Hi! I'm Tony Robbins hi I'm sage province
a lot of people have relationships were
they settled and they've got himself in
a place where a friendship you know
they've had on the back a little kiss on
the cheek but there's not that aliveness
anymore and oftentimes we're told well
that's what you're supposed to expect
after a period of time because it isn't
about time it's about triggers and
knowing those really are the other thing
we just want you to know this is really
about how to be happy because you know
so many people in life have these dreams
and goals and then they get them and
their imap and when you travel around
the world here's what you're fine I
don't care what background people have
what the religious belief is what levels
the faster challenge they have in their
life people want happiness they want joy
they want to feel good about their life
they want a sense of meaning if there's
love and passion there that maybe
there's something in your life that
you've done that you know has made a
difference for someone you love nothing
feels greater than that and also knowing
someone loves you so much they're so
passionate for you that your life has a
different level of meaning but as
important as this area is for most
people this is the area they master the
least most of us run to work we run the
business or shaping our bodies or our
kids because it's safer and we have
control but this is an area that if you
take charge of yourself and if you
understand the dynamics of men and women
and relationship I'm you can make
changes in minutes that maybe you try to
make for years and really not being able
to experience our goal is to give you
the resources to take whatever you've
been talking about whatever you've been
dreaming about or as great as your
relationship is to the next level where
love and passion is a daily experience
so we thank you and we're going to begin
the process thank you for joining us
maybe one day we'll meet you personally
in a program but until then God bless
just stay on the line and pretty soon
you'll meet Jen and Paul you'll see what
it's like to be able to come back from
the edge god bless and we'll look for to
me anything live with passion and love
and look
you're afraid yes what are you afraid of
that if I leave my wife I'll lose my
identity and my self-worth and I'll lose
our love and love for myself you're
probably will in fact it will be worse
than that I mean do you have kids yes
yes you'll feel them hating you at times
you're gonna lose a lot of money more
than you think it's gonna have another
guy bring up his kids he's gonna fall in
love with another woman to make all the
same mistakes all over again this is my
wife hi is your love for this man
unconditional yes is that your
experience sir I've had a lot of
struggles with physical attraction I
tried to tell myself that physically
that was all that I needed and it wasn't
I don't feel that she was the person I
was meant to be with for the rest of my
life you want to leave I want to be free
of the pain on both sides and Sikkim
that up with feeling this way it's
unfair to her it's unfair to me so you
basically believe you know what's right
would it not had the guts to do
something you got it
so you'd have certainty and comfort what
do you guys do I need to know that I'm
loved so you live in a life where the
most important things in life topic that
you have uncertainty and how much sir
did you have that your family's of lobby
of 0 to 10 100 you talking about your
father no I lost my father okay that's
okay you were his little baby girl
definitely What did he say about you on
that I was perfect that bastard told her
his perfect so yeah I'm sorry to hear by
your father's passing thank you but your
father needed the pass at some point so
you could have a man he can never be
your man or your father alive he has a
chance now Wow
it's like I have this huge weight lifted
off my shoulders that I don't I don't
have the worry that used to bog down my
brain many people probably believe
they've tried everything and you know
with what they're thinking at the time
they probably can't see anything else if
it just they love the person they're
with and they know in their heart just
try one more time because it's so worth
it hey it's tony robbins listen i'm here
today to talk to the gentleman in the
group but in case any ladies are
watching today as well here's my
question for you ladies how many you
cannot stand a man who can't make a
decision how many of you cannot stand
the man who at one point in the
relationship he's there for you and now
he doesn't feel present at all how many
guests been a man I can't tell you the
truth and now that I've stirred up the
ladies it's really a bit video for men
for gentlemen I know you know there's
been women in your life who have felt in
the beginning so much passion for you
and then gradually you guys seem to
drift apart you love each other but
there isn't that same aliveness that
same sensuality or sexuality or
excitement together and 10 min think
that's women that creates and I would
argue two gentlemen but if you and I
take responsibility we dig underneath
and we understand what the triggers are
that make women turn off then we can
turn them back on and not by some stupid
technique but by the thing that affects
most women to deepest and that is your
presence most women are starving for a
man whose present what does present mean
it needs a man who is right here with me
one hundred percent right now his mind
isn't doing 20 other things I know
gentlemen it's hard to be present when
woman is talking to you and she's
talking about so many things so quickly
very often that don't relate to the
woman's brain has something called
diffused awareness it means they taken
everything all at once it isn't
multitasking it's literally
transitioning not even transitioning
experiencing multiple conversations and
people at one time whereas men to the
focus on one thing at a time and when a
