YESTERDAY THE HOUSE VOTED TO ELIMINATE INTERNET PRIVACY
PROTECTIONS SET UP UNDER THE OBAMA ADMINISTRATION, PAVING THE
WAY FOR CORPORATIONS TO TRACK YOUR PRIVATE BROWSING DATA, THEN
TAKE IT AND SELL IT TO ADVERTISERS.
THE ACTUAL PATH
THEY TOOK IS SIMPLE.
WE CAN READ
THE ENTIRETY OF THE BILL.
TRUMP HAS SIGNED THE BILL.
THEY ARE
NOT IN FAVOR OF THE CONSUMER
PROTECTIONS, AND PEOPLE ARE UPSET.
THE RULES WERE STILL
BEING DRAFTED.
THEY WERE BEING DISCUSSED
AND INVESTIGATED.
WE
KNOW FROM HACKS AND LEAKS, EVENTUALLY A LOT OF THAT
INFORMATION CAN BE RELEASED.
THERE WAS A HUGE YAHOO HACK A
500 MILLION ACCOUNTS.
ACTIVISTS ARE CONCERNED ABOUT THIS.
WE
HAVE A QUOTE FROM EVAN GREER, AN INTERNET PRIVACY ACTIVISM
ORGANIZATION.
WHEN YOU ALLOW THESE CORPORATIONS TO TRACK THIS
INFORMATION THEY WILL SET UP THE TECHNOLOGICAL MEANS TO DO SO.
THAT THEN IS ABLE TO BE HACKED
AND LEAKED BY OTHER ORGANIZATIONS WHO DON'T SIMPLY
WANT TO PROFIT OFF OF IT.
IT IS EXPECTED THAT IT WILL NOW BE
SIGNED.
IT WAS ALREADY PASSED IN THE SENATE.
I LIKE THAT SOME FOLKS ARE BEGINNING TO SPEAK LIKE ME NOW.
EVAN ALSO SAID, "CONGRESS SHOULD
KNOW BY NOW THAT WHEN YOU COME FOR THE INTERNET, THE INTERNET
COMES FOR YOU."
THAT HAS GOOD PUNCH.
LET'S GIVE YOU A SENSE OF
THE STUFF THEY CAN DO.
AS NANCY PELOSI POINTED OUT IT IS DEEPLY
PERSONAL INFORMATION, WHERE YOU ARE, WHAT YOU WANT TO KNOW,
EVERY SITE YOU VISIT.
IF YOU ARE IN PRIVATE BROWSING MODE, YOU
THOUGHT IT WAS PRIVATE.
SOMEONE AT THE VERGE MADE A GREAT
POINT, REPUBLICANS FRAME THIS AS CONSUMER CHOICE AND FREE
MARKETS.
WHO WOULD CHOOSE TO HAVE ALL THEIR PRIVATE
INFORMATION GIVEN TO A PUBLIC CORPORATION WHICH CAN PROFIT OFF
OF IT AND NOT SHARE PROFITS?
THERE ARE SOME EXHIBITIONIST, WE DON'T WANT TO FRAME THEM.
IT IS ABOUT THESE COMPANIES THAT HAVE GREASED THESE
REPUBLICANS.
IN THIS CASE IT WAS A PARTYLINE VOTE, GIVE CREDIT TO
THE DEMOCRATS, NONE OF THEM
VOTED FOR IN THE HOUSE.
15 REPUBLICANS CROSSED OVER AND
VOTED THE RIGHT WAY. 265 MEMBERS OF CONGRESS, REPUBLICAN, SAID WE
DON'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT YOUR
INTERNET PRIVACY.
MY CORPORATE FRIENDS WHO DONATED MONEY TO ME
WILL NOW GET A LOT MORE MONEY
FROM YOU GUYS WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT.
IN THAT SAME VERGE ARTICLE THEY DID A GREAT JOB AT GOING
BACK IN THE DISCLOSURE STATEMENT.
WE ARE USED TO WHEN
IT COMES TO ENERGY OR THE MILITARY, THESE HUGE SUMS OF
MONEY BEING THROWN AT THESE
PEOPLE.
WAIT UNTIL YOU SEE HOW CHEAP IT WAS FOR THEM TO BUY
PEOPLE WHEN IT CAME TO YOUR
INTERNET PRIVACY.
WE WILL SHOW YOU SOME OF THE REPUBLICANS, HOW
MUCH THEY GOT FOR THE TELECOMS.
LET'S BRING THIS UP.
RALPH ABRAHAM GOT $5750, AND HE SOLD
IT OUT FOR YOU.
MARK WAS WILLING TO SELL YOU OUT FOR NOTHING.
THERE WERE SOME PEOPLE THEY GOT 60,000, 80,000, BUT IT IS
NOTHING COMPARED TO THE COST OF
RUNNING AN ELECTION.
THEY WERE STILL WILLING TO SELL YOU OUT ON IT.
TO BE FAIR TO THESE CONGRESSMEN WHO ARE BUT CHEAP,
THIS IS PER ELECTION.
REMEMBER EVERY ELECTION THEY COME BACK.
THIS IS LIKE AN OPEN AUCTION, PUBLIC BRIBERY, WE JUST MADE IT
LEGAL.
ALSO SOME OF THEM GOT HIGHER NUMBERS.
THEIR PRICES ARE
BASED ON DIFFERENT FACTORS INCLUDING SENIORITY AND WHETHER
THEY ARE THE CHAIR OF THE
COMMITTEE.
IF THEY ARE THE CHAIR OF YOUR COMMITTEE YOU HAVE TO
BRIBE THEM EVEN MORE.
THERE IS CORPORATE CHOICE, NO CONSUMER
CHOICE.
WOLF ñ PAC.COM.
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SO THIS IS SIGNIFICANT, IT SEEMS LIKE THERE IS
A LOT
OF
OPPORTUNITY THERE.
WE HAVE REASONS TO BE HESITANT AND
GETTING EXCITED ON HOW MANY
PEOPLE WILL ACTUALLY BE FIRED.
A SPOKESPERSON
IS
TRYING TO DAMP
DOWN EXPECTATIONS.
TOM PEREZ WAS QUOTED AS SAYING THIS.
IF IT WAS
A PLANE, THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT
YOU SHOULD DO.
WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?
HE'S LIKE TRUST ME I GOT THIS.
ANYWAY, OF COURSE I AGREE
WITH THE PRINCIPLE.
YOU CAN'T JUST SHUT DOWN.
YES, YOU HAVE TO KEEP GOING.
I THINK THEY HAVE A BOLD WAY OF
DOING IT WHILE IT IS IN THE AIR.
IT IS A GOOD TIME TO THINK ABOUT
WHILE YOU ARE IN TRANSITION.
HERE IS WHAT I SAID ON NOVEMBER 10.
THE DNC OBVIOUSLY HAD A MISERABLE FAILURE IN THE
SELECTION.
THERE WAS A GREAT CHANCE THEY WERE SUPPOSED TO
TAKE BACK THE SENATE.
THE SEATS
UP WERE LARGELY REPUBLICAN, IT WAS A GREAT OPPORTUNITY AND THEY
BLEW IT.
I HAVE SET FROM OUR ONE THAT EVERYBODY IN THE BUILDING
SHOULD BE FIRED.
THE DNC SHOULD GO IN A NEW DIRECTION, YOU CAN'T POSSIBLY
KEEP THESE LOSERS.
GLAD TO SEE THEY ARE LISTENING TO THE DNC.
THAT WAS A
FEW DAYS AFTER THE ELECTION.
AND REALITY THAT IS NOT LIKELY WHAT
IS HAPPENING.
THEY ARE SUBMITTING RESIGNATIONS AHEAD OF
TIME.
THAT DOESN'T MEAN THEY WERE LIKELY GETTING FIRED.
WHO
IS THE ONE DOING THE ANALYSIS?
IF YOU FOLLOW THE NEWS CLOSELY
YOU MIGHT KNOW THAT NOMIKI KONST BROKE THE STORY OF WHO WAS ON
THE TRANSITION TEAM.
IN THE BEGINNING IT WAS 23 OUT OF 24
PEOPLE WERE HILLARY CLINTON
SUPPORTERS.
ONLY ONE WAS A BERNIE SANDERS SUPPORTER.
THEY
NORMALLY WOULD DO THAT AND GET
AWAY WITH IT.
WE CAUGHT THEM ON IT AND THERE WAS A LITTLE BIT OF
BACKLASH.
IT IS STILL OVERWHELMINGLY ESTABLISHMENT
DEMOCRATS.
IT DOESN'T REALLY MATTER BECAUSE THE PROOF WILL BE
IN THE PUDDING.
SUPPOSEDLY PEREZ IS MEETING WITH BERNIE SANDERS.
HE MET WITH CHUCK SCHUMER AND HE SAID OF BERNIE SANDERS
IS
HAPPY, I AM HAPPY.
THE PROOF HAS NEVER BEEN MORE AND THE PUTTING
THAN THIS.
IF THEY THINK THEY ARE GOING TO PLAY ANOTHER TRICK
ñ WHO KNOWS THEY MIGHT STILL THINK IT'S THE OLD DAYS AND
MIGHT PLAY A TRICK LIKE THAT.
GUESS WHAT?
WE WILL KNOW, IT IS
NOT THE OLD DAYS WHERE YOU CAN RELY ON YOUR BUDDIES ON TV TO
COVER YOUR ASS.
NOMIKI KONST HAVE TO SLEEP A LITTLE BIT, BUT NOT THAT MUCH.
ON THE OTHER HAND IF THE TRANSITION TEAM IS FILLED WITH
HILLARY CLINTON SUPPORTERS AND DOES COME OUT WITH A NEW STAFF
THAT IS PROGRESSIVE AND HEADS IN A PROGRESSIVE DIRECTION,
WONDERFUL.
