Many of us are on a mission to find our soulmates.
But, how do you determine if you've found the right person?
From letting each other in on secrets to being a personal cheerleader, here are sixteen signs
that your relationship will last:
16.
Listen to Each Other - Have you ever been in a relationship in which you're doing
an awful lot of talking, but your partner isn't listening to any of it?
One of the worst feelings in the world is explaining your thoughts and emotions, or
maybe even having a normal conversation, and seeing that your significant other doesn't
care enough to listen.
TRULY listen.
They can nod their heads all they want, but if they aren't paying attention, it's
obvious.
They'll appear distracted and won't remember much of the conversation.
However, if you've found someone who not only listens to what you say but takes time
to analyze it in an attempt to understand, it's a big sign that your relationship will
last.
It's crucial for both parties to be heard, and being ignored is sure to cause heartbreak
on both sides.
15.
Don't Expect Change - A lot of us have experienced relationships where we disagree with certain
things the other person does.
In fact, this applies to nearly every union out there.
Being opposed to characteristics your partner possesses doesn't necessarily mean that
the relationship is doomed.
However, expecting instantaneous changes will cause tension between the two of you and will
most likely result in a break-up.
There are always aspects people can improve on regarding their actions, emotions, and
ways of thinking, and couples should support each other in making positive developments.
But, the traits that could use an adjustment shouldn't deter the other person if changes
are never made.
Your partner should love and want you for who you are already, not who you aspire to
be or who they see you becoming.
14.
Communication - Are you sad?
Are you upset with something your partner did?
Are you experiencing trouble at work?
Are you happy?
Anything you are feeling or going through is something you should tell your significant
other, whether it be good or bad.
You've probably heard this before, but it's true; communication is key.
It is one of the most significant aspects of a lasting relationship, and if you think
about it, the reasoning makes sense.
If you're in a partnership with somebody, you want to be able to talk to them about
everything and have meaningful discussions.
You should feel as if you can tell them anything, and you want them to let you in on all of
the components of their life as well.
If you are unable to exchange thoughts and feelings with your partner, what is the point
of having them there?
You could do the same thing alone.
So, keep this in mind if you're looking for a long-lasting companionship.
It might be difficult to communicate at first, but it is an essential part of keeping your
bond strong.
13.
Do Things Together - Have you ever been with someone who is never open to doing things
that you're interested in?
You invite them out all the time, and they keep turning you down?
That is a sure sign that your relationship is not going to last.
Couples who compromise and do things with and for one another are much more likely to
make things work in the long run.
This includes daily activities, like grocery shopping, eating dinner, or watching television,
but also encompasses special occasions, like going to concerts, attending parties, or seeing
a movie.
Of course, it's wonderful if you are both mutually interested in whatever you're doing,
but it's important to do things your partner is excited about, even if you aren't very
fond of them.
For instance, let's say you don't like The Avengers, but go with your significant
other to see the new movie anyway because they want to, and you like being with them.
This is a sign that your relationship will last.
This goes both ways; they should be willing to do things you like, even if they don't
necessarily find the activity appealing.
12.
Forgive and Forget - Have you ever been with someone for a long time where things generally
run smoothly, but as soon as you two have a little tiff, they bring up something that
happened the year before and use it as ammunition?
Most people have experienced this, and honestly, it makes staying together difficult.
Everybody makes mistakes at some point, and nobody is perfect, even if they think they
are.
So, a sign that your relationship will last is if your partner forgives your missteps
and vice versa because you're both bound to make them.
However, forgiveness only means to excuse the deed; another necessary step is to forget.
Pardoning the mistake initially and bringing it up later to prove a point doesn't do
either party any good.
It causes more tension and shows that you aren't willing to accept that the other
person isn't perfect.
Of course, this doesn't literally mean "forget," as that would prove impossible.
But, it does mean that if you've decided to forgive your partner, you should follow
through with that decision.
11.
Show Gratitude - The feeling of being under-appreciated can cause a rift in the relationship, whether
one or both people are experiencing it.
For example, have you ever worked really hard planning a romantic dinner or put a lot of
thought into something special for your partner, and they don't say thank you or somehow
show you that they're grateful?
It's disheartening when you receive no gratitude for the effort you make.
This doesn't mean you need to give each other a ribbon every time one of you does
something nice, but a simple acknowledgment works wonders in making a union last.
Verbally expressing your appreciation is a great option, but there are other ways to
show that you care; giving your significant other a hug, a smile, or a kiss are all excellent
alternatives in showing that you are thankful for the things they do.
10.
Effort from Both Sides - Appreciating effort is one thing, but first, both sides need to
make some.
Many of us have been in a relationship where we seem to be the only person trying to make
things work.
Maybe it's just you suggesting to do things with your partner, or it seems you've been
solely trying to keep things together, but they keep falling apart.
You're feeling out of your element, throwing things, crying, and trying to figure out where
you went wrong.
This is all evidence of a partnership that won't last.
However, if both people are working equally as hard because they care about one another,
it is a sure sign that you could be together for a long time.