woman starts doing that most men's
brains click in or they try to focus on
one thing they can hand
and they're no longer present if you're
in your head and you're not connected
that woman she doesn't feel that
presence and presence is what opens a
woman presence is what causes a woman to
open you essentially sexually
emotionally her heart or soul whole nine
yards ladies correct me if I'm wrong
there is nothing more powerful than
presents when there's real love involved
so and off often women respond to a man
who doesn't mean love them but whose
present for them but they feel like
there's nothing else in the world but me
right now and gentlemen you know how to
do that when you're in the zone in
sports you are so present when you're in
the zone trying to solve a problem you
were so there and you probably were so
there when you were pursuing this woman
but if you can train yourself to bring
that presence back on a regular basis
you can own your woman like she'd never
been on where she will literally melt to
you I don't think most women who are
feminine would argue with what I'm
sharing with you right now if they do
they can not only talk about the video
they can write some comments down below
wherever this thing is posted so what
makes women also feel you're not present
is when you may feel like you're not
honest and most men are truly audit but
they just don't want to deal with what
they call the shit that must be the
technical term right the ship again for
telling the truth because she disagrees
about it and then get worn out by words
men would happy to resolve it the
finally they'll just say yeah yeah okay
okay when you say yeah yeah okay okay
that's not really okay with you you're
not present so she gets even more
animated see most women they don't want
a pleaser they would like to be pleased
but they don't want to please her I
please there's time to anything a can to
make things work they feel there's no
present for the man he has no century
has no strength they may like him but
it's going to be hard for them to
respect him and if she doesn't respect
him there's not going to be a lot of
passion and him is you that's a real
problem you and I both know with you're
a single man who's meeting women or
whether you're in an intimate
relationship so I thought maybe we'll
show you one example of how women
perceive dishonesty with men perceive it
as just leaving things out so they don't
have to deal with more challenges and
how to deal with it differently I can
tell you that verbally but it might be
better to witness it we were in Hawaii
recently and there was a gentleman there
sharing
that he have so much difficulty just
dealing with his wife she wants him to
do things like do the dishes and he says
I run a business and I don't do the
dishes she feel doesn't feel like I love
her and I said well then why would you
just do it at times because I do at
times but it's like every time it and so
she asked me you know you know am I
gonna do dishes and I say yes and then
they don't do it then she gets mad at me
and I said yeah because there is
anything authentic I said why don't you
play your wife right now now let's talk
about whatever she's upset about and
I'll just be me but I'll put I'll be you
there's i'll be myself if I was you and
you'll just watch this little video and
it's pretty simplistic only basically
say is no I'm not gonna do it and he was
shocked when I demonstrated this but I
didn't do it harsh I didn't say you
should go do these dishes I don't have a
delusion that that's a woman's job I
just said I'm not going to do it this
higher priority but I also don't think
you do your problem i am committed
working out a solution but i'm not going
to do this and there's some things that
you probably don't want to do I don't
see let's work this out it's coming from
a place of congruence and people can
feel when you say what you mean and you
mean what you say versus when you're
play gating I know this is third grade
at one level like we all know this
intellectually but knowing
intellectually in doing it is image to
be having a passionate relationship in a
relationship where you're constantly
accommodating each other and
accommodation doesn't produce passion it
might have a relationship with there's
some friendship but again the only
difference between you know a friendship
and an intimate relationship is intimacy
and real exciting it's missy is when
people fill your present feeling was
dishonest you'll take it away so watch
this quick little video so simple and
see what you get out of the gentleman
you think about if you might use that
same sense of presence that's already
inside you are you use in business or
sport with that woman and not let the
password out you might be surprised
women very often when they feel that
spring and excites them to see you have
a standard and you're not going to be
swayed take it out and then maybe show
this even to a woman in your life and
see if she agrees you might say that
Tony Robbins was so full of it as a
bunch of crap my bet is she'll say yeah
smack you on the soul that's what I've
been trying to tell you be President
that's me
and instead of you know saying well i'm
sorry i'll be better just delivering
maybe this week is the time Valentine's
week of time for you to find your own
Center the way you do in business the
way do we have a purpose do app with a
woman in your life the game will change
but the inside there's going to be a
part of you and a part of your partner
in life whether you found them or the
one you're pursuing or the one you're
already with that you're going to start
to cherish in a different level now
while that may sound corny we've got
some skills we just spent some time in
Hawaii for seven days with our platinum
partners and we went deep we were
couples that were absolutely gone how
would you describe some of them fully in
love some of them over the top how would
you describe the experience it was it
