It's titled, "Ha... I'm Burning Up Inside!"
I'm a man in my 40s with two kids
and I've been married for 15 years.
(Ha ha ha ha)
My wife stopped doing it one day.
She doesn't even do it once a month.
"Honey, please. Just once."
"Just for one hour.
Or just for 30 minutes."
"I don't want to.
Maybe next time."
My wife doesn't do house chores at all.
Oh, house chores?
She is so lazy.
"What is this smell?
There's mold in the fridge."
"Oh geez.
I didn't know."
So I work all day and
do house chores at night.
"Can we please share the work?"
"I don't have talent in doing house chores."
Does she think I was born with
the talent to do house chores?
She's lazier than anyone out there.
What should I do?
Let's bring him out here.
Please come on out.
(Who's concerned about his lazy wife?)
(Kim Seongil)
Welcome.
How lazy is she that
you've decided to come on our show?
I put dirty laundry in the washing machine and
asked her to hang them up when they're washed.
She left them in there for 2~3 days.
Wet clothes in the washing machine?
- That must stink. / - She didn't hang them up?
So I bought a dryer and got the clothes dry, too.
She didn't fold the clothes.
They were in the dryer?
Sometimes yes or sometimes she takes them out.
She doesn't want to fold the clothes?
So I made laundry baskets for each member.
So we each can take out clean clothes to wear.
So our clothes are always wrinkled.
Sure. You're supposed to fold them up.
She never cleans the house either.
So there are clothes everywhere.
Once she goes grocery shopping,
she leaves the food inside the box.
- So the groceries... / - They go bad.
Yes, that's right.
So I sometimes think a thief came to our house.
It looks a robber came to look for something?
Yes, sometimes.
I find a pile of fingernails on the floor.
- Remains from being clipped? / - Yes.
My wife clipped her fingernails
and left them on the floor.
She's a pro.
She's a pro?
We've been married for 15 years now.
She has never cleaned the bathroom.
For 15 years?
The drain is clogged with her long hair.
But she never cleans it, so I do.
- Always? / - Yes.
She doesn't do house chores at all?
She must be tired after work.
- She has a job? / - Yes.
After work, she cooks dinner for our kids
and leave dirty dishes in the sink.
One time, I just waited to see how long it'd last.
She used up all the dishes we had at home.
(Not an easy match)
The dirty dishes piled up?
She's a pro.
Tell us more in detail.
How long did she go without doing the dishes?
About 4~5 days.
The pile could collapse in that time.
(That's why I do the dishes)
She's been like this since you got married?
She's only been working for a year.
She was the same when she wasn't working.
She was too lazy even when she was a homemaker?
Yes.
I don't think it's anything bad.
She's been the same all these years.
You've known this about her all this time.
She's being consistent. She hasn't changed.
I'm in technical sales.
I have to drive long distance often.
I want to rest when I get home,
but the house is a mess.
Couldn't you try to be adamant and
tell her to clean a bit?
I tried and we ended up arguing.
She said, "I'm not talented in doing house work."
Talent for house chores.
(So it's always his duty to do them)
Let's meet his wife.
Where are you sitting? Hello.
Hello.
He's saying that you're lazy. What do you think?
Yes, I admit it. I'm lazy.
- She admitted it. / - She's so nonchalant.
Yes, I am.
She's a nice woman.
No one has admitted to anything, but
she did.
The problem has been resolved.
She's a nice woman.
If you admit it, you can change.
She's quite consistent.
After work,
I buy groceries and come home to make dinner.
Then I'm about to clean after resting a bit,
he yells at me.
"Why is the place so messy?
What would the kids learn from you?"
When I hear that...
- You don't want to clean. / - Right.
(It's my fault?)
He said that you didn't clean up
after clipping your nails.
I don't do that every time. Just once in a while.
I didn't know he'd mention that today.
Isn't it a problem to leave the groceries out
and let them go bad?
Yes.
That's a problem.
Is that true?
I cook and eat.
A lot of time has passed when I'm done eating.
- You forgot? / - Yes.
I never told him to do the dishes.
He volunteered to do it.
When I do the dishes, he tells me,
"Why'd you do it? I was going to do it."
After hearing that,
I thought he would do the dishes.
So I just left the dirty dishes.
The two of you are very different.
He doesn't like the dishes piled up so he does it.
He's a bit impatient.
The house isn't dirty, but
my husband wants a perfect house.
- Nicely organized? / - I like that, too.
He doesn't like to see anything left out.
But I can't live like that every day.
She doesn't think the house is a mess.
Are you maybe
too obsessed with keeping everything clean?
I don't think so.
My wife never throws anything away.
I like to throw things out to keep it clean.
