Hey guys welcome back this is me your trainer
Meera and I'm going to talk about something very special special to you
special to me and that's friendship we all know that this is something that is
very close to our hearts right why do we make friends we make friends because we
need someone to as simple as have a coffee with we need someone to talk to
we want someone to take advices from advice from give advice right maybe to
travel with someone go on a trip probably marry someone one particular
day your father could be a friend your mother could be a friend and I do not
think we need a day to celebrate it we can celebrate it every day and that's
what we're going to talk about today
well I have got few things for you right over here on the board and let me start
explaining it so we all know that we have our own pet names for our own
friends we have our BFFs we have our besties we have our base we have our
brothers sisters sweetie whatever you call them but what are they
to you what do they mean to you are they your platonic friends are they
just an acquaintance are they your 2:00 a.m. friend what are
they so let's begin platonic friendship is something that is beyond just calling
someone my friend they're there someone whom you have unconditional bond with
you know they're the ones who will complete your sentences who will be
sitting across seven oceans and thinking exactly what you're thinking they're the
ones who are whom you probably can call your best friends and it just feels like
you were meant to meet them you know that that's a platonic friendship and
it's very rare to find if you're someone whom whom you know and that's your
platonic friend make sure you keep that person very safe and close to your heart
do not hurt that person okay so platonic friendship is
unconditional okay trust worthy and very very loved right moving on acquaintances
now that's really not so opposite but yes in a lot of sense it's quite
opposite this is someone whom you've just met for a high or a hollow and you
have just met someone very briefly for a short period of time and that's how you
know one another so probably say you meet someone tomorrow or you meet
someone today and the next day someone asks you hey do you know Riven you can
always say oh it's just he's just an acquaintance that means you've just
briefly met you've met for a few minutes and just probably said hi or a
hello okay moving on to a 2 a.m. friend do we know what 2 a.m. friends are for
they're for everything they're the ones there could be a platonic friends who
could be there for you at 2:00 a.m. probably want an ice cream
probably want to go out for a drive probably you just want to cry out to
someone and even if they're sleeping and they're fast asleep they will answer
your call they will come and help you even if you're in the gravest of bad
situations they will come for you even if it's a happy moment they will come
for you and that's a 2 a.m. friend okay moving on to workmates now we all may we
may think that hey our workmates really friends but it really depends on how
well you bond with one another it really doesn't matter if you're in the same
office or not probably you've met at a party somewhere and you have probably
the same type of work and that's how you become friends I do have a lot of work
friends and not necessarily that we meet every day or we talk every day or we go
for lunch breaks every day but yes there's someone I can count on whenever
I'm working or whenever I'm at office or for any suggestion especially when it
comes to my work okay same line of work
all right now do we have a lot of cyber friends do you have a lot of cyber
friends now what our cyber friends cyber friends are people you meet on Facebook
on Instagram on snapchat probably Twitter and you just start talking to
one another slowly and surely you end up forming a really sweet and a very nice
bond with one another you might not want anything from each other
but you're just friends you just probably talk about things happening
around on your page on his page or her page and probably would
meet that person someday but hey you've never met this person you've just you
just know them via social network right okay now moving on to what social
friends now this is a little different from social network friend and how
that's because these are usually the people you meet in groups you know you
have a set of group and you go or you go out for a party or for a dinner or for
lunch and you end up meeting this person usually in a group of people not
separately but in a group and you as your social circle is the same so you go
for the similar parties you attend similar functions and that's how you
become friends so it's just groups or
similar groups okay moving on to friends with benefits guys these are the people
I'm not sure if all of us have at all point of time but this these are the
people whom who usually you contact or they contact you only when they have
some work or they want to get some things done probably you want to let's
just say you want to attend a party and it's a VIP party and you want passes so
you would call his friend and say hey I really wanted to attend this party could
you help me with the passes you're obviously making sure that you are you
benefit out of this friend right this is just an example of what friends with
benefits look like okay let's move on to frenemy this person is surely the person
you don't like so much you definitely dislike this person but
you you don't want to pick up a fight with this person you don't you do what
you don't want to push this person away you're okay with a very cold war zone
okay so that is a frenemy whom you have probably a cold war with okay alright
now what do I have for you I have few phrases that you can definitely use when
comes to Friendship okay a shoulder to cry on now this kind of a friend whom
you trust so much right here guys
right this person is your probably your best friend like I said it could
literally be your sister your sibling your brother your mother and this person
you share everything with you can share your sadness your sorrow with that
person and this person will make sure that he listens to you he will not judge
you or she will not judge you and you can definitely cry on their shoulders
it's just very comfortable and you can share whatever you have to share with
them okay to hit it off now this term I understand can be used for a lot of
things but in particular with friends how would we use it let's say you meet
someone this you meet someone you meet this person just now just probably in
two hours and you you do not know if you're going to get along with that
person but what happens is that you find yourself cracking jokes laughing about
some things sharing a lot of things and talking so much you basically have hit
it off with that person it is a more natural bond you don't have to force
yourself to tell jokes or to make that person like you you just happen to meet
someone who is just like you who loves things just like you and you had a great
time together okay to speak the same language now this
is a very very sweet thing about friendship is what I think that this
person ends up understanding whatever you have to say maybe imagine you have
your mouth is full of food and you're trying to say something obviously that
would that is going to sound a little gibberish to others but this friend will
understand it all no matter what you end up speaking what small terms you end up
using this friend understands at all you probably can complete one another's
sentence and that is speaking the same language so I have a childhood friend
called Sahil and I can say that Sahil and I speak the same language that means
we're so close okay as thick as thieves what does this mean this means that
you're born and you are inseparable okay this means that you're that means
you're inseparable okay and your bond is so thick that nobody can break you no
matter even if that person is at fault you will make sure that you have that
person's back and that is being thick as thieves or having each other's back okay
moving on to a last one one of my favorites as comfortable as old pajamas
now why is this there we usually have a set of a pair of shorts or a pajama
which is so comfortable that usually when we are when we want to sleep
comfortably or just lie down for a lazy Sunday we usually wear our comfortable
t-shirts and a pajama and that is how comfortable your friend will make you
feel when Deepthi is around when when Raj is around I feel as comfortable as
old pajamas it's like wearing old pajamas this means you're very
comfortable with that person and that person makes you feel comfortable - okay
now all of this is about friendship what I want you to do is quickly write to me
in the comment section what you feel about friendship and tell me who's your
friend and what do you feel about that person what kind of friendship you share
whether it's a platonic friendship you is it your BFF is it your buddy
your bestie who is it please write to me I'm waiting for this it's a very very
exciting scent it's a very very exciting lesson and I know all of you are super
excited about it just as I am go ahead and write to me so that is it for today
I will be seeing you very soon with another lesson until then what are you
going to do keep smiling keep practicing spread lots of love this is me your
trainer Mira signing off for the day ciao
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