It's titled, "A Sad Honeymoon."
Is there a bride in that one?
Yes. She's in her 20s.
Hello.
(Pretending to be a newlywed bride)
I've been married for 9 months now.
Once I got married, I wanted to eat good food
and sleep together.
I had a dream of a nice honeymoon.
But my husband goes out every night.
Where does he go?
(Where does he go)
(Every night?)
Where?
He's crazy in love with screen golf.
He goes to play screen golf every night
and comes home at around 3 a.m.
I always go to sleep alone at night.
(Screen golf is a lot of fun)
The problem is that I'm 9 months pregnant.
As my due date gets closer, I get contractions.
But my husband is not concerned at all.
"I'm not feeling too well.
Can you stay at home with me instead?"
"Really? You're not feeling well?
But I still have to go play golf!"
"What if I go into labor?"
How can I spend the rest of my life with him?
Please stop my husband from playing screen golf.
How was your husband to you?
He was so good to me.
Through all 4 pregnancies?
No, just up to my third pregnancy.
He was so good until then.
How do you feel after hearing this, Yangim?
People think it's no big deal to become a mom.
But a woman goes through many changes. It's hard.
Right. Women's bodies completely change.
How was it when you were 9 months pregnant?
It was in August when it was really hot.
It was so hot that I couldn't sleep so well.
You keep tossing and turning, right?
I wanted to sleep on my stomach so badly.
I wanted to lie on my stomach so badly that
I almost asked my husband
to dig a hole in our mattress.
- Right. / - I just wanted to do it once.
That sounds like a great idea.
Making a hole in a mattress for pregnant women.
You want to buy that bed, too?
Yes.
(It's a customized bed for Yeongja?)
I haven't slept on my stomach for 30 years.
Someone very close to me is
crazy for screen golf.
Kim Jongmin is into screen golf these days.
We still have many events to perform at.
Even now. I am grateful for that.
He insists that we return to Seoul early.
To go play screen golf.
He seems to be crazy for screen golf.
But this man is a newlywed and
his wife is 9 months pregnant.
Who taught Jongmin to play golf?
I started to play screen golf first.
(It's my fault... I'm sorry, Jongmin...)
Please applaud for this newlywed wife.
(Jeong Hyein)
Help her out.
(Welcome to the concern house)
Stay comfortable and stretch out your legs.
Stay as comfortable as you can.
You can even lie down.
Please introduce yourself.
I'm 24-year-old Jeong Hyein from
Yangpyeong, Gyeonggi-do.
- You're 24? / - 24 years old?
My sister is 25 years old.
She's only a year older than I am.
- You're 23? / - Yes, I'm 23 years old.
You two are about the same age.
Rowoon has a strange charm.
People normally say, "She's the same age as my sister,"
or "she's the same age as me."
But his sister is older and he's a year younger.
They have nothing in common.
Seriously.
You just said it just to say something, right?
Yes.
(One point awarded for a sense of humor)
Tell us how crazy he is for screen golf.
He started to play it right after we got married.
So I've been at home by myself this whole time.
What does your husband do?
He is a manager at a pizza restaurant.
That sounds good.
One of the brands that we know?
Yes.
He goes to work at 10:30 a.m.
and gets off work at 10:30 p.m.
He works for 12 hours.
I want him to spend time with me after work,
but he goes to play screen golf immediately afterwards.
He comes home at around 3 a.m.
(He comes home after golf at 3 a.m.)
You eat dinner by yourself at home?
Yes. I eat alone, clean and do laundry alone.
(Did I get married to be by myself?)
You didn't expect this before you got married?
My father-in-law jokingly said,
"He goes water skiing in the summer
and he goes skiing in the winter."
He's into sports every season.
You're just the same, right, Honggi?
He was into bowling and screen baseball
when we were dating.
He is into so many sports.
He is just like me.
When we were dating, I always went with him.
Oh, you went with him.
It was nice just being with him.
But I can't handle watching golf with him.
Is he the type to buy all the equipment, too?
Yes.
Even the equipment...
He's not a pro, but he buys everything.
Some people buy the equipment first.
He buys it first.
If he gets sick of it, he displays the equipment.
