little sis sleep
This is the secret hideout for my brother and me
No, this is the place
Ok, show us around
This is the bathroom and the kitchen
I bathe in the bathroom
This is our living room,
we all eat here
I'm currently a full-time mom
What can I do if you keep on throwing it around?
Certainly there is a general perception
that full-time moms can stay at home,
and do all the chores
This is definitely a misconception!
The current situation is
we have so much stuff at home
The speed at which
I'm tidying things up
can never keep up with my children
Ooh!
This is…
Why did you give it to her?
Please
What are your expectations?
The first is
plenty of storage space
I really don't want them to
grow up
remembering only the mess
at home
A space for them to study
Like a classroom
When the kids have a regular spot to study,
they will learn
how to tidy up
This presents another challenge,
they need a separate space
to exercise,
to let off steam
(The family stays at a hotel during the makeover process)
How unique a child can be?
My oldest daughter
was assessed with ADD at school,
coupled with a learning disability
My boy,
he might have ADHD
My youngest girl
has yet to be diagnosed with anything,
but she's still under observation
This is the place to sleep
ADD：Attention Deficit Disorder ADHD：Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder
ADHD must include two important elements,
one is attention deficit,
the other is hyperactivity-impulsivity
If a child only exhibits distinct attention deficit,
we refer to it as ADD
My oldest girl,
when she first started elementary school,
she could not fit in,
so she disappeared after class was over
Where did I find her?
Inside the library
The biggest challenge now is that,
her academic performance does not correlate with her IQ
The current medical diagnosis is that
it's a problem related to the brain function
For example, during her first year in elementary school,
the ten weeks of learning the alphabet
were totally disasters
Because although she sees A on the blackboard,
she would write down B
When asked to spell out a phrase of three words,
she would spell out the first word,
then she'd forget the second one
There were only three words,
but it literally took us 20 minutes
She would get so frustrated and cry,
so did I
I sometimes feel that
she just wants to get a rise out of me
These kids
often make mistakes unintentionally
But the repeated offenses
will truly upset their parents
Because they feel that
why do you keep on making same mistakes
As for my son,
he challenges authority,
and even provokes the teacher
When the teacher disciplines him,
he would storm out
Once I watched the teacher chase after him as he stormed out,
the first thought that came across my mind
was not about him,
but "What about the other 29 children in the classroom?"
I was so frustrated that I cried
ADHD treatment is a multi-faceted approach
Our courses are designed to achieve therapeutic effects,
drawing is on Mondays,
English lessons are on Tuesdays,
followed by maths on Wednesdays,
they get a day off on Thursdays,
and my son crams in two maths sessions
after his Go class
For Saturdays it's table tennis,
and attention training course at SCU
Sunday is the day for resting
Sabbath
For children like them,
everything must be structured
Structure means where to do, what to do,
and how long to do
One room for doing homework,
one room for sleeping,
and one room for playing
If this table is the writing desk,
we don't use it for dining
Is it fun to stay in a hotel?
Yap!
Really?
Yes!
Normal or not,
based on an important proviso,
that is whether the disorder severely affects
the patient's life function
If people around them can understand and accept,
and kid and parents can adjust,
so the kid
doesn't have serious distress in life adaptation,
why do we have to give him an diagnostic name?
Wow so bright!
So bright!
Wei Wei, is this our home?
Welcome to your home!
Wow, is this really our home?
Sis I want this one!
Sis I want this one!
Getting in right away!
This is a cabinet for little sis
Open your mouth, I'll brush your teeth
I will take that one
You will take that one
I will sit here
Be quiet!
Wow this is my kitchen!
Is this real or just for decoration?
I'm so touched!
Toilet,
I'm hiding
So many storage areas,
this is perfect for our home
I like my home,
because it's beautiful,
I really love it!
I don't want to go to the hotel anymore
My room is so pretty
I want to stay at home every day,
no more school
My homework will be finished in no time,
because our home is just too beautiful
It will keep me energetic
that I will finish my homework very quickly
I will hold you to that
I'm so surprised!
Yes!
