Hello.
I'm a homemaker in my 20s from Cheonan.
He really emphasized that.
"I'm a homemaker."
I have a 6-year-old son and
a 9-month-old son.
"Honey, I think he pooped.
Check his diaper."
"Ugh! You do it!"
"Then wipe his butt with wet wipes."
"Ah! No. You do it."
"Then throw this dirty diaper away for me."
"Gross! You do it!"
What?
He can't even clean up his own son's poop?
How frustrating.
My husband has never helped me
in raising our two sons.
"Watch the baby while I do the laundry."
When I came back, my husband was asleep
and our 9-month-old son
was sucking on the phone charging cable.
Oh no.
"What are you doing?
He could've been hurt!"
"You're right.
That's why you should watch him."
How can he be so indifferent to his own child?
I have so much to say today.
Please help me.
(That's terrible)
I have a young nephew.
I live with my 26-month-old nephew.
He was so sick for days.
We check a baby's health by his poop.
He finally pooped golden, yellow poop
and my family gave a standing ovation.
Because we were so happy.
I can't believe he thinks it's gross.
(Can't understand)
Let's bring her out here.
Please come on out.
(Who's concerned about her indifferent husband?)
(I feel bad for her)
(Hwang Gina)
Jiseon, Jungin. What's going on?
I feel like she's my daughter.
She looks so young.
She does look very young.
Let me apologize to you first.
Whenever we have women come out,
male guests or idol singers
always go out to greet them.
Youngchul is the only male guest here today.
I'm sorry.
I shouldn't have greeted her.
You have two sons?
My eldest son is 6 years old and
my youngest son is 9 months old.
It's hard enough to raise just one boy.
Your husband doesn't help out at all?
He doesn't hold or look at
any of our sons.
I have to ask him to do it
for him to hold them or look at them.
My son has a phone without a USIM chip.
My husband just tosses it to our son
and tells him to play with it.
Or he tells me to watch our son.
"You're his mother." That's what he tells me.
You're his mother?
Did you tell him, "You're his dad?"
He's the dad.
Yes, but he just says, "You've raised them
so far. You watch them yourself."
But you should be clear about it.
"I didn't have them on my own.
We made them together."
Before our younger son was born,
I told my husband go out and play with our son.
I looked down from the balcony to see them.
I saw my oldest running on the street.
He was wandering by himself not knowing what to do.
Where did Dad go?
(Where did Dad go, abandoning his baby?)
He went to smoke.
- He just left the child by himself. / - Yes.
He doesn't communicate with the boys at all?
My eldest son said to me,
"Daddy is asleep again?"
(He only sees his dad sleeping)
My son runs around when my husband is asleep.
He hears and yells, "Don't run around!"
Then my son gets intimidated
and refuses to go to his dad.
He told me, "Daddy scares me.
I don't want to be with him."
(Even the boy feels Dad's apathy)
You must've gotten married young.
I met him on October 5, 2012
at a nightclub.
How old were you?
I was 20 years old and had a job.
My husband was a 22-year-old sergeant.
He was out on vacation.
He was on vacation.
But I found out later that
he was a private who just joined the army.
(How could he lie about that?)
I gave birth to our son in June of 2013.
We became parents and a married couple
without a plan.
My parents raised my eldest son for 4 years.
I lived with my in-laws and worked.
I went to see my son only on weekends.
My husband stayed with his grandmother
to finish college.
Because the school was so far away?
He only came maybe once every 2 weeks.
He came to sleep and left again.
Did you ever regret marrying him because
he wasn't who you thought he was?
I did regret it a lot.
I watch our two sons all by myself,
so if I could turn back time...
You would do something different?
(I'd like to turn back time)
Why is he so indifferent to his own children?
Let's meet her husband. Hello.
Hello.
You look so friendly.
And nice.
Do you understand your wife's concern?
Well... I don't think it's a concern.
You don't?
Everyone here is shocked to hear that.
Why don't you think it's a concern?
Well...
My wife has always been the one to raise them.
She's better at it than I am.
So I thought it was better for her to do it.
It's not about who's better at it.
Your sons need their father's love, too.
But my wife has always been better at it.
Please pay attention to us.
Don't worry about your son.
He's fine. Don't worry about him.
Why do you pretend to care about him now?
Do as you've always done.
(How refreshing)
Don't pretend to be a caring father.
(I'll act like I've always acted)
When you take care of a baby,
there are many things that need much strength.