His bowling ball is on display.
And his water skis are too.
He bought a board, too?
Of course you have to buy your own.
You don't need your own for wakeboarding,
but you need your own for bowling and golf.
But Honggi, you're very good.
Is your husband really good?
He's...
He's not very good.
He can mimic what pros do though.
You cried and begged him to stay with you because
you weren't feeling good, but he went anyway?
Right. You tried to make him stay home.
I begged him once to stay home, but he said,
"I made a promise, so I have to go."
He said that with a straight face.
So I once ran away from home in a rage.
You ran away?
I was worried that he might be worried about me
or be mad at me.
He texted, "You went to your parents' home?
You should've said so. Good night."
- Oh my goodness. / - That's so upsetting.
(Not serious at all)
(Why did I get married?)
Let's meet her husband. Where are you?
Hello.
He has a big smile.
(Big smile)
He looks like a nice man.
Do you understand your wife's concern?
At this moment,
I don't really understand.
I don't go play golf every day.
I just go for 2-3 hours to
relieve stress with coworkers.
How many times a week do you go?
I go about twice a week regularly.
He said he'd go only on Mondays and Thursdays.
But he said he wasn't improving at it
and started to go 3-4 times a week.
He goes 3-4 times a week?
I've never really gone 4 times...
I guess I did.
If I tell him that he can't go, he says,
"Then what do I do at home?"
What will he do at home?
What does he do when you forbid him to go?
I was never able to make him stay home.
- He somehow goes. / - He always went.
You have to be honest with us today.
The best thing to do sitting down is gambling.
The best thing to do standing up is golf.
Who said that? That's a dangerous comment.
I think you missed something.
All right.
The best to do lying down is to sleep.
So?
So the best thing to do standing up is golf.
How long are you planning to play golf?
About 3-5 years.
I should commit to it for at least that long.
You're going to quit if you reach a certain level?
If I can get a minus score, I'd quit.
Get a minus score in screen golf?
- That's hard. / - How well do you play now?
My score is around the low 80s.
How long have you been playing it?
About 6 months.
He's good.
It's okay to play it as your hobby.
But you're married and your wife is pregnant.
Don't you think it's weird to
act as you did when you were single?
My wife has always known that I like sports.
She never stopped me from doing sports before.
But now that we are married,
she has removed her mask.
What are you talking about? How can you say that?
You got married and she got pregnant.
If she weren't pregnant, maybe you could do that.
Are any of your friends married?
- No, not yet. / - That's why.
If this were her second pregnancy, I'd understand,
It's her first. Imagine how scared she must be.
We all know that childbirth is painful.
Did you ever go through it yourself?
Try to calm down, Jiseon.
If you go to maternity classes,
they have things that men can try on.
You've never done that, right?
No.
It's like having a big water container on you.
(Right)
Rowoon, she's a year younger than your sister.
If she were my sister, I...
If you were...
He made a fist.
Because
they both planned to have this baby.
He seems to be too irresponsible.
Don't look at us.
Talk to the husband directly.
Why don't you ask him a question?
(What is Rowoon's first question?)
How did you start playing golf?
(What?)
He was so angry and that's what he asked?
It's because he's a nice guy.
You got so angry at us earlier.
You were most curious about that?
Good job.
My father-in-law is a golf maniac.
- He's really good. / - Your father-in-law.
He bought me golf clubs as a gift.
- You hate your dad, right? / - Yes.
My dad is my real enemy.
My dad had so many other hobbies
before he got into golf.
(Her dad is just the same)
I grew up watching my dad and thought,
"I'll never marry a man like my dad."
Now that I'm married,
my husband is just like my dad.
How could I marry someone like him?
You don't always play with your father-in-law.
Tell us whom you play with.
I play with managers that I used to work with.
We can relax when we play golf,
so we can bond.
We work, drink coffee and eat chicken together.
Yes, relieving stress is important.
You've formed a bond with those managers.
But you haven't formed a bond with your wife.
She's the one that you should bond with the most.
I spend time with her on my days off.
We go see a movie or go buy baby things.
I cook for her, too.
After he does those things...
- He asks you if he can go out? / - Yes.