She just can't.
For example, we have 3 pianos at home.
What?
Three pianos?
Are you opening up a piano school?
Why do you have 3 pianos?
She got them for free
from the internet site in the neighborhood.
Oh, from the internet site.
She keeps saying that she'll use them.
It's not easy to keep 3 pianos at home.
I wanted my daughter to learn the piano.
I happened to see an ad that was giving away
a baby piano for free so I got it.
But it's too small for her now so
I was thinking of getting her another one.
Then an electric keyboard ad was posted.
The owner also gave us a small piano, too.
As a package?
I couldn't refuse so
I kept that as well to give it to
someone else who would need it in the future.
You two seem to have differences in opinion.
Let's meet the kids, too.
Hey, son. Do you understand your dad's concern?
- Yes. / - He does.
I was thirsty.
Instead of giving me water in a cup,
my mom gave water to me in a bowl.
Because the cups weren't clean?
No.
Water still tasted good, right?
Yes.
Was it just once? Or does this happen often?
Often.
Do you think your mom is lazy?
Yes.
(He's an excellent witness)
Dad does all the work at home.
When he does the dishes, he goes, "Oh, Lord."
Oh, Lord?
He says, "Oh, Lord" when he does the dishes?
In your opinion,
is your house a mess or is it clean?
It's average.
Then that's not bad.
Have you seen your friends' houses?
Their houses are just like ours.
Their houses are a mess, too?
Yes.
So your house is a mess.
(Oops)
When your dad seems tired,
do you help out with the house chores?
It's scary when they argue.
Dad told mom to clean the house.
She said she'd do it later.
Dad said that he couldn't live with her anymore.
Were you scared that they'd get a divorce?
Yes.
So, what happened afterwards?
Did they continue to fight?
Dad went in the room and slept.
When they woke up, they were good again.
(Aha)
(Oh~)
What happened during the night?
Kids know everything.
What happened during the night?
(Don't fight)
What else does she put off?
If there's a fee that we need to pay,
she never tells me until the last minute.
So I'm always pressed for time to pay it.
We also needed a family register
for our cell phones.
To get a family discount?
Yes.
She said she'd do it, so I waited.
She never did so I had to rush to get it.
The fee was for watching a play.
I couldn't decide that on my own.
I had to ask our kids' opinions, too.
So that's why it took so long.
In case of cell phones, one day he told us
we must go and get new cell phones.
So we went.
They told us that they need our family register
and my husband told me to get it.
So I knew I had to get it.
But he never told me by when he needed it.
She sounds logical when she talks.
He yelled, "Why didn't you get it done on time?"
I was quite surprised.
All he had to do was tell you by when, right?
It sounds like she's the type
who will get things done on her own time.
But the husband seems to rush things.
Does he usually tell you what to do?
Yes, every day.
(What?)
(What a turn of event!)
He makes decisions all by himself?
One day, I find a new washing machine at home.
One day, I find a robot vacuum cleaner.
One day, I find a dryer.
Also, he goes out meet his bike group members.
- Meetings again! / - Meetings. Meetings.
A $2,000 bicycle was...
Delivered home without any notice?
(Oh!)
She's very understanding then.
In that case,
you should sit up here, too.
(Flustered)
Even the house we live in right now...
He took me there and said,
"This is where we're going to live from now on."
For real?
He didn't discuss where you'll live first?
(A married couple usually discuss these things)
(You see... That's...)
So I said, "Oh, this is our new home."
She's funny, too.
- "Oh, this is our home." / - She's so nice.
He will carry out whatever he decides to do.
It doesn't matter what I think.
So there's no need for me to say my opinion.
Wait. Why don't you two switch seats?
I think this is a more serious concern than
her not helping out with house chores.
Buying a house without talking to her first?
Why did you do that?
You look a bit flustered.
How can you not discuss it with her first?
How can do you do that?
I do tend to do things right away
once I make a decision.
I buy things that I want to buy.
But a house...
My wife is quite indecisive.
But this is different.
You could discuss it with her first.
She never tells me her opinion.
You can't wait until she does.
That's somewhat true.
She doesn't have a problem discussing it, right?
- Right. / - Right.
Spending $2,000 on a bicycle.
Your money contains her money, too.
You both work.
I always told her when I bought expensive goods.
You told her after you bought it.
That's what she said.
One day, she found a $2,000 bike at home.
Did you discuss it with her first?
She looks glad that she came here today.
(Today is her day)
I did see him trying to decide which one to buy.
You just saw him choose?
Since you are
why don't you tell us what you're upset about?
Things that have piled up inside you.
Tell us everything.
When my husband has meetings to go,
he just text me,
"I'll be home late. I'll be gone all night."