This doesn't always come easily, as people often get caught up in their own wants and
needs, but if you truly care for one another and express it, you might be in it for the
long haul.
9.
Admitting Error - Perhaps this is the most difficult aspect of any lasting relationship.
Nevertheless, it is a requirement to ensure your companionship is long-term.
Nobody likes to admit they were wrong about something, but it is essential in building
a strong bond and shows one's vulnerability.
It presents the opposite if you can't acknowledge your errors; it gives the impression that
you care about being right more than your partner's feelings or the truth.
Being this prideful is a bad look for anyone trying to pursue a serious relationship.
This doesn't mean to give in even when the other person is wrong, but to take ownership
of your mistakes when you make them.
8.
Can Be Yourself - Have you ever been with someone who makes you feel perfectly comfortable
being yourself around them?
If so, you've found a partner you might have for a lifetime.
It's too common nowadays to be judged for your differences, so, finding somebody who
accepts you for who you are and encourages the characteristics that make you unique is
an extraordinary experience.
It's disconcerting to feel like you have to change yourself to be around a person without
being taunted, and, quite frankly, a relationship built on this is also built on lies.
Doing this creates a false foundation, so everything that comes after is shaky at best.
So, make sure you can be yourself around your significant other and allow them to be who
they are around you; this will create a sturdy, long-standing union.
7.
Help Each Other - This encompasses a broad spectrum of things within a relationship.
Helping one another with simple tasks, such as washing dishes, doing laundry, cooking,
and cleaning is important so that it isn't just one person taking on all of the chores.
This also applies to more significant things, like supporting your partner in their career
or assisting with difficult choices.
It's imperative to a lasting partnership that both people not only put in the effort
but help each other with personal situations as well.
If you see your other half struggling with something and you feel that you can offer
support, then do so.
Make it apparent that you care about their hardships and will do anything within your
power to give them a hand.
Being there for one another is sure to keep your relationship on track.
6.
Good and Bad - As with every companionship, there are bound to be good times and bad times,
and to make things last, it's crucial to stick with each other through both.
It's great when everything is rainbows and butterflies, and the two of you don't have
a care in the world.
However, it's impossible to be carefree all of the time.
Adverse events are going to get you or your partner down, and if you can get through those
hardships together, then you've got a bond worth fighting for.
We've all been in situations where something inconvenient or difficult presents an obstacle
for the relationship, and unfortunately, it tears the two of you apart.
But, sometimes this obstacle does the opposite; it draws you and your significant other closer
together because you were able to join forces and power through.
If this happens, it's a significant indication that you have something that will last.
5.
Cheer Each Other On - Just like you cheer on your favorite team during the Super Bowl,
you should cheer on your partner every day.
This doesn't mean you should break out the pom-poms every time they unload the dishwasher,
but it's important to support them in their endeavors and vice versa.
Let's say you're up for a promotion at work and filled with self-doubt, and your
partner doesn't try and lift you up or give you hope; this would make you feel as if you're
alone.
But, if they're reassuring your capabilities and confidence, it will provide you with a
boost in the right direction and could even improve your chances of getting the promotion.
This can apply to numerous situations and is essential for long-term relationships.
4.
Have Fun - Although there are a lot of pressing matters that accompany any long-standing union,
it's necessary that you keep things light-hearted sometimes.
This means laughing together, joking around, and just enjoying each other's company.
We can only keep ourselves focused for so long before we need some comic relief.
Plus, sense of humor is one of the main traits that draws us to our partners in the first
place, so if it fades away, the attraction could fade with it.
3.
Keep the Love Alive - This is important, especially when you've been with someone for a long
time.
Things can slow down and even become boring.
It's crucial that both of you make an effort to keep the intimacy alive, which includes
more than the physical (although that can be a big deal too).
Many of us have been in situations where you become almost too comfortable with someone,
to the point where you're more friends than romantic partners.
When this happens, it's upsetting and can end in heartbreak.
So, if both parties make it a point to lovingly touch each other, exchange compliments, and
make sure they get alone time on a regular basis, it will help tremendously with keeping
the love alive, which will result in a stronger, longer relationship.
2.
Happy for Each Other - Unfortunately there are a lot of people out there who find comfort
in the downfall of others; it makes them feel better about their shortcomings.
But, having this characteristic will cause a relationship to crumble.
Nobody wants to be with someone who is jealous or melancholy when they succeed; they want
a partner who will find joy in their accomplishments.
It is fundamental to a lasting bond that both parties are happy for each other when the
situation calls for it.
It's upsetting if you're with someone who doesn't share your excitement.
1.
Trust Each Other - This is arguably the most significant sign that a relationship will
last.
You have to be able to trust the person you're with.
This applies to being unfaithful but also encompasses everyday things.
Do you have enough confidence in them to ask them for help?
Do you believe in them enough to confide in them?
These are essential questions to ask yourself about your partner.
They should be the person you can rely on the most, and you should never doubt that
they have your best interest.
Building trust will lead you to a lifetime of happiness with your significant other.
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