was it's amazing to be able to take a
relationship that truly doesn't feel
that passion and doesn't feel that
intimacy in that love and in a moment to
be able to decide something new and
that's what happened over and over and
over again in Hawaii and so you're going
to be able to experience a taste of that
and we're just here to say that this
weekend Valentine's week remember it's
about waking up it's about waking up to
adoring your partner at such a different
level and celebrating your partner and
you know it's crazy because on
Valentine's Day you know we do so much
that's romantic and the supplements
creative and go out of our way and it's
about bringing that magic and that love
and that thoughtfulness and that
sincerity and waking up to your
partner's needs at such a different
level because it really is in the little
things that you know just create that
depth of love it's also just deciding to
set a stake in the ground as standard
for going forward that this is not just
Valentine's Day but your life you know
people get what they accept people get
what they tolerate in themselves and
each other and most people in
relationship are thinking about what
they're going to tolerate the other
person but in our relationship I think
the beauty and the passion and all the
juices I've gotten experience in our
relationship my girl is because I hold
myself to a higher standard that she can
ever expect of me and I think when your
standard and focus is about yourself
instead of on your partner about how do
I show up more what am I here to give in
the beginning of a relationship people's
whole focus is how do i like them up I
want to do anything light them up and it
makes you feel incredible like a partner
up and you know relationship is aging
not based on years but based on when you
can be with somebody a week but
you start thinking about what are we
doing for me and I'm doing it all you
start measuring what you're giving
instead of just giving from your heart
your soul things drop off so maybe this
week is a chance for you to really
create some relationship breakthroughs
and we think that takes three things any
kind of breakthrough sometimes it's
having the right strategy because
frankly you know as a guy we say and do
things that girls interpret very
differently they come up with very
different meanings and vice versa you
know for men for example problems or
nothing you talk about problems of
things you solve right now or you make
them small and move on for ladies
sharing that problem getting in feeling
it not solving it understanding
understanding gentlemen is such a key
piece we are such different species and
I think having an understanding of each
other and each other's needs and knowing
that we are not the same you know our
own reality of how we think and feel and
process life isn't the same for your
partner so having that not just
understanding but ruefully appreciation
for how they view and experience the
world is a game changer is it game time
there's so many things in our
relationship and it's like oh my
goodness you know what it's not me cuz
energy take things person it's just
knowing that that's how they process
reality and process life well they say
that it's not meant for Mars Medina's
john gray's a friend of mine it's a
wonderful approach but all men have a
feminine side of the mass curbside all
women have a feminine side of the
masculine side it's really just
understanding how this species endemic
species interpret the world and if you
don't understand the strategy not
interpret that you'll be upset or angry
or frustrated so perhaps this week and
you know you'll be able to dig in and
get some new understandings that'll take
some of the weight off to make you laugh
and stuff that you used to get upset
about it's one thing your strategies to
know how to fix things but oftentimes
you don't apply what you know because
you got a story about your relationship
a story about your part but they don't
really care you know you got
frustrations or pains or disappointments
they got interpreted in the past and now
you're generalizing about your partner
whenever we generalize about anybody we
do them at the service in ourselves as
well so maybe this week during
Valentine's week maybe discover what are
the empowering stories about your
relationship if you ask a couple how did
you meet and they talk about it with
such passion excitement you know the
relationships still alive if they go
yeah we met you know this is what
happens
we bumped into each and there's no
energy for it even a story of how you
met affects you so probably this week
might you might want to take a look at
the stories that you tell about your
partner to yourself to your friends to
your partner because we start to believe
our story and I always tell people want
to change your life change your story
divorce the story of how your partner is
not enough or you'll never find the
partner you want if you're single or the
good ones are gone whatever stopping you
from getting what you want the
relationships there's a story about it
you can uncover it you can get rid of it
divorce your story and marry the truth
the truth is always something alone
power you much more and that truth of
that magnification remembering it's like
one of the gifts that we give each other
especially actually at a time like this
like Valentine's week is actually be
living those moments you know reliving
the magic and appreciating the magic and
it's just I don't know it infuses into
your life rather than looking and
letting those stacking staff out for you
become frustrations and the story
knowing that this man i was born to love
this man and god gifted me all that a
good sign on with millions of people the
good i'm done this has been the gift of
my life i got into that I believe that's
my positive karma that's the core story
i believe about this woman and that
produces a love and commitment and
devotion to each other that gives you
any of the other BF that shows up when