I'm deeply touched
to have these alterations done to the house
I believe they will
become more self-confident
This is precisely my goal for this makeover,
and to see that all fall into place with my own eyes,
I feel so grateful
A round of applause please
Give me a hug
With the screening of this video,
many people will begin to understand
the conditions my children are faced with
For some parents,
they may be fearful of people putting labels on their children
But even if you don't talk about it,
others will still try to guess
and put labels on your kids
On the contrary,
if people know about your children's conditions,
they will appreciate that the kids simply need some space
This is an opportunity for me
to let others know
how to help these children
Everyone should be endowed with the right perceptions
Then they will realize that these children are not that different
Some kids wear glasses,
some have ADHD
and some have a cold
Each child has certain problems that must be dealt with,
and every child has something he is good at,
or some areas that must be worked on
That's all
Mom, take a look at this
When we first started our family,
it was really tough
Because after a decade or two at the workplace,
I've established a certain level of self-confidence
and achievements and so on
All these were gone
Yes, all gone.
So I often tell people,
I'm an intern full-time mother
As if all my achievements
now rest with how my children perform,
but they are actually not performing as I expected
In the beginning,
I was utterly distraught
After going through the ordeals with my oldest and second child,
my third child's experience,
was actually a relatively smooth and successful one
I truly feel that
children are a blessing
How courageous can a mother be?
This is the card
my friend made for me
She says she often
sees me riding a bicycle,
carrying my three children on the road
I had tears in my eyes
when I first saw the card
She told me that moms will only get stronger
As first time mothers,
only moms will be stronger than moms
I really believe only a mom
will appreciate this sentiment
Indeed
Me? Should I look over there?
My mommy is very nice
Mommy is a very gentle person
When I sleep I need a hug
Ok, you need a hug from mommy when you sleep?
Mommy works really hard,
because she needs to take care of us
because she needs to take care of us
Because she is always tidying up the house
When my older brother and sister don't behave
What happens when they don't behave?
What happens when they don't behave?
Tiring
So who is tiring?
Mommy
Daddy and mommy
Daddy and mommy are both tiring right?
Yes
So do you want to say thank you to them?
Ahem
Thank you daddy and mommy
Mommy I love you
I love mommy
Mommy I love you!
BGM by Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart，1756-1791 One of the greatest composers of the Classical Era.
Make Room for Children
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Cuphead: Rosa!
Cuphead: I think your a cat.
Rosalina: *Frightened whine*
Cuphead: *Holding in a laugh* Yeah, your a cat!
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Momma Interview "Expert Edition" featuring Alicia Taverner, LMFT | HappyWithBaby.com - Duration: 23:23.
Catherine O.: Hi, I'm Catherine O'Brien at happywithbaby.com and I'm so excited to be
here today for another Momma Interview Expert Edition with Alicia Taverner, who is a licensed
marriage and family therapist in Rancho Cucamonga, and she specializes in working with couples
and moms who are stressed out.
So, thank you for being here today.
Alicia T.: Thanks for having me.
It's always fun to chat with you, Catherine.
Catherine O.: Aw, thank you.
So, why don't you tell us a little bit about what makes up your family dynamics?
Alicia T.: I have me and my husband and we'll be married for eight years this year, which
is exciting.
Catherine O.: Oh, congrats.
Yeah.
Alicia T.: And then we have a daughter who just turned 18, who we adopted through foster
care and then we have a son who's two and a half and I have a baby on the way, so I'm
33 weeks pregnant right now.
I'm due with it in June.
Catherine O.: Yeah?
How are you feeling?
Alicia T.: Okay.
Tired.
Ready.
Catherine O.: Yeah, I was definitely not one of those glowing pregnant woman.
So, I'm always like ... have so much empathy when I see the baby bumps.
Alicia T.: Yeah.
Catherine O.: So, tell me how you balance being mom, working, and your relationship
roles?
Alicia T.: I think it's definitely always a struggle, to be perfectly honest ... in
trying to balance everything and trying to give everything the attention that it needs.
But I think ... right now, we're kind of in the midst of preparing for baby.
So, that also means readjusting.
Like what our lifestyle is looking like and just constantly checking in.
My husband is awesome.
He's an amazing support.
He does a lot of ... he works from home, so he does a lot of the hands-on stuff with our
little one.
My older daughter is in school and she pretty much has her own life.
She's still in high school, so she works and goes to school and so she kind of just does
her own thing.
I mean, it's not like she needs supervision.
She helps out around the house too.
And so just kind of making sure that I am communicating, I think, is the most important
part.
I can find myself getting into like these spirals where I'm just feeling so overwhelmed
with everything and then have to constantly remind myself, like, "Okay, but you have two
other grown people in the house that can be helpful."
