Hey everyone, I'm Shiza
welcome back to my YouTube channel
I know, I've been M.I.A for sometime and I always say that
but I've been having exams and I'm also just lazy
so that's why I didn't make a video before.
but today I'm back with yet another video
and today I'm gonna be a wise person to be honest
like I'm gonna tell you guys all of the things or at least some of the things that I've
learnt in my life
I am kind of a pretty observant person
I learn things from other people's experiences
or something that I've experienced
or like slightly experienced, like, not completely experienced
but I learn things from like random stuff
so I decided to share them with you guys
and I hope you guys enjoy my video
don't forget to give this video a big thumbs up
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if you want more videos like this
so, if you guys learn something from it and you'd like to share it with your family
then show them the video
and hopefully they learn something too
and also it was my birthday recently and
I've seen a lot of people make videos
on their birthdays like
30 things I've learnt in 30 years of my life
and all of that but
these things are less than my age so
it's not exactly like that
but it is somewhat similar
so I hope you guys enjoy this video
so, let's get started
in no particular order
one of the things I've learnt in my life is
that you should never get attached to things like
especially the material things
because you never know if tomorrow you'll be able to have them or not
because everything is temporary
like you should get attached to some people and your family
like people who are special to you
your friends and all of that but
not material things because
you never know what tomorrow might bring
so stay away from getting attached to material things
this I've learnt by
other people's experience to be honest
like not my experience
that much
yeah, my life isn't that bad
number two is that
you should forgive people
even if you don't like them, even if you're enemies or anything like that
but forgive people
because you never know if tomorrow
they'll be alive and then you'll regret it
you'll regret that why didn't I forgive that person
forgive people but don't ever forget
what they've done to you
or someone else will do the same exact thing and just walk away
so, just learn to forgive but not forget
and also don't give other people or a lot of people
the chance to hurt you that much
because just like don't go on sharing all the personal things with any random person
most of the time, people you're friends with right now are gonna be your enemies in the future
so you never know what's gonna happen so,
you should give other people the least amount of information about yourself
as you can because
it won't be pretty when your best friend becomes your enemy
and they have all of the weapons to destroy you
so just be careful about that
if you forgive people,
it'll make your heart clear like
you won't feel burdened
when you forgive people because
if you're... don't hold grudges basically
if you hold grudges then it's not a good thing for you
for your mental health
and for that other person as well
even if it's an enemy
just don't do that
number three is, like I have
learnt this the hard way, you can say
NEVER expect anything from anyone
even if it's your family or your friends
or even a significant other
you should never expect too much from them
because people have that problem
like, everyone has that problem
that people cannot reach our expectations
because it's human nature that we expect too high from the people we love
and they may not be able to fulfill that
so, you should just keep your expectations to minimum
you won't get hurt
you'll be happy, you'll live a happy life
Number four is that
to appreciate the small things in life
because it's really the small things in life that matter
you do remember the big things but basically it's the small things because
when someone does something small for you
you'll remember it like
if someone remembers your birthday
then you'll be like "Oh yeah, you remember my birthday"
you should appreciate the small things because it's the moments that make life
because in life you're gonna have so many bad moments
and a lot more good moments so
just appreciate the good moments
because life is basically a collection of all of the moments
so, if you appreciate the good ones, you won't feel as bad about the bad ones
Number five is that, you should
accept your flaws
like your insecurities, like
if you're insecure about a physical thing
about your body then
just accept it because if you accept it then,
you won't be that insecure about it and it won't be that visible
I'd even say, "Flaunt your flaws"
people will have a problem, even if you're perfect
they'll find something in you, that'll be a flaw
to them
because everyone has different standards of beauty
of perfection
so, the person you find perfect, someone else might not
so, just accept who you are
and there's always gonna be someone out there who will find you perfect
so, just accept yourself and accept your flaws
and don't give yourself punishment for something you didn't even do
because your physical appearance, you have nothing to do with that
because you were born with it
like these are all genetics
I'm tall because of my genetics
I'm broad, like my bones are broad