LET'S HOPE THEY GO IN THAT DIRECTION.
I WOULD SAY THE FEAR IS WHAT ARE THEY GOING TO DO?
IDEOLOGY
IS ONE THING, BUT WHAT IS YOUR
STRATEGY?
NOMIKI WAS SAYING WHAT WE SHOULD FOCUS ON
IS ñ
THAT WAS STRUCTURAL DIFFERENCES.
BUT IF THEY ARE FOCUSED ON THE
WRONG THINGS THAN THEY CAN FAIL LIKE ANYONE ELSE.
I THINK WE
NEED TO HAVE A CLEAR GAME PLAN ARTICULATED BY TOM PEREZ AND THE
HIGHER UPS.
THAT IS WHAT I AM WAITING TO SEE.
AT THIS POINT, HOLD AND LET'S FIND OUT WHO THEY ACTUALLY HIRE,
FIRE ETC.
MAYBE THEY THINK IT IS IN THE MINUTIA?
IT'S THE
INTERNET MY FRIENDS.
WE WILL
PROBABLY KNOW.
AT THE END OF THE DAY JOHN IS RIGHT, IT IS HOW WE
RUN THE ELECTIONS.
YOU GO BACK TO HIRING CONSULTANT BUDDIES,
AND YOU DON'T BUILD UP ANY GRASSROOTS MOVEMENT, AND YOU
DON'T DO WHAT IS ACTUALLY EFFECTIVE WHICH IS KNOCKING ON
DOORS, INSTEAD YOU RELY ON A MONEY HEAVY STRATEGY, WE WILL
NOT MISS THAT NEW STORY.
PUSH WILL COME TO SHOVE AND ELECTION
TIME WILL COME AND YOU WILL NOT
BE ABLE TO KID ANYONE.
RIGHT NOW THE BALL IS IN THEIR COURT, WE WILL SEE WHICH WAY
THEY GO?
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G2 - Knockin' at the Door [Official Video] - Duration: 3:38.
내가 가진 거라곤 내가 가려 하는 곳에 대한 All I have is my desire for the place
나의 욕망 그리고 또 신이 주신 목소리와 I want to go, and my voice God gave me
내 복잡한 머릿속을 글로 표현할 수 My hand that enables me to describe my
있게 주신 나의 손, I thank God complicated thoughts, I thank God
For another day, I wake up and I stay up
집을 떠난 뒤로 익숙해진 밤샘, stressin' Used to staying up ever since I left home, stressin'
Tryna find ways to get the cake up, goddamn
Truthfully, I just want the taste of the glory and the fame
마치 지금 가진 거라곤 it's nothing It's like, what I have, it's nothing
생각에 깊게 빠져들며 원망하는 인생 Life full of spite, too deep in my own thoughts
내가 가진 거라곤 내가 가려 하는 곳에 대한 All I have is just foolish greed for
멍청한 어리석은 그냥 욕심이었어 the place I'm trying to reach
새벽이 깊어지며 악마의 웃음소리가 난 들려 Night deepens and I hear the devil's laughter
그럴 때마다 음악으로 나는 계속 세상에게 하소연 Then I keep on whining to the world through my music
So let the devil keep knockin' at the door
Knockin' at the door (Knockin' at the door)
Knockin' at the door (Knockin' at the door)
Knockin' at the door
So let the devil keep knockin' at the door
Knockin' at the door (Keep knockin' at the door)
Knockin' at the door
So let the devil keep knockin' at the door, yeah
내가 갖고 있는 건 일에 대한 내 열정 All I have is my passion for this work
원하는 것에 대해 조바심을 내는 성격 My anxiety toward the things I want
실패의 두려움, but fuck it하고 가는 두 다리 Fear of failure, but fuck it, says my legs and walk on
넘어져도 다시 일어날 수 있는 긍정의 힘 Power of positivity that lifts me up when I'm down
Stay strong, G2
거의 빛이 보여, get off your knees, too I almost see the light, get off your knees, too
I bet da Vinci wanted cut his wrist, too
You need to get your shit together like you need glue
계속 똑같은 주제 갖고 넌 랩을 해 You always rap about the same subject
돈 땜에 더럽혀진 영혼에서 나는 썩은 내 That soul tainted by money, letting off foul stench
Gotta know that money isn't everything
조금 더 큰 그림을 봐야 해 You should see a bigger picture
떠봐, 너의 세 번째, quit your bitchin' ass Open your third eye, quit your bitchin' ass
입만 열면 불평, 알잖아 Always complaining, you know
니가 갖고 있는 거, 열정에 불 켜 What you have, the passion, light it up
잃지 마, 너의 초점 Don't lose, your focus
'Cause the devil is alive and he smilin' by your side, knockin' at the door
Knockin' at the door
Knockin' at the door (Knockin' at the door)
Knockin' at the door (Knockin' at the door)
Knockin' at the door
So let the devil keep knockin' at the door
Knockin' at the door (Keep knockin' at the door)
Knockin' at the door
So let the devil keep knockin' at the door, yeah
문을 계속 두드려 Keep on knocking at the door
매일 악마와 나는 숨을 쉬어 Every day I breathe with the devil
어두운 내 가슴속 안에 불을 켜 Brighten up inside my dark chest
무시할 수 없어, 더욱더 난 눈을 떠, yeah Can't ignore it, I keep my eyes wide open, yeah
문을 계속 두드려 Keep on knocking at the door
매일 악마와 나는 숨을 쉬어 Every day I breathe with the devil
어두운 내 가슴속 안에 불을 켜 Brighten up inside my dark chest
무시할 수 없어, 더욱더 난 눈을 떠, yeah Can't ignore it, I keep my eyes wide open, yeah
Knockin' at the door
Knockin' at the door
Knockin' at the door
Knockin' at the door (Knockin' at the door)
The door
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4 DUMB THINGS WE SAY (that prevent our growth) - Duration: 18:32.
Hey everybody, it's Brendon Burchard, and today I'm talking about the four dumb things
we say that prevents our own personal growth and professional excellence.
Look, we all have internal thoughts that sometimes slow us down.
I'm sure you know that sometimes you have negative thinking.
Sometimes, you say things to yourself that justifies bad behavior or laziness or distraction.
We all do.
So, there's no judgment to this except that yes, it's kind of dumb.
We say certain things that we just culturally get used to saying that we never really explore
and those things hurt our personal development.
So, what I want to do is dig down into these four things we say because they are dumb and
I know once you hear a little logic behind them, you will say, "It's not worth saying
that to myself anymore because it's not a true story" and it's only holding you
back.
Okay, so first and foremost, before we go, I want you to think about a big dream of yours.
Something that you really care about, something you really want to make happen or a goal that
you also have had for a while and you've been trying to do it but it's just not working
out well.
Maybe, you're telling yourself one of these four dumb things, okay.
So, to start off, the first one with you, I'm going to move this aside and here it
is.
I hear this one all the time.
Brendon, I've tried everything.
Whenever I hear that, I know I'm talking with a crazy person.
I'm just teasing.
Here's what I know.
People often, when they hear a new idea, or you say, "Hey, have you thought about chasing
that dream or pursuing your goal".
They say, "Yeah, yeah, yeah, I've tried everything."
And because they tried one, two, three, maybe, four things, they say, "Didn't work for
me.
That's not right for me.
That's not possible for me" and those aren't true stories.
As a high-performance coach, often when I sit down with people, I talk about their dreams,
they often say this to me, "Well Brendon, I've already tried everything."
And so, I say to them, "Oh great, then show me the list."
And they go, "What do you mean?"
I say, "Show me the list."
They say, "What do you mean?"
I say, "Well, if you tried everything then of course you would have had to keep a detailed
list of what you tried, when you tried it, what results you got, what worked and what
didn't work.
If you didn't have a list like that, you couldn't ensure things that were like mutually
exclusive."
And if you couldn't tell things that were mutually exclusive, then you wouldn't know
you tried everything.
So, have you ever told yourself that?
"I've already tried everything.
It didn't work."
Think about how many times in your life you give up to soon.
You're at like that 10-yard line, the touchdown's right there but you're like, "Well, I've
tried everything.
I guess it's not working."
And you back off.
You know, we know from the psychology of success it's those who persevere longer than others
and maintain more resiliency in the face of challenge that succeed more.
So, if you ever hear yourselves saying, "I tried everything", know that's a big,
bad story you're telling yourself and say, "No, I haven't tried everything.
Let me get some advice.
Let me ask some more people.
Let me start keeping a trail of what I have tried so I can say, 'Already did that.
Already did that' but I did this but I didn't do it in that way."
There's a lot of new things you can keep trying to keep getting ahead.
Don't give up on your goals and your dreams just because you tried four or five things.
It's very true that often you're closer than you think my friend.
The second big thing, walk with me, is a big one.
A huge one and this one people say to me all the time.
"Sure, that works for him or that works for her but that wouldn't work for me."
Have you ever said that?
Right.
You have this big goal or dream.
You see your mentor, you see your dreams.
They are doing it but you're like, "Oh, that wouldn't work for me because that's
not my style" or "I'm not like that" or "She has this and he has that" and
we false compare ourselves to others and we think they're so special.
We, still in this culture today, we still pretend that there are some people who just
have 'it' and other people don't have 'it'.
Right?
We think, "Oh well, he's just naturally good at that.
She's just born to be that."
But in everything that we study, those who achieve high performance in their life, they
trained, they conditioned, they practiced, they sucked at first but they were okay with
that.
They were cool with not being good and then, they just kept getting better and better and
better and better and better.
And now, you watch them today and you're like, "Oh wow, I could never be like that"
but the reality is you could.
You just got to put in the miles.