And we have extended family and it's really just about asking for what I need and not
get into the place where I'm like, "Okay, I can do all of this stuff.
I'm okay.
I'm doing it all," and then I'll just be in tears after a really long day.
Especially being pregnant.
I mean, like the hormonal stuff is just ... comes out my eyes.
So, I'm like, "I'm just so tired," and my husband is like, "Well, why didn't you ask
me to do that today?
Or why didn't you ... ?" I'm just like, "I don't know."
It goes back and forth, but constantly being willing and open to asking for what I need.
I think that's kind of like one of the biggest lessons I learned after having my son.
Catherine O.: Yeah.
It's hard to ask for help, especially if you're used to being able to do things and doing
it on your own.
I find that.
Like I'm always, "Like ask for help.
Ask for help."
And then I find myself that same rut where I'm like, "Yeah, why am I not asking?"
I kind of want people just to know what I need and not have to ask.
Alicia T.: Exactly.
Catherine O.: But it doesn't work that way and then I'm disappointed.
Alicia T.: Yeah.
Definitely.
I mean, my husband and our communication has to be a top priority.
So, doing date nights.
We have every other weekend where we'll take a night out and take my son to a babysitter
... with grandma.
And they're happy.
I mean, they would probably do it every week, but in our heads it's kind of like, "Oh, we
don't want to burden other people," or whatever.
But they're happy ... it's like a win-win situation.
They're happy to spend time with him.
They wish they could spend more time with him, but having that time together is so super
important to us because it's like where we catch up, where we kind of make our big decisions
about what we're gonna do.
And so, like I said, we're kind of restructuring, rearranging, how we're gonna do things with
two kids who are under three and what that's gonna look like.
So, me working a little bit less because I'm in private practice and I also have a contract
position where I do psychological evaluations for nursing facilities and mental hospitals.
I probably work like 30 hours a week but I squish it into three really long days so that I can
have more time off.
But now it just seems like I'm really recovering from those really long days on my days off,
just because I'm so tired.
So, we're trying to restructure that and make some changes so that we can do that.
Catherine O.: Yeah.
And I feel like it's a constant ... I mean, that's one of the most important parts of
having those regular check-ins is because it ... I feel like it changes so much because
their needs at that age change dramatically over a couple of years.
It's like keep checking in.
Alicia T.: Yeah, yeah.
I mean, a newborn differently requires different ... I mean, now he's two and a half, so he's
actually in preschool a couple days a week.
But then they don't have it during summer so we're trying to ...
Catherine O.: Oh, okay.
Figure that out.
Alicia T.: ... enlist like family.
So, we can have a little bit of a break and, like I said, he works from home.
If he's on home, he's also on daddy duty, which is kind of hard.
Catherine O.: Yeah.
Alicia T.: I don't know.
I've been [inaudible 00:06:25] on a call an hear him pounding at the door.
Catherine O.: Yeah.
Alicia T.: All that fun stuff.
Catherine O.: So most moms I speak to say there are moments when they are ready to throw
in the towel, can you describe a moment that you've felt this way, if you have, and what
got you through it?
Alicia T.: Just last week.
And it's kind of like what we're talking about, it was a Thursday, which is the last day of
my work week and just feeling super tired and overwhelmed, but I kind of brought it
on myself because I wasn't asking for help, or wasn't, you know ... Like you were saying,
sometimes we can anticipate "Well duh I need this", or "You should know that this needs
to be picked up, or these chores need to be done", but not communicating, you know, I
just came home and was so ... My body is just tired from pregnancy and working a really
long day and just telling my husband ... first just crying a little bit and he's just like
"It's okay, it's okay."
Then he's like "Well why didn't you tell me" or "Why didn't you ask me, all you needed
to do was ask" and I'm like okay.
So then it's just about making that kind of course correction and talking about these little
things that need to get done, this is what you can do, you can take this off my plate,
or that.
And I think that's really ... Me keeping in mind that I have to continually do that, because
I do go up and down with ... One moment I'm asking everybody for help "Okay can you do
this", and then the next moment I'm asking nobody for help, so that's been, like I said
one of the biggest lessons in motherhood I think that I've learned.
After my son ... Leaning on other people, we can't do it alone.
Catherine O.: No, absolutely not.
So is there any ... So my next question is, what do you do when you feel overwhelmed,
overstretched, or less than? Is there ... Besides asking for help, are there other things that
you do?