I want to go see my friends, too.
Then I ask him.
"Is it okay to meet my friends today?"
"Okay!" He signs it off.
He signs it off.
You're her boss.
It'd be nice if that's the end of it, but...
"Were there other mothers, too?
You have two children.
You should be grateful for being able to go out."
- He's patronizing. / - He's patronizing.
Does he go to many meetings?
He goes out overnight.
What?
He goes out all night?
(A shocking turn of events)
He plays basketball on Tuesdays and Thursdays.
He plays soccer on the weekends.
He plays soccer on Mondays and Wednesdays, too.
That's a full week.
He comes home that night after these.
But he goes out overnight with his friends.
What kind of a meeting is it?
Well..
Is it a camping trip?
We drink and since I live far away
I sleep at a local sauna or at someone's house.
I'm impressed by the wife.
She just accepts whatever he does.
You should clear things up about this.
You keep patronizing her.
"You should be grateful."
I think she goes out too often.
Meeting her friends?
How many times a month?
2~3 times. 3~4 times a month.
How many times do you go out?
Basketball, soccer, friends...
She doesn't even go out overnight.
Yes.
Look at this.
Your seats should be switched.
One of the main reasons that I came here today is
that she's supposed to check their homework daily.
But she never really disciplines them.
She doesn't care whether they study or not?
She never yells at them or nags at them.
I'm afraid the kids are becoming spoiled.
They study at school and take classes afterwards.
We don't get to spend much time together.
I don't want to spend those few hours together
telling them to study.
We enjoy doing fun activities together at home.
- She's a great mom. / - I like that idea.
Your wife is doing a great job.
I'm always the bad guy at home.
When I go on business trips
it's so festive at home.
Because you're gone.
They order yummy food and watch TV for hours.
When you're not home?
Even when I am home
they tell me to rest and
go to the supermarket without me.
It's fun to go grocery shopping as a family.
I never thought he felt ostracized by that.
He doesn't like going grocery shopping.
Since he's always tired, I wanted him to rest.
You were being considerate.
What about you and the kids ordering food
freely when he's gone?
Do you feel free when he's gone?
Yes.
(That's my role at home?)
It's great when he's away?
He gets mad very often.
So when he's home,
we don't do a lot of the things we want to.
Let's ask the son. How do you feel when he's gone?
- It's exciting. / - What?
It's exciting.
It's exciting?
Really?
What about you, girl? Your dad is going away.
(A big smile)
She's already excited.
She's excited.
We need a parent who thinks one way
and another who thinks another way.
In a way, I think
the two of you are soul mates.
If you're both care-free,
the house could be even more messy.
One of you may want another to be different.
I think it'll be good for you two to accept that
you're different and try to find a common ground.
You've aged in this brief time.
(Looking exhausted)
I think the two of you need to talk more.
Why don't you each say what you want?
I will continue to do the dishes.
Please fold and put away clean clothes.
It would be nice if you could clean
the house for at least 30 minutes a day.
As the kids grow older
they'll spend less and less time with us.
I want us to spend time together as family
occasionally on weekends.
If you'll wait for me,
I will do what you ask me to.
- You'll clean, too? / - How nice.
Are you upset that he decides things on his own?
To be honest...
Go ahead.
I was upset by that in the beginning.
But if I stay upset about it... He's the one
who loves us the most, right?
He's the one that decided for us so...
You respect his decisions?
Please applaud.
(I'm sure I shouldn't have come today)
That was awesome.
(Impressed)
I think he came here to brag his wife.
No one thinks like that these days.
Park Jiwoo.
I think they should talk to each other a lot
to resolve this issue.
Kim Soyoung.
They are just two different people.
They have different standards and pace.
I don't think it's a concern.
I don't think it's a concern either.
Ji Sangryeol?
I don't think it's a concern.
If you can relate to him, press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
So many people are pressing the button.
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
There were many votes in the beginning.
He whispered in my ear earlier.
He was being cornered, but he said,
"My daughter can dance very well."
(Doting on his daughter)
Will you dance for us?
Your dad wants to see it.
(It's my wish)
Music please.
(Bounce bounce)
She's good.
(She's good)
(Great moves)
(This is why I love my life)
(How cute)
- She's so cute. / - You're so good.
(They can't help but dance along)
She's so good.
She's really good.
(No matter he bragged about her!)
(Thank you!)
You must be happy with a daughter like her.
(Good job, girl)
Please show us the result.
"Ha... I'm Burning Up Inside."
Did they get over 100 votes?
They got many votes.
50?
40!
(Ha ha ha ha)
(They got 40 votes)
"Honey, No More!" won this week.
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