I share that with you just knowing how I started my career.
I used to say that too.
I looked at these people on television or these big YouTubers.
I'd see these people on big stages motivating people and I thought, "Well, I'm not like
that" because me, I'm more of an introverted person in general when I started this career
and I've had to learn to be more and more extroverted to be good at all of this.
But I'd say, "Well, I'm not like that."
And the reality was, I wasn't like that but I had a mission and I had a dream and
you should never make your mission or your dream bow down to your current limited strengths.
Instead, you should say, "If that's what I want, how could I rise up into that?
How could I train?
What knowledge, skill, ability do I need to learn and start learning right now so that
I could have that dream my friend?"
Because you deserve it.
So, stop telling yourself you can't have it.
I get it all the time, "Well, sure that works for Brendon on video."
I'm like, "What?
Works for Brendon on video?"
Like I came out of the womb like, "Hi guys, I'm Brendon Burchard."
Like, no.
This took me forever.
I'm doing this extemporaneous in our new office.
I don't know how it's going to go either.
I just trust in that process and you know, for me, my first video that I ever did was
so horrible.
Okay, my first year of videos, they were terrible, they were awful, they were uncomfortable.
Some of you still don't even like what I'm doing now.
That's fine.
It's okay.
I just know that I'm always trying to get better and better and better and grow into
the person who I know deserves that dream, who earns that dream.
No one you're looking to, none of your heroes just came out of the womb and by natural birthright
or innate talent got there.
They usually outworked their peers.
They usually showed up more often.
They usually were more strategic in getting a good peer group around them to support them,
to champion on, to push them.
Notice I didn't say, they had a better peer group.
They knew that was important, so they developed it because we often say, "Well yeah, that
strategy works for him because he's got a big community" or "That strategy works
for her because she's charismatic".
No, if there's a strategy, you can deploy it.
You can work the same thing.
Would you get the same results as someone who has 10 more years of experience as you?
Probably not.
They put on some more miles but look, no matter how small you start, start something that
matters.
It's the great Zig Ziglar who taught us, right?
You don't have to be great to start but you have to start to become great.
Never look at people and say, "Well sure, she can.
I can't."
Because that's defeatist.
It is wrong and it is holding you back my friend.
Let's go on.
That's number one and two and here we go.
I think this one is a huge one and it kills people's lives all the time.
The third big dumb thing people say is, "You just don't understand."
And then, they quit.
Just like that.
When they say, "I've tried everything."
They quit.
"Well, she can do it, sure."
They quit.
And then they say, "Well, they don't understand me.
You don't understand me."
And then, they quit.
Here's the thing.
If you think people can't understand your journey, then your ego has gotten the best
of you.
And I do say that with all due respect but there's 7 billion people alive on the planet
right now.
Somebody, not only has gone through what you're going through, somebody is going through what
you are going through.
To have any imagination that people can't understand you is a false story that ego says
that, "I'm so special."
And either, "I'm so special because I'm so great" or "I'm so special because
I'm so diminished and so hurt" and these stories are stories we tell ourselves and
it ends up dividing us from people.
It builds a wall to protect ourselves because we don't want to be vulnerable or we're
bitter because we have tried to communicate to people that maybe our communication style
wasn't so good.
That was the case for me.
In college, many of you know, I was depressed and suicidal after the breakup with the first
woman I ever loved.
And I thought, "Lots of people", I thought, "They can't understand me.
They've never had their heart broken like this, not like this".
And I told myself the story and I kept saying, "Well, they don't understand".
So, I wouldn't tell my friends because I thought, "Well, they haven't been through
a breakup like this".
So, I didn't tell them.
Everybody can understand a broken heart.
I've had to sit down with parents who lost their children to cancer and say to them,
"I understand this is difficult" and they'd say, "Well, you don't understand, Brendon.
You don't have a child who has been lost to cancer."
But we don't have to go through the exact same things to have human empathy and caring.
See, by you not telling people what you really feel, what happen is, they're not able to
ask the questions to see what support your need.
You're right, maybe, they can't help you but they can understand and find someone who
could help you.
The more that you hold back, the more that you're going to be in trouble.
When it comes to personal growth, in silence, that's where suffering is.
Soon as you say, "They don't understand", that's when you stop communicating.
That's when you stop trying.
That's when you wave everybody away.
Because you know what people say.
When you say, "You don't understand", you know what you're less likely to do?
Raise your hand and ask for help because you go, "Well, they don't understand."
So now, you're just … "Nobody can understand.
I'm not going to try anymore.
Screw them.
They won't listen anyway."
And you go into your little silo and all of a sudden, you're not living life fully connected
with other people who are the ones who could help you in the first place.
Sometimes, in our own belief that we are so special or so hurt or even so good or so skilled
and we think, "Well, they don't understand us", whether you say that as a CEO, "My
team doesn't understand me" or you say it as a spouse, "Well, my spouse doesn't
understand me" or you say it to your family, "My family doesn't understand me", that's
just ego.
Everybody can understand you.
Now, you need to develop better communication style to help them understand.
That's what I had to do.
After I realized that maybe, people could understand my depression, my heartache.
I realized, "You know what?
Maybe, I need to learn how to communicate in a different way so they could understand
how what was going on in my life is really affecting me" and so, I could communicate
in a better way what I needed for some help.
That's all.
Sometimes, we just have to learn to communicate more what we're going through with people
to be more explicit, not drop hints but just say, "This is what I'm going through and
this is what I need help on."
And you know what?
If you tell people that consistently, often enough with an open mindset, you will find
you get more help in the world.
So, here we are three things so far.
I've tried everything, Brendon.
Sure, that works for them, Brendon, but not for me.
And you don't understand, Brendon."
These things hurt your personal growth and then, there is one more big one.
And this one I hate it.
Alright.
This is the one.
I don't have many pet peeves in my entire life.
I've been coaching professionally for 10 years now and I've been deeply immersed
in the research and psychology, personal development, neuroscience and behavioral economics and
everything I can get my hand on to understand the human condition.
This one, I'm not going to lie.
I can't understand it.
I hate it.
When people say this to me, and they say this all the time on my Facebook post, on my YouTube
thing.
I have to go, "Calm down…" because it's so obnoxious and I see it steal so many people's
lives.
Here's what they say though.
"Brendon sure, easier said than done."
Perhaps, the dumbest reason ever not to try something.
Right?
That's what people say, "Easier said than done."
Sure, so I will say something like, "Hey, you know what?
Be more kind to your loved ones."
And someone will post, "Easier said than done."
I'm like, "So, you're not going to try?"
Hey, you know what?
Try to develop a morning routine where you take five minutes for yourself.
"Easier said than done.
I have children."
I will say, "Hey, you know what?
Try to set goals that are a little harder."
"Easier said than done, people can be disappointed."
Easier said than done is a defeatist statement and it's also kind of dumb and here's
why I say it's dumb.
Think about this, easier said than done.
What isn't easier said than done?
Right.
Everything is easier said than done.
"Gee honey, I'm going to go get that ice cream in the fridge."
Easier said than done".
That'd be accurate.
"I'm going to pick up that paperclip".
Easier said than done.
Everything is easier said than done.
So, it's a stupid universal thing that we say but we often stop after it and that's
what I don't want you to do.
So, with all these things in mind, I know I'm playing fun a little bit that these
things are dumb but here's what I would like to share with you.
If you're struggling and you're trying to get ahead, examine them.
Do you ever find yourselves saying, "I've tried everything.
That works for her.
You don't understand.
Or easier said than done."
Because what would happen in your life if you'd just flipped it around a little bit?
What would happen instead of saying "I've tried everything", you said, "What else
could I try that would help me feel fully engaged and more likely to progress?"
That's all.
"What else could I try that would help me be fully engaged and progressed?
What else?"
And start keeping that list.
What if, instead of saying, "Sure, she can do that.
Works for her but wouldn't work for me."
What if, instead you said, "You know what?
I see that working for somebody else, let me try that and practice and get better and
better and better and better."
What if instead of saying, "You don't understand", what if you said, "Hey, I'm
struggling right now.
I'm wondering if I could share something out.
I'd love to see if you could understand or could give me some advice right now"
and you enter the situation with humility.
And what if, instead of saying, "Oh, that's easier said than done", you said, "Let
me try that because I bet that might be effective."
Look, we can all be pessimists in life.
It's easy to be that today.
There's a lot of negativity.
There's a lot of just disturbing information out online.
We see it every day.
It's why I spend so much time and my team spends so much time delivering to you guys
great personal development as much as we can and I appreciate all of your support of my
books, my online courses.
Our five million people here on Facebook, our unbelievable community on YouTube, our
blog readers and everybody who sees us out at the seminars or maybe, you will see me
out on tour one day.
This year, I will be out on the road quite a bit but we do all of that exactly to counter
this negative thinking.
So, I'd love for you to just take a few moments, maybe, tonight and just ask yourself,
"Are there some things I've been telling myself in my head that have been holding me
back?
And what if I flipped them?"
Often, we will say to ourselves, "What if this negative thing happens?"
What if we asked, "What if this positive thing happens?"
I know that sounds so silly and you might as well say, "Well, Brendon, you're just
teaching positive thinking" but I would be honored if that's what you thought I
was doing.
I think, I don't know how do you feel about it right now.
I think the world needs a little bit of a positive thinking.
I think people need a little bit of that belief in themselves.
I think they need to believe that they can keep at it, keep going.
I think right now, we all need a reminder sometimes, you know what?
You're stronger than you think and the future holds good things for you.
I appreciate you being here.
I look forward to seeing you out on the road.
Until then, go every single day of your life.
Remember, that you can think more positively.
Remember, that the world is an abundant place.
Remember, that other people need you to rise and lead right about now.
And if you remember those things, you can live, The Charged Life.