Alicia T.: Self care type stuff.
It's kind of hard now to not be super physical, but exercise or making sure I get out with
friends, because I can tend to isolate or just be stuck in the "Well I have so much
to do", and regardless of how much to do I have the next day ... I had coffee with one
of my best friends and we laugh about motherhood and all the silly situations that we get ourselves
into and that is always ... Kind of feeds your soul.
It was really helpful just having ... Hearing from other women, other moms, that are going
through the same things, and being able to laugh about it, and also just have that community
is really important.
Catherine O.: Yeah.
What about ... I've had parents tell me that one of the hardest things about being a parent
is the comparisons or judgements from other parents.
Have you experienced that, and if so how did you cope with that?
Alicia T.: I tend to have a pretty tight circle, I've been in mom groups and things like that
where I kind of feel myself getting into it where you know where "Oh, we're going to have
book club at so and so's house and it's just like a giant mansion" and I'm just like "Wow".
Or these birthday parties that are just over the top, kind of just keeping with ... I think,
being very picky about who I surround myself with, like my new people.
And I told a story ... I presented about being a mom-preneur a few months ago and I told
a story about how on my sons first birthday I did all the Pinterest stuff and it was so
overwhelming and exhausting, and he's one, and he really didn't even know what was happening.
And so I got into this trap of doing, doing, doing and then at the very end we were just
sitting with family and friends and my son was being loved on and it was like man, I
totally missed the whole point.
This was the point was this little bit of time, but I spent so much time doing all of
these other things, from the invitations to all the perfect decorations, and all of that
stuff that we can get caught up into.
So I think that was another big lesson for me, was I just want to be present and remember
the purpose over having something that's perfect.
Catherine O.: Right.
What about ... What do you feel is your greatest personal struggle with the experience of motherhood?
Alicia T.: Asking for help.
Catherine O.: I could've answered that for you.
Alicia T.: Yeah, because I'm independent.
It's funny because my husband and I were having a conversation about this the other day and
going through college and graduate school and licensure, to do all of these things,
and we get graded.
We pass our exams and we do all these things and there's all these markers that say "Yes
you're doing an amazing job", but there's none of that in motherhood.
You can have a really warm fuzzy moment with your little one, and then the next minute
they're kicking you in the face because they want chocolate.
But nobody gives you that pat on the back ... It was just Mother's Day so we get our
one day where we get nice gifts and things like that, but there's no measurement or no
grades or things that keep us reminded that we're doing a great job.
I think that's hard too.
Catherine O.: Yeah, especially when ... I mean, I think if we tend to be more like that
type A and we do everything when we're supposed to do it and how we're supposed to do it,
and the motherhood is so not like that.
Because, like you said, from one moment to the next it's totally different and ... How
they're feeling, or whatever, or expressing themselves is different.
So if we measured ourselves on their ... Each moment, yeah it could be a very big disappointment.
Alicia T.: Fail.
Catherine O.: Failed.
So what ... Is there something that surprised you about being a mom?
Maybe something you didn't realize kids did, or something that you would really enjoy,
or something that could bring you so much joy?
Alicia T.: Yeah, I didn't really think that I would love the newborn phase with my son,
but I did.
And even looking back, I'm like "Oh man I should've kissed him a little bit more" because
now he's in the phase we're like "No, no kisses".
Or take advantage of their inability to move, to be mobile.
I mean I think the first time is always the most challenging and then you kind of figure
it out, and the second time doesn't seem as overwhelming.
Catherine O.: I think it's like sometimes too, I'll talk to moms and it's like if ... Especially
when you're feeding your baby and they're so ... It feels like all they do is they eat,
they sleep and then they eat again and it's like a constant feeding them.
And as overwhelming as that can be, when you feel like "I am never not sitting here in
the chair" or whatever you're doing.
And it's like, no, this time does end, it does.
Things get easier. And then it's like looking back, those were the good old days where I
just had to sit there and feed the baby.
Little did I know, looking back now "Oh that was easy".
Alicia T.: Right.
Catherine O.: They didn't talk back and they didn't need anything other than to be fed
and changed- Alicia T.: They didn't try to run out the
front door.
Catherine O.: Cuddled.
Yeah.
Climbing on things.
Alicia T.: Yeah gets through all of your baby safety stuff, like "Oh I figured it out, I
figured out how to undo that latch", like oh great.