you get caught up in the daily stresses
of things so rewrite your story what is
your love affair and who are you for the
one that you love and if you single it's
time to rewrite the story of who you are
and the one that you're going to track
because whenever we focus on wherever we
all know ever energy go wherever focus
goes energy flows so your story controls
the energy of your life if you think all
the good ones are gone it's
self-fulfilling you know if you're
overweight and hunters and wait or
strategies are there but you're not
doing it cuz you go I've tried
everything you haven't tried everything
not all the good ones are gone and your
partner was bright with you if there was
ever a passion that pass can be brought
back to life with the right strategies
but first you gotta have the story
that's ever can last one real fast well
is the most important Bible relationship
is the state you're in we always call
the State of the Union aha you know what
the state of the union if two people
independent each other in pink states
about things in their business their
life their career and they need together
it's a great relationship if they're
both in kind of a so-so state eventually
a relationship so if they're both in a
crappy state prison of the crappy
relationship what people who want is
when we meet somebody we get attracted
them because they change our statement
change the way we feel we get excited
want to be with them are you being are
you putting yourself in a state when
you're with the partner in your life or
the person you want to track are you
doing the state that would want them
make them want to be with you like they
would be in the beginning you know most
people are noticing what the other
person isn't doing but the most
important thing is you're going to
interpret your partner and really
negative ways when you're in a lousy
state ever than that at somebody you've
got something and you found out later on
you were wrong we just estate you're in
so we have so many tools for changing
state and we work at it weighted tuna
I'm giggling about this one to state my
husband how he says are the most loving
human being on the planet until I don't
eat then he calls me Godzilla oh so
familiar dish from the same perspective
feel where sometimes truthfully we will
even if there's a staffing or we have a
frustration we will literally it's like
you know whether we need to change our
state will go drink some water will eat
something just taking a breath from
what's happening in that moment so it
allows your physiology to exchange so
you're not like bringing that to the
table in that moment because that can
just cause if you're both frustrated and
those two frustration jerz is going
together it's like literally I mean we
will physically just it's like let's do
something so we'll jump in the pool
sounds crazy but it actually like you
know you come out and you feel different
in feeling different your physiology you
experience different realities when
you're stuck in a relationship you're
stuck because you're stuck in a state
people get stuck in the future of
futures not the way they want it to be
in their head or something to happen in
the past the best thing is to change
something in the present physically
change it bring some water have
something to eat jump in the river do
whatever you got to do because in the
right state you and I both know if
there's any love there you will
transform and come back and solve the
problem but in the wrong state good
people the right people in the wrong
state will mess up the relationship so
if you want to break through this week
look at some of the strategies for
understanding appreciating and changing
look at what triggers you to feel
attractive because this week smudge is
about love it's love and passion if all
you have is love you have a friendship
nothing
all without but give them an intimate
relationship and there's passion there
so what are the strategies to trigger
that the masculine and feminine energy
the dance of it take a look at some of
those this week take a look at this week
is your own story take a look at your
state and we're going to do some little
videos this week for you just our gift
to you and then at some point they'll be
an offering for you to continue
education with us we have our ultimate
relationship program and I'll have some
kind of special offer for you enough if
you want to continue this journey with
us and really expanding please take
advantage of that but the first thing we
want to do in there today or two maybe
they'll put it on this video I don't
know how they'll do it is what we call
the eight to be great which is what are
the laws of love and lust they're
different love and passion what makes
you love somebody doesn't always make
you excited by them sometimes you just
want to snuggle what makes you excited
doesn't always bring out love how do you
trigger both of these in the same
relationship and a nice that it your
night that passion ignite that loveth
like that attraction if you can turn on
and insistence and that's what we really
share you know for us we are each
other's best friends I mean there's
literally I'm we share everything
together and yet to have that and to
have that intimacy alive to have that
and to have that level of attraction
that's where it's just it's a game
changer is a game changer of a level of
love and excitement and anticipation to
really share your life together I'm fun
and fun in cali feather Godzilla today
only the role of it I'm a cupcake happy
Valentine's week hope you enjoy some of
the stuff we're sending you hope it's
helpful for you we know will be if you
take the time and and hope we get a
chance to meet you in person someday an
event or hear the story of how you've
changed your life can change the
relationship either created the one you
really want or taking the one make your
in to a new level god bless to you happy
Valentine's Day
I was the most important thing that