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Beekeeping, Russian bees, Flow Hive and gold medal honey :) - Duration: 3:06.
(upbeat tranquil music)
- Hi I'm Virginia Webb.
My husband Carl Webb and I,
we're the owners of Mountain Honey.
And we're here in Clarkesville Georgia
where we have our flow hives here at our home bee yard.
Both my husband and I, we've been lifelong beekeepers.
I actually got my first beehive in 1962.
And, it was a gift from my father.
And my father is a beekeeper,
my grandfather was a beekeeper.
We're honey producers.
We run about 300 colonies of bees right now.
That's a pretty small commercial operation.
But for a husband and wife team,
that works very well for the two of us.
This is new foundation that they've drawn out,
and it is just totally,
filled with eggs and larva.
- She could be there[queen], Viginia.
- Or she may be on the next one.
We're a certified Russian bee breeding operation.
They are very tolerant and really resistant
to the deadly Varroa mite that's been devastating bees.
We use no chemical treatments in our hive, whatsoever.
And that's one of the reasons why we've chosen
the Russian bee.
The other good reason, is, is they're very, very
prolific in producing honey for both spring and summer time.
We have a lot of fresh nectar in here.
Ooh, that's what I love to see.
I discovered the flow hive, like most people did,
was because there was a fabulous little video
on the internet that talked about the flow hive.
And when you first think about is, like,
how would you do this?
And that was what was intriguing to me.
I did not know how it worked.
And, you have to really put it together
and watch the bees in it, to experience it.
Sourwood is our, most popular variety of honey
that we produce.
It's won four gold medals at the World Honey shows,
for best honey in the world.
And that's what we wanted to try it on,
was to produce the sourwood honey.
Now the sourwood is blooming now.
So we're still fairly early in the flow.
We have another two to three weeks to go.
I have to encourage people to belong
to a local beekeeping club.
You know my greatest beekeeping mentor
was my father.
And he's still keeping bees.
Honey bees are so easy to keep.
Rooftops, backyards.
Your bees are available to more botanical choices
when you're in an urban setting.
And like I said, it can be anywhere in the world,
can keep bees.
I can't think of any place except maybe Antarctica
that you cannot keep honey bees.
Besides dirt, water and sunshine,
the next most important thing you need
in order to grow food,
is pollination.
And there's no other insect that can be managed
as well as the honey bee.
(upbeat tranquil music)
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UConn: The March to Madness - Episode 6 Preview (HBO) - Duration: 0:31.
ANNOUNCER: On the final episode of UCONN: The March to Madness,
...it all...
...comes down...
...to this.
-Yes! -(CHEERING)
CHRIS DAILEY: Good work!
ANNOUNCER: The Huskies have punched their ticket for the Final Four,
(CROWD CHEERS)
...and travelled to Dallas to defend
their national championship.
PLAYER: Give it to me!
DAILEY: Here we go! Here we go! That's it!
ANNOUNCER: UCONN: The March to Madness.
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Some City Stores Still Selling Candy Banned In The US - Duration: 1:39.
NO ONE WAS HURT.
THE 20-YEAR-OLD DRIVER IS NOW
UNDER ARREST.
POLICE SAY THIS IS NOT TERROR
RELATED.
WILL THERE BE SOMETHING
ILLEGAL IN YOUR CHILD'S EASTER
BASKET?
A POPULAR TREAT HIS BAND IN THE
U.S. BUT WE FOUND IT IS STILL
WIDELY AVAILABLE IN NEW YORK.
TONY AIELLO HAS MORE ON THE
CANDY CONCERNS.> AT THE FAMED
SUZY AURORA AREA, CHOCOLATE
EGGS ARE READY TO PUT A SMILE
ON SOMEONE'S FACE, BUT THE OWNER
NO LONGER STOCKS KENDRICKS WITH
THE TWICE THE PRICE INSIDE.
CHILDREN HAVE A CHANCE OF
CHOKING ON IT SO THEY BANNED
THEM.
TRIP REGULATORS IN WASHINGTON
DC BANNED THEM AS A CHOKING
HAZARD FOR YOUNG CHILDREN, BUT
UP AND DOWN THE STREETS, IT'S
EASY TO FIND STORES THAT SELL
THE SMALL SURPRISE EGGS.
AND PARENTS WHO THINK THE BAN
IS WELL-INTENTIONED NONSENSE.
IT'S RIDICULOUS.
MY SON HAS HAD THESE.
IT'S FINE.
NOTHING IS GOING TO HAPPEN.
Reporter: A TREAT FOR ENZO
WHO TURNS SIX ON SUNDAY.
MOM SAID HE HAS HAD MANY OF
THESE EGGS WHILE VISITING
FAMILY IN EUROPE, WHERE THE
CANDIES ARE WILDLY POPULAR.
THE CHOCOLATE EGGS WITH A
SURPRISE ARE LEGAL IN CANADA,
WHICH SOMETIMES LEADS TO A
SURPRISE OF THE BORDER AS
TRAVELERS TRYING TO BRING THEM
INSIDE THE U.S. HAVE DETAINED
AND THOUSANDS OF SURPRISE EGGS
CONFISCATED.
BUT SOMEONE HAS A CONFECTION
CONNECTION TO SMUGGLE THEM INTO
THE STATES.
I'VE HAVE A GUY WHO COMES IN
ONCE IN A WHILE BUT WE DON'T
BUY THEM.
IT'S NOT WORTH THE FINE.
Reporter: FANS HAVE HATCHED
A PLAN, AN ONLINE PETITION,
ASKING THE FEDS TO BACK OFF ON
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Wauwatosa police see spike in key fob thefts - Duration: 1:38.
CHRISTINA PALLADINO IS
LIVE.
CHRISTINA, WAUWATOSA HAS SEEN AN
UPTICK IN THESE KIND OF THEFTS.
>> THEY HAVE.
THEY HAVE THESE FOB'S NOW.
ALL OF THIS IS DESIGNED TO MAKE
YOUR LIFE SIMPLE, BUT IT CAN BE
EASY TO FORGET TO LOCK YOUR CAR.
THIEVES ARE TAKING ADVANTAGE OF
THIS TECHNOLOGY.
12 NEWS IS LEARNING MORE ABOUT
HOW POLICE SAY TWO MEN STOLE
THIS WHITE MERCEDES BENZ FROM A
WAUWATOSA NEIGHBORHOOD LAST
WEEK
THEY WERE FOUND SLEEPING IN THE
CAR WITH GUNS ON THEIR LAP NEAR
A WALGREENS AT 51ST AND CAPITOL.
POLICE REPORTS SHOW THE CAR WAS
STOLEN FROM THIS WAUWATOSA
NEIGHBORHOOD NEAR THE POLICE
DEPARTMENT AFTER THE OWNER LEFT
IT UNLOCKED WITH THE FOB INSIDE.
>> IT'S VERY EASY FOR SOMEONE TO
TRY DOOR HANDLES, FIND A
UNLOCKED CAR, GET INSIDE PUSH
THE START BUTTON AND DRIVE AWAY
WITH THE CAR.
>> LIEUTENANT ZALEWSKI TELLS ME
CAR THEFTS INVOLVING KEY FOB'S
HAVE BEEN ON THE RISE THIS YEAR
IN WAUWATOSA.
ABOUT HALF OF THE CARS STOLEN
SINCE JANUARY HAD KEYS INSIDE,
AND MOST INCLUDED THE PUSH START
FEATUR
>> A LOT OF TIMES WITH THAT NEW
TECHNOLOGY WITH PUSH BUTTON
STARTS, THEY FIND AN UNLOCKED
VEHICLE AND THEY'RE ABLE TO
START IT WITH JUST PUSHING THAT
BUTTON BECAUSE THE KEY FOB'S ARE
EITHER LEFT INSIDE THAT CAR OR
IN CLOSE PROXIMITY
>> POLICE SAY PEOPLE JUST HA
TO BE MORE MINDFUL OF WHERE
THEIR KEYS ARE AND MAKE IT A
HABIT TO ALWAYS LOCK YOUR CAR
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Man shot, killed near 42nd, Silver Spring - Duration: 1:03.
WE BEGIN WITH BREAKING
NEWS, A FATAL SHOOTING AT A
MILWAUKEE GAS STATION.
PATRICK: BEN HUTCHISON IS THERE
LIVE AT 42ND AND SILVER SPRING.
>> THE STREET IS BLOCKED OFF.
A LOT OF PEOPLE ARE COUNTERED
OUT HERE.
A 47-YEAR-OLD MAN WAS KILLED.
THE INVESTIGATION TAKING PLACE
AT THE MARATHON GAS STATION.
SOME VIDEO FROM EARLIER,
EVIDENCE MARKERS ON THE GROUND,
THAT IS HOW POLICE KEEP TRACK OF
BULLET SHELLS.
THERE IS A RED MINIVAN WITH AT
LEAST FOUR BULLET HOLES THROUGH
THE PASSENGER SIDE WINDOW.
DETECTIVES ARE TALKING WITH
POTENTIAL WITNESSES.
E. COLI HAVE SPOKEN WITH DON'T
KNOW WHAT HAPPENED.
WE ARE TRYING TO GET MORE
DETAILS FROM POLICE, BUT AGAIN,
AND ACTIVE CRIME SCENE.
WE WILL CONTINUE TOGETHER
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Former Christie Aides Sentenced In 'Bridgegate' Scandal - Duration: 2:37.
KELLY GOT TWO MONTHS AND A YEAR
PROBATION.
JESSICA LAYTON HAS THE DETAILS.
Reporter: THERE IS A LOT OF
PEOPLE WHO FOR A LONG TIME SAID
THIS WAS A CASE OF REALLY UGLY
POLITICS.