because of that, there's nothing I can do about that
I can't just cut my bones in half
you shouldn't let people
define beauty for you
you should define it yourself
because other people's standards of beauty
and other people's definition of beauty is
definitely gonna be different
than your standards of beauty
than what you think that beauty really is
so, just don't listen to these people
and do you and accept your flaws
Number six is something
we all should learn
and even if we don't learn it by our-self then
we have to learn it sometime in our life
it is to survive on your own
you should know that all your life, you're not gonna have a person
who'll help you in surviving
so, it's like you should know how to drive, you should
know how to like, deal with other people
deal with like shopkeepers and all of those people like
outside world because if you don't
then you'll be lost in your professional life because
after studying, everyone has to get out there
just don't depend on other people too much
Number seven is that you should not
regret the decisions you've made in your life
and the things that you've been through in your life
because everything we go through
all of the things that we're put through
in our life, they're there for a reason
like everything, every single thing happens for a reason
if you did one thing different that day
then everything would've been different the next day
learn from the mistakes but don't regret them
because it was meant to happen so, it did happen
Number eight is that you shouldn't
trust anyone "blindly"
you can trust people like your friends and anyone but
when it comes to blindly, you can trust your family blindly but only in some cases
because sometimes even family betrays you
like in lion king, scar killed his brother
Number nine is that,
you should stand up for yourself
don't let other people say stuff about you and you'll
just be quiet and like huh yeah you said that about me
if something should be your decision and someone else is making decision for you
and you don't like that decision then
just tell them that you're not supposed to make decisions for me
I'm supposed to make decisions for myself
if you do that, then you'll succeed at life
just take your stand
if you let other people trash you, then you're not gonna survive in our society
because today's society is just too hard to compete with
and you should stand up for yourself and you should make your own decisions
even if you are indecisive
I, myself am indecisive like
I can't make decisions but I
shouldn't let others make decisions for me like
I should make them myself because
because that's how you learn. You make mistakes and you learn from them
Number ten is that you should treat others
the way you want to be treated
if you want someone to be nice to you then you have to be nice to that person
even if that person isn't nice to you
even though you've been nice to them
if you continue being nice to them then they are gonna be nice to you
eventually
just treat everyone with the same respect
even if it's the CEO or the janitor
be kind actually like
you never know what tomorrow might be
if you say something to someone and they hold a grudge against you then
you'll have to pay for it long time
so, just don't do that
Number eleven is that you should be grateful
for everything in life, all the ups, all the downs
all the mistakes
all the goods, all the bads.
just be grateful for them because
they are the reason that you are who you are today
just accept all of the things that have happened to you in your life
and just move on
that way you'll lead a good life
Number twelve is that
never underestimate
the ability of something to make you smile
for myself, I laugh very easily
even if someone says a very bad joke I'd laugh at it because
I don't know my brain thinks I'm supposed to laugh so
it just makes me laugh
even if it's something I'm not supposed to laugh at, I'd still laugh at it
If you are smiling,
if you are laughing at something then
it's a blessing
and appreciate it
and be grateful for it
Number thirteen is that
you're only going to truly appreciate something
when you are afraid to lose it
like all of the things that we have that we take for granted
someone else is dying to have them
like even our life, there are
a lot of kids out there who have cancer or
other diseases and
they won't live long enough to even be where I am today
like my age
so, we should be grateful for all of the things
that we've been given in life
and all the experiences
and everything because there is someone out there who wants it
and they can't have it because they don't have enough resources and stuff like that
appreciate all of the things that you have and all of the people that you have in your life
because you never know what tomorrow is gonna be
so, that's all I have for you guys today
don't forget to give this video a big thumbs up
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I hope you guys learnt something and
these are just 13 things that I've learnt in my life
and I'm not thirteen, I promise
If I said something
that made you feel like, "oh yeah, she said the right thing, I should do that"
just try to apply it to your life, it's never too late
to make your life better
and to appreciate the people around you
and to make yourself a better person and
yeah I'll see you guys in the next video
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