Catherine O.: But in the moment when you're like, it does, it feels like oh my gosh this
is all consuming and it's never going to be ... I will never be able to do anything again,
is what I think it feels like.
And I think that's the benefit of the second time around because you know it does end,
it changes.
The hard stuff gets easier and then there's other hard stuff and then that gets easier.
Alicia T.: It just changes, the hard stuff just changes.
Catherine O.: Yeah, exactly.
What about ... What's your relationship, or how has your relationship with your partner
or husband changed since having a kid?
Or how has it stayed the same?
Alicia T.: So we had a lot of time, I think it was a good amount, five years before having
kids.
And so ... My daughter came to us I think we had been married for like three or four
years before.
So we had some time where it was just us and could travel and do whatever you want to do.
And that was really nice, it was definitely a shift especially having a small child.
So my daughter was 13 when she came, so she wasn't super needy in terms of she can go
the bathroom, she can eat by herself, she goes to school, she can ride the bus, all
of that things that come with development, sleeping independent.
So we started backwards.
I think that was a little bit easier in terms of your time commitment, but the emotional
stuff that cam along with having a child who comes from the foster care system was definitely
something that we anticipated, but nevertheless it's time consuming and emotionally consuming.
So our relationship definitely shifted even more when we had a small little human because
it is just constant around the clock caring for them.
But I think the best part is just seeing him as a dad and really loving that role that
he plays.
It's funny because you kind of have a picture of what you're partner will be like when you
have kids, but he's kind of the opposite of what I anticipated.
He's super laid back, we're both pretty laid back, but he's more, if you want to be stereotypical
more like the mom in terms of like "Ohmygosh he's going to get hurt", or like he's riding
a scooter in the house on the carpet and he's like "He needs to wear a helmet" and I'm like
"Oh he's fine".
I am way more lackadaisical about that kind of stuff than I anticipated I would be, and
he's way more overprotective.
Like really worried about him getting hurt and germs and stuff and I'm like "Oh that's
how they'll learn" and "He'll be fine".
And I think allowing him to be who he is as a parent has definitely been a lesson for
me.
Or just something that I'm really mindful of, if that makes him feel good, putting a
helmet on him while he's riding a scooter in the house, then okay and trying not to
change that about him.
But also just seeing him in that dad role and the loving tenderness that is ... He's
super affectionate.
And so I just love seeing that.
Catherine O.: Yeah.
Alicia T.: It's heartwarming and I think he'd probably say the same about watching me be
a mom is totally different than just your role as husband and wife.
Kid bring things out of you that you don't anticipate.
Catherine O.: Yeah, absolutely.
How about your relationship with friends, family or support system changed, or has that
stayed the same?
Alicia T.: I've kind of kept my friends for a really long time, but as they start having
kids it kind of all ... We're in the same realm of child raising.
So definitely less time to go out and have a good time because you're tired.
Going out with girl friends is definitely way fewer instances of that happening, but
I think cherishing the time that we do get to spend, making it a priority.
Before we didn't really have to make it a huge priority, it just kind of happened like
"Oh yeah, what are you doing, it's Friday night?"
Or "It's the weekend" or "We're going to take a trip" and stuff like that, but now it just
comes with a whole lot of planning, but I think it's just as important.
Having less time to do those things has definitely been a shift.
Catherine O.: What's the greatest lesson you've learned as a mom?
Or one of them?
Alicia T.: I think it goes back to when I was saying about the birthday party.
What's really important is being present and remembering the purpose over perfection.
That's kind of like the mantra, purpose over perfection, and really wanting to be present
with my kids when I can be.
It's never going to be 100% good at everything, but just remembering what the priority is.
Catherine O.: Do you have a favorite quote that inspires you as a mom?
Alicia T.: Yeah it's that one.
It's like ... yeah presence over perfection.
Catherine O.: Yeah, I love it.
Alicia T.: Just short and sweet, like a little mantra, you can just remember it.
Catherine O.: Right, when everything gets overwhelming it's like ... Presence.
Alicia T.: Yeah.
Catherine O.: Do you have a favorite song that inspires you as a mom?
Alicia T.: I sing You Are My Sunshine all the time.
I don't know if it's something that I consider inspirational, but I've sang it to my son
since he was a newborn.
It's always his after bath song and now he's to the point where he's like "Sing the song
mommy, sing the song, sing the song."