TODAY, THE JUDGE AGREED, SAYING
THE SCANDAL LEFT THE PEOPLE OF
FORT LEE TRAPPED BY A VENDETTA.
IT'S THE SCANDAL THAT FORCED
FORT LEE INTO A NIGHTMARE OF
GRIDLOCK FOR FOUR DAYS.
AN ABUSE OF POWER ALMOST 4
YEARS AGO, STILL ON THE FRESH
MINDS OF DRIVERS.
THE TRAFFIC WAS CRAZY.
I THOUGHT IT WAS DANGEROUS
TO THE PEOPLE ON THE BRIDGE AT
THIS POINT. YEAH.
AND IT SHOULD HAVE NEVER
HAPPENED.
Reporter: THE JUDGE WHO GAVE
PRISON TIME TO THE TWO FORMER
AIDES OF CHRIS CHRISTIE AGREED,
SAYING THE CLOSURE WAS
COMPLETELY INTENDED TO WREAK
HAVOC.
BUT OUTSIDE, THE FORMER CHIEF
OF STAFF PROMISED THIS ISN'T
THE END OF THE ROAD AND HER
PERSONAL FIGHT FOR JUSTICE.
TODAY HAS BEEN OBVIOUSLY A
VERY DIFFICULT DAY FOR ME AND
MY CHILDREN, BUT I WANT TO SHOW
MY KIDS AND EVERYONE ELSE THAT
THIS FIGHT IS FAR FROM OVER.
I WILL NOT ALLOW MYSELF TO BE
THE SCAPEGOAT.
Reporter: THE MOTHER OF FOUR
WILL SPEND A YEAR AND A HALF IN
PRISON FOR HER ROLE IN THE SO-
CALLED BRIDGEGATE CASE.
RETRIBUTION AGAINST THE MAYOR
OF FORT LEE, AFTER HE FAILED TO
ENDORSE CHRIS CHRISTIE FOR
REELECTION.
DURING THE TRIAL, THE JURY SAW
AN EMAIL WRITTEN BY KELLY.
" TIME FOR SOME TRAFFIC
PROBLEMS IN FORT LEE."
AND A TEXT MESSAGE THAT SAID
"IS IT WRONG THAT I'M SMILING?"
AS THE MAYOR MADE DESPERATE
PLEAS FOR HELP WITH THE TRAFFIC
TRAPPING HIS CONSISTS -- HIS
CONSTITUENTS.
I THINK THE MESSAGE IS
CLEAR.
THIS WAS AN ABUSE OF POWER.
I THINK THE SYSTEM WORKED
EXACTLY THE WAY IT WAS SUPPOSED
TO.
Reporter: A SYSTEM THAT
SENDS A FORMER DEPUTY DIRECTOR
OF THE PORT AUTHORITY TO PRISON
FOR TWO YEARS.
THE JUDGE SAYS HOME RUN HE
COMMITTED PERJURY BY LYING ON
THE STAND AND PITCHING THE LANE
CLOSURES AS A BOGUS TRAFFIC
STUDY.
WHAT HE DID IS A MISTAKE BY
NOT RETURN CALLS OR EMAILS TO
THE MAYOR.
HE APOLOGIZED TO HIM, THE
CITIZENS OF FORT LEE, AND
EVERYONE ELSE HE LET DOWN IN
THIS EPISODE OF HIS LIFE.
Reporter: WE STOPPED BY THE
HOME OF BRIDGET KELLY IN
RAMSEY, NEW JERSEY AFTER THE
NEWS BROKE TODAY.
SHE TOLD ME SHE HAD NOTHING
MORE TO SAY BUT WE DO KNOW SHE
IS PLANNING AN APPEAL, AS IS
BILL BARONI.
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Dry but mild - Duration: 3:10.
NOW YOUR WLKY WEATHER
WITH CHIEF METEOROLOGIST JAY
CARDOSI.
JA OUTSIDE RIGHT NOW ALL IS
QUIET.
IT IS VERY PLEASANT ACROSS THE
METRO.
EARLIER TODAY WE BOOSTED UP TO
68.
MORNING STARTED 53.
ANOTHER DRIVING ACROSS THE
REGION AT THIS TIME.
UPPER 50'S AND LOW 60'S ACROSS
THE BOARD.
EACH BREEZES ARE UP.
COMING IN AT 15 MILE PER HOUR.
BIG STORM SYSTEM WE CONTINUE TO
WATCH SPINNING ACROSS SECTIONS
OF NEBRASKA AS WELL AS KANSAS.
THIS HAS BEEN RESPONSIBLE FOR
SEVERE WEATHER THE PAST COUPLE
OF NIGHTS.
LAST NIGHT TEXAS AND ALSO
KANSAS.
TONIGHT, A LITTLE BIT FARTHER
OFF THE.
SECTIONS OF MISSOURI, ARKANSAS,
AND A DEEP SOUTH.
ALL OF THIS NASTY WEATHER
CONTINUES TO MOVE UP TO THE EAST
AT A SLOW CLICK.
WE ARE DRY IN THE OVERNIGHT.
IF YOU HIGH CLOUDS MOVING
THROUGH.
HERE IS TOMORROW MORNING, IN
PRETTY GOOD SHAPE.
THERE WILL BE A BAND OF STORMS
MOVING OFF TO THE EAST.
IT COULD BRING US A COUPLE OF
SHOWERS, ESPECIALLY MID-TO-LATE
MORNING.
OTHERWISE AS WE MOVE INTO THE
AFTERNOON, EXPECTING PARTLY
SUNNY SKIES, BREEZY CONDITIONS,
AND TEMPERATURES FROM 75-80.
IT IS GOING TO WARM UP.
THE MAIN LOW-PRESSURE AREA AND
COLD FRONT WILL START TO MOVE IN
FROM THE WEST.
THAT SHOULD TRIGGER ANOTHER BAND
OF STORMS LATE TOMORROW.
THOSE WILL FIRST START THE
IMPACT THE VIEWING AREA SHORTLY
AFTER DINNERTIME.
AND IT WILL MOVE EACH OF THE
ACROSS THE VIEWING AREA
APPROACHING LOUISVILLE BY 10:00
OR 11:00.
OUT OF THE VIEWING AREA AFTER
MIDNIGHT OR 1:00 IN THE MORNING.
YES, THERE IS THE POTENTIAL THAT
SOME OF THESE STORMS COULD BE
STRONG TO SEVERE IN MUCH OF THE
VIEWING AREA AND PARTS OF THE
WEST.
THAT COULD COME IN THE FORM OF
DAMAGING WINDS, LARGE HAIL, EVEN
ISOLATED TORNADOES WILL BE A
POSSIBILITY GREAT BEST CHANCES
FOR A TORNADO JUST OFF TO THE
WEST OF INTERSTATE 65, CLOSE TO
LOUISVILLE, BUT JUST OFF TO THE
WEST.
WE WILL BE TRACKING IT VERY
CLOSELY FOR YOU OVERNIGHT OR IT
HERE IS THE FORECAST.
WE ARE GOING TO BE BACK IN THE
UPPER 50'S FOR THE MORNING.
THERE COULD BE A BRIEF SHOWER IN
THE MID-TO-LATE MORNING.
BESIDES THAT, BASICALLY DRIVE.
HIGH TEMPERATURES IN THE LATE
AFTERNOON.
UPPER 70'S TO NEAR 80.
DIRECT FOR STORMS MOVING IN
TOMORROW NIGHT, SOME COULD BE
STRONG TO SEVERE.
BEHIND THOSE, MUCH COOLER AIR.
A FEW SHOWERS ON FRIDAY.
IT GETS BETTER.
62 ON SATURDAY.
SOME
ON SUNDAY, THE PICK OF THE
WEEKEND.
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Corporations Want Your Browser History, And Trump Wants To Give It To Them - Duration: 6:19.
YESTERDAY THE HOUSE VOTED TO ELIMINATE INTERNET PRIVACY
PROTECTIONS SET UP UNDER THE OBAMA ADMINISTRATION, PAVING THE
WAY FOR CORPORATIONS TO TRACK YOUR PRIVATE BROWSING DATA, THEN
TAKE IT AND SELL IT TO ADVERTISERS.
THE ACTUAL PATH
THEY TOOK IS SIMPLE.
WE CAN READ
THE ENTIRETY OF THE BILL.
TRUMP HAS SIGNED THE BILL.
THEY ARE
NOT IN FAVOR OF THE CONSUMER
PROTECTIONS, AND PEOPLE ARE UPSET.
THE RULES WERE STILL
BEING DRAFTED.
THEY WERE BEING DISCUSSED
AND INVESTIGATED.
WE
KNOW FROM HACKS AND LEAKS, EVENTUALLY A LOT OF THAT
INFORMATION CAN BE RELEASED.
THERE WAS A HUGE YAHOO HACK A
500 MILLION ACCOUNTS.
ACTIVISTS ARE CONCERNED ABOUT THIS.
WE
HAVE A QUOTE FROM EVAN GREER, AN INTERNET PRIVACY ACTIVISM
ORGANIZATION.
WHEN YOU ALLOW THESE CORPORATIONS TO TRACK THIS
INFORMATION THEY WILL SET UP THE TECHNOLOGICAL MEANS TO DO SO.
THAT THEN IS ABLE TO BE HACKED
AND LEAKED BY OTHER ORGANIZATIONS WHO DON'T SIMPLY
WANT TO PROFIT OFF OF IT.
IT IS EXPECTED THAT IT WILL NOW BE
SIGNED.
IT WAS ALREADY PASSED IN THE SENATE.
I LIKE THAT SOME FOLKS ARE BEGINNING TO SPEAK LIKE ME NOW.
EVAN ALSO SAID, "CONGRESS SHOULD
KNOW BY NOW THAT WHEN YOU COME FOR THE INTERNET, THE INTERNET
COMES FOR YOU."