We don't ever bathe my daughter alone.
We always do it together.
We did, too.
How can you think it's her job only?
Cleaning up poop, too.
She is an expert on doing things by herself now.
You...
(Full of anger)
It's because she had no other choice.
She might punch you after this shoot.
Hold my hands, Youngchul.
I will.
I can't get this angry from the start.
You promised not to talk like that.
I know. I couldn't help it.
Jungin asked you a question.
Do you really think it's your wife's job only?
Please answer that.
Well...
Can you please stop saying that?
I'll hold onto your hands.
Don't say "well" anymore.
One, two, three, talk.
Well...
No more "well."
Are you Baek Ilseob?
Well...
My wife looks after our sons by herself,
but I do other things. I cook
or clean the house.
I believe I pull my weight around the house.
You do?
Wait.
I used to cook for him.
One time, I made him kimchi fried rice.
When he was about to eat it, he said,
"Who puts carrots in kimchi fried rice?"
He's picky about food, too?
He has so many faults.
So I said, "I'm sorry.
I won't put carrots in next time."
But when he was about to eat it, he said,
"Then make it again without carrots right now."
(Holding such a huge grudge)
What?
I stopped cooking dinner for him since then.
Is this true?
This is just terrible.
Did you ask her to cook you dinner again?
No. I asked her to make kimchi fried rice
without carrots next time.
So you finished your fried rice with carrots?
Yes, I finished it.
Couples tend to remember fights differently.
- They speak from their point of view. / - Right.
How much time in a day do you think you spend
with your children?
It's different from day to day.
I would say about 10 minutes to 30 minutes.
(Only 10-30 minutes? Even though he's the dad?)
But you're their dad.
I thought he would say 4 hours.
You have two children.
Are they cup noodles or something?
Even eating cup noodles would take 30 minutes.
What? It takes that long?
- To eat about 2 or 3 of them. / - Right.
You surprised me.
It's more about quality than quantity.
What's more important here is
how you spend time with your children. How do you?
He has many toys at home.
Maybe he got something new that day.
I tend to play with whatever he wants.
Let's ask the wife.
He's lying.
(He's found lying in just 3 minutes)
You have to be honest. Your wife is here, too.
He never played with our son with toys.
He tosses a cell phone to our son
and says, "Watch some videos."
He never plays with toys with our son.
I have to tell him 100-200 times
and he finally takes out a toy.
He never voluntarily played with toys.
Let's ask their son.
Son.
Does your dad give you the cell phone often?
Uh... When I play with the phone,
I don't go to him even when he tells me to come.
You don't want to play with Daddy?
He never hangs out with me.
He only does when Mom tells him to.
Do you want to hang out with Daddy?
Yes!
With what?
Turning Mecard!
(He's an expert)
Yeah!
Ask the dad if he knows what Turning Mecard is.
- I do know what it is. / - What is it?
It's a toy.
Oh, come on.
Do you know the Turning Mecard song?
Yes, I do.
Sing it.
Go.
No, I don't want to.
He's right. He's right.
Does your dad help Mom out a lot?
He does help, but only a little.
How does that make your mom look?
She looks exhausted.
I see. He's so eloquent.
He's so eloquent.
Why does she look exhausted?
I go to Haengbok Kindergarten and I'm 6.
Why are you suddenly introducing yourself?
You're so eloquent, Seungjae.
Your son already knows.
He's saying that you don't hang out with him.
That's not what you said earlier.
Do you know the names of his best friends?
Name two.
I don't think he has two friends.
He doesn't have friends?
I think his friend is Park Yeonu...
- Yeongu? / - Yeonu?
Seungjae, do you have a friend named Yeonu?
It's not Yeonu.
You don't have a friend named Yeonu?
Are you naming your own friend?
(Frustrated)
He must have a tough job.
- He's been working for 6 months now. / - What?
He's only been working for 6 months?
He was a college student before that.
Right. He's only 28 years old.
Then he must've had time to play with them.
As a college student, he was part of a club.
That's terrible.
He would go out to drink with his friends.
That happened all the time.
He would come home late
and I would be tired from watching the kids.
What time does he get off work?
He works from 8 to 5.
- That's early. / - Does he come straight home?
He is trying to lose weight,
so he goes to play badminton.
It'd be nice if he comes home right after that.
He drinks afterwards, huh?
He drinks and comes home at around 1 or 2 a.m.
- He comes home when we're asleep. / - Every day?
About 6 times a week?
That's every day.