He looks forward to it.
Catherine O.: Yeah, that's cool.
How about a can't live without it gadget or product that has made being a mom easier or
better for you?
Alicia T.: Baby gates.
Definitely can't live without the gate, you know.
Working from home and trying to get stuff done, definitely can't be without those.
Catherine O.: Right.
So final question is, do you have one piece of advise that you'd like to give other moms?
Alicia T.: I think it would be that it's all just a learning experience.
We're all in this, nobody has the manual.
I mean there's tons of parenting books and things that we can read, but we're never going
to be perfect.
Even if you are that type A person where you're looking for the grades, it's never going to
happen so it's just choosing to be kind to yourself and give yourself grace-
Catherine O.: I love that.
Alicia T.: Understand that it's always about ... It's always a learning experience.
Catherine O.: Yeah, be kind to yourself.
I know because we can totally beat ourselves up, like we're not doing it quite right.
We're not Pinterest perfect or Instagram worthy.
But it's okay, there's no perfection.
Thank you so much for sharing, I love all the things that you had to say and I love
that about asking for help too because I think that's ... I mean I could probably use that
advise today, like it's okay to ask for help.
I think it's always a good reminder, so thank you so much for being here and love that you
could join us.
Alicia T.: Yes, thanks so much for having me.
It's always fun, like I said to chat with you Catherine.
Catherine O.: Thank you.
Bye.
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WARNING: Poopy Pools Lead To Dangerous Outbreak - Duration: 6:56.
IF YOU LIKE GOING TO WATER PARKS ARE SWIMMING IN
PUBLIC POOLS, THERE IS PROBABLY POOP IN AND THAT POOP DOES
CONTAIN CERTAIN PARASITES THAT COULD LEAD YOU TO GETTING
EXTREMELY SICK FOR SEVERAL WEEKS OR AND RARE OCCASIONS DEATH.
THIS IS KNOWN AS CRYPTO'S PRETTY HIM AND THAT
CRYPTOSPORIDIUM IS A TYPE OF PARASITE.
THERE ARE DIFFERENT TYPES OF CRYPTOSPORIDIUM BUT IT
USUALLY DOES COME FROM PICO MATTER AND IF YOU AND JUSTIN
ANYWAY, YOU WILL BE EXTREMELY SICK FOR SEVERAL WEEKS.
OUTBREAKS OF CRYPTOSPORIDIUM DOUBLED BETWEEN 2015 AND 2016.
IT'S THE MOST COMMON CAUSE OF DIARRHEAL ILLNESS AND
OUTBREAKS LINKED TO SWIMMING POOLS OR WATER PLAYGROUNDS
BECAUSE IT IS NOT EASILY KILLED LIKE LORENA CAN SURVIVE UP TO
10 DAYS AND PROPERLY TREATED WATER.
IF YOU ARE WONDERING WHERE YOU TELLING US ABOUT THE STORY?
IT IS NOT A BIG DEAL.
PEOPLE ARE BEING AFFECTED BY IT.
APPARENTLY THERE WAS A HUGE OUTBREAK IN MILWAUKEE AND
SCIENTISTS ARE STILL TRYING TO FIGURE OUT EXACTLY WITHOUT
BREAKING FROM.
HERE'S A SHORT VIDEO FROM THE ANIMAL PLANET.
THEY DID A REALLY INTERESTING PIECE ON THIS AND YOU WILL
KIND OF GET A BETTER IDEA OF WHAT THIS PARASITE ISN'T
JUST HOW BAD IT CAN GET.
TAKE A LOOK.
MORE THAN A DECADE AFTER TAINTED WATER INFECTED
400,000 MILWAUKEE RESIDENTS WITH A KILLER PARASITE, THE
SOURCE OF THE INFECTION REMAINS A MYSTERY.
FOR CITY HEALTH COMMISSIONER PAUL NANAS, THE PRIME
SUSPECTS HAVE LONG BEEN LOCAL CATTLE.
CRYPTOSPORIDIUM IS EXTREMELY COMMON IN CATTLE, SO IT IS
VERY PLAUSIBLE THAT RUNOFF FROM A FARM COULD CARRY
CRYPTOSPORIDIUM INPUT INTO A WATER SUPPLY.
WE HAD A LOT OF SMELL AND RUN OFF.
A LOT OF IT CAME FROM THE DAIRY FARMS.