THAT HAS GOOD PUNCH.
LET'S GIVE YOU A SENSE OF
THE STUFF THEY CAN DO.
AS NANCY PELOSI POINTED OUT IT IS DEEPLY
PERSONAL INFORMATION, WHERE YOU ARE, WHAT YOU WANT TO KNOW,
EVERY SITE YOU VISIT.
IF YOU ARE IN PRIVATE BROWSING MODE, YOU
THOUGHT IT WAS PRIVATE.
SOMEONE AT THE VERGE MADE A GREAT
POINT, REPUBLICANS FRAME THIS AS CONSUMER CHOICE AND FREE
MARKETS.
WHO WOULD CHOOSE TO HAVE ALL THEIR PRIVATE
INFORMATION GIVEN TO A PUBLIC CORPORATION WHICH CAN PROFIT OFF
OF IT AND NOT SHARE PROFITS?
THERE ARE SOME EXHIBITIONIST, WE DON'T WANT TO FRAME THEM.
IT IS ABOUT THESE COMPANIES THAT HAVE GREASED THESE
REPUBLICANS.
IN THIS CASE IT WAS A PARTYLINE VOTE, GIVE CREDIT TO
THE DEMOCRATS, NONE OF THEM
VOTED FOR IN THE HOUSE.
15 REPUBLICANS CROSSED OVER AND
VOTED THE RIGHT WAY. 265 MEMBERS OF CONGRESS, REPUBLICAN, SAID WE
DON'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT YOUR
INTERNET PRIVACY.
MY CORPORATE FRIENDS WHO DONATED MONEY TO ME
WILL NOW GET A LOT MORE MONEY
FROM YOU GUYS WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT.
IN THAT SAME VERGE ARTICLE THEY DID A GREAT JOB AT GOING
BACK IN THE DISCLOSURE STATEMENT.
WE ARE USED TO WHEN
IT COMES TO ENERGY OR THE MILITARY, THESE HUGE SUMS OF
MONEY BEING THROWN AT THESE
PEOPLE.
WAIT UNTIL YOU SEE HOW CHEAP IT WAS FOR THEM TO BUY
PEOPLE WHEN IT CAME TO YOUR
INTERNET PRIVACY.
WE WILL SHOW YOU SOME OF THE REPUBLICANS, HOW
MUCH THEY GOT FOR THE TELECOMS.
LET'S BRING THIS UP.
RALPH ABRAHAM GOT $5750, AND HE SOLD
IT OUT FOR YOU.
MARK WAS WILLING TO SELL YOU OUT FOR NOTHING.
THERE WERE SOME PEOPLE THEY GOT 60,000, 80,000, BUT IT IS
NOTHING COMPARED TO THE COST OF
RUNNING AN ELECTION.
THEY WERE STILL WILLING TO SELL YOU OUT ON IT.
TO BE FAIR TO THESE CONGRESSMEN WHO ARE BUT CHEAP,
THIS IS PER ELECTION.
REMEMBER EVERY ELECTION THEY COME BACK.
THIS IS LIKE AN OPEN AUCTION, PUBLIC BRIBERY, WE JUST MADE IT
LEGAL.
ALSO SOME OF THEM GOT HIGHER NUMBERS.
THEIR PRICES ARE
BASED ON DIFFERENT FACTORS INCLUDING SENIORITY AND WHETHER
THEY ARE THE CHAIR OF THE
COMMITTEE.
IF THEY ARE THE CHAIR OF YOUR COMMITTEE YOU HAVE TO
BRIBE THEM EVEN MORE.
THERE IS CORPORATE CHOICE, NO CONSUMER
CHOICE.
WOLF ñ PAC.COM.
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New DNC Chair Tom Perez Makes EVERYONE Resign - Duration: 7:11.SO THIS IS SIGNIFICANT, IT SEEMS LIKE THERE IS
A LOT
OF
OPPORTUNITY THERE.
WE HAVE REASONS TO BE HESITANT AND
GETTING EXCITED ON HOW MANY
PEOPLE WILL ACTUALLY BE FIRED.
A SPOKESPERSON
IS
TRYING TO DAMP
DOWN EXPECTATIONS.
TOM PEREZ WAS QUOTED AS SAYING THIS.
IF IT WAS
A PLANE, THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT
YOU SHOULD DO.
WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?
HE'S LIKE TRUST ME I GOT THIS.
ANYWAY, OF COURSE I AGREE
WITH THE PRINCIPLE.
YOU CAN'T JUST SHUT DOWN.
YES, YOU HAVE TO KEEP GOING.
I THINK THEY HAVE A BOLD WAY OF
DOING IT WHILE IT IS IN THE AIR.
IT IS A GOOD TIME TO THINK ABOUT
WHILE YOU ARE IN TRANSITION.
HERE IS WHAT I SAID ON NOVEMBER 10.
THE DNC OBVIOUSLY HAD A MISERABLE FAILURE IN THE
SELECTION.
THERE WAS A GREAT CHANCE THEY WERE SUPPOSED TO
TAKE BACK THE SENATE.
THE SEATS
UP WERE LARGELY REPUBLICAN, IT WAS A GREAT OPPORTUNITY AND THEY
BLEW IT.
I HAVE SET FROM OUR ONE THAT EVERYBODY IN THE BUILDING
SHOULD BE FIRED.
THE DNC SHOULD GO IN A NEW DIRECTION, YOU CAN'T POSSIBLY
KEEP THESE LOSERS.
GLAD TO SEE THEY ARE LISTENING TO THE DNC.
THAT WAS A
FEW DAYS AFTER THE ELECTION.
AND REALITY THAT IS NOT LIKELY WHAT
IS HAPPENING.
THEY ARE SUBMITTING RESIGNATIONS AHEAD OF
TIME.
THAT DOESN'T MEAN THEY WERE LIKELY GETTING FIRED.
WHO
IS THE ONE DOING THE ANALYSIS?
IF YOU FOLLOW THE NEWS CLOSELY
YOU MIGHT KNOW THAT NOMIKI KONST BROKE THE STORY OF WHO WAS ON
THE TRANSITION TEAM.
IN THE BEGINNING IT WAS 23 OUT OF 24
PEOPLE WERE HILLARY CLINTON
SUPPORTERS.
ONLY ONE WAS A BERNIE SANDERS SUPPORTER.
THEY
NORMALLY WOULD DO THAT AND GET
AWAY WITH IT.
WE CAUGHT THEM ON IT AND THERE WAS A LITTLE BIT OF
BACKLASH.
IT IS STILL OVERWHELMINGLY ESTABLISHMENT
DEMOCRATS.
IT DOESN'T REALLY MATTER BECAUSE THE PROOF WILL BE
IN THE PUDDING.
SUPPOSEDLY PEREZ IS MEETING WITH BERNIE SANDERS.
HE MET WITH CHUCK SCHUMER AND HE SAID OF BERNIE SANDERS
IS
HAPPY, I AM HAPPY.
THE PROOF HAS NEVER BEEN MORE AND THE PUTTING
THAN THIS.
IF THEY THINK THEY ARE GOING TO PLAY ANOTHER TRICK
ñ WHO KNOWS THEY MIGHT STILL THINK IT'S THE OLD DAYS AND
MIGHT PLAY A TRICK LIKE THAT.
GUESS WHAT?
WE WILL KNOW, IT IS
NOT THE OLD DAYS WHERE YOU CAN RELY ON YOUR BUDDIES ON TV TO
COVER YOUR ASS.
NOMIKI KONST HAVE TO SLEEP A LITTLE BIT, BUT NOT THAT MUCH.
ON THE OTHER HAND IF THE TRANSITION TEAM IS FILLED WITH
HILLARY CLINTON SUPPORTERS AND DOES COME OUT WITH A NEW STAFF
THAT IS PROGRESSIVE AND HEADS IN A PROGRESSIVE DIRECTION,
WONDERFUL.
LET'S HOPE THEY GO IN THAT DIRECTION.
I WOULD SAY THE FEAR IS WHAT ARE THEY GOING TO DO?
IDEOLOGY
IS ONE THING, BUT WHAT IS YOUR
STRATEGY?
NOMIKI WAS SAYING WHAT WE SHOULD FOCUS ON
IS ñ
THAT WAS STRUCTURAL DIFFERENCES.
BUT IF THEY ARE FOCUSED ON THE
WRONG THINGS THAN THEY CAN FAIL LIKE ANYONE ELSE.
I THINK WE
NEED TO HAVE A CLEAR GAME PLAN ARTICULATED BY TOM PEREZ AND THE
HIGHER UPS.
THAT IS WHAT I AM WAITING TO SEE.
AT THIS POINT, HOLD AND LET'S FIND OUT WHO THEY ACTUALLY HIRE,
FIRE ETC.
MAYBE THEY THINK IT IS IN THE MINUTIA?
IT'S THE
INTERNET MY FRIENDS.
WE WILL
PROBABLY KNOW.
AT THE END OF THE DAY JOHN IS RIGHT, IT IS HOW WE
RUN THE ELECTIONS.
YOU GO BACK TO HIRING CONSULTANT BUDDIES,
AND YOU DON'T BUILD UP ANY GRASSROOTS MOVEMENT, AND YOU
DON'T DO WHAT IS ACTUALLY EFFECTIVE WHICH IS KNOCKING ON
DOORS, INSTEAD YOU RELY ON A MONEY HEAVY STRATEGY, WE WILL
NOT MISS THAT NEW STORY.
PUSH WILL COME TO SHOVE AND ELECTION
TIME WILL COME AND YOU WILL NOT
BE ABLE TO KID ANYONE.