"I did these for you, so I can go now, right?"
So I don't ask for anything from him.
You think he does those so he can play golf.
(I'm starting to doubt his sincerity now)
Our drummer had a baby recently.
He's so amazed by it that he's with the baby all day.
Sure. It's his first child.
Aren't you curious about your own baby?
I am.
When we're together, I talk to her stomach.
I put anti-stretch mark cream on her.
That's not the point here.
I think you should spend more time with her.
He can rub it on her when they're together.
You sound like her husband.
It's not important what you do for her.
You should just try to be with her.
You should go through this time together.
Are you married or something?
How do you know so much?
He couldn't know unless he's married himself.
I heard that once a woman gets pregnant,
- she gets depressed. / - Right.
It's depressing for her to see her body change.
Where did you hear that?
From sex education class.
Sex education. Young people take those classes now.
(Rowoon is needed in every household)
If you play screen golf about twice a month,
how much money do you spend on it?
I spent about $200.
That's not bad. He doesn't drink or smoke.
Isn't that acceptable?
As for now,
$200 is a lot of money.
I'm embarrassed to say this,
but he hasn't given me money once after marrying.
What?
(No way)
All the expenses are paid
by my savings from when I used to work.
Also my parents feel bad for me,
so they secretly give me allowance.
This makes a big difference.
You should've said that from the start.
This changes things.
We are getting by with my savings.
We haven't bought any baby things yet.
Not yet? When is your due date?
September 5.
It's very soon.
I've been telling him that we need to buy things,
but he said, "Why buy them so early?"
Where did you spend your earnings?
You've never given her money for living expenses?
This changes things, you know.
You're a manager. Where did your earnings go?
I'm sure it's somewhere in Yangpyeong.
- Did he bury his money? / - Bury it?
Maybe he'll surprise her later and
give her $10,000 all at once as a gift.
(Knocked down)
Let's hear him out.
I did some foolish things before we got married.
I have debt.
How much?
About $20,000.
For how long do you have to pay it off?
I'll be done paying it back next month.
Did you know it would all be paid off by next month?
No.
- You should've told her. / - They don't talk.
Aren't you angry hearing this?
Please be honest with us.
I'm very angry.
He goes to play golf very often,
so my sister is always home alone.
They both caused my parents heartache before.
Together?
Since my brother-in-law works until late
she would go out and come home very late.
That's why you two got married.
You were trying to be responsible.
That's understandable.
What else is there?
I was once out with friends
and my sister called me crying.
She called you?
I was surprised and went to see her.
She was crying at home all by herself.
So I took her to our parents' home once.
I thought if I don't go out when she cries...
- You thought it'd happen every time? / - Yes.
Oh my.
(Everyone is very quiet now)
I think that a man should act differently
once he is married.
- Sure. / - Of course.
We're both men, so I understand that
he's young and wants to go out and have fun.
But if my wife disliked it, I would go out less.
You should endure it while she's pregnant.
(Shouldn't you hold back at certain times?)
What would you like to tell your brother-in-law?
Look at him as you tell him.
Lotto is going to be born soon.
(Smile)
The baby's nickname is Lotto.
Lotto will be born soon.
Responsibility is the key as a husband and father.
Please be more responsible.
It must've been hard to tell him that.
(But his face...)
It still looks like the husband doesn't realize
how poorly he has behaved.
Even now...
I still don't understand.
(He's the only one who doesn't understand)
What part don't you understand?
You see...
(Calm down, my heart)
Considering how much I work,
I don't think I'm asking for a lot.
You think that you work 12 hours a day.
So being pregnant and being alone
aren't too hard compared to that?
Right.
I don't even have friends.
I can't go out to see my friends on my day off.
I have to be with my wife
and hang out with her for her sake.
"For her sake"?
No, I shouldn't have said that.
How can he say such a thing?
- Shinji. Shinji. / - She's angry.
"I work 12 hours a day. You know how hard that is?
I need to rest and be rewarded."
I think that's what's on your mind.
This isn't about being rewarded.
Do you think that it is natural for your wife
to go through this to become a mom?
Yes, a little.
Most men feel this way.
They think it's natural for a woman to
go through this to become a mother.