THE PREVAILING THEORY IS THAT MELTING SNOW ACCELERATED
THE RUN OFF OF MELTING CATTLE FECES.
THIS COULD OF CAUSED A MASS OF CRYPTOSPORIDIUM TO FLOW
INTO THE WATER.
I HAVE GIVEN UP TAKES WE DIDN'T HAVE TIME TO SHOW
THE ENTIRE VIDEO.
SCIENTISTS STILL HAVE HUMAN FECAL MATTER FROM THAT
WHOLE THING THAT HAPPENED OVER A DECADE AGO IN MILWAUKEE SO
THEY CAN STILL CONTINUE TO STUDY IT TO FIND THE ORIGIN
OF WHERE THE CRYPTOSPORIDIUM CAME FROM.NET VIDEO IT
APPEARS THAT IT MIGHT'VE BEEN FROM RUNOFF AND THE
CATTLE'S FECAL MATTER SOMEHOW GOT INTO THE LEGAL MATTER
BUT THROUGH THE RESEARCH SCIENTISTS HAVE DONE, THEY
ACTUALLY FOUND IT ORIGINATED FROM A HUMAN.
THAT IS
JUST A LITTLE BIT OF TRIVIA IF YOU CARE BUT THE FACT OF
THE MATTER IS LITTLE KIDS, IF THEY GUESS THEY CAN THEY
GET DIARRHEA AND THEY GO INTO THE POOL, IT IS LIKELY THAT
THAT PARASITE WILL CONTAMINATE THE POOL AND IF YOU ARE UNLIKELY
ENOUGH TO JUST ANY OF EIGHT YOUTUBE WILL GET EXTREMELY SICK.
THE PARASITE ATTACHES TO THE LINING OF THE SMALL BOWEL
AND OF COURSE YOUR BODY TRIES TO FLUSH IT OUT AND THAT IS
WHERE THE DIARRHEA COMES FROM.
IT LEADS TO SEVERE DEHYDRATION IN SOME CASES AND POSSIBLY
DEATH.
WILL HAVE THE LINK TO THE WHOLE VIDEO IN THE
DESCRIPTION BOX FOR YOU GUYS BUT I KNOW IT'S A SUPER SERIOUS
STORY BUT I WAS AMUSED BY SEVERAL THINGS IN IT NONETHELESS
STOP FIRST OF ALL, LET'S ALL HE KNOWLEDGE THAT FECAL MATTER
IS ONE OF THE MOST UNFORTUNATE PHRASES IN THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE.
CLOSELY FOLLOWED BY CATTLE FECES.
THEY THINK THE SOURCE WAS CATTLE FECES.
IT LOOKED LIKE IT WAS SHOWING SOME SORT OF COW GONADS IN
THE WATER IS SOMETHING AT THE END THERE.
I DONíT
UNDERSTAND WHAT WAS HAPPENING.
I LIKE HOW MANY TIMES ANA SAID CRYPTOSPORIDIUM BECAUSE SHE
WAS PROUD SHE COULD PRONOUNCE IT.
I'M SURPRISED I DID A RIGHT THERE.
CRYPTOSPORIDIUM SOUNDS LIKE A SOME SORT OF WEAPON THAT THE
KLINGONS INVENTED AND WE'RE ALL IN A LOT OF TROUBLE IF JAMES
KIRK DOES NOT DISARM IT AND FINALLY, TO END ALL MY NONSENSE
POINTS, PARASITES SOUND SO SCARY TO ME.
ANYTHING THAT IS A PARASITE I'M LIKE NO, NOT THE PARASITES.
PARASITES ARE INCREDIBLY SAVVY IF THAT MAKES ANY SENSE.
IF I COULD DESCRIBE THEM
THE PARASITE IS LIKE.
I'VE GOT AN IDEA THAT
I DID AND INFORMATIVE SPEECH ON PARASITES WHEN I WAS ON
THE SPEECH AND DEBATE TEAM AND IT WON A GOLD MEDAL, NOT A
BIG DEAL.
THIS WAS WHEN I WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL BUT I WAS COMPETING
WITH COLLEGE STUDENTS I NOT A BIG DEAL.
IS THE THING THAT THERE IS ONE PARASITE, NEVER GET THIS.