RIGHT NOW THE BALL IS IN THEIR COURT, WE WILL SEE WHICH WAY
THEY GO?
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Corporations Want Your Browser History, And Trump Wants To Give It To Them - Duration: 6:19.YESTERDAY THE HOUSE VOTED TO ELIMINATE INTERNET PRIVACY
PROTECTIONS SET UP UNDER THE OBAMA ADMINISTRATION, PAVING THE
WAY FOR CORPORATIONS TO TRACK YOUR PRIVATE BROWSING DATA, THEN
TAKE IT AND SELL IT TO ADVERTISERS.
THE ACTUAL PATH
THEY TOOK IS SIMPLE.
WE CAN READ
THE ENTIRETY OF THE BILL.
TRUMP HAS SIGNED THE BILL.
THEY ARE
NOT IN FAVOR OF THE CONSUMER
PROTECTIONS, AND PEOPLE ARE UPSET.
THE RULES WERE STILL
BEING DRAFTED.
THEY WERE BEING DISCUSSED
AND INVESTIGATED.
WE
KNOW FROM HACKS AND LEAKS, EVENTUALLY A LOT OF THAT
INFORMATION CAN BE RELEASED.
THERE WAS A HUGE YAHOO HACK A
500 MILLION ACCOUNTS.
ACTIVISTS ARE CONCERNED ABOUT THIS.
WE
HAVE A QUOTE FROM EVAN GREER, AN INTERNET PRIVACY ACTIVISM
ORGANIZATION.
WHEN YOU ALLOW THESE CORPORATIONS TO TRACK THIS
INFORMATION THEY WILL SET UP THE TECHNOLOGICAL MEANS TO DO SO.
THAT THEN IS ABLE TO BE HACKED
AND LEAKED BY OTHER ORGANIZATIONS WHO DON'T SIMPLY
WANT TO PROFIT OFF OF IT.
IT IS EXPECTED THAT IT WILL NOW BE
SIGNED.
IT WAS ALREADY PASSED IN THE SENATE.
I LIKE THAT SOME FOLKS ARE BEGINNING TO SPEAK LIKE ME NOW.
EVAN ALSO SAID, "CONGRESS SHOULD
KNOW BY NOW THAT WHEN YOU COME FOR THE INTERNET, THE INTERNET
COMES FOR YOU."
THAT HAS GOOD PUNCH.
LET'S GIVE YOU A SENSE OF
THE STUFF THEY CAN DO.
AS NANCY PELOSI POINTED OUT IT IS DEEPLY
PERSONAL INFORMATION, WHERE YOU ARE, WHAT YOU WANT TO KNOW,
EVERY SITE YOU VISIT.
IF YOU ARE IN PRIVATE BROWSING MODE, YOU
THOUGHT IT WAS PRIVATE.
SOMEONE AT THE VERGE MADE A GREAT
POINT, REPUBLICANS FRAME THIS AS CONSUMER CHOICE AND FREE
MARKETS.
WHO WOULD CHOOSE TO HAVE ALL THEIR PRIVATE
INFORMATION GIVEN TO A PUBLIC CORPORATION WHICH CAN PROFIT OFF
OF IT AND NOT SHARE PROFITS?
THERE ARE SOME EXHIBITIONIST, WE DON'T WANT TO FRAME THEM.
IT IS ABOUT THESE COMPANIES THAT HAVE GREASED THESE
REPUBLICANS.
IN THIS CASE IT WAS A PARTYLINE VOTE, GIVE CREDIT TO
THE DEMOCRATS, NONE OF THEM
VOTED FOR IN THE HOUSE.
15 REPUBLICANS CROSSED OVER AND
VOTED THE RIGHT WAY. 265 MEMBERS OF CONGRESS, REPUBLICAN, SAID WE
DON'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT YOUR
INTERNET PRIVACY.
MY CORPORATE FRIENDS WHO DONATED MONEY TO ME
WILL NOW GET A LOT MORE MONEY
FROM YOU GUYS WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT.
IN THAT SAME VERGE ARTICLE THEY DID A GREAT JOB AT GOING
BACK IN THE DISCLOSURE STATEMENT.
WE ARE USED TO WHEN
IT COMES TO ENERGY OR THE MILITARY, THESE HUGE SUMS OF
MONEY BEING THROWN AT THESE
PEOPLE.
WAIT UNTIL YOU SEE HOW CHEAP IT WAS FOR THEM TO BUY
PEOPLE WHEN IT CAME TO YOUR
INTERNET PRIVACY.
WE WILL SHOW YOU SOME OF THE REPUBLICANS, HOW
MUCH THEY GOT FOR THE TELECOMS.
LET'S BRING THIS UP.
RALPH ABRAHAM GOT $5750, AND HE SOLD
IT OUT FOR YOU.
MARK WAS WILLING TO SELL YOU OUT FOR NOTHING.
THERE WERE SOME PEOPLE THEY GOT 60,000, 80,000, BUT IT IS
NOTHING COMPARED TO THE COST OF
RUNNING AN ELECTION.
THEY WERE STILL WILLING TO SELL YOU OUT ON IT.
TO BE FAIR TO THESE CONGRESSMEN WHO ARE BUT CHEAP,
THIS IS PER ELECTION.
REMEMBER EVERY ELECTION THEY COME BACK.
THIS IS LIKE AN OPEN AUCTION, PUBLIC BRIBERY, WE JUST MADE IT
LEGAL.
ALSO SOME OF THEM GOT HIGHER NUMBERS.
THEIR PRICES ARE
BASED ON DIFFERENT FACTORS INCLUDING SENIORITY AND WHETHER
THEY ARE THE CHAIR OF THE
COMMITTEE.
IF THEY ARE THE CHAIR OF YOUR COMMITTEE YOU HAVE TO
BRIBE THEM EVEN MORE.
THERE IS CORPORATE CHOICE, NO CONSUMER
CHOICE.
WOLF ñ PAC.COM.
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4 DUMB THINGS WE SAY (that prevent our growth) - Duration: 18:32.Hey everybody, it's Brendon Burchard, and today I'm talking about the four dumb things
we say that prevents our own personal growth and professional excellence.
Look, we all have internal thoughts that sometimes slow us down.
I'm sure you know that sometimes you have negative thinking.
Sometimes, you say things to yourself that justifies bad behavior or laziness or distraction.
We all do.
So, there's no judgment to this except that yes, it's kind of dumb.
We say certain things that we just culturally get used to saying that we never really explore
and those things hurt our personal development.
So, what I want to do is dig down into these four things we say because they are dumb and
I know once you hear a little logic behind them, you will say, "It's not worth saying
that to myself anymore because it's not a true story" and it's only holding you
back.
Okay, so first and foremost, before we go, I want you to think about a big dream of yours.
Something that you really care about, something you really want to make happen or a goal that
you also have had for a while and you've been trying to do it but it's just not working
out well.
Maybe, you're telling yourself one of these four dumb things, okay.
So, to start off, the first one with you, I'm going to move this aside and here it
is.
I hear this one all the time.
Brendon, I've tried everything.
Whenever I hear that, I know I'm talking with a crazy person.
I'm just teasing.
Here's what I know.
People often, when they hear a new idea, or you say, "Hey, have you thought about chasing
that dream or pursuing your goal".
They say, "Yeah, yeah, yeah, I've tried everything."
And because they tried one, two, three, maybe, four things, they say, "Didn't work for
me.
That's not right for me.
That's not possible for me" and those aren't true stories.
As a high-performance coach, often when I sit down with people, I talk about their dreams,
they often say this to me, "Well Brendon, I've already tried everything."
And so, I say to them, "Oh great, then show me the list."
And they go, "What do you mean?"
I say, "Show me the list."
They say, "What do you mean?"
I say, "Well, if you tried everything then of course you would have had to keep a detailed
list of what you tried, when you tried it, what results you got, what worked and what
didn't work.
If you didn't have a list like that, you couldn't ensure things that were like mutually
exclusive."
And if you couldn't tell things that were mutually exclusive, then you wouldn't know
you tried everything.
So, have you ever told yourself that?
"I've already tried everything.
It didn't work."
Think about how many times in your life you give up to soon.
You're at like that 10-yard line, the touchdown's right there but you're like, "Well, I've
tried everything.
I guess it's not working."
And you back off.
You know, we know from the psychology of success it's those who persevere longer than others
and maintain more resiliency in the face of challenge that succeed more.
So, if you ever hear yourselves saying, "I tried everything", know that's a big,
bad story you're telling yourself and say, "No, I haven't tried everything.
Let me get some advice.
Let me ask some more people.
Let me start keeping a trail of what I have tried so I can say, 'Already did that.
Already did that' but I did this but I didn't do it in that way."
There's a lot of new things you can keep trying to keep getting ahead.
Don't give up on your goals and your dreams just because you tried four or five things.
It's very true that often you're closer than you think my friend.
The second big thing, walk with me, is a big one.
A huge one and this one people say to me all the time.
"Sure, that works for him or that works for her but that wouldn't work for me."
Have you ever said that?
Right.
You have this big goal or dream.
You see your mentor, you see your dreams.
They are doing it but you're like, "Oh, that wouldn't work for me because that's
not my style" or "I'm not like that" or "She has this and he has that" and
we false compare ourselves to others and we think they're so special.
We, still in this culture today, we still pretend that there are some people who just
have 'it' and other people don't have 'it'.
Right?
We think, "Oh well, he's just naturally good at that.
She's just born to be that."
But in everything that we study, those who achieve high performance in their life, they
trained, they conditioned, they practiced, they sucked at first but they were okay with
that.
They were cool with not being good and then, they just kept getting better and better and
better and better and better.
And now, you watch them today and you're like, "Oh wow, I could never be like that"
but the reality is you could.
You just got to put in the miles.
I share that with you just knowing how I started my career.