Being depressed while being pregnant
is as painful as what cancer patients suffer.
- When they're pregnant. / - Their mental state.
That's how depressing it is.
Most men are very understanding and
some men just don't understand.
But don't you think it's common sense to
stay home when your wife is sick
because you're worried about her?
It's not easy to leave a sick wife at home.
If I was that afraid that she's not well,
then I shouldn't even be going to work.
If you think of it that way.
But she's not that sick.
It looks like he has a plan of his own.
I don't know what that is.
But he won't share it.
But you don't say it, so the wife doesn't know
what her husband is up to.
That's what's so upsetting.
It's because you only dated at nights.
Those who only date at night only speak of dreams.
That's why you should date at night,
but also in the morning and during the day.
You're a professional.
"This is what he looks like.
This is what his body is like." That's...
I used to date only at nights and saw him once
during the day and everything went awry.
(Bitter experience, true laughter)
What are you most concerned about?
He said, "I must play golf while I can.
I can't go once the baby is born."
I am afraid that he won't change his ways
even after the baby is born.
Once the baby is born,
are you willing to go fewer times
or only go when she lets you?
I want her to let me go once a week.
You won't go when she says not to?
(Ha... Ha... Ha...)
Your wife can't go out at all right now.
It'll be worse once she has the baby.
Yes, of c-course...
(Unwillingly...)
I don't know when I'll go into labor.
If it starts while he's out playing golf,
I'd call my parents because they live nearby.
I'm afraid that he'll feel guilty for
the rest of his life for not fulfilling his duty
if my parents come instead of him.
You care about your husband.
You want your husband to be a good husband?
I'm most concerned about this.
Whether you go out or not, you should never say,
"What do I do if I stay home?"
That's just ridiculous.
If you don't open up, you'll never communicate.
Just tell her every trivial thing.
We don't always talk about important things.
We just talk.
That's what being married is about.
I want you to get into the habit of talking to her.
What do you do when you're at home?
My wife says, "Please stop talking!"
(You talk too much)
"Shut up! Please."
You're just talkative.
I'm sure you want something from your wife.
Don't just stay at home and watch television.
Go out to work out or meet friends.
You can go travel. I'm okay with everything.
Then give her money so that she can travel.
I'm so upset because...
We live in a world where people give things up.
People give up on dating and other stuff.
They give up on babies because of money.
"Yes. Let me endure it for a year.
I'll have lots of fun in a year.
Let me be responsible because I'm married now."
You don't do any of that.
You don't give her money and you want her to
go out or go travel instead of clinging onto you.
She can't even buy milk.
I'm so frustrated.
If she was my niece...
It's as if I ate very spicy cold noodles.
There's a place in Oksu-dong.
Why are you talking about food?
Things were going great until now.
(All she talks about is food)
- I can't. / - Very spicy?
There's a place in Oksu. You die when you eat it.
Have you come to your senses now?
Yes.
Like she said, you're being very irresponsible.
Rowoon has something to say.
I'm 23 and she's 24.
She must want to do so many things.
You're out playing golf
because golf is more important to you.
I think that's a fact.
So from now on...
Don't you have something else to say?
Rowoon. Rowoon.
If you have something impactful to say,
it should have more impact than what I said.
Get a grip! Please!
This is a concern.
(Rowoon's opinion: It's a concern!)
I think it's a concern.
If he doesn't change even after the baby is born,
it'll be a bigger problem.
He should change things now.
I think it's a concern, too.
I think you can be a great husband
and a great father.
I believe in you. I won't press it.
Kim Jiseon believes in you.
If you think it's a concern, press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Please stop.
This is a crucial moment.
What would you like to say to your wife?
Hyein.
We're young and we'll have a baby soon.
I'm sorry that I didn't understand how you feel.
When the baby is born, I will do my best
to be a better person for you and the baby.
Please have faith in me.
(Have faith in me)
I love you.
(I love you)
Can you have faith in me?
- You trust him? / - Yes.
Please show us the result.
How many votes did they get?
(The husband is crazy about playing screen golf!)
100 out of 200?
So many women are here today.
145 votes.
(They got 145 votes)
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