THERE'S ONE PARASITE THAT WILL GO INTO A FISH'S MOUTH, EAT THE
FISH HIS TONGUE, AND THEN TAKE THE PLACE OF THE FISHES TONGUE
AND SO EVERY TIME THE FISH WANTS TO EAT, THAT PARASITE WILL
ACTUALLY EAT OR INGEST ALL THE FOOD AND THEN THE FISH WITHERS
AWAY AND DIES.
AND THEN THE PARASITE IS EVEN STRONGER AND THEN HE GOES
AND DOES THE SAME THING TO ANOTHER FISH.
HOW BAD AS THIS IS THAT?
YOUR REENACTMENT OF IT WAS PRETTY GOOD THAT IT SOUNDED
LIKE A GAME OF THRONES THING.
YEAH.
THERE SAVVY.
I DON'T KNOW WHO IS PUTTING THEIR KIDS IN THE POOL TWO
DAYS AFTER THEM HAVING DIARRHEA WHERE THIS HAPPENS.
IS THAT THE POST DIARY ACTIVITY?
TO GO SWIMMING?
AS A PARENT, YES.
I'M GETTING, WE DON'T DO THAT I THINK THAT BUT ARE YOU KIDDING
ME?
PARENTS ARE KEEPING TRACK DOCK THEY ARE TOO BUSY TRACKING
AND THE KID IS SCREAMING BUT EVERYONE ELSE IS IN THE POOL.
THEN YOU THROW THEM IN THERE.
PEOPLE ARE BEING CAREFUL AT ALL.
AND THEN IT'S LIKE IF THEY REALLY WATCH OUT FOR KIDS
UNDER THE AGE OF FIVE BECAUSE THEY DON'T WIPE WELL.
WHY GO TO A PUBLIC POOL?
A SENSE OF TERRIBLE.
I KNOW, BUT IT'S HARD PEOPLE WANT TO GO.
WHOSE YOURSELF OFF.
YOU DON'T WANT CRYPTOSPORIDIUM.
LEAVING FOR THE KLINGONS.
ALTHOUGH IRONICALLY, THE PROBLEM HERE IS CLEANING ON.
LIKE THEY CLING ON TO THE KIDS BY AND THEN IT WASHES OFF INTO
THE POOL AND THAT ANYONE WHO SLOWS THE POOL WATER AT ALL THE
CRYPTOSPORIDIUM THE
AND IT LIVES APPARENTLY FOR 10
DAYS AND WELL TREATED POOL WATER
SO IMAGINE, YOU KNOW.
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I PLAY PIANO? - Duration: 1:23.
Hey so this is my piano recital!
So I will be playing two songs.
The first one is called "The haunted mouse"
This last one is a Russian folk song called "Russian Sailor Dance"
Thanks for watching!
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RAP of the Series | English Black Friday - ATIVE A LEGENDA! - Duration: 2:46.
Hey, what's up guys? How you doing?
That's your boy Dawg again from English Black Friday
Well, I'm here at home and today,
you know, it's one of those days that you
wake up a little bit inspired, you know,
and, well, I tried to write this new song.
I hope you guys liked it! And, well,
it goes a little bit like this. CHECK IT OUT!
C'mon! Listen to the beat and sing to the tune
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I hope you like it!
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listen' to this sound wave.
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But we gotta break out the SHU like Scofield and Burrows
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He's the one who damn knocks,
his meth blue, it ain't the same!
But I'm a Family Guy, hangin' with My Wife and Kids
But, I'm not the Fresh Prince,
Charles is the one who's got quids, N-WORD!
I said, Charles is the one who's got quids!
Like the Huxtables, you ought to go for your education
Up in Harlem ya can come across a gnarly conversation
I dare the devils, they can't meet with Jessica in the park,
But Luke Cage gon' be out there to protect ya after dark
In Bed Stuy Do or Die, Rochelle means bliss,
Little dude from across the street his name is Chris
Nobody hates me, but he's been bullied since day one
I promise when ya watch the show, ya gonna have mad fun
those are some of my favorite series
this is English Black Friday
coming up with the best! Let's go!
English Black Friday ain't about the dough!
it's about fun, now can you tell me about your favorite show?
Put'em in the comment section down below
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it's about fun, now can you tell me about your favorite show?
Put'em in the comment section down below
but don't forget to share this video...
Ha! F-WORD it!
Don't forget to share this video wit'cha bro!
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That's your boy Dawg!
We're comin' up with mo' fo' you!
I hope you guys enjoy it!
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