I used to say that too.
I looked at these people on television or these big YouTubers.
I'd see these people on big stages motivating people and I thought, "Well, I'm not like
that" because me, I'm more of an introverted person in general when I started this career
and I've had to learn to be more and more extroverted to be good at all of this.
But I'd say, "Well, I'm not like that."
And the reality was, I wasn't like that but I had a mission and I had a dream and
you should never make your mission or your dream bow down to your current limited strengths.
Instead, you should say, "If that's what I want, how could I rise up into that?
How could I train?
What knowledge, skill, ability do I need to learn and start learning right now so that
I could have that dream my friend?"
Because you deserve it.
So, stop telling yourself you can't have it.
I get it all the time, "Well, sure that works for Brendon on video."
I'm like, "What?
Works for Brendon on video?"
Like I came out of the womb like, "Hi guys, I'm Brendon Burchard."
Like, no.
This took me forever.
I'm doing this extemporaneous in our new office.
I don't know how it's going to go either.
I just trust in that process and you know, for me, my first video that I ever did was
so horrible.
Okay, my first year of videos, they were terrible, they were awful, they were uncomfortable.
Some of you still don't even like what I'm doing now.
That's fine.
It's okay.
I just know that I'm always trying to get better and better and better and grow into
the person who I know deserves that dream, who earns that dream.
No one you're looking to, none of your heroes just came out of the womb and by natural birthright
or innate talent got there.
They usually outworked their peers.
They usually showed up more often.
They usually were more strategic in getting a good peer group around them to support them,
to champion on, to push them.
Notice I didn't say, they had a better peer group.
They knew that was important, so they developed it because we often say, "Well yeah, that
strategy works for him because he's got a big community" or "That strategy works
for her because she's charismatic".
No, if there's a strategy, you can deploy it.
You can work the same thing.
Would you get the same results as someone who has 10 more years of experience as you?
Probably not.
They put on some more miles but look, no matter how small you start, start something that
matters.
It's the great Zig Ziglar who taught us, right?
You don't have to be great to start but you have to start to become great.
Never look at people and say, "Well sure, she can.
I can't."
Because that's defeatist.
It is wrong and it is holding you back my friend.
Let's go on.
That's number one and two and here we go.
I think this one is a huge one and it kills people's lives all the time.
The third big dumb thing people say is, "You just don't understand."
And then, they quit.
Just like that.
When they say, "I've tried everything."
They quit.
"Well, she can do it, sure."
They quit.
And then they say, "Well, they don't understand me.
You don't understand me."
And then, they quit.
Here's the thing.
If you think people can't understand your journey, then your ego has gotten the best
of you.
And I do say that with all due respect but there's 7 billion people alive on the planet
right now.
Somebody, not only has gone through what you're going through, somebody is going through what
you are going through.
To have any imagination that people can't understand you is a false story that ego says
that, "I'm so special."
And either, "I'm so special because I'm so great" or "I'm so special because
I'm so diminished and so hurt" and these stories are stories we tell ourselves and
it ends up dividing us from people.
It builds a wall to protect ourselves because we don't want to be vulnerable or we're
bitter because we have tried to communicate to people that maybe our communication style
wasn't so good.
That was the case for me.
In college, many of you know, I was depressed and suicidal after the breakup with the first
woman I ever loved.
And I thought, "Lots of people", I thought, "They can't understand me.
They've never had their heart broken like this, not like this".
And I told myself the story and I kept saying, "Well, they don't understand".
So, I wouldn't tell my friends because I thought, "Well, they haven't been through
a breakup like this".
So, I didn't tell them.
Everybody can understand a broken heart.
I've had to sit down with parents who lost their children to cancer and say to them,
"I understand this is difficult" and they'd say, "Well, you don't understand, Brendon.
You don't have a child who has been lost to cancer."
But we don't have to go through the exact same things to have human empathy and caring.
See, by you not telling people what you really feel, what happen is, they're not able to
ask the questions to see what support your need.
You're right, maybe, they can't help you but they can understand and find someone who
could help you.
The more that you hold back, the more that you're going to be in trouble.
When it comes to personal growth, in silence, that's where suffering is.
Soon as you say, "They don't understand", that's when you stop communicating.
That's when you stop trying.
That's when you wave everybody away.
Because you know what people say.
When you say, "You don't understand", you know what you're less likely to do?
Raise your hand and ask for help because you go, "Well, they don't understand."
So now, you're just … "Nobody can understand.
I'm not going to try anymore.
Screw them.
They won't listen anyway."
And you go into your little silo and all of a sudden, you're not living life fully connected
with other people who are the ones who could help you in the first place.
Sometimes, in our own belief that we are so special or so hurt or even so good or so skilled
and we think, "Well, they don't understand us", whether you say that as a CEO, "My
team doesn't understand me" or you say it as a spouse, "Well, my spouse doesn't
understand me" or you say it to your family, "My family doesn't understand me", that's
just ego.
Everybody can understand you.
Now, you need to develop better communication style to help them understand.
That's what I had to do.
After I realized that maybe, people could understand my depression, my heartache.
I realized, "You know what?
Maybe, I need to learn how to communicate in a different way so they could understand
how what was going on in my life is really affecting me" and so, I could communicate
in a better way what I needed for some help.
That's all.
Sometimes, we just have to learn to communicate more what we're going through with people
to be more explicit, not drop hints but just say, "This is what I'm going through and
this is what I need help on."
And you know what?
If you tell people that consistently, often enough with an open mindset, you will find
you get more help in the world.
So, here we are three things so far.
I've tried everything, Brendon.
Sure, that works for them, Brendon, but not for me.
And you don't understand, Brendon."
These things hurt your personal growth and then, there is one more big one.
And this one I hate it.
Alright.
This is the one.
I don't have many pet peeves in my entire life.
I've been coaching professionally for 10 years now and I've been deeply immersed
in the research and psychology, personal development, neuroscience and behavioral economics and
everything I can get my hand on to understand the human condition.
This one, I'm not going to lie.
I can't understand it.
I hate it.
When people say this to me, and they say this all the time on my Facebook post, on my YouTube
thing.
I have to go, "Calm down…" because it's so obnoxious and I see it steal so many people's
lives.
Here's what they say though.
"Brendon sure, easier said than done."
Perhaps, the dumbest reason ever not to try something.
Right?
That's what people say, "Easier said than done."
Sure, so I will say something like, "Hey, you know what?
Be more kind to your loved ones."
And someone will post, "Easier said than done."
I'm like, "So, you're not going to try?"
Hey, you know what?
Try to develop a morning routine where you take five minutes for yourself.
"Easier said than done.
I have children."
I will say, "Hey, you know what?
Try to set goals that are a little harder."
"Easier said than done, people can be disappointed."
Easier said than done is a defeatist statement and it's also kind of dumb and here's
why I say it's dumb.
Think about this, easier said than done.
What isn't easier said than done?
Right.
Everything is easier said than done.
"Gee honey, I'm going to go get that ice cream in the fridge."
Easier said than done".
That'd be accurate.
"I'm going to pick up that paperclip".
Easier said than done.
Everything is easier said than done.
So, it's a stupid universal thing that we say but we often stop after it and that's
what I don't want you to do.
So, with all these things in mind, I know I'm playing fun a little bit that these
things are dumb but here's what I would like to share with you.
If you're struggling and you're trying to get ahead, examine them.
Do you ever find yourselves saying, "I've tried everything.
That works for her.
You don't understand.
Or easier said than done."
Because what would happen in your life if you'd just flipped it around a little bit?
What would happen instead of saying "I've tried everything", you said, "What else
could I try that would help me feel fully engaged and more likely to progress?"
That's all.
"What else could I try that would help me be fully engaged and progressed?
What else?"
And start keeping that list.
What if, instead of saying, "Sure, she can do that.
Works for her but wouldn't work for me."
What if, instead you said, "You know what?
I see that working for somebody else, let me try that and practice and get better and
better and better and better."
What if instead of saying, "You don't understand", what if you said, "Hey, I'm
struggling right now.
I'm wondering if I could share something out.
I'd love to see if you could understand or could give me some advice right now"
and you enter the situation with humility.
And what if, instead of saying, "Oh, that's easier said than done", you said, "Let
me try that because I bet that might be effective."
Look, we can all be pessimists in life.
It's easy to be that today.
There's a lot of negativity.
There's a lot of just disturbing information out online.
We see it every day.
It's why I spend so much time and my team spends so much time delivering to you guys
great personal development as much as we can and I appreciate all of your support of my
books, my online courses.
Our five million people here on Facebook, our unbelievable community on YouTube, our
blog readers and everybody who sees us out at the seminars or maybe, you will see me
out on tour one day.
This year, I will be out on the road quite a bit but we do all of that exactly to counter
this negative thinking.
So, I'd love for you to just take a few moments, maybe, tonight and just ask yourself,
"Are there some things I've been telling myself in my head that have been holding me
back?
And what if I flipped them?"
Often, we will say to ourselves, "What if this negative thing happens?"
What if we asked, "What if this positive thing happens?"
I know that sounds so silly and you might as well say, "Well, Brendon, you're just
teaching positive thinking" but I would be honored if that's what you thought I
was doing.
I think, I don't know how do you feel about it right now.
I think the world needs a little bit of a positive thinking.
I think people need a little bit of that belief in themselves.
I think they need to believe that they can keep at it, keep going.
I think right now, we all need a reminder sometimes, you know what?
You're stronger than you think and the future holds good things for you.
I appreciate you being here.
I look forward to seeing you out on the road.
Until then, go every single day of your life.
Remember, that you can think more positively.
Remember, that the world is an abundant place.
Remember, that other people need you to rise and lead right about now.
And if you remember those things, you can live, The Charged Life.
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