- 6 times? / - That's every day.
That's every day except on Sundays.
6 times a week means
you play badminton more than you work.
That's terrible.
What about on weekends?
I ask him to stay home with us on weekends.
Of course.
He wakes me up in the morning and says,
"I'm going out to play badminton."
When did he cross the line?
I think it was on May 13.
- May 13. / - You remember the date clearly.
He went out early in the morning.
He didn't just play badminton.
He ate lunch and then went out to drink.
He came home around 1:30 a.m.
He came home the next day?
Yes. I told him how hard it was for me.
He's not tired from working too hard then.
You play badminton and then go out to drink.
You don't seem to be eager to lose weight.
It sounds like you go out to get away from home.
It's somewhat true, but
I haven't gained weight at least.
You're quite optimistic.
It's enough that you're maintaining your weight?
He's so optimistic.
You get to go out and play badminton.
But she doesn't get to enjoy her free time.
I do tell her to go out
and see her friends at times.
But it always gets cancelled at the last minute,
so she never did.
Why?
He does tell me to go out, but he says,
"Take the kids with you."
Both of them?
Wait. Let me ask him.
Is she lying or is this true?
What she said is true.
That's not giving her freedom.
You told her to take the kids with her?
Then go play badminton with your kids, too.
Why don't you just buck up and leave?
It's been 5 years since I've seen my friends.
Not since you got married then.
I've asked him to give me an hour or two
to myself and he told me to take the kids with me.
We argued so much over this,
so I left him.
I left home about 5 times.
What about the kids?
I left them with him.
I was determined to leave him.
But my eldest son called me.
He said, "Mom, come home."
My son called me.
- Seungjae did? / - Yes.
How long did you stay out?
I calmed myself down and returned in 30 minutes.
That's not running away from home.
What about the second time?
I came back within 30 minutes then, too.
That's not running away from home.
This is...
(That's terrible)
You just left after an argument?
Or did something happened?
When my husband gets angry
he becomes violent and starts throwing things.
You have so many bad habits.
- He throws things? / - Like what?
He threw a remote control at me
and hit me right under my nose.
You got hit in the face?
(He was aiming for her?)
After that, you must've considered divorcing him
because you're tired of it all.
Yes.
But because of my kids...
Do you want a divorce at times?
I think of divorcing him every day.
That's why you are here today.
Why did you throw things?
I wasn't aiming at her.
I just tossed it aside.
I didn't mean to hit her.
- You weren't aiming for her nose? / - No.
Were you aiming for her eyes then?
That's ridiculous.
You didn't throw it in another direction.
Were you just trying to scare her?
I didn't throw it. I just tossed it aside.
That was the problem.
Are you usually hot-tempered?
Yes, I think so.
Did you know that she was considering a divorce?
Yes.
- You knew? / - She's told me several times.
But she says that every time we argue,
so it never sounded like she meant it.
Seola and Yoojung aren't
that much younger than the wife.
She's only a year older than I am.
I couldn't live with a husband like him.
They're supposed to be raising the kids together,
but he never helps out at all.
He doesn't realize the gravity of this matter.
I would get a divorce.
I would get a divorce, no questions asked.
(It is quite frustrating)
Did something more upsetting happen?
It was on May 25, 2016.
May 25. It's the 5.25 incident.
The 5.25 incident.
Many things happened in May.
The month of May does not hold good memories.
They shouldn't fight like this in May, right?
No, no.
What happened?
It was at 4:58 p.m.
(It's shocking how detailed she is)
What? At 4:58 p.m.?
When you fight so much,
it's important to remember these details.
It was around 4:58 p.m.
Right when the traffic news was on.
It was before our youngest son was born.
I had a miscarriage.
(Miscarriage... A heartbreaking word)
- Before Eunjae? / - Yes.
I was 18 weeks pregnant.
I had appendicitis and my water broke.
Oh no.
I had to give birth
to take out the dead baby.
Our parents were there at the hospital.
Right when the baby was about to come out,
my husband was dozing off.
At that moment?
He was dozing off and he asked,
"Is it okay to go out and get some sleep?"
In that moment?
It's upsetting even if it was an actual birth.
In that moment?
How did you feel?
I...
You were appalled, right?
I wanted to die and be with my baby.
Do you remember that day?
Yes, I do.
Why did you say such a thing?
In my defense, I had an exam the day before.
Oh, you had an exam.
- I had stayed up all night. / - I see.
I remember dozing off.