anybody has to do man or woman I think
of your right you men in the past and
conditioned to associate more of their
work for what they do and women have
both devote time more to the
relationships that you made go beyond
conditioning the biochemistry is
obviously very different every man and
every woman have both male and female
energy in themselves every every woman
but most people a chance you have one
that's stronger and so the answer to
that is you have to become a creator
instead of just 100 if you're a hunter
and you get what you want rarely are you
happy anyway that's how most men do and
what I think Anthony instead is trapped
what you want and the way you attract
what you want is not just a composited
layer to the thoughts it's getting
really specific about what did you want
like anything in life almost anything
you've ever achieved in your life do
that really clear something you got
excited about you got obsessed I thought
about also we can relate to something I
want it's so bad I couldn't stop
thinking about it and you can be kind of
kept thinking about it and if you didn't
come to play severe you hear things you
notice things started you know making
distinctions ideas came to you put
together a plan it took some action
something didn't work you try something
else but you eventually got there
because we're so good and so hungry and
so clear but if you got a general go I
don't have a relationship so I can do a
while you going to lose some weight oh
and make some money we're fine here's a
dollar fine here's a guy you know by
lose a pound and you just achieved your
goals I think people out to get really
specific what I did my own bicycle
transform a life i sit down i wrote down
everything I could possibly want in a
relationship everything I was ridiculous
in the level of precision I relax kick
stages and I wrote spiritually mentally
emotionally physically sense of humor
you know how we interact what kind of
things we laugh about beauty that level
of insanity and then some people make
less like that before then I went
through and I thought that everything
was over there must that wasn't really
really a passion about right and I
tremble us now then cuz I'm a revisit
able to feed my mind but I don't
understand something just I want
something I know I'm not a believer I
didn't participate in the secret for
very good reasons because I don't
believe in the secret I think there's
many secrets I believe well traction is
one of them i pod three years but it
isn't to make it like that
life is absurd if all you have to do is
think positively and cold it clearly and
then secret is you attract your own
thoughts there are dozens and dozens and
dozens of the laws of lights are also
equally important and who's to say
you're supposed to think of something
and get it everything you thought about
you got you'd be bored out of your mind
because I'm not eating what you want to
sometimes most valuable thing that ever
happened to you because out of that you
become deeper richer stronger you open
up and it took about one is more gift
other people as well as to get to
yourself as you know somebody who says I
friend of especially for the day who
wouldn't see it first came out at good
time itís come you know so much WT some
more complex is so simple I think it's
really simple if you want simple just go
do it to me how it's working he's why I
focus on green lights all the way here
and have green lights all the way
Airness we're gonna do in to get red
lights get weighing yourself your they
are not thinking possibly enough I said
yes they are messed up I said it's a
stupid I said you know it is it's like
are you saying purpose people that were
documents were there because they just
weren't thinking positive up and they
tracked it all that negativity realized
that's absurd they all have different
light paths and different stages of our
problem in each stage or the firm
different possibilities for us so I'm a
big believer that you have to put
yourself in a position where you decide
not only what you want but who you have
to become to attract them not just think
positive so it's like I've enlisted all
the things that what kind of man would I
have to be for a woman of that caliber
to want to be with me not just for a day
a week a month or a year with the rest
of my life tell them that was the
powerful once and that's what I'm ones
work on a third blowing up to the moment
you know matches lemon lemon about
lloyds a nice guys women love me I love
the big pleaser and they love me for a
while maybe like he's just so nice of
them some badass guide again okay but
when I own myself I have to be a badass
guy no was a nice guy was it everyone
wants to be pleased but no one wants a
pleaser and they might think they wanted
they get it will be bored silly so when
I own myself and I know who I wasn't the
man and I have these qualities been
attracted to one of my dreams with my
life 12 years now since I'm out of my
mind for skellige is that it might for
me that came about so then I dooms regos
every day for several months in advance
or being like once every week or two and
I was in a train between both of Swiss
houston paris and venice with my wife's
age is my brother at the time would
actually one of my toughest events nom
house very honest man about that us that
I don't not look at me tied down with in
that situation and you're doing things
were so insane does it wait a second I
pulled out and so you know wonderful
time planner in those days that i was
doing everything on the list at once she
was everything I didn't want I was the
one I didn't want also I should mention
that because sometimes you get me wat
and he gives you things you don't want
me messing everything up earlier what
nothing I didn't want that was a must
and she was everything on it oh look at
a guy that I said that can you commit to
being and who I wasn't everything she
wanted
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