Do you remember telling her that you'll go sleep?
No, I don't remember that.
(In tears)
Youngchul, you suddenly got awfully quiet.
What are you thinking? You look quite upset.
I know someone
who was in a similar situation.
They got divorced in the end.
Her husband never changed. Seeing this...
Ha...
It was heartbreaking to hear how
she got hit with the remote.
They both feel like younger siblings to me.
If you don't change today,
you'll lose your chance to be a great husband and
a great father. I really want you to change.
I really want to root for you.
Besides childrearing,
is there something that you're good at?
Yes. My in-laws love me very much.
I'm the one to suggest visiting them.
I get her gifts on special days.
I gave her roses on Rose Day recently.
That was just once.
(Of course there's a twist)
He got me flowers
and it felt so awkward.
- He had never done that before. / - I get it.
He gave me roses and said,
"Post it on social media that you love so much."
What?
He was being sarcastic?
He said he goes to my parents' place often?
That's a lie, too.
He never voluntarily goes there.
I have to beg him. "It's my mom's birthday.
Let's go have dinner with them."
He never suggested visiting them first?
What do you want from your husband then?
Get everything off your chest.
I...
We've been married for 6 years now,
but he has never complimented me.
- Never? / - Never.
"You did great today. It must've been tough."
I want to hear heartfelt words from him.
Because I'm so busy raising our kids,
I'm always wearing glasses at home.
You don't have time to look pretty.
I try to put on contact lenses when he comes home
to look pretty.
You tried?
Yes, but he...
- He never said anything? / - No.
About raising our kids,
"It was tough, right?" I just want to hear that.
All you want is to hear him say that.
You are willing to change,
so that's why you're here today, right?
Yes.
Let's cut to the chase. Let's get it all out now.
What are you going to do about playing badminton?
If you can't become a professional player,
just stop playing badminton.
Just play catch with Seungjae at the playground.
I did take Seungjae with me once to the court.
He is still too young, so he got in the way.
It was too dangerous for him.
I will only play 3 times a week.
Once Seungjae is old enough to play with me...
- You'll take him with you? / - Yes.
How about drinking on weekdays?
Don't drink anymore for your sake.
You'll continue to gain weight if you drink.
So you are saying that
you want to play badminton 3 times a week.
Shouldn't you give her a break, too?
Tell him what you want first.
What do you want him to do?
I want him to tell me
to go out freely and relax.
Maybe an hour or two. I don't ask for much.
She's not asking for much.
I want to go out and see my friends.
Can you do that for her?
Yes. I'll let her go out on Sundays.
We'll be visiting you weekly to check on you.
Okay.
What would you like to say to your husband?
Look into his face. Talk to him. "Honey."
She must love you so much.
She keeps crying.
This is why love is a crime.
I will see if you keep your promise.
When things are too tough for me and I'm sad,
I want you to comfort me.
Yes. She wants to be able to rely on you.
I'm still single, so let me ask you.
Do you still love him?
Yes, I love him very much.
Love is a crime.
What about you? Do you still love your wife?
Yes, I do.
Then why are you acting that way?
Right.
This is unknown territory for me.
- I don't get it either. / - Right?
Love is a strange thing.
Let's vote. Youngchul. Is it a concern?
Yes, it is.
I think it's a concern, too.
I definitely think it's a concern.
I think it's a concern, too.
Tossing a cell phone to a child
isn't considered playing with him.
You have to talk to him
and interact with him when you hang out with him.
I definitely think it's a concern.
We are around the same age.
I hope that you will find time for yourself
and get a hobby or something.
If you think this is a concern for the wife,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Please stop.
Please say a word to your wife.
Go back to the day you two met in a nightclub.
Be kind to her.
I've always wanted to tell you this.
I'm sorry and thank you.
You've worked so hard.
I don't want to be sorry and grateful anymore.
I will work much harder so that
you can be grateful and sorry to me instead.
I'm really sorry.
- That was awesome. / - He's a changed man.
Oh my.
I don't believe this.
This is quite a shock.
Should we go interview you a year later?
- Yes. / - Would that be okay?
- He's changed so much. / - That was kind.
I'm so into you now.
No, that's wrong.
I'm going to be your fan now.
We must go to nightclubs to get married.
Let's see how many votes they got.
Please show us. "Is He Really Their Father?"
They got over 100 votes.
156? 146?
166!
(They got 166 votes)
They're No. 1.
She's sick and tired of the word "dream."
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